That's how an unfortunate one told me he hasn't had sex since he relocated from the west to the east 2 years ago. Only for me to find out the retard was married with 3 children and they all live together.

I have seen liars & promiscuous men but that Y demon's own topped the charts!

NiCurious:
Look, avoiding cheating is not only about being honest with your partner(s), it's about being honest with yourselves--before anything happens. Before getting deep into a relationship. Before getting married. I think a lot of people never discuss how they will handle things as a couple, if one partner is attracted to someone else.

A lot of people take marriage vows without an understanding of their own nature, nor giving their natures due weight and consideration, and thus deal with the fallout later on. Marriage vows themselves seem not to account for human nature. And premarital counselling...how many couples have gone for this, and not just followed a script for marriage written by someone else...with the expectation that marriage will magically fulfill their needs--socially, sexually, emotionally, financially? How many people know their own needs deeply, never mind their partner's? How many people have made allowance for the changing needs of themselves and their spouse?

This is not to justify cheating. It's to point out that what makes cheating, cheating, is that one partner is going against their original agreement with the other partner, whatever that was. How many couples discuss what they will do, if one of them is attracted to another person? Absence of meaningful communication leads to lies, secrets, and distancing of the couple from each other. It manifests in BS such as the following:

1. S/he seduced me. Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions.
2. S/he didn't mean anything to me. Translation: And you don't mean all that much to me, either.
3. It was the devil's handiwork. Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions.
4. I didn't want to do it, but... Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions.
5. It was never my intention to hurt you. Translation: I snuck around so you wouldn't find out.
6. It only happened once. Translation: Once is almost never, right?
7. You are the one I truly love. Translation: But we don't communicate, don't understand one another, and don't fully trust each other.

How many married people on this forum have the trust built within their marriage, to freely discuss their attraction to others, with their spouse? How many of you have an agreement with your spouse, on how you will handle such attractions? How many of you have a strong enough marriage that you would trust your spouse on a date with someone else, and not feel that your marriage was threatened?

Nice!


At your last paragraph, that's a recipe for disaster especially if the person doesn't value honest discussions/revelations. I once told a bf of my crush or admiration for a male colleague. Infact, i ended up regretting it

m140:

Question

Then no. At least not with my full senses

Continuing...

*Shaving off eyebrows and then using coloured pencil to draw a straight line in place of them. I will never understand that.

*Using leggings as normal trouser without wearing a long top especially if you have a big butty.

m140:

You never cheated

Question or statement?

I have heard all except numbers 1 & 3.


They can lie for Africa!

CC: cassyrooy

4th in the world? Not possible!

But still, shame on this country

samorobo:
239 youth pack for down just to view this topic..

Lazy yoot I greet ooo

Aren't you even worse than lazy for noticing that?
Amebo!

fergie001:

Husbands of Lagos is still doing you

She killed it there....

Totally!

don4real18:
Imagine seeing your wife or girlfriend amongst these set of people

As in eh!

1mrprolific7:
O boy




The way Nigeria is now, if oyibo people bring ship to start shipping people to US for slave trade, people will be struggling to enter. Some go come with their own chain to avoid stories like chain have finish, stay back in Nigeria
This is Buhari Season. Even masquerade dey play bet Naija

Lol

NerdyNedu:
By personal, I meant the personal account of the sponsor.

I could remember that someone was denied here on this thread and the given reason was using the Company Account, still possible that was a one off reason.

I'm not an expert, I do not intend to mislead.

Ok

NerdyNedu:
From cases posted here, NO.

Only use personal SoA.

I don't think so... since he's not sponsoring himself, what does he need his personal SoA for?

olasaad:


This is not for employment but a qualified or certified exams for teachers. It's another avenue of making money by the so called TRC. It cost 10k as you see am so

Actually it's 12k

It's one thing to give out number, it's another thing to answer the person that calls...




na there the koko dey.

Lamanii22:



Lol... You watched it too?

Yes o....I liked Lala the most.

Lamanii22:



Or dipsy

Or po

ransome001:
You spent just 7 months.... I wasted 4 years in ABSU.... A man gave me fake mat number.... Discovered when I was doing my clearance for nysc... Had to start over again... Spent another extra 4 year... Graduated last year... Currently serving in Lagos state.... The man collected over 200k and still didn't deliver

You are kidding, right? What's the name of the lecturer? I might know him...

healthserve:
Lol

Food don do for you?

Lekan1o1:


Lol it still doesn't matter, if I wana marry u.
Or does it?

No it doesn't.

Techsunny:
Emirate airline

That's not Emirates uniform.

Lekan1o1:

Lol, Oya send ur address

Don't mind me. I thought it was your moniker I did the translation for. That's why u modified my statement but you quoted too fast.

Lekan1o1:


Hmm I will marry you, so you can teach me ibo

No problem sir...

PrinceGallant:


Really, the man made sense with his comment, and I know you are commending him fot making beautiful comment. But can you say it in English?

Let me help with the translation though you will pay me. Here goes: Bad mouth! Igbo people said, "if a man finishes fighting, a woman has the story to tell." But your own is, both the fight & the story, na you get am.

You grab?

Mykelhendriz:


Know know, I too know, Nebuchadnezzar, Noah, I know my job...

We know the founder.. But in as much as he is there and regarded as the G.O.. He is the founder!!!

You have just spoken like a child. He's not the founder, simple! Just accept the polite correction that you were given & take your insult-ridden reply & bounce. That he's the G.O doesn't AUTOMATICALLY translate to being the founder.

anonymuz:
why u go report the your so called pastor

Report, you say? Report who?

cocobutterman:
VIJUMILK is very good. I also like all their product. especially their apple juice milk. they always have plenty vitamins and juice inside. they never selling themselves by spreading rumours agsinst other brands. they deserve trust.

Hmmmmm....

I don't think I can ever be careless and "comfortable" enough to want to argue/quarrel loudly with my man in front of his parents or even mine. It doesn't speak well of us. Whatever it is, we should control ourselves till we leave there.

That being said, I think you also have to apologise to your guy. ..1)for prolly belittling him in front of family by the way you were prolly talking to him considering the fact that he's a man...2)for disregarding his mother's call to end the bickering. Then later, you can revisit the issue of him using your family info against you & have him apologise to you also.