Women want to date rich men.. well this is the risk. Whats your point? 30% of children in Nigeria are not the fathers and he doesn't know. So shut your trap
The woman is the one who is the United States-based lawyer.
BlackMamba69: Actually, most people enter marriages wholeheartedly but it's what they face in marriage that pushes them to misbehave; eg. badly behaved spouse, poor sex life, incompatibility, growing apart, in-law issues, complexities of raising children etc..
Nobody holy pass and people are bound to fall if not careful.
I'm sure the man would love to file for divorce but he stands to lose a lot since he's based in the States.
Moving back to Nigeria was probably a strategy for him to acquire property that she cannot touch. That way, if he proceeds with a divorce, whatever he forfeits to his wife in America would not matter.
The Certificate of Occupancy (C of O) of the property in Nigeria that is in contention has her name on it, so I don't see how she cannot touch it or will the Lagos State government change her name on the Certificate of Occupancy to his?
“We built two duplexes and the Certificate of Occupancy (C of O) has my name (on it).”.....Very smart of her, at least she and their 4 children are legally protected against any greedy mind.
With the ending of the 25 years of marriage in view, the woman will not leave the union empty- handed and the man can house his side chick in one of the houses he claims he owned before he married his wife.
It has become more like a roundabout, some men are unknowingly raising children that are not biologically theirs while their biological children are being raised by other men.
bigbam: that was not our Intension but I see it as a last resort
Make do with whatever you have, nobody will cane you for spending from what is realistically available to you.
Seeking for a loan to finance your wedding is an indication you are not financially stable enough to get married.
If your future salary will be tied to repaying debts, you know very well that you are likely to come online to beg for assistance in settling the hospital bills when your wife gives birth.
Promzy12: Am new here please i will like to know How much is the minimum deposit one can pay as tuition before his visa is approved right now i can't afford the full tuition fee now
Minimum deposit varies, dependent on the University.
englishmart: I have 3 kid sisters, the eldest of them is 20 while the youngest is 15. Sometimes I feel like getting them pants and or bra, but I have a feeling it's immodest. What do you guys think?
Give the money you have budgeted for it to the eldest who is 20, they can make their choice as they are old enough to do so.
BLOODYSPERM: Don't judge the redpill community if you know nothing about it
My thought pattern is not tied to the need to feel superior to any gender, tribe or race and neither will I condone anyone trying to diminish me because of their need to subjugate another in the desire to validate identity. My sights are set on things entirely different.
If you felt the original poster of this thread misrepresented redpill, you can create a thread focused on how redpill aligns with Christianity, how it fosters healthy marriages and families in general, I work with people with alternative perceptions and so would have no issues reading what you have to put up in the thread.