FlyingTOMATOE:
this

FlyingTOMATOE:
it's a life of choices.

Are you above 30?

FlyingTOMATOE:
congratulations in advance.

of course

Age: 28
Location: kwara
Occupation: A poet, Content Writer, Graphics Designer, theologian and an agricultural enthusiast
Religion: in between Agnostic and atheism
Genotype: AS
Relationship status:
Person of romantic interest: female,educated, , above 30 , be pretty, nice height and be playful. (other things will fall in place)

Hobbies[/b]script writing, football, and long distance jogging
[b]What are you looking for and in what time frame: 1000 spoons when all you need is a KNIFE
Dislikes/exclusion criteria: lack of foresight

Obdk:


Airtel is d second fastest network after mtn.

Airtel ve d widest 4g coverage in Nigeria

Explorers:


Ive not seen Narcos, but that El Chapo is shocking.

Explorers:

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cococandy:




The cognitive discombobulation of it all

Obdk:


For the 1500 i recharged to subscribe. I was given bonus of 4500.. I dont. Make calls with the sim.. As for the data. Most people on nairaland re ignorant how smartphone works. As long as u keep visiting Instagram and videos. ur data will keep zapping

Someone will subscribe 1gb fiam e dey YouTube go dey view HD videos maybe 20 mins video like 200mb

Angelfrost:
Honestly... I don't quite get why most philandering men expect their wives to be faithful (some even demand it)...

Some men even cheat with married women, yet take serious exceptions to their own wives doing the same... It's hilariously silly.

Karma and I are having a serious laugh.

Obdk:



I just subscribed now.

Herevis everything i got for 1500


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Obdk:


I use airtel 1500 6gb for a month

felzylix:

He isn't lying.
It's an offer that's accessible for the first 3months of buying a new sim or upgrading to 4g sim.
I'm using it.

Ibrahim505:
I used N1500 monthly to get 6gb (3g + 3g bonus) I am using mtn pulse.

dominique:


Really? I didn't know about that. They may not practice the same doctrines as the American Mormons though

Jimmy17:
Hi, so I recently gained admission into the University of Ibadan and I've been thinking of a way to support myself...I was thinking of going into mining because of the vast mineral resources in the state but I heard mining is very capital intensive and highly risky..can anyone help me out with tips and pointers to get started??

Thanks in advance

tenmariner:
I am a living example of a victim of TWO powerful heartbreaks..
First one; I was serving and she was in her penultimate year in d uni..The love was boiling in me like an active volcano.. In short, the love I had for her was more than the one expressed by Ramsey, Jim iyke, and mike ezeronye combined together. Along the line, her dad died and she wanted to drop out of sch. I had to take up d responsibility of EVERY of her schooling expenses.Also placed her on a monthly salary even while serving cos I was working in a ministry and in a private hospital at the same time..her rent expired and I rented a new apartment for her, furnished it in my own little way.. am a living example of a victim of TWO power
First one; I was serving and she was in her penultimate year in d uni..The love is boiling in me like an active volcano.. In short, the love I had for her was more than the one expressed by Ramsey, Jim iyke, and mike ezeronye combined together. Along the line, her dad died and she wanted to drop out of sch. I had to take up d responsibility of EVERY of her schooling, registered her in an event and decoration training school during her holiday..still, I never knew she was dating one guy and even invited him to the house I rented and he spent 3 days there. Everything was revealed to me wen I stumbled on her Facebook in box..her Fone got damaged so I collected it and gave her mine. It was until I repaired the Fone that everything got revealed.. How she got pregnant for the guy and arboted it. How she joked with the guy that I am her ATM card..I screenshot the info and sent it to her..she felt like dying.
I left the relationship without saying a word..Her brother begged me, her mum did the same..I didn't tell them what their daughter did
Last year, we got chatting again and I asked her abt the guy, she said he usually beat her, he borrowed all her savings, sold his uncle's office and use the proceed to travel to Libya thru Niger.. Currently she complained to me that her new boyfriend hardly show care to her..she is 28 now and her mum has started mounting pressure on her to get married..




Second lady was a year after I left the first one..
It took me time to start a relationship with her.. We were so close but I was scared of a relationship. It got to a point I asked her out and she after some time succumbed. After a month, I noticed she wasn't into the relationship so I backed off immediately.. Then she met me and pleaded for acting that way..I explained to her what I experienced and I donnot want a similar one..She promised and gave assurance..
After a year, she started acting cold. I was transferred to Abuja from LAGOS..I will take flight to go see her every weekend, give her up keep cash, got her into a computer training school, got her a laptop to quicken her learning, Sometimes, take night bus to lag..until her friend revealed to me she was already dating one guy in the company I helped her secure a job..I felt devastated.. She wasn't remorse.. I remember taking a bottle or jact Daniel weeping like a child all because I wanted to love and care..
I lost so many things in time and value during this period. Some I haven't been able to recover.
I wish dem well, but I have learnt a GREAT lesson in life.

sirBLUNT:
still?

KevMitnick:

Nope, a simple reply of "Happy new month to you too" won't harm you na. , instead of that answer you gave.

KevMitnick:

Be nice

praz001:
I thought all was gone... until I realised I wasn't the only one to have had such experience.

After so much care financially, academically together with her siblings....

prepare meal and take it to her work place only for her to tell me it isnt so tasty and I should have fried it deep and add enough seasoning even when every other person who tasted it were like this good is really tasty.... huuuuun!!!

I never knew I was just wasting my time and she want even satisfied until I got the greatest surprise of my life on 15th March 2019.....

But guys! now, I have extra peace of mind after she got pregnant for another guy... My data sharing is saved, my cash and even gift to her siblings , calling for airtime is saved...

she will always flash me daily..

****Let's always read the signs. Those who never appreciate little things you do for them and who will always have one financial problem or another are terrible

sirBLUNT:
happy new month

sholay2011:

Yes. she tried. Toni Tones was better though.

NiCurious:
Look, avoiding cheating is not only about being honest with your partner(s), it's about being honest with yourselves--before anything happens. Before getting deep into a relationship. Before getting married. I think a lot of people never discuss how they will handle things as a couple, if one partner is attracted to someone else.

A lot of people take marriage vows without an understanding of their own nature, nor giving their natures due weight and consideration, and thus deal with the fallout later on. Marriage vows themselves seem not to account for human nature. And premarital counselling...how many couples have gone for this, and not just followed a script for marriage written by someone else...with the expectation that marriage will magically fulfill their needs--socially, sexually, emotionally, financially? How many people know their own needs deeply, never mind their partner's? How many people have made allowance for the changing needs of themselves and their spouse?

This is not to justify cheating. It's to point out that what makes cheating, cheating, is that one partner is going against their original agreement with the other partner, whatever that was. How many couples discuss what they will do, if one of them is attracted to another person? Absence of meaningful communication leads to lies, secrets, and distancing of the couple from each other. It manifests in BS such as the following:

1. S/he seduced me. Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions.
2. S/he didn't mean anything to me. Translation: And you don't mean all that much to me, either.
3. It was the devil's handiwork. Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions.
4. I didn't want to do it, but... Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions.
5. It was never my intention to hurt you. Translation: I snuck around so you wouldn't find out.
6. It only happened once. Translation: Once is almost never, right?
7. You are the one I truly love. Translation: But we don't communicate, don't understand one another, and don't fully trust each other.

How many married people on this forum have the trust built within their marriage, to freely discuss their attraction to others, with their spouse? How many of you have an agreement with your spouse, on how you will handle such attractions? How many of you have a strong enough marriage that you would trust your spouse on a date with someone else, and not feel that your marriage was threatened?

m140:

Question

m140:

You never cheated