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Ishilove:
Jeez. That's just horrible. Where did they get the photos?

They got the pictures online and it was traced.

Channah1:
Eru tin ba e?

Just be careful. If I were you, I'll just look and pass if I have no help to render than try to form detective Da'Fander.

Happy Sunday.

Fear wetin? You think that Nigerian style of emotionally blackmailing others by bringing God in the mix, scares me?

Truly, many, many werey wanle!

Barrister026:
Yes o, but some people are naturally heartless, with issue as sensitive as this you don't have to stop others from assisting even if your not helping. imagine what that mindlog wrote, what about if all this is true? the fact that they are alot of scammers in nigeria doesn't mean we have to give away our humanity.
I have been following that topic since yesterday and the way it is, I don't think he's telling lie.

IF all he wrote is true, life has a way of bringing genuine helpers which may not necessarily mean sending him money but what would benefit him long term.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
I knew it will be like This, but there's no harm in asking for help, for you thinking am using a sensitive issue like this to cashout shows alot of we don't really care about one another. am not forcing anyone to help and for your understanding since I made this thread, I HAVEN'T RECEIVED any TOKEN,.

SO LUCKILY FOR YOU SIR, NO ONE HAS BEEN SCAMMED, But I just want You to know it's evil of you trying to cease good people from rending help to people like us who really needs it.

once again thank you

Sensitive issue? It seems you have not been long here in this family section, someone has posted the pictures of "his late wife" lying in the coffin, another did post pictures of a little girl who he claimed was his daughter who just died all in the bid to scam readers to send money to them but they were later busted. When it comes to criminal minded people, nothing is sacred nor sensitive.

There is nothing evil in reminding people to be reflective before giving.

Kreddy:
include your account name,I wanna check something

Once you input the bank and account number in your Nigerian bank app, the name of the account holder will pop up.

Channah1:
And... What's the difference between what I stated up there and your submission?

Do you know the terms and conditions on which I took the job? Its not everything I'll begin to spell out here.
I've given out so much already. Please let me save some info for my privacy.

Thank you.

Terms and conditions? I guess you are a big talent thus your organization can't afford to lose you reason for the promotion and over 200% salary increase while still on probation,

You know very well your posts reeks of discrepancies and one does not have to be into forensics to reach that conclusion.

If you had wanted privacy, you shouldn't have created the many threads.

Feel FREE to call on God to make me go through "what you are going through" but the goodnews is that God is so good, He doesn't run errands for mortals.

Channah1:
I've gone to them but they said I'm not yet due for such since I'm still on probation.
Besides they just increased my pay eventhough I'm still on probation because I kept disturbing them that the 30k I'm earning is not enough. Therefore I wouldn't want to get in their bad records by constantly disturbing them for funds.

Trust me. Before coming out, I had gone round, sir.

Attached below is what being on probation means and I am here wondering how one gets promoted in a Nigerian workplace while still on probation and getting over 200% salary increase......IT DOES NOT ADD UP.

efficiencie:
Stop peddling this trash. Based on what our society depicts today neither boys nor girls are being trained. More fathers are out there busy making money to fuel their desires but they hide under the pseudo morality of working to fend for the home. More mothers are at home gisting with neighbors, binging on Netflix, banging their neighbor's jobless husband or some Ex, feeding themselves fat, whatsapping, instagramming and typing trash on nairaland. Both fathers and mothers hardly have time for kids these days so kids are being trained by yahoo boys and girls, music videos, Netflix, xvideos, friends from horrid family backgrounds, youtube, twitter etc. That is why our boys and girls are delinquent and growing into dysfunctional adults responsible for the nonsense we see today (domestic violence, rape, incest, bandit, corruption, sexual immorality, foolishness...so in a nutshell both boys and girls are not being trained at all. Boys are not growing into men instead they are becoming overgrown babies and girls are not growing into women instead they are rapidly evolving into hoes. God help us.

Well written.

chatinent:
It's the Nigeria sun-tempered mentality. Children, male and female, should be trained equally.

Channah1:
Why not tell them to stop calling me a scammer?
Do you knythe weight of tagging someone a scammer?
You spoil whatever chances the needy has for people to help and that is not good.

If I'm one, then let them ( those calling me scammer) go Scot free but if I'm not, they'll all have a taste of it!

Enough is enough!

Well, you created several threads and still expect everyone to post what you would like to read? To me, that's irrational.

Enough is enough!

With the money you say you have, go offline and look for a lady who you would share a room with.

Channah1:
If I be a child of God, let my condition befall you. Not to punish you but for you to know that I'm not a scammer and learn to treat people in distress with care

Amen.

Stop these let me my condition befall you, truth is that it carries no weight.

Right here in this family section, we have witnessed so many scammers where one even posted pictures of her supposed child on life support machine, another posted the pictures of his supposed late wife in the coffin before burial, all in a bid to elicit pity and get money from Nairalanders while calling God's name.

Nigerian scammers have become so desensitized that they feel so comfortable adding God in the mix to emotionally blackmail people to fall for their scam ..no be today.

Living and fathering children with a woman one is not married to and death happens....the downside of co-habitation.

Personally, I don't financially contribute to such just as I didn't for a relative who did the same despite repeated warnings against the co-habitation and pleas to go see her family to traditionally marry the lady but he was arrogant, feeling smart that he has 2 children from the relationship and a woman performing wifely duties without the stress of marital rites.....she was involved in an accident and didn't survive, reality set in.

Like suggested, be open to her family on the real status of your finances with proofs and negotiate from there BUT there is a very huge possibility that this a scam planned well ahead.

Create such a sensational thread that LUCKILY made the frontpage, then build on the momentum to cash out which is what this particular thread is purposed to do. From the initial gra gra of yesterday to today's meekness...the human mind is a beautiful thing to study.

OP, you may be LUCKY to get some credit alerts from those who would fall for this.

Channah1:
Come, what exactly is your problem?
I'm beginning to suspect you o. Cos since I mentioned my salary, you no wan rest again. Ogini di?

Calm down already. You're beginning to sound off. Cha!

You now earn N97,000 and still hanging around uncompleted buildings?

Look for colleagues or even people you can share their room or flat with as you pay part of the rent of the accomodation.

Channah1:
Like seriously, I don't know the kind of heart some people have.

Someone cries for help and all you get is hurtful words and people calling you scam. Like when and how did we get here? SMH.

Even if you can t help, at least some words of encouragement and hope will go a long way to keep the depressed from plunging deep into depression but rather, you chose harsh words.

Let God almighty put everyone who has call me a scammer through what I'm passing through right now that they may know that I'm not a scammer. Have never been and will never be.

Here with me is my little bag i carry about looking for where to sleep and someone is calling me a scammer even with pictures of the uncompleted building as evidence.

Redirect that energy into praying that those who know you in real life should offer you a roof over your head.

You have been earning salaries for months up to the extent of being recently promoted, if that little bag you say you carry about is what you have to show for it....I am tempted to ask, which type of job are you engaged in?

Channah1:
I already answered some of the questions Sir but telling me to put out the name of a church and my address is risky knowing the dangers out there.
Like I said, the place is deserted. What if someone trails me with the address or so much info you ask me to put out here?

I can't afford to expose myself to any further dangers. If anyone wants to help me, I believe they would not untill I disclose my full details and identity.

If God lays it in your heart to help me Sir, please do.

Thank you Sir.

Go back to Badagry area where your family is , as it is way safer than where you are if you don't want to be used for rituals.

Channah1:
Please don't just view and go.
Help a sister.

Where is your family staying?

Good for her

Daniel7543:
Oga, whether the op is going legally or not it will always be in his advantage.

Do list what would be in his advantage.

You need calm down, going legal will not be to your advantage.

For you to have scaled those assessments means you have the capacity if given the opportunity.

Any conscious Nigerian who lives or have lived in Kenya knows how money laundering flows easily there.

Eyah.

Sighs...

I have always had interest in knowing how children in polygamous settings thrive...
the dynamics of a father, mother, stepmother(s), half-siblings, step-siblings etc

I have always had interest in knowing how children in polygamous settings thrive...
the dynamics of a father, mother, stepmother(s), half-siblings, step-siblings etc

Painful.

Kobojunkie:
Yet majority of those who marry n wives do so to cover for adultery. So how is polygamy much better than adultery in that case?

The issues here is that some men who have more than one wife, still have girlfriends outside their home thus commiting same adultery that marrying more than one wife was supposed to address.

Marrying more than one wife is not the cure all for a man who struggles with self-control.

ImaIma1:
Ladies should not be attacked or branded for marrying rich. Let everyone marry who they want,because if you marry rich or broke, who will mess you up will still do it regardless of if you suffered in poverty with them or not.

So all these guys that are always trying to "golddigger-shame" ladies who choose rich guys should just rest. Because they are not more eligible bachelors nor would they make better husbands than the rich guys just because they are broke.

Because some guys make it seem like they can love better and be better husbands. Then you hear things like "what if that guy suddenly loses his wealth"? The question should be what if they themselves never get rich?

Rich or poor marry your choice regardless of the background noise.

It is not a cult! I am also igbo, born and raised in Lagos, I and my siblings all belong to our appropriate age grade groups.

It is an association of those born within a given range of years. In my community, both males and females start out in the age grade groups till the females marry and leave home but still regards each other as age mates.

JONNYSPUTE:
.... You don't know what you are saying bro.
Yul's father Pete was a civil servant and a presenter in radio Nigeria.

When he featured in things fall apart then,he acted so well that when he retired he joined nollywood so he wasn't rich.

It took him,Pete more than 10 yrs to complete his personal house in Enugu so tell me how such a person will be tagged rich then?

Yul him self after writing his waec then in 1998 from New heaven boys secondary school got admission,graduated and while waiting to serve got his girlfriend pregnant.

It was the dad that stood for him and was taking care of him and the wife .

And it was at that time that Pete introduced him and the other of his son into acting and luck smiled on Yul.

Believe him when he says he had nothing.
This na guy weh I know too well. Grew up together in the same vicinity,move around and belong to the same group chat of our old boys though he left the forum now.
So you won't tell me about the family.

You definitely have a good grasp of the Edochie's family, they were the regular civil servant family back then who were living the basic life.

It is not about the scriptures but Yul decision to step outside his marriage, have an extramarital affair that led to a pregnancy, birth of a child and traditionally marrying the nother of the child.

BabalawoPikin:
She's a fool.. A big one.. Nobody forced you, at this period we all need prayers in this country. There's only One God we pray to, Christian or Muslim. I have seen this happen in few hospitals and hotels. Especially hospitals. Make she go LUTH go see beautiful rich ladies wey no fit walk again, she go always appreciate the Almighty for her life

You don't expect lodgers to flow with your religious activities. It is very unprofessional of the hotel management to disturb their lodgers with such....hotel staff conducting open prayer sessions is hypocrisy.