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Gospel367:
If I am the man (Of course i can never be), she don enter. Either she accepts the peace offer or end up in pieces...

The law focuses on facts not personality traits, let the court decide what is best for the children. On a lighter note, I am convinced I will be having an interesting career being involved in child custody issues.

Proudlyomonna:
Did you read the part where she said she is not legally married to the Man.
She has been spreading her legs waahhhh without the Man even paying her bride price hmm don't give her advice to waste her time oo.

She was never his wife and that before the law does not diminish the fact that she is the children' biological mother just as the man is their biological father.

davidmoyes:
Anything legal would require money bro. And I can see only one winner here. The man is connected and will definitely manipulate his way to make it all favor him. If she goes to the court, she'll end up losing both ways. Na naija we Dey bro.

She should go visit FIDA office, they offer representation for such.

Ishilove:
Contradiction. You are not his wife in any way or form

She was never a wife but a live-in girlfriend.

davidmoyes:
You knew this would happen. Not judging but you were probably in it for the money. Take the money he offered or negotiate higher and leave the kids with him. Keep constant communication with your kids though. And move on with your life. Very simple.

Cohabiting and having children with the man was an unwise decision on her part, knowing the man's history but there is nothing simple in getting paid off in exchange for not being actively in the lives of the children she shares with him and expectedly the man would make sure he drills it into the children' minds that their mother collected money (sold them off), so she can move on with her life....that would create lifelong hatred in their hearts.

She should go legal and let the law assign she and the kids' father, responsibilities of each parent. how custody would shape up for the best interest of the children.

Uber UK go sharply deduct your money!

Go legal, let his legal team prove before the court that he has the right to sole custody of the children. You can also check out FIDA
(International Federation of Women Lawyers) office in Lagos as I presume that is where you are based, to seek their counsel.

Below are their contact details:

FIDA Lagos
Office Address: 14/16 Makoko Road, Off Herbert Macaulay Way, Yaba, Lagos.
Phone No: 08033092056, 08098557254

illicit:
I will always be screaming at the top of my lungs

Other patients would silence you, especially the "Chief".

Let me share the scenarios in public and private psychiatric facilities I have worked in

Some patients wake up on a bed in the Psychiatric ward, those who brought them drugged/sedated them before bringing them to avoid resistance.

Some conscious of the fact that they are headed to the Psychiatric facility, fights everyone in the vehicle conveying them reason it is advised to have able bodied men restraining them in the vehicle bringing them.

Some sane persons are mistakenly "captured" by some overzealous government social workers alongside mentally disordered persons when they do their routine taking those living on the streets struggling with mental health issues. They are all bundled into the wards, it is now left for the sane persons to prove their sanity by insisting they promptly see the Psychologist in order to run a mental status examination to prove their sanity, gbege if one is unfortunate to be picked over the weekend...na till Monday! Expect harassment from other patients, they snatch new patients' food, fighting between patients is a regular thing and nurses on duty are least bothered about what is going on.

Private facilities are more coordinated and humane in their approach, private rooms, good meals, timely medication, access to array of mental health professionals, better recreational facilities.......but expensive!

falcon01:
I just balance and enjoy free food and accommodation

Free food and accomodation?.....You have no idea!

Content creators.

Why enabling her rude behaviour towards you?

You stated you have refunded her the rent, what is stopping you from packing her things and kept outside while changing the door key/padlock?

pocohantas:
She made such a beautiful bride.

The problem now is…How Nairaland redpillers go take sleep this night?

Rare picture of a redpiller asking their leader why evening newspapers are getting married despite their campaign.

At the great temple of Odejimjim.

There is monetary value to the work she does. People get paid for housekeeping and minding children at home till their parents return.

Bumper harvest.

May their souls rest in peace.

Anyone could have written that 'list' and have it uploaded to catch cruise.

[quote author= post=112192665][/quote]Didn't he?

Is he is not the same Governor that appointed 155 Special Assistants?

That reminds me of the Nollywood role, Chinwetalu Agu regularly plays.... where he is obsessed with widows while his family struggles.

Hezzyluv:
Hammmm

However sat down and wrong this story should contest Orange Price for fiction.

Maybe the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction.

Dogo143:
Please house i just got a new apartment for myself and I wasn't able to afford a mattress at the moment I've been sleeping on just a piece of clothe for the past two weeks now and it's affecting my body someone should kindly help me with any kind of mattress atleast something to lay my body on, i will kindly appreciate it (i will come and pick it up myself) someone should please come to my aid �please I'm begging

My contact 070 4212 6432

You should state your location, so readers can have an idea where you are.

MarryWhiteasap:
What is this called. To feed a baby and where did she go to by the way? Running from their responsibilities. She will tie wrapper and Cary the child to wherever she goes.

Does it emasculate you, when you feed your own child? Well, I guess you are not aware that such feeding times are bonding moments for the child and parent.

Babalola0920:
Don't let jump into conclusion the man isn't MAD to just beat his wife she most have done something to deserve that, SOCIAL MEDIA never posted when he has been a good husband I believe this should also be kept private

Is just like saying a Nigerian policemen is not MAD to just beat you up, that you must have done something to deserve the beating.

Why should it have been kept private, if you are convinced that she deserves it or can't the husband defend the reason (s) for battering her?

yuping:
make we all they pretend like say them no cane us for small.

It is not about pretense but it is about being reflective over the efficacy of flogging children as a means of instilling enduring values.

Sad. If her life means nothing to her, what of the baby?

Commendable.

They suit each other.

Kobojunkie:
Full right over her son? Is he a toddler or retarded?

It is an uncomfortable reality that many adults around struggle with psychological separatedness (individuation) which is more prevalent with some sons and their mothers .

Beautiful.

It is not a case of rape but minors who are sexually exposed, having recreational sex. That wasn't their first sexual act with each other and other people outside that room.

In Child Psychology, when working with such children, it is very important to be very thorough because it very likely to lead to the arrest and prosecution of adult figures whose actions or inactions enabled it

Heterodox:
And that's the beginning of what?

Whatever it will lead to. I have my own beliefs while still recognizing that people are daily making diverse choices regarding their reproduction.