kingthreat:


My point is that let there be never a situation of total anarchy where citizens are at the mercies of beasts. And crimes like rape and murder have a field day without justice. I am not pro government. They failed in many things. Lets not encourage a situation that will gravitate issues.

You made a snide remark when you labeled hoodlums as peaceful protesters. That was what prompted my assumption that you are not just pro government but one of their many bots that have failed woefully at whitewashing their failures.

My family, friends and I took part in the protests. My elderly MIL bravely partook in the prayer walk as part of a peaceful protest. Does that make her “aka“ a hoodlum?

kingthreat:
This happened during Endsars when hoodlums aka peaceful protesters were burning police stations. Very sad story. May we not see anarchy in Nigeria. For those trolls supporting anarchy in Nigeria, may they alone see it. Many of them are aborad and are simply looking for easy minds to buy their propaganda.

Sympathies with the lady as you rightly should.

BUT leave peaceful protesters and your obvious political sentiments out of it. It is an insult to the innocent Endsars victims. The government’s reaction to the peaceful protesters will forever count as one of many internationally known failures of the current administration led by buhari/osinbajo.

letskeeptalking:
The comments on this thread are truly shocking. Now I'm beginning to agree that we have a rape culture in Nigeria.

I have stopped being shocked about how some men on nairaland reason. For my sanity I just shake my head, scroll and vow to lay a proper foundation of empathy and respect for my children. Cannot dare birth boys that will come online to act a fool.

Magnoliaa:


I like your vibes.

Thank you Magnoliaa! ���

Buliwyf:


Trump supporters have the IQ of a tsetsefly. Does that look like a hammer and sickle to you? It seems your brain has lost its ability to process visual information since Trump lost.

Tsetse flies can’t speak for themselves but I’m sure they’d be insulted you used them as a standard of measure for the intelligence of Trump supporters.

Next time compare Trump supporters to used dog waste bags because they’re full of sh*t.

Emaprince:
This one weak me. Good night

Good night.

Emaprince:
Tunde Marrying another woman was just him trying everything possible to get back on his feet and move on....maybe have his own true kids with another woman.

But then, the damage have been done - he haven't recovered fully from the stroke and probably still never fully came to terms with the betrayal.

Tundes soul was lost the day he got the news.

This is the biggest betrayal a woman can give a man. Its just a pity that so many men today are still foolish enough to believe in women and trust them not to be promiscuous.

Making it seem like both moved on is downplaying the crime and the weight of the effect.

It’s bed time for me but you seem very emotional about this EmaPrince so I’ll reply.

I’ll repeat this. If we strangers on the internet could tell at a glance that those kids were not for the deceased (May his soul rest in perfect peace), then something isn’t adding up in this whole scandal.

Okay let’s say Tunde was blinded by love and trust (a very long stretch) to see that the kids were not his. Are you telling me Prince that all the people around him, especially the ones behind the social media expose, could not tell him that those children were not for him? I’ve lived around traditional Yoruba families and I know for a fact they don’t tolerate such nonsense unless of course, there’s a twist to the events. Usually financial or impotency related, and we all know he wasn’t impotent because he got his fiancé pregnant.

Are you seriously believing that it took his wife telling him over six years after the birth of the kids for the late Tunde, his family and friends to “see” and accept that the children were not his? You seem like a logical adult. Please think about it.

Now don’t belittle the current fiancé of the late Tunde to prove a point. She is a human being with emotions and dignity. Rebounds exist but for him to agree to walk down the aisle with another woman after being “betrayed“ by the first, clearly shows that he had a lot of trust, love and confidence in the new woman. The mere fact that they were expecting a baby together shows that he had a happy and forward thinking mindset to life despite all that was alleged to have happened.

Tunde is dead and cannot speak for himself. That’s the only issue here that a few people are capitalizing on. Also, both his ex wife and the MD of FCMB are holding sensitive positions and will be very guarded and strategic in their responses so it doesn’t destroy their careers.

I’m pretty sure when all of this unravels, we will hear something closer to the truth that will leave the “off with her head” gang silent.

I apologize if I am coming off as insensitive but I believe in being objective especially when what is being paraded as facts doesn’t seem logical. This is also coming from my interaction with one or two people outside of social media who twist their mouths to the side and whisper “but....(insert my name)...he knew now”.

Take heart Prince but don’t get worked up over nothing. It’s not healthy at all.

Let me just add that there are still very good women and men out there. Don’t ever let the misbehavior of a few get you discouraged. My husband and I have male and female friends and mentors who are respectful of their marital vows and are grooming us to do same. As you want a decent woman, remember that you also have to be a decent man. One begets the other.

I have faith that if you let go of the doubts, you’ll bag a decent lady and both of you will have a happy family together.

DissTroy:


You'd die on a cold, rainy Wednesday evening for justifying paternity fraud and psychological abuse. Crows and vultures would declare an inter-species wars fighting over your carcass as blowflies hover on your decomposing body laying eggs.

You'd never know the joy of your own child being birthed and any being which carries your genes and survives childbirth would die in your arms. You would never carry or raise children that are from your loins.

Any attempt to play father to any youngling - even of puppies- would result in slow, painful death for them. You would súffer the anguish of watching children die in your arms.

You'd only ejaculate blood into a woman. Any attempt by your urethra to pass out semen would result in your testicules exploding.
Females of all species would ridicule you and Mother Nature would rob you of life itself abruptly. ... Except you rescind your support for this cruel case of paternity fraud.

OMG. I’m so scared. Lol.

If it’s any consolation I find your style of expression very intriguing. Crude but still intriguing. Giving me amateur Edgar Allan Poe vibes. Practice some more you’ll get there.

You see, I’m rubber and you’re glue. Above all, I fear no evil.

P.S. I’m very much open to learning. Should intraspecies have been used in the stead of interspecies? If not, please tell me why?

ModelX:
If you dare to address me with that foul adulterous adjective, Sango will strike you. Shameless woman.

Awww, look at my darling traditionalist. Big man. Big words. Lol.

Darling, Jehovah sees and knows my heart. That’s the only God I reckon with. Don’t burst a vein over a stranger, darling.

Emaprince:
Boldly claiming that man was very much aware of the fact that those kids was not his makes this your post pure garbage. Like how did you know?

The man is simply the type that trust women so much and believes his wife can never sleep with another man.

Did it occur to you that when a woman cheats,the last person to find out is the husband? Because she will do everything possible to cover her tracks from him.

Then you made a very careless statement that both tunde and his ex moved on with their lives.

So you mean to tell me that both decided to go their separate ways, and it wasn't the lady that traveled and gave tunde the shock of his life with the evil revelation of those children being fathered by another man?

Get sense abeg....and stop playing down the magnitude of this paternal fraud.

Tunde suffered stroke after the shocking news and he never recovered.

Get lost and stop vomiting trash

Death is sensitive and painful. I understand. But as adults we should remove sentiments and emotions when reasoning so they don’t becloud our judgment.

As a stranger you were immediately able to spot the real father of the children when you saw them. That’s why the outrage is so loud on social media because there is no doubt that those kids weren’t his.

Now put on your logical cap. If you a stranger at first glance on social media could tell the difference, how much more the man, his family (a traditional Yoruba family for that matter), friends and even his enemies.

It was there for the world to see and talk about. Unless the deceased was clinically blind, there is no way on earth he won’t have known the kids weren’t his.

The question now is this. Why after his death, when he had moved on enough to impregnate another woman and make plans to walk down the aisle a second time, are some people coming out to make these complaints on behalf of the dead? It reeks of extortion.

This is my opinion. Feel free to disagree. Also, the nerve of you to tell me how to walk on nairaland. Darling, avoid me if you dislike my views so strongly. The threads are big enough for all to play.

ModelX:
You claim married woman but calling a strange man 'darling', all in a bid to sound "woke". No wonder your comments on the topic are a complete disgrace. You have no honour. *spits*

Darling, it’s amusing that you’d think I’ll care about “honor” from strangers when I know who I am and those in my corner. Spit responsibly darling. The earth is already degraded enough as it is.

genq:


Story.
You might as well open a wikipedia page

When you are done with the painfully obvious bravado, reread it and be a better person. The year is still young. Take care.

genq:


I've learnt on this forum to always be wary of any 'f' who is quick to throw out there that she's got a "husband".

You could be an overweight 50 year old single mother for all we know.

Nice try!

Lol. Darling, I’m sorry to disappoint you but I tied the knot in November to a good and godly man.

You must be very shallow and inexperienced in life to think living up to 50, raising a child alone in this difficult world and being overweight (possibly from enjoyment) is something to shame a woman or man with.

It is very telling of how badly brought up and poorly socialized you are. Unlike you, I was brought up by my loving parents to respect my elders and not judge people who chose birthing kids over abortions. Be a better person this new year.

genq:


Mrs Nuhu has spoken.
Well done ma!

Lol. No thank you. My husband is absolutely perfect for me.

Missssii:


Darling, I love your analysis. Objectivity is very lacking for a lot of people on this thread. Everyone knew those kids were for the MD. The late husband was very aware that the kids were not his. The couple had moved on with their lives until his friend and family are trying to score cheap tricks after his death, with a situation their late brother and son (bless his soul) was well aware of.

For some reason, a lot of male nairalanders seem to get orgasmic over any opportunity to “bash a wh**e”. This is the perfect situation for them to whip it out.

Shokoloko:


Nothing was hidden from anyone. All three of them knew what was happening
1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank

2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A BLACK yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids

3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.

4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.

5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.

My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement

Darling, I love your analysis. Objectivity is very lacking for a lot of people on this thread. Everyone knew those kids were for the MD. The late husband was very aware that the kids were not his. The couple had moved on with their lives until his friend and family are trying to score cheap tricks after his death, with a situation their late brother and son (bless his soul) was well aware of.

capitalzero:


What if Mr Thomas was murdered?
His death must be thoroughly investigated.

That’s very much required. An autopsy is required so the dead can truly Rest In Peace.

humilitypays:
You deserve a hot bullet in your skull. You better hide your picture and identity as you make this insensitive, inhumane comment

I can’t get angry with you. Emotions becloud judgment. Have a blessed week ahead.

I refuse to jump on the bandwagon asking for the head of this woman. The hypocrisy and shallow mindedness really stinks.

There is no way on God’s green earth that man didn’t know those children were not his. The whole of FCMB knew about the affair and knowing the patriarchal society we live in, a couple of people would have briefed him immediately. Those Niger republic looking kids couldn’t have been born to Yoruba parents. And we all know it.

I find it very convenient that a man who had moved on enough to have fixed a wedding date with another woman, has his “family and friends” springing up out of nowhere to claim damages and justice. It screams of greed and blackmail. If this man wanted to fight his battles, he had years to do so when he was alive.

Apart from the disciplinary action required for the MD of FCMB for having an affair with his subordinate, I see no other “crime” committed here. The late husband and his ex wife had both moved on to different lives years ago. If he was that scorned, best believe he’d have blown hot once it happened.

Those that are looking to cash out from his death are going to be shocked because they’ve basically played their hands. They’re going to have an entire bank and it’s disgruntled MD on their neck and they won’t find a kobo out of this. No way can they prove in any court that a lively man already engaged to his new love interest died as a result of emotional distress from his randy ex wife of years ago having kids with her randy boss. The greed in all of this really stinks. The innocent children have their faces being plastered on all social media to push their agenda of extortion. If they wanted justice and not a few shekels, they’d have written to the banks directly and copied all bank regulatory agencies before proceeding straight to court.

Greedy opportunistic people!

DimIsaac10:
Oh! such revelation. Then the female students should start speaking out doh.. Nevertheless, however the narration will choose to appear i condemn sex for grade and such should be seriously dealt with either a male lecturers or their female counterparts..

But my brother, you know we always try to speak out. But someway, somehow, the victim always becomes the one who gets all the negative attention and societal ridicule. Silly questions like “what was she looking for in her lecturers office“, “some babes are the ones toasting lecturers”, “you hardly hear first class graduates complaining of sexual assault” etc. will always be made.

A friend of mine had her script destroyed by a lecturer who was sexually harassing her. She was so broken and when she tried to speak up, a senior female lecturer told her to hush it so she will graduate in peace. She ended up retaking the course and was graded an E.

It’s the same way the government marginalizes and torments its citizens. You speak up like we tried to do with the EndSARS protests and they crush you. They even use your fellow citizens to make you look a fool. Some universities even go as far as expelling the students and sending the perverted lecturer on a rushed sabbatical. The lecturer comes back a year after, more cunning and emboldened in his ways.

Until the institutions and society starts laying the blame and punishment where it is due, students being harassed will rather take their experiences to their graves. It’s sad but self preservation is the reason a lot of victims are silent.

Yoighaman:


Wise sayings....

Thank you ��

DimIsaac10:
Truth be told...
Wetin concern brilliant female students with sex for grade..
I don't support sex for grade but you see as a female student, be highly exceptional in academic work..

That is very untrue and highly ignorant. I’ve been threatened with an extra year by a perverted lecturer. It took all the connections within and outside the faculty to get the messy pervert to grade my project. Even at that he gave me a B (68), when all lecturers who reviewed it earlier said it was an obvious A. Bear in mind that I finished in the top 15% of my set and the only reason why I didn’t finish higher was because my first year results were a mess due to my playfulness. After that, I didn’t get below a 4.0 for subsequent terms, sometimes I’d even get a 4.6 in a term.

We need to stop the false and ignorant narrative that only dull female students are bullied with sex for grades. It has a way of shifting the blame from the perverted lecturers to the female students which is very wrong. As a lecturer, you have the professional duty to avoid relationships with your students. When it’s now even under duress, you’re a criminal.

These perverted lecturers go for any girl that they deem attractive and if she’s got no support system, then they’ll frustrate her till she submits or fails. Let’s be informed please.

BUSHHUNTER:
Na you accuse person na you wan commit suicide eediot

Her kind irritate me and I have no sympathy for her whatsoever. She came online to heap tainted accusations against Kiki Mordi, because Kiki was getting accolades for her journalism. She conveniently forgot that it was a BBC project that she chose to be anonymous on, and if at all she had any issues with awards and recognition, the BBC should have been the primary organization to vent her anger on.

Due to her naked jealousy and spite, she sought refuge with those who already despised Kiki. When she went overboard by basically saying Kiki traded sex with a key member of the BBC for the role, her major cheerleaders went silent on her.

Now that she’s used her lies to ruin herself and may face a lawsuit to prove her unfounded and wicked allegations, she’s threatening suicide. Suicide is usually the go to emotional blackmail card for the truly manipulative, especially when the tables have turned against them. If she had really wanted to die, we’d be writing RIP by now. And you can’t tell me she really drank two bottles of sniper today and is already “stable with tummy pains”.

I have no sympathy for emotionally manipulative men and women. Next time, she’d pick genuine battles to fight.

1. Marry a good hearted person.
2. Be a good husband. Don’t do to her what you wouldn’t want her to do to you.
3. Have some savings that can sufficiently take care of a family. Financial issues can ruin the best of people.
4. Do not have children for at least, the first year of marriage. Use that time to understand your partner and form a bond.
5. Do not have relatives or friends live with you for the first year of marriage. Visits shouldn’t be more than 3 days. Nosy family and friends are the number one cause of issues in young marriages.
6. Let God lead in all you do. As the head of the home, it is important you have a direct bond with God because even the Bible says the husband is the head of the home and the blessings flow from the husband to the wife. That’s why he opens his head in prayers while she covers her own. If the head is weak, the body is open to all sorts of attacks.
7. Do not start things you cannot finish. If you’re the type that doesn’t believe in cooking or cleaning, let her know during courtship so you both can plan your responsibilities. You cannot be Tony Umez in courtship then turn into Pete Edochie during marriage. It is a sure way to kill whatever love may exist between the two of you.
8. Avoid unnecessary interference from family, friends and most especially, religious people. Do what works for you both no matter how unconventional it may seem to others.
9. Be patient and honest but do not enable misbehavior in any form. In a calm and firm manner, let your partner know what they did to offend you and sort out all issues to avoid any form of lingering resentment.
10. Enjoy yourselves. Go on dates, knack in the sitting room, kitchen etc. You both are now one before God and should explore your bodies and minds to the fullest.

That’s all I know.

smiliyB:
My dear don't mind them...some people just love seeing others broken, sad n lots of negative things happening to them.

The reality show will be good but I'm just so scared for Erica and even kidd too. We can judge too much in this country. I don't really want them to start any reality show.

Honestly, I don’t want that too. But as an actress and influencer, she really needs the publicity and consistent hype to be marketable to brands. Even if she’s quiet, people will still judge her.

Feggie3:
Total balderdash!!!. Please next patient

Awww. It knows a fancy word.

AustineCJ:
Few months back some people nearly turned god in her life saying trash ....
*He will leave her
*He won’t marry a poor girl
*Laycon will win n she will beg
*It will end in tears .... ye ye ye
.... This life ehh, Only God can really determine..... It’s good to know despite her disqualification she’s doing better than some of the top5 and didn’t give up..Kidd still sticking with her is just jara.

Igbo Amaka!

Only God can determine. I’m just happy she’s not broken but happily living her life on her terms. In her early media rounds, she apologized and said her disqualification was nobody’s fault but hers but people still wanted her destroyed and broken. I really didn’t understand the venom. It was uncalled for.

Am I the only one who suspects there may be a reality show for Erica and Kidd in the works? Something similar to what was done for Mercy and Ike.

Ddokie:


i thought so.

Warms my beating heart to know a bot is capable of independent thought. Peculiar times we live in.

Ddokie:


Since you understand U.S constitution properly, kindly explain in simple terms to me what the so called section 203 says so that we can be sure you have a basis to link it to Buhari's plans of censoring social media.

Another bot. If you monetize your request, I may humor you with a response.

Righteousness89:
Twitter has really messed up itself and Disrespected Trump as President!

Twitter turned itself to a leftist media arm!

It's a Welcome Development!!
It's within the Powers of the President!

Anyone supporting Trump on this shouldn’t protest against the social media bills about to be passed. How can we condemn Liar Mumuhad, Adamu Garbage and APC cretins for asking for media censorship but in the same breathe exhault an immoral man child for doing same.

Bro Righteousness, If it were in the days of old, when God used to strike people dead for being idiots, you’d have died a thousand and one deaths by now.

Repent Bro Righteousness...but I fear your soul may be beyond redemption as you’ve used the name of our Lord to perpetuate poorly veiled agendas. I’ll be praying for you.

Standing5:
I never knew medical autopsy could reveal lifestyle of bodies. That's remarkably remarkable.

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Please it’s too late for me to laugh this loudly.

Igbankpa:
Soon they will say they shot live rounds but only targeted their legs

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Then after that they’ll say they shot live rounds but didn’t shoot to kill.