Finally,the bad girls keep getting married to very nice men every saturday while the good girls are being played about by forever boyfriends, later they are scammed by pastorpreneurs..in the name of sow seeds for husbands.

Ladies,be yourself!
Live your life!!
What will be, will definitely be!!

Ranks007:


Nko umu sanake efet udogho eyen ibibio...yem afong se ufok idem amekop?

Ku ben ke iyat esit?

Love ya!

Just imagine o
Esuk ese sangha ntoro esuene idem

ibibiofirstlady:
Proudly Ibibio Chic

You are a disgrace! @ ur pix

kennieG:
Holy slap. But they are warned .. Maybe she's crying for other reasons( who knows) .. Anyway am glad am making FTC consecutively.. egwu dikwa my people

Prolly,the man used to knack her akpako wella
All these pastors and their female members

khalhokage:


That's just speculation, you don't know why they went to meet them really, maybe it was for business, maybe for friendship, you just don't know.

It's callous to put the burden of responsibility on the victim, so Nigerian women are supposed to live a life of constant fear and anxiety?

Also those boys impersonated girls, so they thought they were going to meet girls instead they were ambushed by five guys.

Why would they goto meet girls

Neddstark:
Something tells me the girls were lesbians. They wanted to meet fellow lesbos and the game was overturned.
Else why would she want to see a normal female pal she met online in her house.
This happened to one bi-chic i met backin the days. She went to meet her lez babe in Aba only to see herself in a house with 5 rugged looking guys. When a call came to her phone, she pretended there was bad network, went outside and used the opportunity to leave that house.

Same thing am wondering
Why would a lady agree to meet up a fellow lady internet friend in her house?

So because am facebook friends with somebody,i should visit the person in "her" house?

What for??

All internet friends end on the internet,be you male or female

Make I no talk

Originalsly:
Hmmm....a media rep of the club confirmed the news......the club can be sued. Why are so many jumping to conclusion that he got it thru sex? .... why not from a doctor/nurse using dirty needle?/dentist using infected instruments?/infected blood?

Sexual intercourse accounts for over 80% of HIV infection....Worse if homosexual(hope the player isn't)
Other risk factors is being a football star,these people are known to be randy ,womanisers(money,fame and of course,women)...check out what Usain Bolt did after his stunning performance at the Olympics(flirting with all sorts of ladies in clubs and his hotel rooms)...Other professions increase one's risk...celebrities,pilots,long distance bus drivers,soldiers,rig workers cos they stay away from home for long without their partners.
Nowadays,hospitals maintain very perfect sterilisation methods,so that gist of being infected via needle pricks from health worker doesn't sell.
Dude got it through pucci,thats if he ain't gay

That's not fair
Information about HIV is very sensitive and should be kept private
It's the victim's choice to make his status public

Poor guy!

Well,men and chuku chuku
Some professions promote sexual promiscuity and sports( football) tops the list

Small money,small fame
Their deek start entering every place.
It's a pity.Young bright career ending so fast in such an embarrassing way.

HaneefahRN:



So the children are dummies and don't know what is going on?

Yes, the woman must always be blamed. Let's blame the victim.
From experience most mothers try as much possible to even shield their children especially while they are young from the reality of hell they are going through but the child will always grow to know there is something very wrong.

A child that sees his or her mother being beaten up often doesn't need anyone to manipulate or lie to him about the situation of things and most times these abusers abuse their children as well.


The man is the fool for wrecking his own home and thinking his children will love him for it.

Well said! Abused his wife and children as well....Imagine the children choosing to go very far away from home to another state to study,just to stay away from home.During the holidays,other students travel home but they stay back,spending Christmases in school...to avoid the hell at home.After graduating,they didn't come home.Instead,squatted with friends and relatives till they got their own place.the youngest still stays with a friend in the same town as his father.
It's so hurting to grow up without fatherly love,so painful to watch your mother abused,beaten and maltreated by a man who is supposed to love and protect her...Despite all pleads by the mother for the children to reconcile with their father,they have refused.He is a sore loser and will live the rest of his life sad,lonely and poor.

Haba! Bros,this crap should be dumped in the museum

Caprigal:
If your fiance forgot your birthday?

Lets say your birthday is in April and he doesn't call that day AT ALL, only for him to ask you like two weeks later whether 'Is your birthday not supposed to be April?'

How would you react? Will you overlook and forgive or will you be upset and quarrel with him?

Only broke girls and those with weak emotions get upset or angry that their lover forgot their birthdays.

For me,its not a big deal..Am sure of having a really good time to even remember if he remembered or not

But one thing is sure : for him to forget my birthday is the ticket for me to forget his birthday for life.

Behold, A FLAT HEAD!

From Bia FRAUD!!

Hmmm

Some of these snatched cars will be advertised for sale here on nairaland,jiji.com,olx.com for ridiculously cheap prices

Nobody takes care of a child like his/her MOTHER

omoiseselagba:
WOMEN NATURALLY ARE MASTER MANIPULATORS.YOU SAID THEY ARE MARRIED AND THEIR CHILDREN ARE NOW GROWN UP.WHO NURTURED THEM FROM THE CRADLE TO ADULTHOOD?.......it is when the children are grown and very useful that the father wants to kill their mother.scam of all ages. the father can threaten the woman when he realizes OR feels that he has been sidelined.women tell lies alot and will never tell where they err.a good woman builds her home while a slutty and bitchy woman destroys her home.the children too are fools.they should reconcile their parents and restore the family.(only a fool follows the words of a woman)

Pls don't say what you don't know
If not for the woman,those children wouldn't have completed primary school...Every thing the man ever did for his children, he complained and felt cheated.Up to buying food for them to eat...He would beat them like thieves,tell them the most hurtful words,"curse" them at the slightest provocation...The children are not babies.They also had their own personal experiences.Even when the mother was living with their father,they rarely visited home and avoided both of them,just to stay away from hell

Burger01:
What a shameless womanizer he is.

All normal men are womanizers,no shame about it

At least,he isn't raping them or defiling underage girls like most "good" guys do

EfemenaXY:


She should save those messages, take screenshots of them and head off to the nearest police station and show these to them, emphasising she's living in fear of her life, with the constant death threats from her husband - so it's all on record at the very least.

She should also inform her kids about this and get them to help her secure the services of a good lawyer. Then apply to court for a restraining order for him to keep away from her.

This is no marriage. Not with the constant death threats, and this man may just carry them out as promised. A separation is very much in order too.

They have been separated for about 4 years.She currently lives in another state with one of her children.But he keeps threatening her via sms.
The marriage ended long ago.The woman was just enduring for the sake of the children and for what people will say,if she goes

Excuzeme:


Depending on the age of the children, they are usually very much under the influence of their mother (who carried them inside her for 9months, breast fed them for a year or more... so it is natural) and most women in such situation are known to brains-wash the children and sow hatred into them, just to punish the father.

In most cases, these children grow up to realize that they have been misled and their life ruined, psychologically, because they have been turned into abusers themselves, from all the hate sowed into them by their mother.

This realisation comes later when the children are matured and themselves go into their own 'relationship' with the opposite gender.
But the damage is already done.
Women! ehn!!

If a woman is not always blamed in a way for every wrong thing a man does,i will be surprised.
Children grew into teenagers and young adults watching you beat,abuse and maltreat their mother yet you still find a way to blame the woman for the reaction of the children...For your info,the woman has done her possible best to reconcile them with their father but they all refuse.They didn't grow up having a good relationship with him because he was also very abusive, too harsh and cold towards them.Thats story for another day.

eyinjuege:


I doubt divorcing him will make much of a difference.
He will still continue his threats.
What's paining him is the fact that his children would rather be with their mother than a man they saw as abusive towards her and possibly them while growing up.
I'm sure he feels the mother "poisoned" their minds against him, but what most people fail to realise is that children are not stupid. They see things, feel things and make up their own minds.
If you act like a jerk towards your loved ones, you will be avoided. Nobody wants to be in the presence of such a person if possible.

You are right.His major frustration is the fact that the children don't want anything to do with him.Growing up was painful.Watching their mother beaten,abused,threatened by a man who was supposed to love and protect her not a nice experience..Not forgetting the abusive violent manner he also related with his kids.Now,they are adults and have chosen to avoid him totally

crAzyEcstasy:

my darling little sister, you're wrong, I count it as all you think a guy wants in a relationship is just sex but, I tell you now that, love is wicked

If you are less than 27,then you should address me as Big sister.
I know,guys want to enter heaven in a relationship...heaven is the hole btw the lady's legs

Now here it is: They have been married for almost 30 years with grown up children,all out of the house

They have been having problems as soon as the marriage started but the woman has managed to cope,fast and pray as expected by the society...despite the beatings,abuses and torture. At a point,her dad refunded the dowry and asked her to come home,she refused.Now both parents are late and they have been separated for abt 4 years.but as the children took sides with the woman and abandoned the man,he is now threatening to kill her diabolically or physically via charm or hired assasins...and he sends her such messages via sms.

What can she do?

Am sure this isn't natural conception

Result of Artificial reproductive technology

All the same,Congrats to them

Oh Lawd

I can see a man and woman wearing same material
Seems they are husband and wife

Swaginton:
I know this is far off the topics but I honestly want to know y they pull the pants off accident victims

Same thing I want to know
Even on gunshot victims,they pull off their pants..i wonder why

bulldoza:
My best nollywood actor


Na only money woman sabi

Na only toto man sabi

The woman will be praying he impregnates another lady

So she can get a private jet

Immediately, I saw this thread
I knew some worthless people
Will flood here to insult her
Because she is single

Marriage is good...indeed,its for respect

haleeberry:
Nigeria is becoming India gradually with the rate of RAPE incidence. Although, some men are nt blame with d way some Women dress, walking around almost unclad, leaving nothing 4 d imagination hormonal Men. She has abused herself already by getting drunk to d point she couldn't protest when he was taking her 2 Hotel. She made herself volunrable and he took d chance. If he was forcing her 2 take more than her alcohol tolerance, she could politely refuse. I blame d girl more. Quite unfortunate 4 d guy though, just 4 10minutes pleasure highest

You blame a lady more being raped?
If you were the judge,it means the rapist would still be walking around freely....Why women so much hate themselves is one thing I don't understand.Men are condemning the act in its totality but here is a woman making excuses for a rapist and blaming the victim MORE.

Wow!

There is NO JUSTIFICATION for rape.
Even if all women decide to walk about completely unclad.
May you or any female close to be a victim of rape so you will blame the victim MORE! Lubbish talk!!

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