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Cejebid161:
Mass Communication Or Business Administration

PillarToPost:
This photo has been trending on Facebook and I decided to bring it here to have the views of Nairaland ladies.

Ladies, is it a Yah or Nah?

Let's hear you.

Explorers:
26.

crackhaus:
Only people who are possessed with the spirit of witchcraft and afflicted with poverty mentality, will see anything wrong when a woman's BIL goes into the kitchen to cook something for his guest/friend. I said what I said...


In this decade when women are taking charge of industries and big businesses, some are still forming alpha & omega of kitchen matters.

Funkeshuga:
Stop dating non virgin lady not for just loyalty but to make her commit all her emotions to you


Average ladies are still loyal to their first love just because they made them a woman, that mentality had stink to many Nigeria ladies


Stop dating over used lady and get sense

Alexgman1:
You have being dating a girl for a year and all of a sudden she broke up with you and went back to her ex who she said she hated so much & would hurt him if she ever saw him again because he used her & took advantage of her. Do you think there is something am not doing right Or does her ex has something i dont have that she went back to him?

luminouz:
You lots are the selfish ones. It's always about you,you and YOU.

Everything I read about your reply stinks of selfishness. It doesn't matter what we do for y'all, you don't ever get satisfied, always throwing tantrums around like infants.

If he can hump on you like a horse, baby,he can fuq you also like HORSE. So keep quiet and tender that pussy to him,with an apology. Give him doggy as a bonus.

luminouz:
Surely you can't be blind to what he posted, can you?

He has TWO HOUSEHELPS!!!! and he is still getting fuqed up by his wife!! So what dafuq is your point? Or is he not treating her like a Queen enough? Wait... I thought in marriage,two bodies become one and he has access to her body and conjugal rights anytime he wants it or are you not married to NOT KNOW THAT?

Let her hold the sex na...her eyes go clear when he goes outside to get it.

innovestor:
Do not assume all cases are like Nollywood movie as you described.

I have two "house helps" to manage chores at home and manage the kids, yet the OP's assertion is still rife. I guess you are not married. Probably you could have given an answer from experience.

CalliDora1:

Na food?

On a more serious note though, I think what usually causes it is, the woman is most times overwhelmed with the wifely duties at the homefront. in the process she's expended therefore sex will be the last thing on her mind as the passion for it will have died from exaustion from doing chores. If you observed, it usually happens after the kids have started coming and the workload has increased.

If the man can make arrangements for a house help ( not necessarily a live-in help) to assist with the chores, the woman will be more relaxed to reason sex as it's only a relaxed mind that can get a woman in the mood .

grossintel:
Okay oh, we just ended 2020, 7 days later una won invite Demon join come 2021 abi? corona never end oh.

fnep2smooth:
That is what women get when they cant close their legs after marriage........................ New strategy for guys to japa from wicked wife. The worst thing is they wont open up but secretly watching the child and knowing its not their husband child they will still act like they dont know, that's wickedness of the highest order.

Guys open your eye oooo before you die of shock.
If you are ok... Do a DNA test
if you dont have money also look closely....... before your child go de believe like your landlord or gateman








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pretydiva:
I wonder the kind of home training most of these men had while growing up. Mother's have a whole lot to instill in their male children

obembet:
As we all know that year 2020 has been a wonderful year, the year of Survival. I believe that year 2020 is a year many of us can not forget in a hurry. Despite the sad news, many of us still achieve our goals.

So therefore, what are the things are u appreciating God for. REMEMBER, APPRECIATION IS APPLICATION FOR MORE

As for me, I really appreciate God for the Gift of life and protection over me and my family throughout the year 2020.

femi4:
imagine, ghetto get fat people too

Obarofrederick:
You are very discipline, I like that

englishmart:
What's your reaction going to be like if you meet your brother in-law treating your sister this way?

FashionCookie:
Lolzzz... Tummy trimmer is good. I use mine in the mornings while going about my House chores. Take it off b4 my morning bath then, wear it again from 5pm pending my evening bath. E no easy o...most pple u see wear it. Forming slim shady

dermmy:
No,15 is not too much
I take 5 in the morning, afternoon and evening.
In fact i used to take 21 before now.

owobokiri:
Talk is cheap... My Belle is still growing round after observing all that. .. I think apart from regular work outs, most of these other suggestions seldom work..

surebona:
Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?

Divanona:
Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.

We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant.
The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school.
I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby.
I went through everything all by myself.
Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days.
He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.

now, I'm so confused with my life.

He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.


I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life.
The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.

A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans.
But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.

Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.

Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused.
What would you advise? What should I do?
I don't want to make more mistakes.

Sorry for my lengthy write-up