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[b][/b]Yes,yes nd yes again I will.I don't knw wat u guys mean by teaching o xcept it means showing him wat works 4 u cus even a stallion shuld knw dat wat works 4 one woman may not work 4 d oda.der r tins dat come natural nd sex is one of dem.abi wer u tot how to kiss?I believe it comes natural too.nd dose saying he may not knw wer to put hiz tin,I want to believe ur joking.a man is a virgin dosnt mean he knows notin abt sex/intimacy.he has just refused to practice it.

[quote author=Siena]April 16th. Aries. [/quote yippie so ur my bday mate.I knew it cus ur soo differnt.

Lol,coolest thread ave seen in a while,am sooo loving it.idowu,donald nd aluta,u guys won't kill sumbody o .hmm marthaking is one cool headed gurl.

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meine: @ Poster, your argument is faulty.

A girl who married as a virgin ended up that way because of two things. First she may have a high level of self control which she will also apply in her marriage. Secondly, some girls got married as a virgin because they didn't have the opportunity to be disvirgined.

This concept of tasting varieties coupled with greed is the root of unfaithfulness in marriage. A girl who lacks contentment and has tasted different guys will compare the current man to the ones she has had. If she has never had any would she bother?

My conclusion is virgin or no virgin only self control and contentment keeps people from misbehaving.

guy u've spoken my mind.thumbs up.I wonder 4 sum pple o.
This concept of tasting varieties coupled with greed is the root of unfaithfulness in marriage. A girl who lacks contentment and has tasted different guys will compare the current man to the ones she has had. If she has never had any would she bother?

I would say it should b done modrately or else,d child would get used to it nd become worse

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]Ill explain

There was a time when women were expected only to take care of their family. Those days, having a career or simply being ambitious was almost unheard of for a women. However, the time has changed. Women are now in the work place, political offices, CEO, and successful business owners. But, most men still think that a women's role is to take care of her family, or if she has a job, the men has to control the money because he is man.

For example, there is this couple that know that got divorce because of the male superiority propaganda thats reinforced by religion. The lady was an accountant for a big hospital here, she was an expert with handling money, she knew how to spend, when to spend, and how to save money. But the husband was just a register nurse and was kinda clueless about handling money. The husband insisted that he should be in-charge of the money because he is the man of the house even though he has no clue how to handle money....The lady tried to explain to him that she understand that hes the man of the house but she should handle the finances because that's her job...shes an expert at it....well needless to say...the marriage didn't work.....IF YOUR WIFE IS AN ACCOUNTANT COMMON SENSE SHOULD TELL YOU TO LET HER HANDLE THE HOUSE FINANCES

MEN ARE NOT EVOLVING FAST ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE WORLDS HAS CHANGED....WOMEN ARE NOT SLAVES, A MEN MUST HELP COOK, CLEAN, TAKE CARE OF THE BABY, AND MAKE MONEY...BECAUSE WOMEN ARE DOING THIS SAME THING.... IT SOUNDS STRANGE BUT THIS IS THE REALITY.[/quote]1000000+likes.tnk God men like u still exist.bt it dosnt mean women should fosake their primary assignment sha

Congrats Op,ave bin following silently.c how almost everybody concluded dat he isn't d fada.hmm its gud to cum to NL for advice o bt my dear,persin gats chill,c how tins go turn out.cus if u listen to sum pple mouth,u go just die 4 notin nd dey go still con chop ur burial rice.

the only difference is that the woman confessed. The woman is here talking about how she has saw similar catalogs from her husband's phone and he even beat her up when she confront him.

They are both cheats. The woman is just silly enough to admit it.[/quote]WORD.they r both cheats.whyme(husband) wants a divorce,whyme(wife) haz accepted.waitin remain again?abeg make we hear word

@op,I realy want to commend ur maturity in repying to these posts.azz in,am surprised.kip it up babe.seriously ur one of a kind cus many nairalanders wuldnt b dis cool in their reply.I dnt even trust myself to b dis calm.gurl,u have a rare atitude,hold it tight.I dey envy u. [Btw..am following u sharp sharp

marvelous abah: i wuld lyk to hav d taste of it so dat my belle go dey ping 2.

abi,laf wan kill me die

Na wa o,y r u guys hating on her?abeg free her joor,if e easy,go marry tu face now.its bin a tough journey nd finally she got him.I tink she haz d right to make all d noise in d world.una say she ugly bt hin like am like dat.

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Well,I tink its none of them bt she luks more like julliet sha

bukatyne: What do you call long courtship?

There is no blanket for all cases.

I meant my fiancé when we were in 100L,

Whether we like it or not, we must date for at least 5yrs (4yrs in school and 1yr NYSC)

let's say we are extremely lucky and we get jobs the day we get our NYSC discharge certificate. Then, we would work at least for a year b/4 we can get married... that's 6yrs. (If there is a delay for one or more year b/4 getting jobs, it increases our courtship years more.)

We were lucky and got jobs 1year after service... We are currently in year 7 and will get married in year 8 by God's grace.

There are however some obvious time wasters especially when both or the man has started working before they meet.

]wow ur relatnshp is realy cool.ur case is diff.I tink d lady was talking abt relationships wer the guy is comfortable financially 4 marraige.nd even if hiz nt,d girl shuld knw if hiz going to marry her wen hiz financially ok.u probably stayed wit ur man cus u both loved each other nd u knew he loved u enof to marry u.wishn u d best in dat relatnship jare,its nt easy

Well,I tink dez a difference bitween I love u nd am in love with u.eg..u can love ur mum/sister/friends/brother etc bt u can't b in love with them.so a friend of d oposite sex can say "I love u" nd it will mean d normal love

Kgdavid: behold the root cause of your problem broda. your wife is threatened by your friend and probably feels exposed and thereby degraded; that yu seek his advice so much probably makes her feel less important cuz thats a role every good wife wants to play(and shuld play) plus seeking his advice on her when yu feel she is misbehaving, turns him into an enemy for her. believe me women take all these so important and not just any old woman at that but your wife.

there is no 100% win/win here cuz either way someone is gonna get hurt at least a little but its a no brainer that your wife shuld be more important than your friend and if she is not then yu shuldnt have married her in the first place but thats another topic for another day. if yu want to save your home you must:

1. find out exactly why your wife is upset and even if she is acting calm right now she is definitely upset. probe her a little and the flood-gates will open up to reveal the source of her hurt.

2. i'm sure that the issues i listed above are at least part of the problem in her mind so therefore when she opens up be prepared. this your friend must cease to become YOUR friend alone but rather your FAMILY friend. make sure you, your wife, your friend and his wife (if he has one) do something together like have dinner or just visit each other. let the tie between you and him extend to your families as well. if she sees him as a friend too, then half the problem is solved.

you must also make her feel that no matter how much you talk to him, she is still more important in your life. you would be making a big mistake for example if yu go talk to him about an issue before talking to your wife about it even if that is his field. little things make a big difference in relationships.

good luck

p.s im not sure discussing your wife with your friend is a really good idea. you are exposing her weakness to someone she is not close to so even if he is your bro from another mother this is a form of betrayal to her. she's your wife mann, unless what she has done is really too much to bear then keep it indoors plz. and if it is too much then yu realy shuldnt have married her but again thats another topic for another day.

10000+likes.op,I tink u shuld take dis advice nd save ur marraige.ur wife nd family shuld cum first or u shuld hav remained single nd giv ur friend an undivided attention.

:opeeps r still on dis matter??dats serious o.I tink it all boils down to if ur guy worths it.wat works for u may not work 4 anoda relationship.as somebody sed,d dyanamics of every relationship is different.so girls,if hiz a gud guy,do it all d way.bt if hiz nt worth it(its ur relationship nd u knw how)den.....I rest my case o

@idowu...I dunno y sumhow I feel I shuld apologise to u so my apologies plzzz.its nt nice making enemies with pple u don't knw.bt u sure r very insultive though.wateva sha

Anywayssss,u have all d space on this thread to rant nd pour ur gutter out.have d nicest day eva

Idowuogbo: I take offence o! U animal! Only reptiles like yourself generalise and include d no offence comment to seem innocent. Swine! C'mon get bck into dat hole u crawled out from. Ewu Managata wiv no oblangata! Fevking IDIOTA!

its good to know I got into ur skin sooo much dat u culdnt hold ur running,porous mouth.irritating maggot

Idowuogbo: I take offence o! U animal! Only reptiles like yourself generalise and include d no offence comment to seem innocent. Swine! C'mon get bck into dat whole u crawled out from. Ewu Managata wiv no oblangata! Fevking IDIOTA!

eiyaaa,ur sooo pathetic.r u done

Caracta: I said i can help out once in a while. I can't leave my house, go live with him and do his cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc. all day of the week, 24 hours in a day. He comes back from work and ask for more 'chores' at night. Ontop wetin? Am i his wife? No ring? No bride price? What remains when we get married? Nothing new. And what if the relationship hit the rocks?
Haba! Kilode? I guess i'll have to resign from work too. To be a full girlfriend or unmarried housewife.

@caracta,ur on point jare.its probably only yoruba girls dat are taught to b housegirls in their husbands house dat wuld stat d job even before he proposes.*no offence o*@yoruba girls

Lwkmd...r u guys sure hiz nt gay?

I wonder o.seriously,I dunno wat dis world is turning into.nd d husband won't even bother

[quote author=gabriel212]Waste of resources is SHE the only virgin in camp? y cant they extend it to other virgin in camp? or the preaching in our Church n Mosque not ok to uphold moral right?
If the Gov mean to work let him tel Sen Bala Mohammed that the proposed 5billion for renovation of commercial s*x in Abuja is arrant nonsense.[/quote wats ur own?didn't u read dat she registered for d contest?oda virgins didn't want to contest now.anyway,haters r just gonna hate

[quote author=Flygerian.]Hey, don't get me started, girl.

For me coming here to say all these nasty things, u should have known that I've been there and done that. It's as boring as the word BORING![/quote]tnk heavens u knw uve bin sayin nasty tins.nd I seriously tink uve made ur point so y dnt u just end it nd quit saying nasty tins?

Rukemi291: Flygerian, i wonder the kind of ladies you date or the kind of ladies that date you.SMH.
May God bless you with a village virgin that is absolutely not exposed. You will be her first boyfriend and you will be the one to show her where to put your troublesome 'stuff', and you will live happily ever after. AMEN.

190, sincerely, if we have more men that think like you, 70% of ladies will remain virgins till their wedding night. Thumbs up for u ojare

tnx sis,ur on point.dnt mind them.am sure he goes out wit hiz type of girls.u knw,wen pple can't have sumtin,they tend to discourage odas 4rm goin 4 it.

Ucheosefoh: baby gal are u a virgin ?

dosnt matter.am just pissed @ d way he throws hiz trash abt dose girls with reckless abandon

[quote author=Flygerian.]Omo, it's 2:25AM Sunday morning, and I'm still awake discussing dis lame virginity thread. Make I sleep prepare for church 2moro on time jare. Unu gudnyt! *except the virgin pu-c's*[/quote]did d virgins tell u dat dey nid u to wish dem a gud nyt?ur just soo pathetic

@flygarian,I dnt blame u sha ur just talking 4rm ur own perspective.probably bcus uve neva bin oportuned to sleep wit a virgin.uve made ur point nd I tink dats enof.u dnt have to go talkin trash abt virgins.dey made their chioce soo respect it.