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temi4fash: Baba its not too hard go and tell her how u feel cos deep down she would av expected u to come and c her if she actually likes u as u say she does.. expect a little fronting as usual its all part of the love process... but if she has moved on abeg just put urself together and make urself happy life continues.. dere will always b a better gal dat will love dan she does and vice versa too...



which kind of smelling talk is dis... so if a guy breaks a gal's heart she wont find love again abi. i dont know where u get dis ur archaic mentality from..

It's not archaic, it's a fact. Each person on earth only has one true life partner. If a guy breaks a girls heart, it was never love to begin with and the girl should consider herself lucky that she didn't end up with the wrong guy

oluwashola4me: I lost the only girl in my life, whom I love so dearly few months ago due to my inability to reciprocate her love for me. I underestimated her. Since then, it's not been easy trying to relate with females, owing to the fact that I'm an introvert.
I dunno even know where to begin from. Will I ever fall in love again? Perhaps not. What do I do? Pls, assist!

No you won't, each person on earth only has one life partner and it seems you've lost yours. Anyone else is not love

ogugua88: Depending on the level of gbadun, it can be a terrible feeling, to the point that you even start doubting your own worth. You have to keep your head up though. Confidence can take you far.

You can easily ask a guy out or tell him your feelings, instead of waiting for him. Some guys are too shy to ask out a woman. You doing so could be some relief to him. It may even make him like you more. You have nothing to lose.

Thank you
I was brave and told him. He finally asked me out yesterday

lalaboi: Iyawo Asiko No More loss

2shotz - thief ole

Alot of Plantashun Boyz and Remedies

Those are jams of life!

lalaboi: Iyawo Asiko No More loss

2shotz - thief ole

Alot of Plantashun Boyz and Remedies

Ah! Plantashun boys were the shit mehn

Sorry to vent on here but don't you girls or guys just hate it when the person you gbadun doesn't feel the same, or maybe is in a relationship or even worse does not realize you feel that way or even exist!!!!

Arghhh the life of a woman

Men have it way easier to just be able to walk upto a lady and be like hey you, my room tonight. Don't be late and not get judged

stillwater: How far back do you want it?

My car by tony tetuila doesn't cut it Abeg. Lol.

Lol then suggest your own na?

Nigerians and their supernatural beliefs sha
Choi, anyway sha let me add my own 2kobo
Guy ur D just didn't do it for her chikena!
Move on! She's done the same
Men can be so clingy at times sha

Which kain history lesson be dis?
Abeg someone summarise
I gats better things to do than to be reading aristotle essay textbook

carlos1: Am i d only one or does someone else here also think that d OP is not just going crazy but madt ?

Why be so insulting?! Everyone has their choice and this is mine, it must be you that is crazy

Simonet: Many women grow up in a violent atmosphere and they come to associate violence with strength and masculinity.

Therefore, they cannot respect the masculinity of men who are unwilling to be violent when it seems unwarranted.

You need to just own up to yourself what you want in a man BUT BE CAREFUL O!

Some guys don't know where to draw the line on their physical dominance.

Don't let your trip get you brutalized!

Haha thanks for your advice, I'm currently seeing a girl so it's fine

AK Money: [size=15pt] Do u snore? [/size]

How does it affect you whether I snore or not? Just answer the queshion na

[quote author=simply_me]All these your topics are just too childish.[/quote]So why respond to a 'childish' topic?!

Where does the name akpos come from? it seems to be a generic naija name but what tribe is it?

This wan no be question na, na to start to tell them of my ashie twin sister be that na?! On the spot, no waste time. Gats to be sharp o, no dulling

On the hunt for love, anyone going clubbing around VI? Hit me up

What are the rest of y'all doing tonight with your loved ones or alone?

abdurrazaq: Feel like - Jafaar Ft. Ruggedman
Eko ile - Jazzman Ft. Storm stars
Only one - Orits Wiliki Ft. Eedris Abdulkareem
Idemnobno - Sunny Neji
(download links to the last two will be appreciated)
These are the few ones I‘ve had on mind for few weeks, there are lots of them though

Those are true jams, I would also appreciate if someone could post them

Nobody has favourites ?

Remember the days of good songs such as
Olufunmi styl plus
My car tony tetuila
Me lecturer eedris
Kerewa Zule zu
Shake bodi trybesmen
Dyna daddy showkey
Mu bottle ye wa 4th republic
Love me jeje seyi sodimu
Etc
Not these whine whine shake bakassi Lowkey jaga jaga we listen to today

So tell me what was your fave?
Mine was definitely shake bodi, jam of life

critique101: I get your point but it is still sinful. Ir u encourage people to do wrong, their sin will be on your head.

Don't go around acting like you know shitt about sin, their sin as you call it won't be on my head because at the end of the day I didn't tie their hand and force them to do anything, they made the decision themselves so if you want to lose your virginity don't look for an excuse or someone to blame ok?!

yetseyi: well since it seems you want an explanation I will let you know
from all your points why I don't agree.

1.You really cant find it when you lose it. you cant sew it back
2. You can always learn any experience you need after you get married to your HUSBAND
3.The fact that you don't lose your virginity doesn't mean you cant date or wont have a boyfriend. You cant forever be alone.Dating doesn't mean MATING and if your point 3 is right does that mean that Ladies who got married as virgins were alone? or they didn't date people?
4. No body said fear of HIV was the reason for keeping your virginity
5.Sitting on hot water bottle may tighten you up but it wont replace your lost self esteem
6.well you can always explore with your one and only. If you were disciplined enough to keep your self before marriage then you would be disciplined to stick to your partner.
7.Having an abortion has a lot of emotional and psychological baggage attached to it.
8.would you rather go through the same PAIN out side marriage than do it within the confines of marriage. I really don't think the husband will mind just a flow of some mls of blood or the first pain for that night
9.Sex outside marriage is the WORST thing ever

Finally virginity is not a lack of opportunity in all cases. It takes a lot of work, determination and the grace of God

I think I have explained @ minedependent

I shall take your points on board