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It is known as developmental stuttering, some kids outgrow it while some, don't.

To be on the safer side, seek the intervention of a Speech-language therapist.

Ebubu:
he is possessed

Possessed by who/what?

Visiting his elder sister would reflect desperation. Like earlier suggested, send him audio/text that you will be moving on as it seems he has already left the relationship.

It is primarily the mother and where the father is in the picture, he has the obligation to make provisions for the child/children.

Check the topic, you misspelt custody.

JovialJune:
You don't see people pushing it to our faces to accept them by force, or legislators, politicians, the government trying to put into law, a wrong that is clearly wrong and insane

I cancelled your second paragraph because it has nothing to do with the topic, stick to the topic, at least they upholded morality enough to know that a man is a man, and a woman is a woman, the human body doesn't lie.

I am homophobic, I hate what I hate and I have every right to hate it, why do you feel the need to tell me yours when I didn't ask in the first place or quote you.

This is a public forum for all to post and quote whoever they want. My second paragraph focused on what is prevalent in a Country that is being presumed to be higher when it comes to morality, you can't cherry pick!

Good for him, he makes me laugh.

Anaerobi:
Hahahaha. Biko tell me about those families.

They bear your monicker as their surname, one from Achalla while the other from Awka.

JovialJune:
Are you trying to say they are not?

Why is homosexuality illegal in Nigeria?

That it is illegal in Nigeria, does not mean some Nigerians are not involved in homosexual relationships within Nigeria.

With the high rate of kidnapping, insecurity, ritual killings, cultism, frauds, toxic political leadership, sex for grades etc, you still regard Nigeria as where morality is still upholded?

I am not homophobic as I do not feel uncomfortable around people with diverse sexual orientation.

JovialJune:
It is the homophobic people over there I pity the most, they don't even have the right to hate what they hate in peace

And people rushing over to those countries to live there, I give them hand well well, dey are trying, as much as Nigeria is not a bed of roses, I prefer to live here where morality is still upholded and people can differentiate right from wrong, sanity from insanity.

You mean all those are prevalent in Nigeria?

Anaerobi:
Their services don't need a husband.

One of the reasons you don't generalize and by the way your monicker reminds of two families I know back in Anambra State.

Anaerobi:
To those shouting they don't need a man,
No matter how decorated a woman looks, no matter the wealth and material things a woman owns for herself, a woman without her own husband haven't achived anything.







Know it and have peace.

Also go preach that to Reverend Sisters for not having husbands

lasisi69:

A Pharmacist deals with drugs, so what are you shocked about?

A skit.

I no dey dance again.

lasisi69:


Mkpuru mmiri people...

Check well, na undercover drug dealer

He also has a Doctor of Pharmacy degree from University of California, San Diego. He is a member, American College of Health Executives, USA, a member Nigerian Association of Pharmacists in the Americas and a member, Pharmacist Council of Nigeria....he doesn't have to be undercover, he boldly deals with drugs

Accept the fact that the money is gone and going forward, don't send money for projects through them anymore as all you have to do is to only make provisions for their upkeep.

When some parents choose not to birth the number of children they can comfortably cater for, they transfer their responsibilities to the eldest child.

In as much as I doubt this particular story but what is very certain is that such a lady is struggling with a mental disorder known as a nymphomania (hypersexuality), it is compulsive and she has no control over it and employing a sex mate does in no way help her .

A combination of a psychiatrist and a therapist can help such a person in terms of medication and cognitive behavioural therapy.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Ndi-Igbo dominating in the catholic church home & abroad.

That Rev Father who banned Igbo song in his parish won't like this news.

What do you gain by going tribal? The Catholic Church is not Igbo, the Catholic Church is universal.

Biglittlelois:
David, if your source of joy comes from God, you will not constantly degrade his creation for your satisfaction and to be accepted by your ilks here, you are not smarter than God that knows the importance and significance of the female gender, you would not have been born without the female gender, whatever terrible experience you had or have, that makes you see females as your constant nightmare, is bordering on a mental disorder, it is not normal, you should check yourself into a psychiatric hospital, I'll always pray for you for eternal peace, you really need divine peace in your life, very obvious.

Take care.

People rarely check themselves into a psychiatric hospital, majority are dragged to get there.

Kriss216:
Stop carrying bags of cement for someone that can't carry a loaf of bread for you. Stop crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you. Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relation. Be wise.

Your mum isn't your dad's relation neither is mine, so if his wife is his relative then it is an incestuous relationship assuming he is not from a culture that is okay with cousins marrying each other.

Your wife/babymama/surrogate is NOT going to be your relative

KiNg0G:
not let mindlog see this your post.

Haba!

Bread and ewa agoyin.

Na she chop am!

Sighs... how many threads, in how many days?

Continue your sleeping format, I believe in 2 months time you would have saved what would pay for a room package.

DeeMain:
Really?

What course did you study?

Undergrad - Counselling Psychology.
Postgrad - Clinical Child Psychology.

DeeMain:
It's the dysfunctional family but the genders are reversed in the next generation.

The narcissist dad who cannot love is Jada Pinkett, the serially abused mum who is the martyr of the family is Will Smith.

Little Will Smith(the child in Will Smith that witnessed all that horror) has a role here too, he has vowed to protect his mum(wife) and never ever divorce at all cost to heal his childhood wounds.

Unresolved traumas get passed to the next generation who relive the same dysfunction and horrors in some form.

You just enabled a flashback to my undergraduate Family Therapy lectures, clearly remembering my lecturer as she taught what you just shared.

Desperados:
Oh Sorry Bros.


I nor knw say na you be the new NAIRALAND-EFCC DIRECTOR-GENERAL.

Sorry Sir.



Anyways, keep up the good work...




NB: Don't ever be like Magu and the rest.

EFCC boss ké?

Where I dey work now sweet me die, EFCC work no dey hungry me.

Channah1:
you think if I could get it, I would be here?.

Where in unilag is the shortlet you're talking about? Or you think before I shared my ordeal I haven't gone round? Or you think I just got the money yesterday?

Is it the four man and three man bed space they're parading around unilag I should go and waste 130k for?

I need a proper apartment. I can't waste Money for only a bedspace.

Thank you.

You have money and you are here, creating multiple threads. What is demeaning about starting out with a bedspace to at least get you off homelessness? Well, I guess you feel more comfortable in the uncompleted building than sharing a room with 2 other ladies.

Desperados:
Guy,

forget this talk. Supposing the OP na babe, you nor go talk all dis ones and you go stil pass back go transfer giv the babe.
I knw how people lik you dey behave.


If you wan help am, do so peacefully or just lock up. Nor con dey spoil people mind.


Who wan mumu go stil mumu las las no matter the advise.

I am gender neutral when it comes to such, babe or guy.

Go read my today's posts in 2 other threads here in the family section, where a babe think she can scam people with her sob stories of being homeless and living in an uncompleted building, she don even threaten me with God's wrath.

Life happens.

DeeMain:
What we are witnessing is childhood trauma. What he witnessed and went through in their home broke him. He should never have married till he healed from the wounds and baggages.

Now he is reliving the horror.

As was depositeth in his heart so is he. As he thinketh so is he.

Well captured. Was actually discussing few hours ago, how some unresolved childhood traumas can cause problems in marriages.

Ishilove:
How despicably devious! What is wrong with these people?

Many have become so desensitized, boundaries no longer exist.