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Gracious007:
Hello. I am back as promised.

ok,thanks deary

Help me check this out**Vanceastro**,or this thread, depression,signs and how to help

Gracious007:
Modestgal

hi

Vanceastro:
I will really appreciate

Dear, how are you feeling nw?Better?

Vanceastro:
I am severely depressed. Do you know of any psychiatric hospital in PH? I attempted suicide yesterday.

ohh dear,i aint in PH,but i will help you ask nd get back to you soonest,thanks

osolee:
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Hey, warris happening now?

sorry,just reading your problem now,no body cn try d shit ur parent tried with you with me, I hate rules and regulations from the day I was born.The earlier you leav dat church the better, church destroying families

osolee:
Boo

hi

when i used sheabutter,it gave me pimples,darkenz my skin,makes it dull,trust i didnt use it to d xtent of blocking my pores jx a light use.it givs dandruff,will nvr try dat thing on my skin again,

DEPRESSION, SIGNS AND HOW TO HELP
I decided to write this because most of us may not know that someone out there very close to us is going through depression or we may be passing through one currently and some of us may even think we have one when all we are are having is just normal emotional flunctuation to life challenges.
What is depression?
Depression is a mental health disorder. Specifically, it is a mood disorder characterized by persistently low mood in which there is a feeling of sadness and loss of interest.
SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS
The signs of depression is not only the feeling of sadness, if there's persistence with one of the following for weeks,then its possible it could be depression
1)Persistent sad, anxious, or “empty” mood
2)Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism
3)Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness
4)Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities
5)Decreased energy, fatigue, being “slowed down”
6)Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
7)Difficulty sleeping, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
Appetite and/or weight changes
9)Thoughts of death or suicide, suicide attempts
10)Restlessness, irritability
11)Persistent physical symptoms
IF SOMEONE DEPRESSED IS AROUND YOU, DO THESE:
1) Consult proffessionals on it
2) Offer emotional support, understanding, patience, and encouragement.
3) Talk to the person not necessarily about depression, and listen more carefully.
4) Never discount the feelings the person expresses, but point out realities and offer hope.
5) You will need to stay positive and happy yourself to be able to offer help
6) Encourage healthy eating
Never ignore comments about suicide.
7) Remind the person that with time and treatment, the depression will lift.
Lastly,remember google is your friend, type in better ways you could help the person and not contribute more to the depression

Coyotejack:
Hehehe
MISS ,u just said that you don't want to pester him when he declined ur request for friendship...
If he keeps on strangling the efforts people extend to help him or to bring him out of his dark place , what are you to do, I never said you should give up. Afterall we both know the importance of friendship. But there's so much a single entity can go , it takes two to make this stuff work, if he doesn't want all I can do is pray cause I am a strong believer in it.
Every body wants to be helped beneath, u say, but he said it outright that he doesn't care by refusing. I am sure u and I know him thru this medium and this medium alone .
Again Happy Sunday

hey,hw are you, the guy said I should greet you,i contacted him

osolee:
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Coyotejack:
Hehehe
MISS ,u just said that you don't want to pester him when he declined ur request for friendship...
If he keeps on strangling the efforts people extend to help him or to bring him out of his dark place , what are you to do, I never said you should give up. Afterall we both know the importance of friendship. But there's so much a single entity can go , it takes two to make this stuff work, if he doesn't want all I can do is pray cause I am a strong believer in it.
Every body wants to be helped beneath, u say, but he said it outright that he doesn't care by refusing. I am sure u and I know him thru this medium and this medium alone .
Again Happy Sunday

ok,thanks

Coyotejack:
Okay I see
You can only help somebody that wants to be helped.
Happy Sunday

I hate that ideology,dont happy sunday me pls.Everyone want to be helped in beneath,no matter what you think

Coyotejack:
PS I ain't him let's clarify that , the same reason u reached out to him ,is why I was Lauding u , cause the first thing that came to my mind was that he was suicidal, then I saw the his post where he said it went a downward spiral after something happened to him that he didn't want to share , my shock was that it was only u that picked interest, and the self taught psych analyst was no where to be found , but I have been away then I came across ur conversation and I tried to reach out but he has deactivated, and I recalled u were the one that conversed with him last thru this medium,so I tot U made some sort of breakthru. I pray he overcomes.

I thought anyone could be him bcx he loves changing his name,i reached out to him on mail,bt he actually shunned me and told me blantly that i should mind my business and should not even reply the mail. He said something that got me thinking **There's no need bothering yourself about my prob. There's
someone out there more important who needs your assistance, not a
person like me. I don't deserve it. Adieus.***
why will he think he doesnt deserve someones help?
I stop replying him cx i dont want him to feel bothered and am not even sure if that gmail account is not even a fake one he jx opened to reply me.
I will try to still reach out to him, pls help me call out our psycho self taught analyst to say someting in the matter,shld we leav him alone or not, I hv read too many suicidal stories that I dnt currently think theres someone clinically depressed not prone to suicide

Coyotejack:
[color=teal]has he deactivated his account?[/color]

who?The guy?The funniest thing is that I see him so funny that I am nt sure if u ar probably him,i mean you actually mayb him.when he insisted I shld leave him alone,I did,cx it ws getting to an insult kinda,I dnt ask ppl for friendship cx i see it as lowing myself,I dnt evn knw if I could help him,but I jx wanna try.And I see the rest being cold not even reaching out to him.I dnt knw wht hes passing thru bt I jx feel the guy may b suicidal cx he said he wanna fake suicide, Am also thinking he may wanna bury his good side due to mayb disapointmnt from ppl and act wickedly,hes prone to drug abuse,am not a christian,bt checking his thread and seeing dat he jx stop believing in God/christianity makes me believ dat he could go as heartless as killing somone at the long run if hes depression aint taken care of.And the fact dat hes frm delta wher youths are prone to all this cultism stuffs.I will be glad if a guy could reach to him and help him,am sure buried beneath him is a brilliant young man,full of spirit and goodwill.We jx need to help him bring out those happiness,bcx am sure hes sad somehow.So pls if you are reading this honey, try not to see me as not minding my business,and let someone help you bring out those smiles youve been trying to hide

[quote author=Coyotejack post=52808918]Hello modest gal thank you for reaching out to the ninja guy on some level.
[/quote Thanks too

zaza999:
Pls this is NEVER a make up story and I am not a blogger.A serious matter that is giving me concern should not be played with and that I am not commenting does not mean I did not read peoples comment and pick important points to use and find solution to it.I appreciate all that contributed.

I dnt believe you,all your threads are contradictory,ppl hv bn saying dat,nd i hv gone to check too,your wife was once possesd,u were a fornicator,you suddenly married btween three months etc.but seriously dnt understnd why somone will make dat up

Pls stop responding to this guy,hes a scammer, once upon a time,he was a fornicator,later wife got possesd,later he con marry the same wife january again,now they hving quarrel.He can lie for the whole world

I dnt know why you guys keep advising, I dont believe the guy, its a make up story,the guy must be a blogger,check out his threads please, and hes not even comenting ever since he posted the lie

NinjaX:
Lol.

Reply my mail

NinjaX:
Asides the fact that i'm currently going through a tough time, I have always been introverted. Nobody caused it. It's just nature that chose this path on my behalf

You don't understand. I do care little about people. Forget about the threads and god not existing ish. They have nothing to do with this. Certainly

Smiles

DonOms:
Truth is, what's happening to you happens to a lot of young adults. I'd say the reason is because we are hardly prepared for life. Having spent at least 15 years through school and finding oneself faced with life and suddenly realising one isn't exactly properly equipped makes one somewhat dejected, confused and lackadaisical.

Depending on what you have studied in school, you're already trained to have a bias in a certain field of work. So you should start there. If you read Computer Science for example, you should seek a job in that line and also train and retrain yourself in that line. Honestly, the system in Nigeria is so poor it doesn't groom us well for life so you realise that a chunk of graduates don't even have an idea of what they're passionate about. But one must beat the system and discover oneself.

You may need a session with a psychologist to help you through a path of self discovery. But trust me, you can do it yourself. Your family and close friends will almost certainly know what you're passionate about. You can interview them. If you think deep within yourself too, you can figure it out. Something's got to make you happy and fulfilled when you do it - you just have to discover it. And then start on it...you'll find your way.

I'm not always game for this but if you still need help on discovering yourself, we could have a few anonymous email sessions where I can help with trigger questions.




Talent is not a myth. People are definitely born with natural abilities. Now, it may be a myth that "everyone has a talent," and I don't agree with that notion anyway.

Now, you say you see yourself being good at something you want to be good at but you haven't found yourself being exceptionally good at something naturally. Have you ever considered this: if those so-called talented people never tried out what they're good at, would they have found their talent?

Imagine Mozart or Beethoven not trying their hands on music; or Picasso and Michelangelo not on art. What happens? Maybe we wouldn't have heard about them, yeah?

Lang Lang is a popular Chinese concert piano who started playing at age 3. He was expelled from his teacher's piano studio at age 9 because they said he didn't have enough talent. Today, he is considered one of the most talented concert pianist currently living. If he stoped playing the piano at age 9, would we know him today? Definitely not.

I can go on and on about people who were at first considered untalented in a certain area they later became notoriously popular for. My point is, forget the definition of talent, if you find something you love, do it and derive joy in it. It's probably your talent. It could be writing, poetry, dancing, helping or what have you? Don't beat yourself up imagining what you should be good at but not.

You ae really amazing, I hv sent you pm,pls reply,thanks

NinjaX:
It's not that I don't. I can't. I deactivated my Fb account due to this relating with people issue. Forgive me

I serioisly dont know why its only me responding to what you ae writing,why arent others commenting, I aint seeing you as introvert anymore,am seeing you as wierd, I was telling someone about what contributed more to introversy, nature or nuture, I wish the guy was here, I think you became one due to environmental cause, and the reason behind you being an introvert is damaging you uknowingly,and still you dnt wanna tlk about it, you not even wanting to be friends, I checked your profile and I was seeing your strange threads,now you aint a christian no more,and you dont care about people anymore.
But the truth is that you realy care about people very much, and thats your reason for hiding that you care and not caring

osolee:

Pls remove dat,i mistaknly used **in**

osolee:
Yes now.... M watching you

Keep on watching love

ModestGal:
I keep on reading this,jx wondering somethings,nd suddenly u dnt wanna b friends with me

.Am nt intrested in trying to help,i jx wanna say some things which I really dont wanna say public, they are things I feel like I knw that you dont knw,nd I wish to tell you those things

NinjaX:
Nope. I'm not joking. I'm seriously serious. I was that energetic kid when I freshly passed out of secondary school. I did take sermons at church, did hang out with friends, and even took a teaching job that lasted 6 months. Until february 2015. Something happened, can't disclose it here, but it was like an emotional tsunami hit me. The effect knocked me down and ever since i've been avoiding people and living a carefree life. Care little about people now save for my siblings. They are the only people I give a shít about. Care less about everything. I get these crazy thoughts some times. Like I should feign suicide and watch peoples reactions. Have always been mischievous. Nothing in the world makes actual sense to me now. Just wanna get some money, travel to some distant land and move on, but my siblings....... If not

I keep on reading this,jx wondering somethings,nd suddenly u dnt wanna b friends with me

osolee:

You are even here,ar u an introvert?

NinjaX:
Southern region, Delta State precisely.

So you still dnt wanna b friends with me?

Honey,which part of d country ae u from?

NinjaX:
You are sweet. I'm really sorry but I can't. I sincerely appreciate your genuine intentions though, but I'm not the kind of person you would wanna be friends with.

And do you know my kinda person?or my intentions of wanting to b ur friend.

NinjaX:
It's alright.

Hi