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We need to ask this question, how many men want to marry more than one wife and have more children with these wives? vs how many men want to marry one wife, have children only with her but still get to have different sexual partners outside marriage?

A MOPOL officer and a soldier had an altercation over a girlfriend, an innocent MOPOL officer not aware of the feud got killed, so sad!

Those officers need periodic mental state examination to evaluate their attitude, mood, affect, speech, thought, reliability, cognition, judgement and insight.

"Nigeria’s total trade stood at N9.19 trillion in the third quarter of 2019, being exports worth N5.29 trillion and imports worth N3.89 trillion".........So Nigeria exports to China more than imports from it.

phlegmatic007:
Is it a must to undergo the stress of white wedding after completing the traditional wedding?

It depends on the people involved, couples who are Christians would naturally want to solemnize their union in their Church and get people to celebrate with them there also. So the Church wedding and the Nikkah ceremony even after the traditional rites are part of our socialization.

So if you are an atheist and the lady you are marrying likewise her family are atheists then be sure that you won't "undergo the stress of white wedding".

If this is a true story, I will advise you seek professional help in terms of therapy to help you process what you are going through and give you a clearer perspective about your marriage. Repression is deadly as it pose danger to emotional and cognitive health as one may end up injuring herself or the husband. The thought and the eventual stabbing/killing of spouses in marriages do not just come up from nowhere.

Mobilipia:
Pls who has idea about Bangor University? I got an offer from them( MSc computing) finally! Pls how is Wales are there job opportunities?

Also going to Wales but Swansea University.

See negotiation!

donstan18:
Another super story!!

Same pattern, same writing skills and same time frame.
I wonder the person behind these steady fake stories.

So much fake stories coming in. Persons behind all these threads are not in a good place mentally, an indication of histrionic personality disorder (HPD) a symptom which is excessive attention-seeking.

Final stop.

saintaustine:
Abia state women are very deadly,

They are wicked to the core, and are pretentious before marriage.

May God save those men who got entangled with Abia born ladies.

Generalization is a dangerous mindset.

I can imagine how diminished the man feels. From the story, she is likely to identify positively with psychosis as the unexpected strength and losing of contact with external reality are markers.

atrix4g:
Hello guys,
I want to enquire about scholarship opportunities for a postgraduate certificate in Medical education at Swansea University in UK.
Thanks.
Awaiting your kind and positive responses

Write to Swansea to get info on available scholarships and see if you qualify or better still visit international scholarship page on Swansea .University website. Am headed to Swansea University come September for my Masters.

If all you stated is true, your marriage is very much redeemable. From your write up, you have been married for 8 years and have involved her family at different times to resolve issues, is she using the salon as a diversion, a coping mechanism to deal the fact that you two are yet to be blessed with the fruit of the womb? Since you wrote that you love your wife and believes she also does love you too, go for professional couple therapy.

Slikosliko57:
What happens when these individuals are sincerely not addicts because this could also be the case. Anybody who gets to the gates of a rehab isn't leaving there until after 90days whether he likes it or not. So even the ones who are not addicted will have to suffer when the rehab is told that they visit the club three Fridays out of four to drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes and socialize like other normal human beings. Drinking alcohol and being an alcoholic are two different things.

Even persons who abuse alcohol and other substances rarely acknowledge their state, they rationalize their consumption.

Before anyone is admitted into the rehab whether voluntarily or not, a pre-intake screening is carried out. Why not the person (I have this feeling that it is you because from your posts you have not been successful in depersonalizing) focus on moving out of his parents house? Dependent living comes with its terms.

Slikosliko57:
To my lawyers in the house, Is legally right for a parent or parents to violently force (by calling people to inject and attack them) an adult (their child) who is about 29-30 years and above to a rehab against his or her will just because they drink alcohol and smoke cigarettes (even when alcohol and cigarettes are not against the law)? Is it lawfully right to force them to a rehab against their will when they haven't constituted any nuisance or violent behaviour.

Addiction is a family disease, the addict's lifestyle affects the other members of the family. Drinking alcohol is not the issue but being an alcoholic is where the problem lies because the user has developed dependency on it.

I work in a psychiatric hospital, a good number of patients wake up to find themselves admitted there because many of them would not voluntarily agree to be brought over.

In the Rehabilitation centre, out of the 37 in residence, ranging from the age 19 to 53 years (both gender) only 4 came willingly while the rest are still angry and living in denial that their various drugs of choice is not an issue! Sha dey must complete their 90 days of detoxification, psychoeducation, occupational therapy, group and one-on-one therapy sessions, after which sobriety or relapse is a choice to make and live out when they leave.

May his soul rest in peace. Was his neighbour back then in New Haven, Enugu.

Liverpool all the way.

J111333:
America is evil yet they all wanna travel to the States and not Mecca.
Show me a random middle eastern muuslim and I will show you a potential terrorist.

Generalization is a dangerous mindset.

omopapa:
Fee for international students (1st and 2nd year): £23,310/year
Fee for international students (3rd, 4th, and 5th year): £39,960/year
Cost of living: 9000-12000£/Year

Source: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/undergraduate/courses/med/medicine.aspx

Really expensive!

Still others will not learn, believing that they are smarter.

Sighs....

omopapa:
Have u considered studying mental health nursing, high chance of getting job after studying plus u said u have experience working in a psychiatric hospital

My bachelors degree is in Counseling psychology and working majorly in the child psychiatric department though I do also get to work with adult in-patients at the hospital. I want to specialize in child and adolescent therapy thus my wanting to do my masters in Play therapy before a Doctorate.

STENON:
9p/h but not sure it if it's more now

Thanks for the response.

STENON:
Please modify and remove the address please

Please what is the average hourly rate as a part time care assistant? I am intending to be in Swansea University come September for my Masters in Play therapy and hope to get a part time job in a mental health facility while studying as I have experience working in a psychiatric hospital.

When I get my visa issued in Nairobi, will it be OK to fly down to Nigeria and depart for the UK from Lagos?

omopapa:
Congratulations to all the January starters that got their visa approved. While in the UK don’t just focus on book alone, make sure u explore, network, make contacts and gather as much information as possible about work experience and possibility of changing your immigration status in a legit way. All the best and wish you the very best in the Queen’s land.

Good advice. I intend starting September and by the time I finish in 2021, I should have gotten the professional license to practice in the UK as a therapist and get to change my immigration status.

There is need to differentiate between promiscuity and polygamy. Bringing it home, let's ask how many Nigerian men today would like to marry more than one wife and have children with these wives?

Nedu20:
Passport collected and visa stamped.
I can't thank this thread enough... Thank you guys.

Biometrics - Dec 16th.
Passport collected - January 2nd

I hope to be part of the people that'd help others get there as well...

Once again, I really appreciate this thread.

Thank you @justwise @zoey1 @lagosismyhome and many others

Congratulations. Hoping to share mine in September as I will be applying from UK High Commission in Nairobi, Kenya.

eljaye:
Just arrived in the UK. Great Arik Air flight. So long a queue at Customs and Border Control. It was all good. Thanks to the admin and all you guys that made my application seamless. Waiting to connect to Swansea! Overall, it was very eventful. Culture shock is worrying me here though!

Are you still in Swansea?

Hello all, I intend going for my M.A come September 2020 at Swansea University, the program starts third week of September and I will be graduating in July 2021. Is anyone currently studying at Swansea (Singleton campus) as I would like to enquire about accommodation.