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funkyjms:
So far you won't be off point.

SavageResponse:
A fool at 40 is a fool for ever.

That idiot will not change

What I will advice you to do is to send an anonymous email to social services telling them that the man's kids are being neglected intentionally by their father

Blinkers:
No wonder you are always off point!

GTFOH!

safarigirl:
Social anxiety doesn't just go away because you want it to

A lot of you are speaking this way, because you are in Nigeria, that does not take anything abiut mental health seriously

It is not a physical wound that you can get rid of in a matter of weeks or months.

There are people with OCD. They cannot stand bacteria; they don't touch people, they wlak around with hand sanitizers, they don't want people sitting close to them or anywhere in their perimeter, they have panic attacks at the slightest sneeze or cough close to them. It is a mental illness, and some people live with it for decades.

Social anxiety can exist for decades too, it takes a partner willing to work with you, a PATIENT partner who understands what is going on enough to want to help. A person with social anxiety should never be left to themselves at an event, what kind of talk is that?

Some of you will have kids one day, and you will use this same level of ignorance to handle them, then wail to the world, when everything goes south.

You cannot be this ignorant about mental health in 2019

MissOffpoint:
No na, it's not. Hope yours is not fake too.

Offpoint:
The advantage of this boobs is... during sex you'll won't need handfan....

midnighter:
Of course, I have stayed in hostels with people who I wondered whether it was even human beings who gave birth to them

But I think for my sweetheart I can at least try to ginger myself, especially if he comes from a close family and those relationships are important to him.

i dont even talk much to a lot of people in my own extended family but when we have events in the village or something I will go and land myself in the middle of it, cooking, serving/entertaining people and running aroundeven if I dont like the person

midnighter:
I think most of us here dont like obnoxious people or overly crowded situations. But with that said, are you saying that you'd refuse to meet your mans people?

I am reserved most of the time but I cant honestly say I would behave as drastically as that. Thats what baby was trying to say

How are you going to marry them if you cant sit down with them for a couple of hours so that theyll see your face...

Apart from that its an affront to the guy that you claim to love

generationz:
You even sound like the man's sister who already hates the babe without knowing her.

donaldtruman:
Noooo

This one is another one o..

I ran away from that one o...
She has been tormenting my life that she loves me and want us to come back 2gether.

It's like dating a pretty and classy babes is a Nig issue.

Maybe I go enter village..

Offpoint:
Can you forget your digits in my mention so can take this love to highschool ground!?

Offpoint:
OK baby, I can wait for 2 years and 2 and half months longer.

I'll wait for you

Offpoint:
Let's get married next year, can you carry my baby before then?

Offpoint:
MissOffpoint mine is genuine o

Offpoint:
lol, I don't wanna derail my book of wisdom... I'll chat you up on other threads.
Hope it isn't fake love

Offpoint:
lol, so I have a girlfriend on nairaland?
just seeing this monicker today

Selfkontrol:
wow that’s your conclusion? Pathetic