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HML in advance to them

Popemax:
Move on Davido....many bitches are out there

you are right, let him leave the good girls for those who deserve them and stick to b*tches since that is what he is worth.

pyyxxaro:
See her lip ,

e blike say na Milo, Nescafe or bourvita dis babe de smoke

thats lipstick

Toks2008:
But you agree that money can at least entice her in the first place.

if thats what enticed her in the first place, he wouldnt be her ex right now.

buygala:
The girl just dey console herself


The breakup don pain her die...

thats a woman who knows her worth if you dont know. Not even money can convince a good woman to tolerate bullsh*t. Shout to all the fathers that raise their daughters right.

Smh
Its better you look for the nearest police station and report someone who is stranded rather than play the good samaritan.

Boko Horam distracts everyone else while their sponsors exploit the resources in the North.

staymore:
Remind them abeg!

Our President was not recognized at all.
He wad ignored like a nobody.

did Jonathan go to the burial for recognition or he went there to show respect and pass his condolences?

DjAndroid:
Na only xenophobic attacks, what about how south Africa treated naija at the burial of Nelson Mandela?

SA had to make its own provisions to have its citizens that died when TB Joshua's building collapsed sent back to SA. Did you hear them crying for apologies?

coputa:
:Our lads are working with this firms,if you send them away,can your incompetent government employ them.

Is it rather no redundant to say Zuma is unwelcome in Nigeria when you continue to support the economic growth of SA by working for its companies?
You will never understand an African man's mentality at times. Instead of looking for a way forward you are busy making noise about the past you can never change or benefit from.
SA has gone past the TB Joshua building collapse incident, why can't you move on?

wadetaw202:
Then you must have just woken up from a life long coma. Welcome back to earth!

how many Nigerians died from the xenophobic attacks?

spyder880:
Construction work is ongoing in almost all the houses there, many were started less than a year ago.

new residential area i guess

This is worth following

What did he intend on feeding a new born baby with if he had taken her away from the mother?

TheSonOfMark:

And working his head off to fund the family's activities and ventures isn't slave-like? It isn't belittling his role?
Somethings are just cast in stone. Attempting to alter them might ruin them.

you created your own argument and just went away with it. Aren't women going to work and making the same money too? dont even take it down this road because its pointless. We are in the 21century where there are probably more women than men in workplaces, unless you are stuck in 1950 seein your own things there in your own little world.

A woman is a helper but that doesn't make her less human than the man she's assisting.

Neither does it make a man lesser of a human being if he does something washing one plate used by a woman.

Before most of use the "white women" analogy, you should understand that they are even more submissive than our women not minding what HollyWood tells you.

i did my research too and found out that white men do not have a problem with helping with chores in the house to keep the house they live in too clean.

Do your research; the average white woman rarely argues about chores and there are more white housewives than even blacks. I do not support women being idle though.

if your research is based on US stats its because there are more black women than get into college more than black men, hence they have to go to work more because they have to end up being the breadwinner again this was pointless to mention

TheSonOfMark:

Doing the used dishes equates "belittling the role of a woman"?
Pray tell, miss, what is belittling about it and what is a woman's role?

calling it a duty only reserved for a woman is belittling her role, lets not get it twisted

abohrandy:
i was looking for this one!! i knew they will soon appear!!

he was a good looking guy, its something worth mentioning

babygirlfl:
A guest is a guest and should be taken care of. She is a guest and should be looked after. If she lived there, then she could do some chores.

When I have guest whether young or old or an in law, I host them appropriately. When people live with me, then they can do chores.

Some men say they left/will leave a woman who does what the fiancee did. Women, these kind of men are men you should run away from unless you are of course one of these women who believe in becoming a cleaner for their in laws. When there are men who want to treat you like a partner, why settle for backward thinking men.

bless you

emperorchedda:
Even if she prepared the meal, doing the dishes should go with preparing the meal

This is the most delusional thing i have ever heard. This is not her house or her father's house neither is she the maid. If she cooks in her house thats she is not hers or not employed, there is no duty on her to wash the dishes.
The same way the guy will not be entitled to any husband duties towards her until they are actually married.

skimanski:
# OSAPA TOWN TWIN DUPLEX


Kitchen Update

im in love with those kitchen tiles

bosun11:
As a lady , if u dating a guy and u ate from his pot in his house and cant wash d plate , u might end up loosing such a guy . "Courtesy demands you wash the plates " being the lady....Its as simple as that

you are better off losing a guy who belittles the role of a woman. Its as simple as that, let him be another woman's headache.

emperorchedda:
Honey I cannot be a visitor in my aunt's place I visit on a daily basis.
OP never stated if it's repeated behaviour from the girl in question, but the fact that she's done it once implies she could repeat it if she's isn't appropriately scolded and reminded of her place as a woman

i didnt see anywhere where the OP said she visits the house daily? Please show me
so because it was a one time incident it means it will be repeated? Are u not being prejudicious? how sure are you that she wasnt the one who prepared the meal they all ate?

emperorchedda:
My mother; she gave birth to me and responsible for pretty much what I am today, so there's absolutely nothing wrong with doing ANYTHING for her

but you just said its an insult if its a woman's plate now you mother is excluded from women again? a person with common sense knows that it take less energy and time to wash one plate than argue over it until you are being threatened to move out.

This fiance is more of a 3rd roommate in that house, passed the night there, cooks there, have a million rounds of sex there and may even have a key to the apartment, why on earth will such person still be referred to as a visitor?? Mind you logically visitors ain't even meant to see the inner rooms of an apartment.

so if you go to your aunt's house that you have been visiting for the past 20yrs, you will not be her visitor today? Okay tell me who died after that one plate was washed? And how sure are you that she has never cleaned their messy apartment up before, even when she didnt contribute to the clutter?

And yes, it definitely shows she lacks manners or maybe her brain is just running out of her nose

so if you refuse to buy a girl a gift today, she can correctly assume that you can never be a provider if she marries you right?

pek:
That's when you know lady that is a wife material. Reminds me of my own experience. Was interested in a lady then. She came to my place one day. Went to the kitchen to serve herself. Left the kitchen in a bad state without washing the dishes. The relationship ended before it started.

let me get this straight you wanted a visitor who is not even your gf to clean up your kitchen. But you shout " the devil is a liar" when a girl who isnt you gf asks you to buy her something

emperorchedda:
Not just a plate, a plate used by a woman. That's the apex of insults

whenever you washed a plate used by your mother (who is a woman) was it ever an insult?

Women shouldn't even be told before they do dishes, that's kitchen manners.

she is not living in that house and its not her kitchen. How many men have died from washing a plate used by a woman?

I don't know if I will blame parents for raising up young generation children this way or the media

so from one unwashed plate you can fortell the entire upbringing of a person?

So they had a big fight over a plate? the things Africans fuss about. Was he going to die if he washed a simple plate?
2 grown men had a fight over a plate that takes less than 30seconds to wash kikikiki

Mbkite:
or what
or what

you are lying

Mbkite:
I smell lies

pics of u smelling lies or .....

InZA:
Where did you see shakara in my initial post?

i modified yeye to shakara

InZA:
Above 30 is too far in my own opinion.


You'd see these qualities in ladies who are between 25-28years.

Ladies below this age range are still in their yeye phases

abeg sharrap i passed shakara phase when i was 18

I liked his response to it though. If it were some other yeyebrity ehn, you would not hear then end of it

write2obi:
Would you blame me . Is that guy not annoyingly lame

he was just looking for attention. We all know he is black