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Englishisamust:
Good evening, I saw this question online. Can someone earning 600k per month build a house in Nigeria??

Mordson:
If you have a well paying business or job, you won't be saying all of this.

Reading between the lines I can deduce the fact that you're very poor. I mean extremely broke. The fact that your wife goes to her mum at the slightest provocation points to that. If you're rich or financial okay, your wife won't dump you like this. Do you think Regina Daniels would ever leave Ned Nwoko, no matter the maltreatment she gets from him? Never.

And something tells me you couldn't satisfy her in za oza room as well. Cos even if you're poor, your wife would have consoled herself with the fact that you make her orgasm all the time in the bedroom. So I understand why you feel miserable.

I will just advise you to get another woman who would accept you the way you are, and you'd forget your ex wife in no time. Except it's extremely hard for you to chyke a woman. 🤨

WorkTheTalk:
https://x.com/Prince_Fynnd/status/1846556130350104933?t=NFdrA3T-PNxierxGxOVBHA&s=19[/quote]This post is for everybody both men and women but women especially. They if your first pregnacy it will not affect the baby, they but the next babies will be affected. So if you have this problem with your current partner and you you have done abortions for him without be treated to save the other babies.... Just know that you are in trouble.

Ladies!!! Yes I am talking to you, I go to the clinic and make all is well. My two cents

bukatyne:
What's stopping him from moving on?

Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having one. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?

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dgee1:
Please do you have the doctor's contact?

FRANKOSKI:
DOES IT WORK ?

BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

airprince:
And I’m willing to invest 10m naira into the project

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end our marriage

OlawaleBammie:
Madam, that ur supposed good man will one day Bleep up, and if u re not prepare for it u will mess things up. That is the msg they are passing to u

LordAdam16:
The man you described in bold is a rarity.

Men generally have one or two vices. Rarely are they the spawn of Hades embodying every vice out there.

The trouble for you ladies is that the same conditions that make you relish your early adulthood create the same mechanics that make your middle and late adulthood a nightmare. When you leave your husband with his vices, you're not going to meet angels out there.

You can't teach an old dog new tricks. All the wonderful guys have been snapped up. A man with bad character will use his money to blind new women, not change for you. The dating pool for untethered men in their 30s and higher is not funny. You will have to settle for what vices you can tolerate. After a few years of dissatisfaction, you'll start weighing your choices. Did you really trade up or did you take a different poison? By the time you're asking this pertinent question, it's too late.

The things you value when you're 32 are different from what you value when you're 53 and your kids have flown out of the coop.

Something as simple as career advice from a man who's lived with a kid and intimately knows the kids strengths and flaws is invaluable.

My advice for women in bad marriages is divorce should be the last option, unless you're being assaulted. Get a side dude. Coworker, ex, boss, church member, customer, in law; doesn't matter. Keep it under wraps of course. Don't be stupid. Married or not is not your business, because if you leave, you're still going to get on all fours for another woman's man. You can't escape it.

You pretty much have to be as beautiful as Emanuelle Chriqui, Monica Bellucci, or Meta Golding to think that men who have their heads screwed on right will be falling over themselves to hand you commitments when even your teenage daughter is having a crush. Jungle rough!

But you know what, maybe your case will be different. If you believe so, you can disregard everything I typed.

-Lord