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my ex once told me she was managing me cos I was broke and she told me(shey na your your broke I go chop?) I walked out of the relationship when I couldn't handle the emotional pain associated

today she calls me frequently for help, even to pick some of my cloths. I thank God almighty

IamKashyBaby:

Jeeezzzu is laawd!
Oohh plz..I hope this wont never gonna happen to me sha..

then you don't believe in yourself and what you can do

Betmaster3:
The thing is that u give the bitch too much attention, just stop callin her, make her miss u, my advice, stop calin her for now, let her cal u, if she doesn't cal, knw she doesn't luv. Then move on! I did the same to my babe.

some girls can be excessively stubborn and play the victim when you stop giving a Bleep about there attitude.

There are many sides to this. One is maybe she has had an abusive relationship in the past and she is determined not to submit to any man again, another is she is a pet girl at home and seldom receive correction from her parent, another is she may naturally be a stubborn girl, she may also be the proud type or a domineering lady. Most important is you may have forced yourself into her life. I will suggest you call her and let her understand that whichever way she would not want you to treat her, she shouldn't treat you likewise. if she continues you need to take a leave cos she might be a toxic partner and you might out of frustration beat her one day which is not a good one.

Aminu212:
Any baby here?

you nko

I had this discuss with a group of friends today and it has been a bit of bug on my mind. Do babies really dream and what do they dream about. I, however, am of the opinion that babies yes dream but but they there brain is not developed enough to find expression and interpretation for there dreams and feelings. what is your take. maybe we can learn one or two things from learned individuals here

Nicepoker:
yeah. that was around 2011 to 2014.

wao. why did you stop the job.

Rorachy:
I feel nervous thinking of spending the rest of my life with one person but the thought of children is consoling.

so the only issue you got with marriage is spending the rest of your life with one person. No harm in having children and living your life the way it is now, I mean being with many men. sorry for you

Nicepoker:
op trailer drivers are not reckless. it's just that we see other tiny vehicles as ants on the same road. sorry

very true especially for drunk drivers. do you do trucking as well?

trucking is one of the best jobs. just in Nigeria wet everything spoil. I am a truck manager as well a truck driver and I can bet I have not had any issue with other road users. it all depend on a drivers education. In Nigeria most truck drivers are illiterates. baba mufu and fatai them.

just pray not to experience the negative part of a relationship or be with the wrong person. you would never wish to be in a relationship.

so every girl on social media is now a slay queen abi. nonsense. slay queen ko slain servant no.

alienhumam:
my guy I know that if am successful girls will come, but for now I need someone I can share my problems with and someone who will clear this believe from people that am gay. am not gay I rather die than to be a gay.

guy that's the best advice anyone can give you now. honestly just hold your life and live carefree. make money cos that's the most important thing apart from God. I still wish I am single without a girlfriend now. walahi.

cristianisraeli:
typical new generation nigerian woman..i pity ur future husband and if u are married..i pity the man...if u have a boyfriend.ha i pity the boy...continue with ur yeye talks..dont worry ur boyfriend/husband will find his way here and create a topic about u soon..lol..i bet u want to head butt me..kick me in the balls or slap me right now...lol..u better change and dont put ur future man thru hell and stop making ur present bf go thru hell...change..am waiting for ur insult..so i can fire back

I wanted to talk more but I think she has had the best advice from you. she needs serious help

Evaberry:
you are a MAn who is wicked and selfish

just because she refused to become your slave you tag her lazy.. you don't deserve her.
you even slapped her yet she didn't leave you.



you complain too much!!!!

your marriage palava is not our business or wahala.
.
we didn't fuvk her with you!!!!

who is this. you need to grow pls.

pls where is the location

pocohantas:
Of course...same way some ladies feel majority of guys cheat and are not trustworthy, so they have spare parts.
Make una sha dey use protection...

as much as I despise cheating in all its sense. I don't cheat as a person because I wouldn't want to put someone through something that would hurt me if done to me as well. But I have come to realise that most girls aren't faithful especially those in their late teens and early twenties, they believe they are still young and fresh and cos of the attention they get from guys. As it is to avoid cheating I only keep close relationship with female friends and I try making it very cordial. in that sense I avoid unnecessary depression. I have done that that a couple of times and it has helped me heal from such wounds.

pocohantas:
You advise guys to have spare girls?
And you're criticising someone for having her own spare guy.

You're hilarious.

you know girls this days makes it look nice and good when they treat you bad. it is justifiable I guess as you girls put it. well I seriously advice and that's my opinion, guys get a spare part cos most of them girls aren't satisfied with one guy. it might not be the case in every situation but majority of ladies are just that type the OP described

she just used you. guy my advice is to man up, get another girl, you are even lucky you are financially buoyant. this shows you that if you don't have as much cash she would never have been with you. she is not at loss. that is why I advice guys to always have a spare girl in place in case.

20CRATES:
Look well, he has a FLAT Cranial / Skull profile. Which can Only mean one thing..... He is I.G.B.O

https://c1.staticflickr.com/5/4242/35810969161_f7942c3ca4_z.jpg . .

oga you didn't study the head well

20CRATES:
Look well, he has a FLAT Cranial / Skull profile. Which can Only mean one thing..... He is I.G.B.O

https://c1.staticflickr.com/5/4242/35810969161_f7942c3ca4_z.jpg . .

oga you didn't study the head well

Gentle2015:
The one in Sagamu has gate

that thing here doesn't look much like a gate. more like they created an off-seen with it.

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now she got it. she has the money and husband no come dey. good for her search. one man wet go marry her now and in two years them go break up. she is even s fashionist.

Texas Rangers have apprehended a 92-year-old woman who was caught trying to smuggle no fewer than 20 kilos (44 lb) of cocaine at the American-Mexican border this week reports the San Antonio Chronicle.

Julia Maria Estrada Sanchez told authorities she was in fact on the CIA payroll and on a top-secret mission for the U.S. government.

Although her claims sounded outlandish at first, it was eventually confirmed that she had in fact worked in the U.S. Air Force as a pilot for over 22 years and had been an employee of the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) as well in the 1970s and 1980s.

“SHE CLAIMS SHE HAS SHIPPED HEROIN FOR THE CIA DURING THE VIETNAM WAR AND HAD SMUGGLED LARGE QUANTITIES OF COCAINE ABOARD PLANES DURING THE REAGAN ERA,” A LAREDO OFFICIAL TOLD REPORTERS.
A CIA spokesman has confirmed she had worked for the agency between 1972 and 1984 but has denied the Central Intelligence Agency ever participated in any drug smuggling operations.

Laredo Police Department Chief Ray Gardner says the woman is a U.S. citizen and has confirmed she has worked in the U.S. Air Force and at the Central Intelligence Agency at one time in her life.

SYMPTOMS OF DEMENTIA
The woman was immediately transported to the San Antonio Medical Center for psychological and medical evaluation as it seems she had been wandering in the desert for nearly 48 hours before being apprehended by Texas Rangers at the U.S.- Mexican border.

Doctors have confirmed Sanchez showed “clear symptoms of dementia and severe signs of dehydration” and has been put into an artificially-induced coma to prevent her from suffering from heart failure.

“SHE ALSO CLAIMED SHE HAD HAD AN AFFAIR WITH GEORGE H. W. BUSH SENIOR, THAT HE HAD HIRED HIS COUSIN TO ASSASSINATE RONALD REAGAN AND THAT HE WOULD BE EXTREMELY MAD TO HEAR ABOUT HER ARREST,” DR. STEVEN LIVINGSTON TOLD REPORTERS.

Julia Maria Estrada Sanchez could be facing up to 99 years in prison and/or a fine of not more than $250,000 for drug trafficking or distribution and the possession of more than 200 grams of cocaine according to the Texas Department of Criminal Justice, believe legal experts.

Effiezynews:
Introvert women are very sensual and romantic ..

too emotional as well. they easily do things you never expect they could and you will never notice. so secretive, I hate that part

Asito:
wife that does not complain and argue about every little thing, is that one wife?

you want someone that will complain and argue abt everything. your case is sorry

you are telling me to stay off nairaland

even the way they respond to bad occurrences is superb. like you are watching a scripted movie. so organised. I wonder if naija go reach like this

I got an invite from the company above. I don't know how real they are cos I don't want to go from Ogun to Lagos all for a waste of time and money. the address is CAPITAL EXPPRESS LTD, Presbyterian Church,Yaba,Lagos. Info:. Come with 2 Passports/CV

Shome36:
no Abuja not abuja

And what is your point here. Abuja will definitely be a dung cos all region will now focus on their regions with figure and technological advanvement. Abuja will only come to look Luke a village.