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Crime / How Is The Local Security Setup In Your Area? by MistaMann: 12:06pm On Oct 03, 2022 |
Some areas in a city, town or communities do setup some form of local security like vigilante, night watchers... and so on. If their is such in your area: How much do you contribute? How well do people contribute? Is it voluntary to contribute? If no How do you tackle defaulters? How much are the security paid? How bad is the situation before the setup? E.g theft, burglary... Does the security setup really helps? In my new place I find out they want to form such after a recent robbery incident in the area. And I think it looks somehow sha. First only few people(17 boys) were recruited. Just some local boys holding probably matchet and knives. Secondly the area is too large for there number Third, 1 major entrance to the area was baracade but there are tons of other exit and entrance to the area can be used by car, foot or train Lastly rent for a room and a parlour sef is even around 100-170k depending on the test. Security fee is 2k5 per month for each room or apartment. Whooping 30k per year. Imagine those in face me I face you or self contain paying half or more than their rent as security fee. How is this even realistic. This is a place in a state capital in North Central. Not some borno or zamfara oo |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by MistaMann: 6:52am On May 14, 2022 |
My phone consumed around 1.5 -1.9gig but now it consume 3-4 gig doing fairly the same amount of work. Please what could be the problem or how can I rectify it? Phone is redmi note 8 |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by MistaMann: 6:06am On Apr 05, 2022 |
I updated my RN8 but I noticed it has become very slow. Please what could be the problem or how can I rectify it? |
Family / . by MistaMann: 10:22am On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by MistaMann: 8:55am On Mar 07, 2022 |
Planning to get a 1 hp AC. Other appliances I run are 32inchs TV Decoder 2 light bulb Please if am to get the normal 1 hp AC what capacity of generator should I go for? What if I get an inverter AC? |
Religion / Re: Thoughts in my head about the Ever Knowing God by MistaMann: 3:42am On Feb 11, 2022 |
valuka: Everything in Christianity and all other religions can not stand scrutiny and common sense. Try subjecting their text, belief or doctrines to reason and common sense they'll all fall apart. Finally you are realising it is now. You are on your way to redemption. |
Romance / Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by MistaMann: 3:00pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
xxxtedyxxx How do I play my cards well with a girl I want as FWB without making her think am Love or I want a relationship especially at the beginning? |
Education / Re: Female Corps Member Repeatedly Rejects Colleague's Marriage Proposal (VIDEO) by MistaMann: 9:41am On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: Want To Marry But Don't Want To Have Children by MistaMann: 10:08am On Dec 18, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Search for childfree groups on Facebook, most of them are private thus. Join so that you can see for yourself. As for nairaland, search using "I want to marry don't want children nairaland" through Google and visit each thread. |
Romance / Re: Want To Marry But Don't Want To Have Children by MistaMann: 11:33am On Dec 16, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: I didn't give a figure or claim that most people abroad don't want to have children. My use of the word staggering was because I never expected that much people have the idea. I checked online. Article from Wikipedia which I believe are gotten from survey/research. Even on nairaland( you can search)there are threads/people wanting to be childfree yet still with desire to marry. Check on Facebook their are plenty of childfree groups with thousands of members. |
Romance / Want To Marry But Don't Want To Have Children by MistaMann: 7:00pm On Dec 14, 2021 |
When I checked the percentage of people that don't want to have children in the USA it was staggering yet most of them struggle to find partner( from my observation from comments on Facebook groups) Now compare this with Nigeria or Africa, what are the odds to find a partner? Cc: Contumely loveliveshere DIG1 dowjones Klass99 phazotron folake4u Cannicus mysticgal tiredNigerian oceanized25 ChiamakaO93 kelvinrhs Olorunnim HannahHitler melody91 olalekan9320 Breaststroke ebonyggurl sabanageorge Are you now married, found a partner or in any kind of relationship with someone with this mindset? |
Romance / When Can One Say He/she Is Comfortable Financially? by MistaMann: 10:56am On Dec 02, 2021 |
In my opinion provided your saving/income can take care of your expenses without any hassle. Or if your income is greater than your expenses. So their is no benchmark for the amount. Someone earning just 100k annually can be comfortable. NB: my take is not on what one wish to have or what would make someone life comfortable. Because someone can be earning a trillion naira and still wouldn't be comfortable. What's your opinion? |
Family / Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 4:12pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Oyiboman69: It is better to be 99 years poor and single than be 38 years with 1 child and poor. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 4:01pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
AdeOri99: They see marriage and having kids as way of life. It is easier to face life when alone than when married especially with kids. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 3:43pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Tobichuks08: You'll brag with it in heaven, hell, Valhalla or the underworld? That you have a son who stood by your grave during your burial? What value does it add to the deceased against someone without a heir to stand by his/her grave? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 3:34pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Tobichuks08: The guy was totally off with the part you bold
The thread is about marrying or having kids without a source of livelihood or income that can't provide/cater for basic needs not even luxury.
What do you mean by poor here? How can you be poor with kids which are being subjected to hardship and still enjoy life please Inability to send you children to a basic decent school? Eating 2 meals a day or living on less than 1 dollar a day? Begging landlord not to evict you? Your children being sent home from school? Begging, borrowing to supplement your salary? Another word for being poor This is how you push some people without sense to marry then at the end of the day they become an element of pity, begging to feed. Why risk having the kids with the hope that tomorrow things might get better? With the stat about poverty rate in Nigeria do you need a seer to tell you it doesn't work?
Heir to inherit poverty and soko loan dept left behind abi 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 2:34pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: Go to the dating section, 80% of those dropping their contact are men looking for relationship or looking for a lady to marry. Check all the threads on nairaland asking why singles aren't married or staying single. Almost all the replies are from men citing lack of job or money. I am not against marriage or whatever age you decide to marry. But having children without a reasonable source of income that would give them a decent life is wickedness and inhuman. They are complaining yet adding children. Some with only 2 kids and can't even pay rent or school fees in time oo but still adding another kid. You hear their reasons like, ✓my mates friends are all married ✓ I am getting old ✓ My parents are pressuring me etc You hear people giving reasons for having children like: ✓Who would take care of you when old ✓Who would preserve my name ✓My mother said she wants grandchildren. ✓Who would be the heir to my possession. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 2:01pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a good wife finds a good thing and shall obtain favour from the lord. "Marry the single people from among you and the righteous slaves and slave-girls. If you are poor, Allah (SwT) will make you rich through His favour; and Allah (SwT) is Bountiful, All-Knowing." (Surah 24, Verse 32) 90% of Nigerians are religious. This is one of their motivation. 1 Like |
Gaming / Re: What Game Are You Currently Playing? by MistaMann: 4:14pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Phone Number And You Just Might Get A Date by MistaMann: 6:05pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Singles Connect: If You Are Single, Real And Searching... by MistaMann: 4:43pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: READY FOR MARRIAGE MATCHMAKING(SINGLES FOR MARRIAGE)RFM by MistaMann: 4:39pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by MistaMann: 4:38pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Number And Location, You Might Get A Date by MistaMann: 4:37pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Phone Number And You Just Might Get A Date by MistaMann: 4:37pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 2024!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by MistaMann: 4:36pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by MistaMann: 9:32am On Oct 30, 2021 |
After like 30min to 1 hour running my gen would go off. It would start by becoming loud and it is like the speed also increases, this happens like 3-7 before the gen goes off. When I noticed the second that the gen would go off, I off my TV, the Gen wouldn't go off again. sound would go back to normal within seconds, then I on the TV back. Within 5 or so minutes it would start again most likely this time around would go off even after taking the load down. And if I turn it off voluntarily it doesn't stop the way it is supposed to. Normally it rolls but comes to a stop gradually. In my case it just stop. And some times it behaves like there is no fuel then after some while it stop. I took it to a mechanic, he said the sound is normal and gen is okay. That It is the pistil that doesn't allow engine oil to go around it. This has been happening the last 4 times I tried using it. Can you tell what could be the problem please, maybe the mechanic doesn't know the problem. Gptech The gen is "I pass my neighbor" there is enough engine oil mix. |
Family / Re: M by MistaMann: 8:02am On Oct 30, 2021 |
huutmannn: I do hear/see guys taking the financial responsibility of their girlfriends, while others take care of it themselves. There is no major difference when you are single compared to when married. Maybe you only added a mouth to feed in the case of if the wife isn't working or contributing financially. But when you bring children in to the equation the whole narrative changes. The decision to marry, have children and number of children you wished is greatly influenced by the type of life you want to leave or give your children. If you don't mind living in a slum, eating 2 or less square meal a day, your children attend all these public schools without sit/desk, not be able to afford 10k emergency medical fees and so on. Sure with a salary or income of 20k you can marry and have 5 kids. While on the other hand if you want your child(ren) to attend a good school paying like 50k school fees, visit a fairly good hospital which you can afford, eat good food, wear good clothes, leave in a good good rented or personal house in a good neighborhood and so on. Your current income will tell you if you can pull such type of life. The more luxurious life you want to leave or give your children the more you have to earn. So decided for yourself. There are people earning 20k, they birth 5 children. Sure they know the kind of life they want to leave and also give their children. There are people earning 500k with only 2 kids. They wish to have more but they feel their income can't accommodate such the life they want. There are those with 500k whom are not yet married with the excuse that they don't earn much. So OP what type of life do you want to leave and also give your children, there you'll have your answer. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Why You Shouldn't Argue Blindly On Nairaland! (Pictures) by MistaMann: 7:15am On Oct 30, 2021 |
Xenry: It doesn't matter whether an individual is 18 or 99 years old, what matters is the intellectual capacity, mental reasoning, comprehensive capabilities of an individual and the level of exposure, knowledge about what is being discussed or argued. Just because someone is young does not mean the individual knows nothing. Not only on nairaland, generally know whom you want to argue or discuss with. The first few sentences would tell you if a person is intellectually sound or knowledgeable about the topic in hand or if the individual is welling to reason out or is just a troll. Like you now what you posted tells me a lot about you. You couldn't figure out that age has nothing to do with discussion or arguement this is a red flag for me. Would I engage in an argument with you now? No. Besides today is Saturday I have some uniform to wash. 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Is It Compulsory To Have A Child? by MistaMann: 5:00pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
adeniyi65:The last time I checked it is no crime if you don't want to have children. Their is no law against not wanting a child. You don't fall and die just because you don't want to have children. So OP it is not compulsory. If you want children have them and if you don't it is your choice. 1 Like |
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