₦airaland Forum

Dude, you don't have to force yourself on any girl. If she deserves you she will always reconcile. Just take a break from relationship issues and earn yourself value first...

Trust me, If you worth her she will come for you else, find someone will understand you and cherish you more...

And @op never you shout at a girl... you lose your respect for her.

mysteryman2014:
Ur beautiful

Thanks I appreciate.

sowilli:
so a lady now is a commodity. The way many of una Dey reason self. Don’t spend on any woman until you are ready to marry her. Something I learnt the hard way. That money is total waste. This is what it has been in the days before us. You see a woman you like, you go pay her bride price... dating and courting are the reasons issues like this are been discussed. Whilst it is important to date, it is important to date someone who has the same goal as you not someone who is within your means
. When you raising kids you will see that life is beyond being a “means lady”.

Whatsoever interpretations you gave the word "means", it still has deeper meaning in that statement only if you give it a second taught... As you have said, one of it is in your bolded quote.

And I don't see anything wrong if a guy knows his lady needs financial help and voluntary gives a lady money for pressing needs vice versa; well, the money can be a waste if such guy is trying to impress in the lady that doesn't have his interest. same goes to ladies.

Infact, thats another way to express to your lady that you have value for her in the relationship...

loswhite:
so when your means increase you also go for another lady since relationship definition is now about means...lol

Uptown7,

I guess the student should have been expecting such....

Another similar question asked in creative art dept in unilag was to list the circular musics (saku-saku, legbegbe, sepetari and the likes then) and their significant to the society...

lilmax:
And that's why most women have prices right?

If a man thinks he has what it take to pay the price then he should go ahead

All I know is that as a guy go for the lady that is within your means...All that matters is happiness and loving each other.

And to the guys has spirit wife ever slept with you...let know

Igold2:
we dated for a full year without sex, everything was great, until we finally had it. Issues started 3day later she noticed she was pregnant, tension came up. But I tried my best to stand by her all through even when she choosed to terminate. Although I said some nasty things during those period, am so scared of loosing that girl I love her like mad. Everything was over we are back to normal and now am struggling to get attention,

OK. I hope u know that we know you are lieing to your self

DanDeeBoss:
I have always underestimated a lady and I'll continue to underestimate a lady...

You caught me on a good mood today if not...

only if it won't rise again

when NAIRA equals US dollar...

Lol Average Nigerian girl loves Zea world and the Telemundo series.

God blesses your union

Did you know there is "Abuse of Beauty". What ever her motive was I just hope she doesn't look back and regret her actions in future. Well her nude not mine

modified

why use "Ex-BBNaija housemate" like as if that's the only thing they bear. mtcheeew

bossrillboss:
..see am

lol thanks

Corrinthians:
Accord?

>:\ no. . Honda

femi4:
Just let her go, free her. Your future wife is probably still in 100level. I m sure by the time she graduate you ll be 32 and financially ready.

I know your fear, finding a woman like her, you ll surely get. Just be focus on getting yourself ready.
This is Nigeria, you don't date your mates when you are capable financially

I went to a marriage seminal organized by the church that was almost 2 yrs ago. The only thing that sticks is when the counselor said ladies never marry someone you loved so much instead marry someone that really love you.

In this current society especially in Nigeria, marry your age mate is 1 of 10. Well if the lady in question doesn't make her decisions sooner, I pray she doesn't later settle for less. @ op 28 haha

I wonder how he will look when he grows old. Well that's his problem. See his past and present. Well only God knows the future.

@op your story is not complete o. You can't tell me that you didn't see any sign between her and Jide.

Well, God has it planned for you. May be you are not meant to be together. Ask her to tell you her side of the story. If you can cope with making her your wife then go on. If not, separate for better and move on. Afterall, Jide has been a good friend all the while.
Beside you are every ladies dream. I hope you find the woman that truly love you for who you are.
cheer

INEC and lie are like 5 & 6. Abeg someone should post that meme picture

Who deserves the accord like for Olusegun Obasanjo share for Nnamdi Kanu.

quote: INEC and the APC are avoiding the inevitable". He said.

So like play like play is this how PDP will rule us again. Anyway Are you Atikulate? Like to Atikulate.

Pls no quoting o because I won't respond

I think INEC should be scraped...

FTC. @op why not give detailed info here. Anyway, shout out to every nairalander.

like for every nairalander otherwise share for op

Raylight2:
I want to ask if it is the duty of a guy to fix the bad attitude of his fiance. for example, a lady that gets angry easily and uses rude words at the moment of anger, is it advisable for a guy to remain in such relationship trying to fix her up or give her time to fix herself up? this is my present situation. Honestly, I put the relationship on hold. I really don't know if I acted well so I need guidance from those who care to help a stranger.

thank you

Bro. Nobody is completely perfect. If you truly love her study her after which you bring the topic up when you are in good terms. There are lots of lessons to learn from one another.

I think you need to go for counseling

Jummyju:
Where's the father

who is that guy you posted

If this is the type of change APC want for Nigeria. Then I rebooked it.

Let Atikulate together

okay. I hope they rot in jail