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tonnieblaise: its kinda possible for days,weeks buh wen matta don dey enta months,it wil be 2 hard for one 2 control oneself..it all depends on how d both of em take eachoda as

My point exactly! So are you saying if they see each other as unattractive nothing will happen?

lrguru: Hmmm....my birthday too is today, what coincidence.

Aww birthday mate, happy birthday what are your plans?

Acidosis: Self control & discipline are the core values here

I can stay with a girl who isn't mine for days, months.. without attaching or attempting any romantic or sensual affair...

I could remember a girl who fell in love with me after passing the night in my room (then at school). She didn't just love me cos she slept in the room but because I didn't come close all through the night even though I was single & free.. infact I left the bed for her while I made use of the rug. Some persons would call me a dunce for doing that, but hey! its my life.

...and I wouldn't have slept in that room that night had it been I was in a relationship though I never had a wrong motive, but to avoid hurting the significant other and destroying good reputations, we've gat 2 live life cautiously and tentatively

Aww that's sweet , you are a rare gem. Most men in your shoes would have taken advantage and I understand why she loved you, did you two take things further?

Princeparix: forcibly? I thought the both partners in marriage should be able to satisfy each others need>watever be the circumstance?

I agree but some people just don't understand this like we do

Awww nairaland gave me a cute pink cake thank you!!!

Princeparix: biko-your very important o

I'll celebrate for the two of us

obo389: Yes na.wht if d settings of d apartment is maybe ensuite?Its vry posible my dear

Even if that's the case, eventually something must happen na?

Yes if she's not willing and he has sex with her forcibly then it's rape. I don't understand why people feel bad after sex though when they clearly enjoyed it while it was going on

Princeparix: i know you dear--dont over try o.

You know I will

Princeparix: my pleasure - enjoy ur day

I'll try

Princeparix: ; dnt jump without a life jacket o

I don't want to leave you not yet

Princeparix: #jumps into ogbalamu-ara river#

Haha my exact reaction

Thanks lover

All these signs you guys are posting have revealed to me I'm in love with a player

[quote author=I.Joan]He might!
But as a disciplined individual, he would control himself![/quote]So men can control themself? Interesting

kasheemawo: It depends on the relationship btw d man and d lady.if she is not my family member i guess am good to go.

That sounds normal , I just can't understand how a guy who is not gay can spend the night with a lady who has the hots for him and he does not make a move.it doesn't even matter if you both are In a relationship with someone else, its only human right?

djeezy: Nothing is impossible. You just haven't seen it yet.

Have you?

clemz85: mind set foundation.

Its very possible from experience,

there i knew that female folk can luk lyk a male to me...come what may

Haha so you're telling me one day maybe as she's coming out of the bathroom you're entering and you see her in all her beauty, you will not feel arouzed?

Thank you yes it would be when I'm much older

kasheemawo: Is not a mistake but the guy just wanted to utilize the opportunity he had.

I feel bad because he has a gf and also I'm just getting out of a breakup

clemz85: hhm!
Platonic!

Ok naa

Yes platonic

Balogun60: if you dont want anything to happen i think you should stop going to his house,a guy and a girl cant just be frds. At some time emotion will start feeling we are all human beings that what you guys dont understand.

I don't understand why you say A guy and girl can't just be friends? I think it is possible

it's the princesses birthday people !!! Aka me be nice to me today ok and yes now you can accuse me of seeking attention, it's my birthday yay!

I agree, I would appreciate plan a a lot

Talk to me people, it's my birthday today

SniperInADiaper: Its possible for people with values and morals.. but doesnt look good to an outsider.

What do you mean doesn't look good to an outsider? Please explain

So I was having this argument with my friend that it is not possible for a male and female friend, only friends where the guy has a gf and the girl has a bf to live together in a flat rented by the both of them and nothing ever happens sexually, my friend said its possible so I want to hear what you guys think is my friend right or am I right?

[quote author=Xavier's]Wierd!! Having ONS!! What s daat? Lols..... Having a rebound gf wud rada make me feel uneasy wit myself.....getting tired of doin permanent things wit temporary pple.esp girls...

I really doubt if falling in love wit a rebound comes into play![/quote]You never know until you try

This guy is my friend. I set our personal boundaries clearly. We talked about it and he plainly told me we are just friends. I said to myself, GREAT!Lately, we spent a bit more time just us eating out a bit more. Well, I am going through a tough time.

I had thought it was a bit weird he asked me to come to his because his flatmate won't be there. but I came over his flat around half an hour later. I should not have .

I did keep in mind we're just friends. We didn't cuddle or anything just sat on the sofa and
he started teasing me and made jokes then he tried to cuddle i went ahead as I thought he didn't mean much. But he started saying weird things, kissing me and touching me... He's a tall guy and I was a bit tipsy. I kept saying to him stop but he went ahead kept saying crazy things like he loves me

He apologised a lot later. He said it was alcohol. I think I left around 1 after we argued. I said no but he walked me home. I feel bad

Should I forgive him? Guys, do you guys make mistakes like this?

Is it possible for two adults not related in anyway to spend the night together and not have sex? And if it is does it mean the guy just does not find her attractive enough to have sex with her or

Because that is what you guys love to see

Ok I'll use myself as an example, I recently just got heart broken and in order to not think about it I began to act in ways I normally wouldn't , having ONS, sexting etc. but having a rebound bf is still like having a normal bf only difference is I would be using the person to get over my ex so the person needs to understand that and be cool with it too but in the likely occasion I actually fall in love with them for real since my emotions are all over the place then they move from rebound to real