₦airaland Forum

Joezinho:
Lol...

English fans and wahala

Na dia wahala dey ginger football.

"I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro.....yes I'm angry with him , the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child"......

What is the weight of each?

Leave that house because you are very likely to act on that voice that is arousing you.

Karleb:
Brother man, calm down.

I am calm and sipping my coffee.

MummyCares:
I had to open a new account because my hubby is on nairaland.

Would your husband who you say is also on Nairaland, not know it is you posting this story without even using your old account?

Like earlier posted, opening a new account to solicit for money is a huge waving red flag!

Channah1:
Ki loón sé awon eleyi?

Na you suppose to ask yourself dat question, who puts up a public notice when they want to disengage from Nairaland, If not one who craves for attention?

OlawaleBammie:
U like ur disclaimer.....the last paragraph


But i am sure u wil be here with a new moniker very soon, lescobet, jekajo!!!

She does not have the capacity to leave Nairaland as a different username will come up, patterns don't lie!

Paramount01:
Pls to you "what is submission?

And to you, what is submission?

Your first priority should be how to earn a steady income not marriage and procreating!

Pictures of foolishness in action.

I will suggest you start out as a tutorial centre for those preparing for WAEC and JAMB, likewise after school classes for those in J S.S 1-S S.2.

Most times, it ends in regrets and many cover it up though there are exceptions.

See cash out...

"Missing Breakfast is a Crime,”......Country hard!

Ken4Christ:
I haven't been to either of these countries but the feedback I receive from my friends over there points to the fact that it's much harder in UK. Blacks hardly have good jobs in UK. My classmate who is a Mechanical Engineer and also has another degree in UK don't have a job in UK. In addition, he is a citizen of UK. So, how are you guys coping over there?

My educational background is in mental health, worked in Psychiatric facilities outside Nigeria and relocated to the UK to do my specialty in clinical child psychology, which is a skill in the shortage list and so far it has been rewarding work-wise....in future when I get my certification as a Play therapist, it doubles the income but for now, I have no reason to complain.

If one has a degree in Psychology in Nigeria, he/she has more chances in the UK than one with the degree in Mechanical Engineering.

Graduate with at least a Second class upper in Psychology, get the graduate membership of the British Psychological Society as that would qualify you to work as an assistant psychologist in the UK. That Psychology degree can also qualify you to work as a SEN (Special Education Needs) teaching assistant, where you get assist a child special needs in the classroom, work starts 8.30a.m and ends 3.30p.m Monday to Friday and if recruited through an agency, the pay is between £350-£500 weekly and can do other jobs over the weekend as side hustle.

There is also the option of working in a mental health facility, that should be earning one who works full time a minimum of £900 weekly depending on the position.

Eyah, he just wants to have former presidential candidate attached to his name.

fulaniHERDSman:
Misleading piece. Men should stop marrying. Attain financial freedom and go buy egg and do sorrogacy. Raise your children with fear of God and in peace.

Keep preaching the surrogacy option as so many are scared of the finances involved and fear of nurturing the babies themselves thus the #teambabymama.

Ken4Christ:
UK is not US. But whichever, the kids are looking good and well taking care of. He probably has other investments bringing him money.

UK is not the US but also a developed country. The guy is no Floyd Mayweather that is stupendously rich but a truck driver! I guess you believe he has investments that is probably yielding him over $20,000 monthly , in addition to his earnings as a truck driver.

The mothers of those children are very likely to be cashing out welfare benefits from the State!

Ken4Christ:
Do you think it's Nigeria. Jobs like this pay more in developed countries than office jobs.

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I live in the UK and know for a fact that whatever the guy earns, even if it is $6,000 after tax monthly, he still cannot fend for those children from his earnings.

If he is paying $500 per month (which is even way little) as child support for each child,, how many children will his salary support , putting in mind that he, himself also need to eat,
pay rent, change clothes etc?

9jaHustler:
Thanks, it's relocation for us ooo

Ok Wishing you all well and do make best use of the opportunities that will come your way.

Very irresponsible and would be expecting taxes paid by those who are controlling their procreation to be used to cater for his children.

9jaHustler:
I don't know if I am saying this too quick but plenty oyibo we have met today have been very friendly. Friendly to the kids and all....

Beautiful family.

Reminds me of my own arrival ...... welcome to the UK, may this relocation(presuming you are not just visiting) lead you all to self-actualization.

There are chances some of the kids are not biologically his.

How much is he earning from truck driving that can support those children?

I encourage you to go learn POP and house interior.

Security-wise, it is risky giving out one's number to a random person and even allowing them into one's apartment within a very short time after meeting them.

You don't need to hold his hands but can send him leads he can follow up via WhatsApp, if he has the drive

kelvine:
Do people still carry stuff on their head?
Apart from hawkers

I laughed when I saw it.

Tobijays:
God bless you bro. Imagine ooo saying postpartum, have you seen a mad woman with a baby? have you seen the way she tends for her baby? So what excuse does she have. Bro take your kid for her family to support you and ask you to come with soldiers, it says a lot sir either she dy maltreat the baby or abusing the baby. Save the child now later when she is better she can access

Being mad or not before giving birth has never be the criteria for diagnosing postpartum depression or postpartum psychosis. Some men, after the birth of their baby also do experience postpartum depression .


There is wisdom in first clinically eliminating postpartum depression as the root of the mood disorder she has been exhibiting.

Second cousin, meaning you share the same great-grandparents.

Since he is your half-brother, meaning you share a parent together (either your dad or your mum and different mum or dad).

Is this second cousin from the side of your shared parent?

EkelediliBuhari:
I beg to disagree.

You must not travel to a place before you can make a review… all you need is objective feedback from those who have… it’s called utilization of resources

But I hope you know that no objective feedback can substitute lived experience?

Even if her family is in support of you taking the baby away from her, you can't before the law unless you all can clinically proof that she lacks the mental capacity to nurture the baby.

Do try to read widely on postpartum depression, even watch YouTube videos on it

Seek professional help as psychological therapy, would do her a lot of good.

Cousin9999:
They can get online and make American wages while paying a Nigerian cost of living.

They can find business opportunities in the problems they see in Nigeria, and become an actual millionaire far more easily than they could abroad.

Even if they can't make American wages for long, that money goes very far in Nigeria. They could create a comfortable lifestyle where they barely "need" to work.

A comfortable lifestyle is more attainable and sustainable (generally speaking) compared to other countries.

They can, they can.....why is it not a reality and why has Nigeria remain overwhelming a country with poor people?

A comfortable lifestyle more attainable in Nigeria, as in Nigerians in Nigeria are living with access to 24hrs electricity's? Tap running 24/7 ? Being paid living wages?, Access to quality health care? Enjoy well equipped educational institutions at all levels? Not living under fear of being kidnapped? Feeding is cheaper in comparison to the minimum wage?

Let those who believe they have better chances in life in Nigeria, remain but they shouldn't diminish those who are also experiencing better chances abroad, it is not patriotism but envy.