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RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 11:37am On Apr 10, 2013
Raymondenyi: Now have u made ur own simple statement devoid of insults? (How humans are?)

By the way the OP is a man! Just got 2 find out, maybe dats how he abuses his lady, such a pitty sad
You know you can think whatever you may, just get your facts right atleast.if only I was a man undecided
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 9:47am On Apr 10, 2013
victorD3: There is nothing wrong with you. Everybody has different tastes just like some girls love it hard on bed while others will feel you are too rough. That's my pin 2389AFD1 we can talk more about this.
Thank you for understanding, these people just don't get me, so quick to judge and insult
RomanceRe: 8 Ladies To Never Marry by Mindependent(f): 9:45am On Apr 10, 2013
Think there was a 3rd
RomanceRe: 8 Ladies To Never Marry by Mindependent(f): 9:12am On Apr 10, 2013
Princeparix: just live ur life and u wuld find ur lil wayne>'my money 360_urz is only 180< maybe ur kanye west~hv played d unda-dog ma whole career or ur own perfect Jay z# hello brooklyn;if we had a daughter-guess wat aw call her, brooklyn carter
go listen 2 ur broda Miss independent
Haha thanks love, ps u never replied my email undecided
RomanceRe: So I'm Back Again With A Question For U Lovely People by Mindependent(op): 8:35am On Apr 10, 2013
What's with this whole psycho thing una better take ur time o
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 6:19am On Apr 10, 2013
Raymondenyi: U re obviously close 2 madness and in stack insanity, I really pity ur useeless life,

Wait 4 som1 dat wiLl do dis 2 U
Why be rude?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 6:06am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: Really i never heard it like that before. The right girl how do you know you met the right one?
Trust me when u do , you just know. No one has to tell u
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 5:57am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: Sometimes i do sometimes i like it my struggle is being a player. I have never had true long lasting relationship i have always talked to one girl until i hooked up with her another and that comes from friends in school we would always get pics and girls. And truly i want to change that but when your conceited and you know u look good you have a lot of confidence and thats what keeps me still in College as i was in High school but now it worst. sad
Well then you probably haven't met the right girl because trust me when you do, no one even needs to tell you before you start changing .believe it or not my bf used to be a player till he met me smiley
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 5:42am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: I mean my cockiness doesn't come from wanting attention like i said in high school i had a lot of girls i also played basket ball and foot ball so i was known. But my vanity and conceit came from having cheerleaders numbers to the Barby girl numbers. I guess i never left it behind and now its worse because i am in College. grin
Well you obviously don't want to change so what can I say, be you smiley
RomanceRe: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 5:37am On Apr 10, 2013
boron10: See a Psychiatrist
But I'm not crazy or anything huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 5:36am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: You know what ill admit it i sometimes don't like being conceited or vain. But in high school being with so many women the cockiness just came in and i am 22 now and still got it. But in person i am a funny guy and very kind and all around nice person.
You're 22 shocked well I guess the saying never judge a book by its cover would be appropriate here, you seem decent but act cocky for attention, am I right or am I right? wink
RomanceWhy Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(op): 5:26am On Apr 10, 2013
I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 5:24am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: Lol everyone eventually does i mean even though i am vain and conceited in person i am very out going and funny.
Lol all you had to say was u were funny and I woulda given you a ten wink
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 5:11am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: Let me shorten it for you lol LOl what is narcissistic or vain or conceitedness. All i know is i am all three. grin grin grin grin grin ;
Haha thanks for the summary , I just may grow to like you
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Brag To His Friends That He Banged a girl When He Didnt by Mindependent(f): 5:09am On Apr 10, 2013
Yomii: Onila you mean you are a virgin? Try and keep your virginity until you are truely married.
Truly married?!? Abeg tell me is there fakely married?
RomanceSo I'm Back Again With A Question For U Lovely People by Mindependent(op): 5:05am On Apr 10, 2013
Abeg una help me answer this question and solve this argument with me n ma friend o. If a guy, good male friend to be precise,no strings attached spends money on you with gifts, dinner etc; does it mean he wants something or is he just being a nice friend?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 4:57am On Apr 10, 2013
Too long an essay to read,sorry.
Go to bed love x
RomanceRe: Could This Be True Love? [photo] by Mindependent(f): 4:38am On Apr 10, 2013
Love is in the heart of the beholder smiley time to show errbody lavvvv. Love me jeje love me tender.,,
RomanceRe: How Many Ex-lovers Do You Have? by Mindependent(f): 3:48am On Apr 10, 2013
Lost count undecided
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 3:35am On Apr 10, 2013
Cuteguy12: Alright i love my self lol dudes the duck face is for women not men lol key words on post pretty girls rate me not guys.
Wow how many haters can a Good looking light skinned brother like me have.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LO2_bLzwJI&feature=player_detailpage#t=0s. Check out this song this is what i am and so what. I like it
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LO2_bLzwJI&feature=player_detailpage#t=0s
Hahahahahaha those ya lips are too far up your arse u no dey think straight again o, abeg do your research well well before you contemplate reply, 1st of all I'm not pretty,correct.Im fuckin buurriful and I ain't no guy mr man, I'm a lady smiley secondly I don't see why a respectable someone will feel the need to post his pics online for public approval , thirdly as I said on the first page of this thread you're not all that, hell you're not even handsome so cool it yo, all these comments getting to ur head.Shame u don't get it in person so u have to sought for it online behind a screen .chai! Naija mehn of today, what happened to our hardworking mehn o
RomanceRe: 8 Ladies To Never Marry by Mindependent(f): 10:24pm On Apr 09, 2013
chikeorji123: Don't be just amend one or two which relate to u and strategize..
Even more confused huh cry
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 8:17pm On Apr 09, 2013
Una like pictures o ,14 pages already ontop common picture, make me sef go create my own thread with duck lips picture chaii nairalanders sha
RomanceRe: 8 Ladies To Never Marry by Mindependent(f): 8:10pm On Apr 09, 2013
Princeparix: lol>Ne-yo sister don show
Am confused huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: this is too funny by Mindependent(f): 2:36am On Apr 08, 2013
I would give you a 5, I could analyse the reasons why but I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings smiley
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Guys Not Romantic? by Mindependent(op): 3:30pm On Mar 19, 2013
Princeparix: sorry- a suprise for a junoesque. _just waiting for a line of connection~if only the LADY is willing to offer any. cool
Send an email with your pic and I shall do the same ? Good enough start?
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Guys Not Romantic? by Mindependent(op): 10:04am On Mar 18, 2013
Princeparix: would love dat~especially the bed aspect covered wit flowers in a small isolated hut. D romance go sweet. Why dont we get it moving cheesy
Haha I'm sorry, what bed part? Yes what are we waiting for? wink

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