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Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

visijo:
Don’t end this year keeping secrets, tell your girlfriends you won’t marry them . �

donbrowser:
I'm even the most confused man at the moment. I have 2 wife materials to choose from

BadRadio:
When you think you've found the bones of your bones, one yahoo boy will just come out of the blues and snatch her away from you.


Prospective wife materials are being carried away and these Yahoo boys prey on them.

Yahoo boys pls leave good girls alone so we can see one to marry.

Yahoo boys dont deserve wife material biko

Havesomesense:
what are you enjoying in your current relationship?

1. Intimacy
2. Attention
3. Liberty
4. Encouragement
5. Comfort
6. Peace of mind
7. Gifts
8. Communication
9. Respect
10. Protection

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Cejebid161:
Mass Communication Or Business Administration

PillarToPost:
This photo has been trending on Facebook and I decided to bring it here to have the views of Nairaland ladies.

Ladies, is it a Yah or Nah?

Let's hear you.

Explorers:
26.

crackhaus:
Only people who are possessed with the spirit of witchcraft and afflicted with poverty mentality, will see anything wrong when a woman's BIL goes into the kitchen to cook something for his guest/friend. I said what I said...


In this decade when women are taking charge of industries and big businesses, some are still forming alpha & omega of kitchen matters.

Funkeshuga:
Stop dating non virgin lady not for just loyalty but to make her commit all her emotions to you


Average ladies are still loyal to their first love just because they made them a woman, that mentality had stink to many Nigeria ladies


Stop dating over used lady and get sense

Alexgman1:
You have being dating a girl for a year and all of a sudden she broke up with you and went back to her ex who she said she hated so much & would hurt him if she ever saw him again because he used her & took advantage of her. Do you think there is something am not doing right Or does her ex has something i dont have that she went back to him?

luminouz:
You lots are the selfish ones. It's always about you,you and YOU.

Everything I read about your reply stinks of selfishness. It doesn't matter what we do for y'all, you don't ever get satisfied, always throwing tantrums around like infants.

If he can hump on you like a horse, baby,he can fuq you also like HORSE. So keep quiet and tender that pussy to him,with an apology. Give him doggy as a bonus.

luminouz:
Surely you can't be blind to what he posted, can you?

He has TWO HOUSEHELPS!!!! and he is still getting fuqed up by his wife!! So what dafuq is your point? Or is he not treating her like a Queen enough? Wait... I thought in marriage,two bodies become one and he has access to her body and conjugal rights anytime he wants it or are you not married to NOT KNOW THAT?

Let her hold the sex na...her eyes go clear when he goes outside to get it.

innovestor:
Do not assume all cases are like Nollywood movie as you described.

I have two "house helps" to manage chores at home and manage the kids, yet the OP's assertion is still rife. I guess you are not married. Probably you could have given an answer from experience.

CalliDora1:

Na food?

On a more serious note though, I think what usually causes it is, the woman is most times overwhelmed with the wifely duties at the homefront. in the process she's expended therefore sex will be the last thing on her mind as the passion for it will have died from exaustion from doing chores. If you observed, it usually happens after the kids have started coming and the workload has increased.

If the man can make arrangements for a house help ( not necessarily a live-in help) to assist with the chores, the woman will be more relaxed to reason sex as it's only a relaxed mind that can get a woman in the mood .

grossintel:
Okay oh, we just ended 2020, 7 days later una won invite Demon join come 2021 abi? corona never end oh.

fnep2smooth:
That is what women get when they cant close their legs after marriage........................ New strategy for guys to japa from wicked wife. The worst thing is they wont open up but secretly watching the child and knowing its not their husband child they will still act like they dont know, that's wickedness of the highest order.

Guys open your eye oooo before you die of shock.
If you are ok... Do a DNA test
if you dont have money also look closely....... before your child go de believe like your landlord or gateman








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pretydiva:
I wonder the kind of home training most of these men had while growing up. Mother's have a whole lot to instill in their male children

obembet:
As we all know that year 2020 has been a wonderful year, the year of Survival. I believe that year 2020 is a year many of us can not forget in a hurry. Despite the sad news, many of us still achieve our goals.

So therefore, what are the things are u appreciating God for. REMEMBER, APPRECIATION IS APPLICATION FOR MORE

As for me, I really appreciate God for the Gift of life and protection over me and my family throughout the year 2020.

femi4:
imagine, ghetto get fat people too

Obarofrederick:
You are very discipline, I like that