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|Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by MissJoy29(f): 4:27pm On Nov 28|
The irony of it all will be if you eventually leave her & you both marry other people only for her to give birth & your wife won't.
So the question is, "how are you sure the next person will conceive?
It's really an odd world where strange things are happening. Marry her if you love her enough. You might be pleasantly surprised.
|Health / Re: Your Newborn Baby's Birth Weight by MissJoy29(f): 10:20pm On Nov 26|
Kukutente23:I don't understand. What's not true?
|Health / Re: Your Newborn Baby's Birth Weight by MissJoy29(f): 5:39pm On Nov 15|
It's also important to note that babies who have normal weight gain lose some of the weight over the next few days & weeks after birth but then quickly cover up & start gaining more weight. This is pretty normal.
The next appointment with the doctor after birth should tell you whether your baby is adding weight or not. Be sure to find out.
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|Phones / Re: Does Phone Brand Determine The Amount Of Data It Consumes? by MissJoy29(f): 8:26am On Sep 24|
nomolos92:Says who? You enabled it like that.
|Food / Re: Food: Whose Place Would You Visit? by MissJoy29(f): 11:24am On Jul 27|
SenatePresdo:Those are chunks of boneless chicken.
Good old vegetable curry sauce
|Food / Re: Is This Fact About Boiled/roasted Corn True? by MissJoy29(f): 4:20pm On Jul 26|
Same thing with akara & bole sellers.
|Properties / Re: Who is to blame here? Me or my landlord by MissJoy29(f): 6:13pm On Jul 13|
We recharge 5k in my house & we use it with heavy weight appliances ma(all you can think of) & it still pass 15 days. Infact, the last one we recharged have passed 15 days & approaching 1 month.
Then, we pay 2000 a month in the compound for each flat for water.
I admit we don't have up to 20 hours light in a day but the trick about prepaid is not to be wasteful. How? If your fridge or freezer for example freezes sufficiently, turn it off for a while. Turn off unnecessary lights in the house especially in the day. I monitor what I use & how I use it & it's works perfectly for me.
Now imagine if I use only TV & fan & lights, you can imagine how long i will use 7k units.
There are other factors too to consider:
1) Op has constant light more than us so we also use a little generator especially in the evenings if there are no lights & that's money for fuel.
2) Some people work remotely from the house & so can leave appliances like AC/fan, TV, Dstv/Gotv/Dvd/Video games etc on for longer periods than people who go out & turn off those appliances.
3) Some people live in places that are dark even in the day & are not properly ventilated so they have to leave lights & AC/fan on for longer periods of time.
But on average & aside these special factors, if you are not wasteful, you won't spend so much on prepaid & I think it's still better than postpaid.
(Depending on where you live sha).
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Has Anyone Received Offer Letter From Teach For Nigeria (TFN) by MissJoy29(f): 7:50pm On Jun 26|
DOE007:Oh....that's great o!
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Has Anyone Received Offer Letter From Teach For Nigeria (TFN) by MissJoy29(f): 12:16pm On Jun 26|
It's not a scam. I know about it but didn't know they were hiring.
|Religion / Re: There Shall Be New Nigeria’, Pastor Adeboye Optimistic, Composes New Song by MissJoy29(f): 12:33pm On May 30|
The song is not new na. We have even done it before...
Either in Rccg or Aba City Prayer Project.
|Romance / Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Career Lady by MissJoy29(f): 11:53am On May 27|
tojahh:Office jobs or house chores?
|Romance / Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Career Lady by MissJoy29(f): 11:43am On May 27|
grandstar:This is a warped reasoning. You think people work just for the money? Haven't you seen rich people with fat accounts that still go to work? Haven't you seen wives of rich men that still make money for themselves? Some people just want to be engaged.
If you had said "quit the stressful work" & maybe establish a business so they can devote more time to the home or work remotely, I would have understood. Even though there are business women that are even busier than the so called career women.
Have you thought about what will happen tomorrow if the rich husband dies without putting his house in order, or inlaws take everything from the wife & children or deny them access? Will she still be living like the wife of a rich husband or be stranded?
Biko as a woman, no matter how small, make & have your own money. E get why.
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|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: If You Were Him, What Would You Do? by MissJoy29(f): 7:41am On May 25|
skyoboy:I like the last part.
For me, I will try & help him without him having to stay in my house or even knowing where I work. That's the best I can do.
That you want to forgive someone doesn't mean you be insensitive & let your guard down. I will not abandon him or pay him back in his coin but I refuse to be foolish & careless with him especially in a faraway & strange land.
|Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 6:17pm On May 24|
|Romance / Re: Lady Tracks Down Husband's Sidechick & Retrieves The Benz He Bought For Her (vid by MissJoy29(f): 10:17pm On May 23|
Sonnobax15:I wanted to reply you but decided that my peace of mind & sanity is more important & engaging in a discussion or argument with you on this will threaten those
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 8:28am On May 23|
We lack a lot of virtues in this country.
No one forced you to taks up the job. If the pay isn't good for you & you don't like the terms & conditions of service, don't accept in the first place or leave when you are tired. But don't misbehave because you want to drive home a point that is not in your place to. I have rejected job offers before. But accepting & then start complaining immediately & acting up shows I'm very irresponsible, childish & even senseless.
We still have a long way to go in this nation. Our mentality is so warped.
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 8:21am On May 23|
zikter:I had even removed the LIE part before I saw your reply.
But yes, I don't know of any office that will issue warnings & queries even with this offense when it's just the first week of resumption & where, unfortunately, the boss is always around and sees it.
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 7:52am On May 23|
LARRYOBRAIN:What's the relevance & relationship between her conduct & attitude to work and the questions you asked above?
The ONLY valid question in light of the things you wrote above is, "did she accept the offer letter that has the terms or work & her pay?
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 7:42am On May 23|
zikter:No matter how structured a company is, there are some things you will do & no one will have time to give you queries and warnings. It's OUTRIGHT sack!
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 7:39am On May 23|
lopeshola:You will be surprised how much she will take it for granted or even misinterpret it if the boss were to act all concerned & caring. Remember we are talking about the first 5 days of resumption here o.
If she were to be a good & responsible employee from the beginning & then along the line she started declining in her input, then I will somehow fault the employer for not showing concern.
Again, you need to be wise to decipher when something is chronic & deliberate & when it's not intentional. If it's the former, she will probably not apologize first until the boss confronts her, not make efforts to change & will not care. And we saw that. For the interview, she was 2 hours late & the first day of resumption, almost 3 hours late. And I'm sure if the boss had come early on the other 3 days, he would have discovered she came late for the 5 days.
But if it's the latter, she will feel bad & remorseful, will apologize to the boss first, make genuine & tangible efforts to change & probably open up to the boss if there's anything outside the office causing her to act that way.
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 7:27am On May 23|
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Experience With A Lady I Hired And Fired Last Week by MissJoy29(f): 7:21am On May 23|
Or11:Both you & the 130 people liking your comment are not informed. Go & read up, make inquiries, ask questions or even come to me for information then come back and amend your statement.
Sue him indeed!
|Celebrities / Re: Tchidi Chikere Mourns Saint Obi by MissJoy29(f): 11:24am On May 14|
C2Ok:Emeka Ike is just passing
|Business / Re: How To Differentiate A Fake Transfer From An Original One by MissJoy29(f): 3:00pm On Feb 08|
I've never heard of number 5 before.
|Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 7:28am On Jan 06|
stevenson007:Looking for me?
We know each other?
|Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 7:58pm On Jan 05|
vickydevoka:I don't understand how "MANY MARRIAGES" mean "many women".
So na only woman dey dey inside marriage?
You just want to turn this into female bashing conversation & you want me, a female to join you?
|Family / Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 11:48am On Jan 05|
He is very right...I have come to understand this a long time ago. Given the opportunity, a lot of people will not:
A) remain in their marriages. They will walk.
B) re-choose their partner again if there's another life.
Even our mothers that the men of this age want us to emulate are not left out.
|Nairaland / General / Re: Happy New Year 2023 Nairalanders by MissJoy29(f): 11:07am On Jan 04|
cassyrooy:Thanks hun...and I wish you your heart desires!
|Romance / Re: Will A Man Know If I Tell Him I'm A Virgin While I'm Not? by MissJoy29(f): 11:06am On Jan 04|
Nicepoker:The world has changed sir. Nowadays, there are virgin mothers cos it's VERY possible. I hope you know how
|Family / Re: My Dead Neighbour by MissJoy29(f): 12:26pm On Dec 28, 2022|
|Family / Re: My Dead Neighbour by MissJoy29(f): 2:48pm On Dec 16, 2022|
pretydiva:Nne that's the mystery of what happened: the fact that his friend had died before OP saw him.
|Crime / Re: With One Year Left To Live And Spend 8 Billion , Yahoo Boy Becomes Apprehensive by MissJoy29(f): 10:32pm On Dec 10, 2022|
Barims:I RATHER means you haven't done it...
So what are you waiting for?
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