proevan:

Tips to know and also make him interested in you.

* Recurring vocalising of something he doesn't like about you.

* know the kind of lady he will want to marry

* make him teach you stuffs/ let him know you want to learn from him

* He will be telling you domestic stuff, like if he has eating or what he ate.

* improve on your self ; firstly looks, character etc

* never tell him about your relationships and if in one you choose this day between

Actually, I try my best but I dont want him or anybody else to be suspicious. I dont see him that much so talking to him regularly is really hard. If I get to see him, we do talk sha but I want to be more than a friend to him. As for telling him about my relationships, our conversations have never ventured towards that area.

ogugua88: Depending on the level of gbadun, it can be a terrible feeling, to the point that you even start doubting your own worth. You have to keep your head up though. Confidence can take you far.

You can easily ask a guy out or tell him your feelings, instead of waiting for him. Some guys are too shy to ask out a woman. You doing so could be some relief to him. It may even make him like you more. You have nothing to lose.

Thank you
I was brave and told him. He finally asked me out yesterday

Mindependent: Thank you
I was brave and told him. He finally asked me out yesterday

Well done! Congrats.

hmmm

For those interested in the update on my relationship that barely lasted a week . He broke up with me after been intimate, back to square one for me i guess. Why do i fail with men FML!!! I feel useless and cheap

Mindependent: For those interested in the update on my relationship that barely lasted a week . He broke up with me after been intimate, back to square one for me i guess. Why do i fail with men FML!!! I feel useless and cheap

Are you serious?

Eeeeeew, oh noooooo!!!!!! How could you give up the goodies in one week?? He thought you have the cheapest biscuit on earth.

Next time, " HOLD ON TO YOUR COOKIE, UNTIL DESSERT TIME''

WRONG MOVE, ABSOLUTELY WRONG MOVE

Mindependent: For those interested in the update on my relationship that barely lasted a week . He broke up with me after been intimate, back to square one for me i guess. Why do i fail with men FML!!! I feel useless and cheap

Eya!! Sorry dear, buh seriously If I maay ask, re U that ugly?? Cus I'm a guy n I unnderstannd guyz so well...

Moreso, U didn't tek d advice I gave U earlier, If U did U wouldn't have fallen prey...

chineloSA:


Are you serious?

Eeeeeew, oh noooooo!!!!!! How could you give up the goodies in one week?? He thought you have the cheapest biscuit on earth.

Next time, " HOLD ON TO YOUR COOKIE, UNTIL DESSERT TIME''

WRONG MOVE, ABSOLUTELY WRONG MOVE

Did I do it to quick?
I heard from one of our mutual friends that he only took advantage of me because of my feelings towards him and that he had no feelings for me. I should have just kept it to myself

Raymondenyi:

Eya!! Sorry dear, buh seriously If I maay ask, re U that ugly?? Cus I'm a guy n I unnderstannd guyz so well...

Moreso, U didn't tek d advice I gave U earlier, If U did U wouldn't have fallen prey...

You're right, I should have listened to you
I think if I was ugly, it would be easier to deal with, at least he would have a good reason not to be interested, but now I can't see why he would not want me?

Mindependent:

You're right, I should have listened to you
I think if I was ugly, it would be easier to deal with, at least he would have a good reason not to be interested, but now I can't see why he would not want me?

I think I should confirm it 4 myself!! Send me a PM, I'll add U on Facebook!!!!

How can you be intimate with a guy you started dating within a week? You should have atleast build a friendship between you guys,along the line you can deduce if he is feeling the same or not.

When we say women should also aproach a guy,we don't mean be dummy to them or yield to all his desires...nexr time love with brain and not with emotion

Mindependent:

Did I do it to quick?
I heard from one of our mutual friends that he only took advantage of me because of my feelings towards him and that he had no feelings for me. I should have just kept it to myself

Of course Nana, that was way, way too fast. Never do that again, ever.

Man wont admit that, they are old fashioned when it come to that, that is a turn off. Unless he is looking for a short term hanky panky and fun, but nothing serious.
When u jump on it faster than a rabbit on steroids, they rub you off " the potential girlfriend/ wife " list. A man thinks you do it to all other man all the time.

If you did not give the goodies away just like that, even if you you get hurt, you will not feel this awful. thats the truth. The nookie is not just for dishing it out just like that hell no.

Next time learn to postpone the dishing and focus on knowing the person.

Personally i wouldn't approach a man, in future I would advice you never to approach the guy, its clear you cant handle it, luv. If a man wants you, he must come to you. period. Or else initiate friendship, if he doesn't get it, its his lose.

chineloSA:

Of course Nana, that was way, way too fast. Never do that again, ever.

Man wont admit that, they are old fashioned when it come to that, that is a turn off. Unless he is looking for a short term hanky panky and fun, but nothing serious.
When u jump on it faster than a rabbit on steroids, they rub you off " the potential girlfriend/ wife " list. A man thinks you do it to all other man all the time.

If you did not give the goodies away just like that, even if you you get hurt, you will not feel this awful. thats the truth. The nookie is not just for dishing it out just like that hell no.

Next time learn to postpone the dishing and focus on knowing the person.

Personally i wouldn't approach a man, in future I would advice you never to approach the guy, its clear you cant handle it, luv. If a man wants you, he must come to you. period. Or else initiate friendship, if he doesn't get it, its his lose.

Thanks so much for this hun. I guess I learnt the hard way
Never in my life will I ever reveal my true feelings to a guy ever again, it seems I will just get taken advantage of again if I repeat it

Mindependent:

Thanks so much for this hun. I guess I learnt the hard way
Never in my life will I ever reveal my true feelings to a guy ever again, it seems I will just get taken advantage of again if I repeat it

You welcome nana. speedy recovery

ITS A VERY BAD THING

Mindependent:
Sorry to vent on here but don't you girls or guys just hate it when the person you gbadun doesn't feel the same, or maybe is in a relationship or even worse does not realize you feel that way or even exist!!!!

Arghhh the life of a woman

Men have it way easier to just be able to walk up to a lady and be like hey you, my room tonight. Don't be late and not get judged

its simple babe! i thought you said what a man can do, you can do better? show some gestures and if he aint reciprocating just pretend you never did.