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If it is not okay for your wife under no circumstance to address your own mother as the most useless mother-In-law , I believe you know it is not proper to address her that way.

You and your wife should sit down, each communicate their feelings regarding the conflict and resolve it. Triangulation in marriage is not healthy.

Alexgman1:
Collect LAPO loan to boost your existing & profitable business not for paying your bills, rent, and debts if not, their 4.8% interest rate which is the lowest you can get from any financial institution or microfinance bank will be hard for u to pay back. Use your lapo loan for an existing & growing business not to start a business or spend on things like gadgets, electronics, shoes, clothes & bag or to pay your rent or finance an event. Its as simple as that! Lapo loan is a stimulator & support for a growing & profitable business to expand it to how you have always dreamt of or wished.

Well captured.

May her soul rest in peace.

Obi (Benue state)

They should also educate their members. on the need for health insurance.

Al shabab!! Same name with Somalian terrorist group!

Daddyejima4:
I can't focus on my new family when I don't have any clue about my babies, if they are being treated well or not.

Start by going to lodge a complaint at the Anambra State's Ministry of Social Welfare, Children & Women Affairs office. Your in-laws will be summoned and would also be told to bring the twins along.

No Nigerian musician pre-internet had the nationwide appeal Shina Peters had way back in the 90s.

For those to have ever existed shows the level of infrastructure in the University.

The owners of those cows are multimillionaires and they still expect public funds be used to build ranches for their herds.

He gets his high by believing his knows better even in fields he has no competence in.

Waste of space!

Buhari and transparency!

Let the Police and the Lagos State's Family Social Services get involved so that there can be a clearer picture of the issues involved and of utmost concern, the children who shouldn't be the pawns of the estranged couple.

Marriage may end but when children are involved, selfish interests must be relegated.

Being assertive is not being wicked, learn to say NO to what a YES will mess things up.

Well captured and ended with an appropriate passage from the Bible, Colossians 2:8

See to it, then, that no one enslaves you by means of the worthless deceit of human wisdom, which comes from the teachings handed down by human beings and from the ruling spirits of the universe, and not from Christ. (Good News Translation)

Overdue but would be poorly maintained.

Messed up!

The man was already married in.Nigeria then left for the US in 2010 then met his daughter (now wife and mother of his 2 children/grandchildren) in 2015 when she was 19 and started a sexual relationship with her for papers and 6 years down the line, they are married with a son and a daughter.

Though this is a whole lot of fiction, the caller/man seem not to realize that there are so many loop holes in his tales by moonlight The wife/daughter was already 14 years years old in 2010 when he left for the US and she was supposedly already living in the US then, with who? In which year did his former girlfriend (wife's mother and also his father's wife) get married to his father that he didn't get to attend the wedding, watch videos of the event nor see the pictures of his father's younger wife, after all he claimed he left Nigeria in 2010!

Asking questions about roots/family of origin is very important when getting into relationships to avoid this man's tales by moonlight to become someone's reality.

Spiff006:
i got a contact, and the man told me they are working on it, but i am travelling to Benin on Monday. want to go and cry on their neck to send it. i pray i am able to find a more reliable person to help.

Where you not supposed to handed over an official copy of your transcript alongside your degree certificate?

Rise and hustle out your sustenance.

giddy4u:
Pls we need your help , I and my wife with kids are hungry . we will manage anything May God reward you all Polaris bank 1019667274

You and your wife should go out there and get jobs that pay daily wages...there are cleaning jobs, laundry etc

May their souls rest in peace and their families, consoled.

A legend.

Sad. Is it not the job of the power company serving the University, why did the University management allow a staff to do it?

The truck should be offloaded!

Corruption on point.

jimi4us:
that girl should be put in prison for 65 years

For killing who? Or is it no longer a case around two adults who were into transactional sex.

Power has devolved, these tech companies have become more powerful than national governments, they have more details on citizens than the government of their country of origin/residence. Sovereignty means little or nothing to them and that is the reality that cannot be wished away.

Wegothere:
Thank you so much bro,

I pray I get mine soon.

Pls do you still have your funds in your account as at the time they called your bank because I removed my funds 7days after my biometrics.

And I have not received any call from any body.

Why the removal when it is intended for your studies?

Every marriage is unique because dynamics differs. Some couples [i]feel at ease [/i]when their partners are not aware of their finances, as they adopt compartmentalization as their defense mechanism to protect self as they may be open to sharing other things but when it comes to personal finance they mentally distance from spouse because their thoughts have been modelled from childhood to adulthood that openness about finances in marriage is an indication of weakness, they find validation in secrecy.

Reason why many even at the point of being certain of their getting married are very uncomfortable discussing their income and expenditure.

2 recurring issues that regularly pops up in marriage therapy rooms are secrecy around finance and unsatisfying sex life.