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[quote author=joe_ekuns]Assuming i worked so hard during the day and end up sleeping very late at night forgetting to call you and wake up the next morning to finish what i started the previous day without calling you would that cause a big fight[/quote]Of course not, I'm mature enough to understand life is not static

Osedidi: [color=#000099]

Well I did and they just took me for granted so I stopped

FBIolalusi: Sincerely I like yur thrust and u taking time to spell it bold. These wishes are kinda exaggerated though. Bur tis ok. We'll see. Best of luck

I believe such person exists and I don't think their exaggerated, thank you

murimoney: December don come guys be careful o.

In what sense?

smart257: well if you can be sending me the recharge card then we have an agreement8-)[color=#770077][/color]

Haha I may be looking for someone but it doesn't mean I'm going to be a mugu hun

Infomizer: Babe, if you want to live long, forget that person asap. It is very possible. Delete the number (even if you've memorized it) and occupy urself with something else. Just be confident in the person you see in the mirror. Let your mien exude panache and charm. Either (or both) of two things will likely happen:
1. He'll come calling (treat him like sh!T when he does)
2. A more deserving person will come along (he's probably around somewhere but you've not given him the chance)
Another likelihood is that none of these will happen since life can be so effed up. Just be proud of who you are and enjoy life to the fullest. No one should be that important to make you miserable.

Thank you, if he does actually come calling how can I treat him like shit, I fear my true feelings for him will let me down

idnoble135: I see in your topic 'friend'. The punctuation mark attached to that word catches my attention and makes me want to ask if he is just a friend or he is your crush?

I don't really believe in crushes so I'll say HE WAS a little more than a friend

[quote author=Licensed-2-Kill]aite. . .i'll be waitin to tel u "i told u so"[/quote]Haha some people need to realise money is also overrated

Infomizer: I kinda understand how you feel! You call, they don't. They promise, they fail! Both make you appear desperate! Sh!T happens babes!

Exactly what I mean!!!!! And the worst part is deep down, I still care, I still want to hear them speak and hope one day they actually make a tiny effort at least but alas I have to resist the urge to just put my phone on speed dial and call him

Reincarnated: LMFAOOO that is just dumb

Not a quality I seek either

chineloSA: Of course Nana, that was way, way too fast. Never do that again, ever.

Man wont admit that, they are old fashioned when it come to that, that is a turn off. Unless he is looking for a short term hanky panky and fun, but nothing serious.
When u jump on it faster than a rabbit on steroids, they rub you off " the potential girlfriend/ wife " list. A man thinks you do it to all other man all the time.

If you did not give the goodies away just like that, even if you you get hurt, you will not feel this awful. thats the truth. The nookie is not just for dishing it out just like that hell no.

Next time learn to postpone the dishing and focus on knowing the person.

Personally i wouldn't approach a man, in future I would advice you never to approach the guy, its clear you cant handle it, luv. If a man wants you, he must come to you. period. Or else initiate friendship, if he doesn't get it, its his lose.

Thanks so much for this hun. I guess I learnt the hard way
Never in my life will I ever reveal my true feelings to a guy ever again, it seems I will just get taken advantage of again if I repeat it

Reincarnated: What's hard there

Not the attitude I was looking for unfortunately

Reincarnated: Look no further. I am right here

Are you willing to do all those things happily?

[quote author=Licensed-2-Kill]luv is so overrated moi cherie. . .take my words for it[/quote]Overrated or not, it's all I want, I don't even care if he's poor

charlesblaze: den am here for you den

Hmmm, I've been searching everywhere for you

Reincarnated: Only

I don't require much you see, very low maintenance

I don't know what's happening to me but I used to care so much about this person but now I don't actually give two shits to be honest.

I used to do all the calling and make all the effort but they seemed uninterested so I decided to stop making myself look desperate and when I stopped, believe it or not; they didn't even bother with me.

Moving on to a happier life I guess. Also, don't you guys just hate it when someone promises you something and they don't keep that promise, be it materially or physically.

Ogbakolo: [i][/i]woman are the most confused creature in the whole world , they is a saying that what women want even women are not sure , after our running after money has almost finished, shattered and battered ur useless life u are now looking for some one to love u not who u will love , what can u afford a man again ? ur delapidated honey comb dat old men had poured their acidic sperm God punish d womb that give birth to u.does a woman has anything to offer me as a man, apart from their honey comb.

Ehya, it seems the devil has cursed your soul.pele dear

[quote author=Licensed-2-Kill]aint u askin for too much?
Anyway, im jst lookin for a gal who will be there for me when my xbox is broken[/quote]I don't think I'm asking for much at all, I mean I never said anything about looks or money because all I care about is true love.How is that too much?

charlesblaze: stop being a feminist , a relationship works wen both parties involved help out each other.....if a man can have all the xtics that the op wants what will the op then offer to the man unfaithfulnes, extortion etc abeg try calling a spade a spade

I'm not a hypocrite, I would reciprocate every feeling and treat him how I want to be treated

Raymondenyi: Eya!! Sorry dear, buh seriously If I maay ask, re U that ugly?? Cus I'm a guy n I unnderstannd guyz so well...

Moreso, U didn't tek d advice I gave U earlier, If U did U wouldn't have fallen prey...

You're right, I should have listened to you
I think if I was ugly, it would be easier to deal with, at least he would have a good reason not to be interested, but now I can't see why he would not want me?

chineloSA: Are you serious?

Eeeeeew, oh noooooo!!!!!! How could you give up the goodies in one week?? He thought you have the cheapest biscuit on earth.

Next time, " HOLD ON TO YOUR COOKIE, UNTIL DESSERT TIME''

WRONG MOVE, ABSOLUTELY WRONG MOVE

Did I do it to quick?
I heard from one of our mutual friends that he only took advantage of me because of my feelings towards him and that he had no feelings for me. I should have just kept it to myself

For those interested in the update on my relationship that barely lasted a week . He broke up with me after been intimate, back to square one for me i guess. Why do i fail with men FML!!! I feel useless and cheap

Ok so I've been on nairaland for a while, romance especially, countless failed relationships don't pity me. But now it's time for a fresh start.I know people always say good men finish last but I genuinely want a good man, is that too much to ask?

The type of man I want is
Someone who will call me every night before I sleep

Someone who will call me every morning just to hear my voice

Someone who would appreciate me as I am

Someone who will be there for me through thick and thin

Someone that would buy me roses for valentines day and a box of chocolates for my birthday

Someone who respects me, my family and friends

Someone I can trust enough to share my life with and doesn't judge me, I've been through so much, I find it hard opening up

Someone that is happy to lay in bed with me and cuddle up while watching sec and the city

And most of all someone that would cherish me.

Whoever you may be,wherever you may be. I am patiently waiting for you
Love,
M


Ladies and gents, apologies for been very soppy, I'm having a moment. Anyway feel free to add your own type of man/woman if you please

ikelvin: Wow!!! Sweetie U've made my day!!! I hear u are from imo, that's my state too!!! Are u in owerri now?

I'm glad I did
I'm in Lagos now

ikelvin: Why me by d'banj
Koko by d'banj
Tongolo by d'banj
Move ur body by d'banj

I personally love dbanj so any song by him is gold for me

This attention seeking so and so is back again. Why is it that all your threads are basically just the same thing in different wordings?