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Just like its existence, its nonexistence cannot be proven. Simply impossible!

claremont:
Thats right, I have come to the conclusion that love does not exist. I say this because if you look at the fail rate of marriage and every other relationship it is huge. >50% of all marriages fail.

Whoever said these people got married on the basis of love? Then again, what proves, assuming the existence of love is established, that it lasts forever and isn't subject to change under different circumstances? I know there's an emotion like anger, fear, joy because I've felt each of these at different times and I also know that they all are subject to change under some circumstances. . . .same goes for that emotion we call love. In fact, everything, including emotions, is subject to change and like someone once told me, if given time, could die.

claremont:
What people term Love actually is only old-fashioned lust, desire, extreme frendliness. Eventually all people who claim to 'love' will end up just being great friends, no more 'loving' to each other than two best mates.

What that emotion we call love consists of is irrelevant to whether or not it 'exists'. Truth is, there is a blissful state where your happiness is totally dependent on someone else's such that all you want to do is make them happy; you voluntarily put the person first before anything else. Love does occur and like every other emotion, it 'fluctuates'. Just like that dude I so much hate could become my friend tomorrow and that friend I like could become my enemy tomorrow, my love can become just a  friend tomorrow. Everlasting, faithful and unchanging love is a divine concept. . .Way out of man's league.

claremont:
Studies have shown that couples who marry on the basis of "Love" do NOT last as those whom marry on the basis of mutual compatibility.

Quite logical! I do not disagree at all. I belong to the school of thought that love is just not enough.

claremont:
It will interest you to know that the western world who gave us the concept of love have the highest divorce rates today, yet love is practised there. So it therefore means that there is no correlation whatsoever between love and a sustained relationship. In India, arranged marriages is the norm, yet India has the lowest divorce rates worldwide, Go figure!

Whoever said the western world gave us the concept of love? We might have copied or allowed ourselves to be taught/told how to express it but this emotion has existed since the beginning of time.

Secondly, it's one thing to say love does not determine the duration of a  relationship / marriage . . . . it's another thing to say love does not exist. While I agree with the former, I consider the latter a mere quotidian expression that holds no water. Which is your point?

claremont:
If God=Love and Love=God, then are persons who do not believe in a God, love-less?! God and Love are both not mutually exclusive, they both can't be proven, their adherents are extremely volatile and passionate about their delusion, they both can lead to violence and atrocities, and since nobody can conclusively prove that they exist with a logical and objective definition, it therefore means that they are both non-existent. It's simple really, no one needs to be a rocket scientist to figure this out.

I don't understand why you lot like to confuse yourselves. You affirm that God and love do not exist YET, you give us characteristics of both.

BTW, is there an emotion called fear? Do you mind giving us an ''objective'' definition of fear or proving its existence to us?

How come no one wants to dance? If it's food, they will all come out. Long throat!

claremont:
Can you honestly say this lady looks ugly?! Give honour to whom honour is due abeg, the lady looks smashing; make up or no make up, that one no con-sign me.

She is not drop-dead gorgeous neither does she look horrendous. She's just an average  looking lady that wouldn't make [my head] heads turn if she passed by. Make I say it in pidgin 4 you to understand better? 

claremont:
Jokes apart, but this Lady is damn pretty. Who in their right minds will say this lady is not beautiful?! This lady make sense abeg!

She is not my definition of beauty. There, I said it!

justwise:
Somalian women 'may be' pretty but comparing Somalian women to Nigerian women is like comparing David Beckham [/b]to [b]Obasanjo

My exact sentiment.

Plus, no, the lady up there IS NOT my definition of beauty. 

Elyas:
^^^, You not funny, Do you realize im Somali, For you Nigerian, you should be honored to be talking to me, Have you ever seen our women?,

Almost all of 'em on NL use this line. Like, seriously, you really do feel superior or you lot just love to feign superiority? Lmao!

justwise:
It must be really hard to be a Somalian. Take heart.

Honestly! 

I can see OAM4MISSY is treating everyone right, as usual. . . .Good job, darl.

Who wants to dance abeg?

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Me & U - Bracket     

‎1+1=2
but
Me and you=1
We too make sense!!!     

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proO1:
Marilyn Monroe was probably the greatest bimbo that ever lived. So yes, if you could make Marilyn Monroe laugh, you could make her do anything --and I mean ANYTHING.

But my precious naija babes know better than open their wrinkly legs for a Julius Agu or Basketmouth that has not yet become rich and/or famous.

Rotflmaoapimp! You're so unserious https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif

[quote author=anointed_f link=topic=707227.msg8660570#msg8660570 date=1309941733]Eleven days after, Mr. Kolade Arowolo, who was suspected to have killed his wife, Titilayo, a banker with Skye Bank, Marina Branch, Monday denied stabbing and killing the deceased.

He said contrary to public opinion, the deceased stabbed herself to death.

The suspect was said to have killed his 29-year-old wife in cold blood at their No. 8 Akindehinde Street, Isolo, a suburb of Lagos, on Saturday, June 24.

According to him, he had been having serious issues with the deceased over their marriage before that fateful day that she ended up killing herself, after stabbing him too.

Recalling what transpired between them that day, Arowolo said the deceased was acting under the influence of demons that took over her body and turned her into another person entirely.

He said: “The woman was possessed that day and while we were quarreling, she went into the kitchen and brought out a knife with which she overpowered me and then began to stab me all over my body and head.

“The next thing I saw, she started stabbing herself repeatedly with the knife while telling me that she was tired of the marriage and that since I did not want to let her go, she will kill me and then kill herself.”

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/-i-didn-t-kill-my-wife-she-stabbed-herself-to-death-/94467/[/quote]Lmao! This sap must really think the public operates on a very low acumen.

chaircover:
It took him a whole 11 days to think up this pathetic poor nollywood script excuse.

I read somewhere that this woman was stabbed mostly in the head and chest; now wouldnt the right area to automatically choose if one was stabbing oneself be the abdomen?

Hopefully It wont be too much to ask the investgators to check the DNA on the handle of the knife.

I still dont understand the kind of rage that was within this man that made him commit such a prolonged and savage attack on the mother of his child; a womam he lies in bed with at night and a woman he would at some time sat down with and discussed their future aspirations and dreams with.

I cant beleive that this guy was so mentally challenged, yet no one noticed it before now; not even his neighbours, friends, family members etc

Hey CC! Hope you're good? You've been scarce (in the kitchen). . . Good to have you back though.  

Lmao @ the laughter. You aren't serious o.

Awww! I did not only understand what you said, I also commend your English.  

We are all beautiful the way we are - Fearfully or wonderfully made.  

Whatever happened to being with your 'kind'?

OAM4J:
Enjoy my love! 

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Awww! You're so sweet.      
Come over to my room 7pm this evening, there's sum'n' I wan' tell you and It's gon' take me all night to do that.  
Largie, I don't want your brovva again, soweee.  

akunta:
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
u bet i love it!!!!!!!
Thanks Oma4j
Missy b kitchen is da best!!!!!
Quote me!

Firearm, did you hear/read that?

Knock Knock! Can I have a plate of white rice and fish stew, please?

I'm so f[i]u[/i]cked up!

OAM4J:
^hey! sorry o, i heard you closed shop. I understand! e no easy.

If it is not Missy B's Kitchen, e no fit be like Missy B's kitchen. Ndo, pele!

Be nice! Can't you see he's lost everything?

Firearm:
^^^^

Lol! I warned you not to compete with Missy but you never listened. See now?! Dead business, runaway customers. Anyway, cheer up . . . You're invited to the party.

wendybaby:
Hi Missy! Wt's up with you?
Just passing by nd decided to check in.
Wouldn't mind something very very special to kick-start the weekend.
Thanks a bunch luv u gurl**** always.

It's friday, let's have a lil party. Here darling . . .

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**Missy changes into her mini-skirt and is dancing alanta**

So feeling Naija songs today

Oyoyo - J martins

My brother, dis kind of life na to jolly deh go eh -Oyoyo
E nor matta whether dem like you or not eh - Oyoyo
     

Snail is rich(er) in protein and irony (than beef), and it has low fat content.

iyatrustee:
tot the business had folded up

Firearm:
My enemies will never succeed

Rotfl!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=451442.msg8626333#msg8626333 date=1309480809]What is wrong with you, woman!!

I am at the Library with no food and I just saw mamagee quote this particular delicacy. Are you trying to kill an Ekiti woman? [/quote]Lol! Let me know if you need fruit to go with it.

Katsumoto:
Can I have a Mojito? I see you are an expert with Nigeria food, are you able to prepare meals from other countries? Can you prepare Vatapá? Its a Brazilian delicacy that uses palm oil.

Enjoy!

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[quote author=deli.cious link=topic=451442.msg8615485#msg8615485 date=1309354128]Missy, chicken wings with strawberry yogurt. Sharp sharp!!

I yam hungry. Thanks  [/quote]Enjoy!

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[size=17pt]UPDATE[/size]

Chioma Toplis wrote on her facebook page on June 20. -
"Please any one that knows actress Oge Okoye should tell her to free me o, as i am very very busy with my business which is why i am in Nigeria and do not and will never have time for her idle gosips and side talks. While you do please tell her also to concentrate in taking care of her children as i am doing too, and stop wasting her time discussing me as i am not the cause of her failed marriage''.

Chioma wrote again: "While Oge Okoye is biting the fingers that fed her, she should also remember that those fingers could still choke her, especially MINE"

Oge is yet to respond.

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jay bee:
I love me pork as well but on a moderate level.

Doing aiight hun . . . . been a while
We need to catch up soon though at the usual place

Good to know you're good. Of course we need to, me is always ready for you

iice:
[color=#9900ff]A lot of people think coke is superior.  Maybe it is. . .i don't know.

I don't prefer any.  There are days i'd rather drink coke and days i'd rather drink pepsi.[/color]

It most likely is. . . .It even costs more money