Sports › Re: Caption This Photo Of Ronaldo And Neymar At The Best FIFA Awards by MissJoy29(f): 11:38am On Oct 24, 2017 |
kenostika: The coach of Brazil voted for Ronaldo,just love how civilized humans do things.Merit rules over sentiments or nepotism. Exactly...I like this. |
Romance › Re: Guys, What Other Things Do You Want In A Relationship Aside Sex? by MissJoy29(f): 7:00pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Man And His Burka Wearing Lady At A Beach In The North (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 1:22pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
sirBLUNT: yeah i play it proffesionally,and am pretty sure am goimg to beat him next time..thanks for making my day... That's wonderful. Well done. Sure you will. I'm rooting for you. You are welcome |
Romance › Re: Man And His Burka Wearing Lady At A Beach In The North (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 1:05pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
sirBLUNT: nah i had a nightmare of my friend beating me in the game of chess...he actually did in reality am yet to get over it but am good nw after talking wit my crush.... Eeyah! Sorry about it. You will beat him next time. You play it professionally? I'm glad I helped cheer you up. |
Romance › Re: Man And His Burka Wearing Lady At A Beach In The North (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 12:56pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
sirBLUNT: sure dear..hope u slept well? Yes I did. You? |
Romance › Re: Man And His Burka Wearing Lady At A Beach In The North (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 12:44pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
sirBLUNT: lol...no hun! because i wana see cute face and nt ur overall dress... Good. That's settled then.  |
Romance › Re: Man And His Burka Wearing Lady At A Beach In The North (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 12:29pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
sirBLUNT: this could be me and my crush missjoy29,but am sure she can never dress lyk this... Lol....do you want me to dress like that for you?  |
Health › Re: Poultry Directly Beside A Creche,please Help!!! by MissJoy29(f): 9:46pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Divay22: Then she had to choose between her baby's health and her job.. Not forgetting that when the baby gets ill from perceiving those offensive smell, she's still use the money to run her around...
Prevention is better than cure... She'll get another job, let her leave.. Her baby comes first. Exactly! . Let her leave. |
Health › Re: Poultry Directly Beside A Creche,please Help!!! by MissJoy29(f): 7:17pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Divay22: Let her take her baby to another creche na.. Prevention is better than cure pls. Most school owners do not allow their staff to take their babies to another crèche. |
Romance › Re: 10 Ways Men Behave When Their Heart Isn't Really With You by MissJoy29(f): 11:09am On Oct 22, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: GBAM @ And the vicious cycle continues.
CORRECT @ They will continue jumping from one partner to another looking for something they have helped destroy a long time ago. When they are tired, they settle down in marriage and even get worse....They choose to settle for less at thispoint mind you...
Awareness? How will that happen when no one believes he /she has a problem? For us ladies, we are always on the receiving end. Almost always, we are the ones at fault. If you try to talk, the men will say you are being stubborn, not submissive and highly opinionated. Lol.
Now asper awareness, men are too difficult to believe they don't have issues, it gets more problematic, no disrespect to you my lady, but ladies have a god complex, correct them na war...I believe and i maintain that just like in the garden of eden, where Adam and Eve almost looked like there were the guilty parties, that both the males and the females are the victim of something beyond us, first we are at the mercy of the sore relationships many of our parents suffer, secondly, the communication between male and female are constantly conflicted, if we look beyond the gender lines, i believe common sense is adequate to tutor us in what's right and what's wrong, and if we're not proud to embrace correction, we can improve...
To deal with the problem cause i hate to identify problems withour proferring solutions, we need what i call chiseling, sharpening.Our rough edges have to be trimmed. Coupls should submit to chiseling through life experiences like watching similar movies, going for counseling together, attending the same motivational,churches to get fed the same nutrition for the soul to balance the rough/sharp edges, if this is done, even a 40% compatibility would fix the rough edges....The process helps both party identify where they are on the map, what's needed to be added, and shows the strength and the weaknesses of the individual souls in the matrix... If we're tolerant and accept we have weakness and want to deal with them, i don't see any demon that would stand against such a relationship....THIS POINT IS NOT COMPLETELY ILLUSTRATED, MY SOUL TELLS ME THIS...IN FACT I TYPED IN A HURRY
You don't sound like a feminist to me but a realist, trust me, if you're a feminist, with this mindset, i like you...Your head dey there... Surprisingly, I just came across this. I was looking for something & discovered I didn't reply this. My apologies sir... A lot of men are too arrogant to accept they are at fault. They prefer the easy way out: the blame game. It all started from Adam. Instead of accepting the fact that they both sinned by eating the apple, he was quick to blame Eve for giving him the fruit. I do wonder if she forced him to eat it. On the other hand like you said, some ladies feel too big & too intelligent to be corrected. But we all shouldn't forget that there's a WHAT, a HOW & a WHEN to correct. Missing one might affect the way the recipient receives the message. I like what you said about common sense being adequate to tutor us on what's wrong & right. That's the answer! Common sense. As human beings, we make mistakes. It's normal. But we shouldn't behave like animals by repeating the same mistakes and not wanting to improve. @trimming our rough edges, let me come back again to the men. You mentioned stuffs the two parties can do to chisel and sharpen and trim the rough edges like attending seminars together, watching similar movies etc. Now I can tell you that a lot of men believe that all they need to get married is money. Nothing else. They are not prepared emotionally, Spiritually, psychologically and mentally. That's why you see more women reading relationship/marriage books, attending seminars and listening to messages on them. I have a few male friends who reason this way. For some of them, you could see a high level of immaturity written all over them but they constantly keep waiting for money to come so they can go marry someone who probably has been preparing herself all along. I don't see how such union will have a smooth ride. My solution: the earlier we realise that just as we have our area of strengths,so do we also have our area of weaknesses, the better for us. We should only try to find someone whose strength covers our weaknesses. A union with people who reason like this, will be exemplary and stress-free. I'm a die-hard realist. I'm also practical, unbiased and try not to attach sentiments to some issues. Thanks for the compliment. I don't like to be tagged a feminist cos of the negative meanings attached to it. What I only clamour for is fairness. Be fair in your dealings & relationship with people both with & as a man or woman. Happy Sunday. Hope you went to Church. Have a wonderful day ahead. |
Romance › Re: Guys, What Other Things Do You Want In A Relationship Aside Sex? by MissJoy29(f): 10:13am On Oct 22, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: What Does It Take To Win Your Heart ? by MissJoy29(f): 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2017*. Modified: 10:54pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
Be a good conversationalist Be intelligent Be kind Be drama-free(guys aren't even supposed to be dramatic & complicating abeg). Otherwise It's a huge turn-off Be fair & not hypocritical Be a good listener & understanding Be caring & generous Be mature & open-minded Be open, sincere & honest
and you've won my heart... |
Celebrities › Re: Mention The Finest Girls On Nairaland - I Choose Sinaj by MissJoy29(f): 3:28pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 11:23pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 11:15pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: I only saw your message, 'Hi I am online now' . hmmm... |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 11:02pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 10:54pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: Pls check your email.  why don't we both check. You will be suprised. |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 10:44pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: Thought you'd drop few lines on my email but you rather directed me back here No I didn't direct you here. |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 10:37pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: Looking for you everywhere. hmmmm...seriously? Now you have found me.  |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 5:33pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
alexialin: Awww thanks dear 
Trust me all women are not the same.
I choose to be accommodating and understanding cause am not God and I don't even own myself. There is a higher being incharge of my well-being and existence, who controls me to be good, easygoing, loving and attentive. Who I am to against? Then choose my will power to become otherwise ? Nah.
Smiles but thanks for the compliments.
You are a good guy  I agree with you... Even though a lot of people take people that are nice for granted & see them as naive, weak & good to be ridden on, it's still good to be nice & accommodating. Reasons are that apart from the fact that being uncultured is an ugly character trait, you might never know who the person you are insulting unnecessarily & without cause is. |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 5:19pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: Are you still studying, what do you do?
Please pardon my curiosity if my questions become uncomfortable for you, I only want to know you better... friendship if you don't mind.  I will answer the questions but not here. |
Celebrities › Re: Whisper Amanda Edochie Graduates From The University (Pictures) by MissJoy29(f): 9:55am On Oct 18, 2017 |
tens4real: its not a compliment its NATURAL! good morning! Thanks anyway. Have a great day ahead. |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 9:21am On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: Only wanted to know...simple.  Hmmm...ok. And to answer your question, NO. |
Celebrities › Re: Whisper Amanda Edochie Graduates From The University (Pictures) by MissJoy29(f): 7:20am On Oct 18, 2017 |
tens4real: hav never been real like dis before...she is so cute lyk u am gud though,how is you? Awwwwwww....I'm blushing here even though I'm chocolate in complexion. I'm good, thank you. You? Goodmorning. |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 6:26am On Oct 18, 2017 |
omooba969: I only feel there are many more places to discover between us but if you choose to ignore, I guess it's the easiest way out.
I find you interesting though, maybe with time you will feel the need to answer my initial question.  I will only answer if you tell me why you asked in the first place..... |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 10:40pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
omooba969: Sup?  cool...you? So you have decided to drop your shenanigans? |
Celebrities › Re: Whisper Amanda Edochie Graduates From The University (Pictures) by MissJoy29(f): 10:37pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tens4real: she looks like missjoy29 Lol...are you for real? She doesn't o. How have you been? Goodevening |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 5:37pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
omooba969: I will eventually marry you so you better drop this shenanigans ok.  Lol |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 4:29pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 2:06pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
omooba969: I often wonder what is there to profit from not being pleasant. We do miss alot really.  Trust me this is not about being unpleasant. Did you follow our chat? Do you think you communicated well? I was still trying to tell you indirectly that your question was inappropriate especially as it came without an explanation as to why you asked and coming from a stranger too. You were still busy trolling me. Next thing is asking me to pm you if I care. Is that how to even hold a conversation. And you think that was me being unpleasant? Have you not experienced tongue lashing here before even without a cause? Then maybe you can differentiate. |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 11:38am On Oct 17, 2017 |
omooba969: If you care to pm me plz kindly do so... let's talk.  If I care to pm you? Really? Why should I care? |
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Love Your Current Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by MissJoy29(f): 7:57am On Oct 17, 2017 |
omooba969: Ok no vex, bye.  You are kidding right? Bye too |