donstan18:

My runaway girlfriend

mediclife1987:


Are you sure about this? Almost everywhere you park gonna get you a parking fee, and illegal parking gets you a ticket.

You could say some places in Yankee necessitate the use of a car, due to absence of public transportations & metros; I think places like Texas fit this description, but my Aunt in Chicago rarely uses her ride except on important occasions.

The liability on it is damn crazy. Na Naija we dey even enjoy car as a necessity due to our cheap PMS and forgiving attitude.

Nothing like abegabeg for Yankee oh, you must pay everything!

MYDEBBY:



I planned taking my little girl of 4yrs to her grandmother to look after her.if I live her with that evil woman,she may influence her negatively and use her to siphon money from me.

donstan18:

Very well dear , felt the need to say hello to you.

donstan18:

Very well dear , felt the need to say hello to you.

MYDEBBY:



Thanks you said it all,but my little girl cant be allowed to stay under her present situation.

healthserve:




Hahaha. There's something called loyalty. Something ladies these days lack. You'll see them married yet flirty, you'll see them with a guy, yet imagining being with another at the same time. You no how many side affairs this year alone I don turn down? Don't let me blow ladies open o


If you knew the crisis the family of your so-called enjoyed woman's marriage faced, you self go run. Its stability in spite of external crisis. Pure loyalty.

healthserve:



We know. Check the complains of relationships and start counting the culprit/party at fualt from today. You the defender of all women If it isn't madness, should ship sail in a sealed relationship? We're asking you ladies of the present age.

I was with a friends mother Twp weeks back and was hosting with the old woman almost 70. The husband just died last year, but I saw the confidence in her husband still standing strong in her like he was present. That's loyalty. Its what folks are complaining about these days.


Make una dey follow una selves dey talk o. Even you Aweleawkaetiti

healthserve:
Another ladies palaver. After you ladies will start saying guys pointing out kadies wrongs are faukt finding, Aweleawkaetiti MissJoy29. Cone and keeo defending your sisters needlessly


Go and give thanksgiving and end it Op. She doesn't love you and hasnt grown up. Is easily influenced by outside sources, hence may not be loyal for the long term and can be easily
swayed. That's assuming all you said is true and she is guilty of all you wrote. Cause it takes two to tango


Thank God its early.

DozieInc:
Give Aba roads, power supply, properly waste mgt system then watch her blossom

akanniade10:


I have been to 2 local shops in my area now, I can’t find sniper.

mediclife1987:
The crase to buy a ride in Nigeria is just strong. Thank God my late dad sold cars when he was alive, cars have never freaked me one bit.

If you like say I no fit afford am, na your wahala be that.

I watch foreign movies primarily and my mentality has been shaped by their way of life. Car na liability for Yankee, not an asset at all.

cassyrooy:
I just have this confession, in 2009 when Nokia C3 was reigning, I used my sister's own to browse and download nonsense then and delete everything (leaving no trace) without her noticing.

Battery will be drained, and data and airtime spent. And she innocently go to work without getting to check.

If she knew then, my naive mind never stopped that act.

God help me.

cassyrooy:
MissJoy29 please come o.

At the topic, see, it really disgust me too. I have lived in Abuja since I was born and I really hate the way people package their being broke and leech and live lives of indebtedness. There are well to do people who live within their means and don't golddig. But the numbers are really scaling up, see those boys with tattoos, some of them belong there.

You're adjudged the broke one if you don't play along, they knock at your door very early/late in the night to beg their guys for monies. They run generators on fuels bought from borrowed monies and all.

She's right, ladies in Abuja are really trying to have a stable lifestyle but gigolos will trace her and destroy her.

Abuja has one of the most pathetic, yet unrepenting people in Nigeria.
I'm leaving that City for good.

You don't fix your financial issues by cutting or drawing up alternative solutions but through transfer of debt

cassyrooy:
Yeah, like we were discussing here, same was happening right to me on the other side.

Na God go help we guys.

cassyrooy:
Okay, I'm fed up.

The moment I notice that a hurtful attitude is delibrate , I'd end things. I'm not masochistic biko.

donstan18:

Long time, Lady J. How have you been?

healthserve:




You don dey wise

healthserve:



Using her emotions to run the relationship

cassyrooy:
These are some of the things I can't recover from.

A woman who's unwilling to accept that her actions, and inactions are driving you mad, but still refuse to change such is very bad.

I'm very patient but I don't know how long it will last.

He's tried but the wife has to try too.

emerged01:

What about buying airtime worth thousands on your phone and transferring it.... Deleting any transaction details before you know. And what about having access to your hotspot without your permission( case study; my wife and his brother). There are a lot of reasons you should lock your phone.

emerged01:

Many thing to lose bro. Once can access your informations. Your phone is linked to your account. Anybody can borrow or make transaction with your phone.

grossintel:
I don't use pattern, pin or password. I don't lock my phone. It's my phone so why should I stress myself to open it. If it ever gets lost or stolen I can issue a command to erase the phone.

imitateMe:

Tell them o. Seems you're the only lady with brain here.

kunleweb:



Na so. Nairaland. Stockpile of thrash