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englishmart:
What's your reaction going to be like if you meet your brother in-law treating your sister this way?

FashionCookie:
Lolzzz... Tummy trimmer is good. I use mine in the mornings while going about my House chores. Take it off b4 my morning bath then, wear it again from 5pm pending my evening bath. E no easy o...most pple u see wear it. Forming slim shady

dermmy:
No,15 is not too much
I take 5 in the morning, afternoon and evening.
In fact i used to take 21 before now.

owobokiri:
Talk is cheap... My Belle is still growing round after observing all that. .. I think apart from regular work outs, most of these other suggestions seldom work..

surebona:
Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?

Divanona:
Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.

We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant.
The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school.
I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby.
I went through everything all by myself.
Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days.
He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.

now, I'm so confused with my life.

He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.


I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life.
The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.

A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans.
But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.

Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.

Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused.
What would you advise? What should I do?
I don't want to make more mistakes.

Sorry for my lengthy write-up

forzarush:
please where exactly do you take immunization?

Megaflex:
I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.

I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.

Mod please help me move this to front-page

momokiddies:
someone help , please. my baby is four weeks old. he passes gas a lot and I can tell this gasses are painful with the way he stretches his legs and feet and sometimes cry afterwards.
secondly, he poops after every feed. he is basically on breast milk . could it be something I am eating ? my mother in-law said it is jedi-jedi that I should get campfra and put in water for him to drink. I have been reluctant to do that.

thirdly, he seems he has stomach pains as he stretches and every time as someone who is in pains.
should I be worried and go see a doc? my main concern is the poo after every feed and the painful gas he passes frequently.

thanks

jacy346:
Good morning mamas, please my 4 weeks son just developed catarrh that keeps him awake at night,I bought NOCOF DROP for him yet no improvement. Please any idea how to get rid of it locally?

mommatriplets:
pls, do you have the complete chart/listing for vaccinations from birth till 1year.. i have seen some online, but i want actual/real world experiences

doggedfighter:
Tor
5 years for 2.2 million

lioha:
At what rate pls?

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

tutudesz:
The infection rate is rising daily and Sunday service is today Religious leaders are more interested in opening without thinking of what will happen if one or two people attend service.

UzorChinonso:
Good day Nairalanders, I have been married for just a year now and it has not been easy here! My Husband wants to know every thing about my finance. He has disturbed me to know how much is my salary worth of.

I have always denied him of the fact, what I know is that I used my money to refurbish our flat, got some new things to change the outlook of the place....

But I am not really finding it funny any longer. As we speak, he collected my ATM card since last two weeks, said I must tell him the pin or I should forget having it back. I went to my bank, told them that I lost the card and they changed it for me last Friday and he collected it again said it's either I tell him the pin or he will do something funny ...

I don't know what funny thing he's gonna do but I am worried! Pls is this how marriage is?
He claims to own me and own my salary! Is it fair? This marriage is too early instead I would have quit and I am pregnant at the moment!
What do I do? I don't want anybody to know anything about my finances including him till I have my baby whom my spirit accepted that I should make my next of kin.

What do I do ?

learner007:
And what did you think is the problem of the entire world right now? Is it not the same SELFISHNESS? It's all about me, what I think and how I feel. I'm AS also, but I not planning to marry any AS lady

bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.

We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

lioha:
At what rate pls?

Olamidealex50:
pls im interested.
olamidealex50@gmail.com

Ebonybiuty:
Pls I am also interested ma.
Ebonybiuty@yahoo.com
Thanks

Jellos:
please send this: kateruruehi@gmail.com thanks

Opsycal:
Please send to me hellocalbella@gmail.com
Thank you