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Fiscus105:
The trash you guys doing here, claiming Africa man, need to be cut into size over there.


If you behave like good man and caring husband over there, you won't have problem with ur wife.

I know several guys that married over there and still enjoying their marriages, those guys that often encounter marital problems are the one that doing shit, they known them for in Nigeria.

There are all manner of reasons for marital problems to assume that the man is always at fault is nonsense.

There are terrible men who no woman should marry but because of "female nature" they end up married anyway. On the other side many a good man has had his life shattered by an undeserving woman.

Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women.

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.

Can you kindly fill in the blanks for us. We don't know this man. What did he do to deserve being driven to the point of suicide?

hosemujica:
Who wants to go back there? I don’t know if I’m normal, but I have more fun and enjoy my life way more in Nigeria than in US. So if they try to add anymore frustration to living in US than I already have, will just go back to Naija once.

Preaching to the choir.

hosemujica:
There’s a new way guys do this. The moment you notice divorce is eminent you up and leave .

I have seen it happen twice . One is living in Mexico and another is having his fun in Nigeria. You know it’s hard to win there as a man. Why fight when you can just leave.

You are very right but it means that if you go back to the States they will arrest you and compel you to pay the arrears.

hosemujica:
He was probably born and raised there so he felt he had no option.

The article says he was born in Anambra.

Also, if you're in child support arrears you cannot travel anyway. They won't issue you a passport. They won't even issue you a driver's license.

owobokiri:
Stop marrying these wayward gals that have been totally traumatised during their run gal days. Avoid them. They have damaged themselves beyond repair and are nothing but walking disasters. The ex is somewhere having fun. Jezebel has moved on and will never feel any pain over this. Men! Save yourselves!!!

Look for cultures that are still traditional and marry from there. Whether in Africa or Asia oo. Marry her and treat her nice. But you see most of these "money for hand back for ground" girls you guys pick off the streets once you visit home, they are wild hyenas. You can't domestic a wild hyena.. Loyalty is not the strongest point..

Men have been importing women from SEA for over 50 years in the west. Those marriages also go badly, especially once the women come to realize how favorably the judicial system views them. There is no incentive for many of them be "good wives", only to look out for themselves. It is a system that rewards evil.

People do not read the fine print when they get married in the States but this is what you agree to. When it goes badly the state, in conjunction with the woman, will join hands to clean you out. Not just from what you have acquired up until that date but for up to two decades. It is pure evil.

The judicial system is rigged in favor of the women.

RIP.

Actuarydeji:
Nylon as in? SPAR is looking for a way to scam us!

They're only doing what they've been doing abroad. In California everyone goes with their own reusable shopping bags otherwise you pay for nylon that you end up throwing away.

Sacchi1162:
I'll be bringing my own carton from home

Yes now. That's what they want to stop all the waste. If you look in the gutters across Nigeria half of the trash is nylon. The other half is hair weave.

That's fine but do they sell the woven reusable bags?

osuofia2:
Life has always been aggressive and unfair. Our leaders should be responsible and stop the capital flights. Slave trade stopped over hundred years ago. Our people cross the desert to go for a better life in the white man's land, Think about it. In Nigeria greed and greed keep the country back ward. Let us agree the white people are misleading us, what stop us from using our heads. China, Dubai, Singapore and some other countries were worse than us but look at them today. They didn't blame the white people or anyone. They sat down, strategies and made their country work. Imagine last week a governor from one of the Northern state renovated more than 100 mosques, what is the benefit of that to our economy. Everywhere is littered with mosques and churches yet corruption is the other of the day. Land that is supposed to be used for industrial complex are used for mosques and churches and you want things to change.

The Chinese very much did blame the Europeans for their condition which is why they have been so aggressive in their pursuit of European and American economic conflict. They refer to a period of their history of "100 years of humiliation". The Japanese and Vietnamese also acknowledge their own issues with the West. You must before you can start to dismantle the instruments that keep you in bondage. Africans have failed to which is why the system in place today is scarcely different from what it was 100 years ago. People and and raw materials leave and imported goods come in.

The Chinese have been smart in recognizing that the rules were not drawn up in their favor. They pretend to play by the trade rules and then cannibalize the market by ignoring any and all legislation around IP, trade agreements and tariffs.

What stops us from progress is that thing people here like to call "culture" which is really just a set a bad habits designed to drag you down.

Why do you think there's such an obsession about "respect for elders"? Do you think it's because they want progress? The evidence would suggest not.

Why is there an obsession with superstition and religion? It is tied the previous point. It isn't for the benefit of the majority, it's to keep the status quo in place and use those tools to keep the people stagnant and in fear.

Why is there a refusal to embrace family planning as the rest of the world has done? Who benefits from an ever growing pool of frustrated and impoverished people? Is it Africa that benefits?

osuofia2:
Who asked your leaders to take money to the West. Be responsible for your actions.

I have never asked anyone to take money to Switzerland. The leaders that you speak of are not accountable to the populations that they oversee. How can I be responsible for a situation that is and has always been beyond my control?

There are legal implements in place to stop illicit funds finding their way to European banks. The are supposed to conduct checks to establish that funds deposited into personal accounts have been acquired legitimately but because of the lack of accountability for the banking sector no such checks are made. Even in cases where they launder obvious Mexican drug cartel money the fines are relatively miniscule. Kindly direct your rage at the guilty party in question.

osuofia2:
Do the white forced you to bring the money to their place? Abacha stole a lot of money and the white are returning it. Former governor Joshua Dariye and James Ibori stole money, took it to the UK, they were arrested, prosecuted and jailed. They are now free men over here. How many cases have your saint black anti grant agencies successfully prosecuted. Yaya Bello with all evidence is a free man.

Switzerland was still sitting on money due to be repatriated 20 years after Abacha died.

When these financial institutions take the money they know where it comes from, they know it is the proceeds of crime. The judicial system is corrupt, as it is everywhere. Sadly finance dictates what we have been taught to believe justice is.

When the western banks crashed the entire banking system due to malfeasance and criminality not one of the CEOs responsible went to prison. Instead they used the problem that they caused to hold society to ransom and extracted further concessions and bonuses for themselves. If they can do that in the west, despite their more mature political and economic set up then what chance do younger African nations have where the system was establisted by colonist for the benefit of resource extraction and removal?

You are trying to paint one side as bad and the other as good. I am simply pointing out that it is a criminal conspiracy between two evil agents - the African politician and the western bank.

VicM6:
This is something a white man will never say....rubish l
Black man mentality disturbing almost everybody in africa...Now he is trying to lay the blame on a lay man.

The man made a small joke and you decided this was the perfect opportunity to spread your stupidity around.

osuofia2:
Keep blaming the White while your leaders loot your future.

And where do these useless leaders take their loot? Is it not to Europe and America where they get to enjoy the proceeds of their criminality unencumbered?

If I steal money and try and enjoy I will be prosecuted but Tinubu et al. do it and they are celebrated in the west.

You could hire a cook and save yourself grief and money.

ClassicMan202:
Africa should outgrow this timid dependency on the West.

That would entail having leaders who put public service above their own pockets.

Nonybb:
How Buhari and Tinubu managed to figure out that one (Buhari) would rule and the other (Tinubu) would follow suit for a complete uninterrupted 16 years of nothingness is a mystery that would should have been in Shakespeare's book. Nigeria should operate on the principles of electoral college of the US to clip The bad electoral decisions of the headless North mob every 4 years. Lagos and Abuja must have a quality vote than a poverty stricken Maiduguri. The more astonishing mystery is that of Buhari the devil. A Fulani con artist. NIGERIA IS A CRIME SCENE

Electoral college would make it worse.

The solution is to limit the powers of the presidency and remove a number of items from the exclusive list.

Give greater power to the states and thus bring power closer to where the people are instead of allowing one cretin to hide in Abuja (or abroad) and engage in all manner of financial malfeasance out of sight of the public.

Righthussle:
Not surprised, Nigerian doctors don too much for UK. Their police go soon begin collect 20 pounds from motorists.

Black women have had higher than average maternal mortality rates for as long as I have been alive.

Nothing to do with Nigerian doctors and more to do with underlying, undiagnosed health issues and a culture of indifference to Black patients in pain.

themosthigh:
What is this thing about fat women dying during childbirth? I know at least 5 deaths like this in the last 3 years and all are very fat women. Someone has to look into this deeply

The answer is in the question..

You cannot put your body under strain and then add more strain because of childbirth, eventually the body will give up.

RIP.

dettolgel:
haha. There are a lot of Belgian city that are not drug infested like Antwerp. Brugge isn't, De Haan isn't, Dinant isn't, Spa isn't

Do you live around Belgium?

I do not hate myself enough to live in Belgium.

The same nonsense they do every 5 years.

Why do they struggle with consistency?

hkidola00:
this guy strong heen, dont know why he was dropped for witsel at russia 2018 world cup

Witsel is a better, more disciplined, more versatile player.

dettolgel:
He was already part of the gang before he came a footballer. If you know Antwerp very well you know that that place is drug infested area.

Which Belgian city isn't?

dettolgel:
You can't be playing at that level without being a narcissist.

Even Obasanjo wasn't this bad.

Why do you think they need so many immigrants to begin with? It's because the people there realize how costly it is to raise a child and thus tend to have fewer.

They also know how costly and stressful it is to deal with the break up of a relationship and divorce. Many a man has killed himself after divorce in the west.

It's only you who have come from abroad who don't know and find out the hard way.

abobote:
Envy, just to stop the Igbos from returning home during Xmas.

They know that most people that return home during Xmas are Igbos

Please be quiet.

Nobody mentioned tribe until you came here talking nonsense.

Nobody cares about your petty tribalism.

I hope they have the good sense to go elsewhere if the useless Nigerian government does this.

micflo28:
And Nigeria wants to start building aircrafts

This is an American built plane made by a company notorious for cutting corners. If they were made in any other country they would have been grounded a long time ago.

Boeing planes should be banned from flying.

To attract tourists you need to invest in and maintain security. Then you need BASIC infrastructure and public services.

Essentially you all need all the things that Nigerian governments have failed to provide to Nigerians over the past 60+ years.

Nahunger:
Wow
Impressive

This boy is impressively humble, well mannered and has been groomed to be the replica of his father after his father's time has passed and I like the fact that he carefully embraced this role and destiny.

Wishing him well unlike other presidents children that are stinkingly rich without an explannable source of income.

What nonsense is this and who is liking this stupid comment?