"He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?"

Sister! Sister! Sister! How many times did I call you? I am begging you with all that I am and all that I will ever get to be, RAW (RUN A WAY) Run! This will be the best thing you can ever do for yourself. Anyone who feels like you are making a mistake should have him. How will you ever think a guy who isn't even married to you yet can change when everything is showing you that he will eventually kill you. He is insecure, selfish, aggressive, manipulative and crazy. Run.

Love your creativity. More please...

First of all Bro I find it hard to believe you masturbate 4 times a day. I see all you need is a job that keeps you too busy and tired at the end to even think of having an orgasm. You need to limit the times you spend alone. Get a good habit, if you have so much time in ur hands, spend it with people, go to the field, learn to jog and above all, pray. As you walk, lay down, just always have a word of encouragement for yourself. Tell yourself you can do it. It is not going to be easy, but who needs easy? You're a man! control! Tell yourself that everyday! Be strong! You can do this

I can't begin to tell you how bored I became trying to get to the question you wanted to ask. Lord!
Please, learn to go short on the words.
Okay first of all (Go down low) If a lady even writes " In a relationship" as her status, it means nothing most of the time. Heck! She can even add "Married" nothing changes except for her kind of person. You should get to know her very well. That sex you guys had, spoils everything at the early stage. She might not be the kind that wants her relationship advertised on social media or, your girl is actually not your girl. Just saying man. Fact is, you aren't as important to her as she is to you...

This is quiet a lovely news. Ladies, bite that meat

This is when even jungle justice will make sense. I remember loosing my big toenail one time because I and my sister were trying to safe a child from her step mother. We beat up that woman eh.
This kind of punishment is dehumanizing the children. They will always feel worthless. Please always defend this children if you find yourself near. This is wickedness for Pete's sake.

You're beautiful sis ... Kisses

The trash been behind you says it all...

Randy100:
There is a saying that goes "old habit never goes away" rather you built another habit to suppress the old habit. There is another saying that people don't change they just find new way to lie. The summary of the tragedy is that Orji is a hot tempered man who can even burn a saint who cheated on him, same with a prostitute who claimed to have changed. I strongly condemn Orji for taking the life of the prostitute of his wife.

Why are you calling her his wife? When was that marriage contracted? Him that has become a saint. abi? I can't even imagine a fraudster seeking fidelity. Just like kettle calling pot black. Anyways, it could even be that his sacrifice for more success was to kill her. Mind you, there are always exceptions to every rule. Change is the only constant thing in this life and everyone has a right to a benefit of a doubt. Old habits "hardly " die, but the "do" die.. Peace.

Boringdraw1:
wishing washy audio boyfriend

Yeah! Whatever

Lord!!!!!

Same for the ladies mehn, if you don't have anything to offer, just pack well.

Reminds me of the last time I sat with my boyfriend. Just saying mehn!!

So the sugar daddies aren't enough after all

I don't find this news worthy. So what Aunty? the dude has wives and isn't bothered about having more. So what? Get a life..

Randy100:
A prostitute will never change. A pig can never change. Orji, you made a terrible mistake and you will face the consequence alone.

I disagree with you. That is a terrible misconception. This idiot would have still burnt even a saint if he had an inkling of her cheating. He's obviously sick in the head. If you can't deal with it, send her away. Who says you must keep her? Once a prostitute not always a prostitute.

I think most of our establishments, government arms and ministries are loosing their grip as regards their authority. I wish everyone will realize this sooner because we are just becoming liberal about everything.

The president Buhari led government will have to sort out all these inconsistencies before this nation will trust them. Just picking about the bush won't do. It seems to me like they are picking one person as a scape goat so that the people will not say they are shielding the culprits.

Okay let's hear it

SteveOfu:
My dad refused me getting married to the love of my life then saying he is too old( 34yrs) and much exposed for my age .He was a personal assistant to Abia state Governor then. I was only 16 and felt I have arrived been fiancé to such person.He cherished me. Truthfully,he never touched me.

Few weeks after,,he traveled for business promising to convince my dad on his return. My father's refusal made me stubborn, I didn't want be around my home cos their over Christian life was making them see everything in another view,i cannot confide in my late mum without getting this look of you must be like a rev in this home. so i ran to my girlfriend's house. She was about 4yrs older than I was then but my body structure made us look like age mates. She convinced me to follow her to PH for her birthday party. Didn't know I was been arranged for her boyfriend's brother.
I was drunk ,first time anyways and he took advantage of me. By morning he was apologizing and professing love and wanting to date me... begged me to take him to my home I refused. I was confused,the love of my life is coming home the next week.how will I face him. I went home,my parents were angry with me but still didn't care to know how I feel, what I wanted but happy I came home alive.

Two weeks later I noticed I was pregnant,i opened up to my man and he said"mummy,do not ever ever tell anyone what happened,this child is mine and it's going to be reason your dad will let me marry you." We hide the pregnancy till it was 6 months,then he came again but my dad stubbornly turned him down again claiming my people don't give out a pregnant woman in marriage till I deliver.

After the delivery of my son whose birthday is today too ,my dad said he is free to marry me but without the boy. He made some underground plan to send us to his mum abroad if after talking to my dad with some relations and it didn't work out. He traveled to his village(Item) to get an uncle to help talk to my dad only for him to come back poisoned,he died two days after 6 months after,i got admission for a preliminary course in fedpoly campus. My parents took my child and I went back to school.avoided men like plague,finished my study then proceeded for my OND. After my OND finals, I went home for my aunty's burial,there I met my daughter's father. He tried everything for us to date and I refused then went ahead to tell him my story. He felt pity on me (so I thought Sha). He started visiting me in school more often, giving me listening ears and all that I lack from home.
I decided to give him a chance.

One month into the relationship, I took in, told him and he asked me to get an abortion because he is from my late aunty's compound,I ran to my cousin who is also his cousin and he called for a meeting. This guy who has been pestering me, traveling all the way from Abuja to Oko to see had the guts to tell everyone present that i am a good girl but he has a fiancé he wants to marry.
When asked the way forward, he said he will do what my people call "agbachaa afo ime"(no English na for it but a kinda way of he has nothing to do with the child and the amount for that was 20k then). I didn't know if I should start crying. I cursed him in tears.
My mum said her pain was she nursed this boy in question while babysitting her elder sister's children in that compound, his own mother pleaded with him to take me as his wife but he was adamant. My dad rejected the money,we left. He warned him never to smell our compound.

I had my daughter 29th January 2004 ,her dad had accident that day, shop burnt, container lost in the sea, the girl left him one month later for his friend then he ran back to me. Begged for marriage but no, not for me, all I did was lift the curse, out of joy he said he will never get married till I do and he kept the promise. My mum started pestering me to accept a suitor, to please her I did in 2013 and by 2016 the marriage ended.
So now,i am happily single.I don't ever want to get married.

This is how I became a single mum of 2 champions,though I will never let anyone I know go through it..

You are strong sis, hang in there. You'll be okay soon, you'll see.

Thank you so much for clearing this up for me. I was waiting to go there myself to find out.

Well, we all know facts are facts. Some things don't need to be pointed out. That you are a priest is not a sign that you are holy. Learn to live a godly life and stick with it. No one should judge. All have sinned.

This is very commendable. Congratulations to the people of Plateau state and all students of the University.

My cellulite sister, please be covering it na.

Well, she came to Lagos right, I think that's why she had to cover her nose. We know that we don't have light na, why una dey vex? Sisi just finish what brought you here and go back.