₦airaland Forum

barcanista:
Why is President Buhari not doing anything with respect to the actions of these terrorists that disguise themselves as herdsmen? How long will they continue to kill ethnic minorities in the North Central? The painful aspect is that soldiers don't seem to be helping matters. Left for me, I will say the locals should mobilise themselves and defend their land, their lives and their communities. Enough is enough

RIP to the victims

No plateau they dey kill na Beron,when u guys were killing them taking their caws u don 4get becos that time owner get Governor

Dapo777:
So that they won't be chipping in God in our every conversation, its just annoying when I ask someone a simple question(how is school?) and he/she says "we thank God". Is that how to answer a question?

Or I ask them how do they make themselves study without relenting they will say " its all about God, that nits not their power". What rubbish, of what use are those nonsense replies to me, they now use God to cover up lots of information, just say its God and u don't have to say anything else, that's their style now.

my bro I knw most of u guys that this like this r christians bt I would nt blame u becos of d little knowledge u ve abt God that's why u behaving like that.If u buy shoe 4 ur child n a friend of his ask him hw did u get d shoe is it a crime if he said his father boughit 4 him,my friend d brian u use 2 do anything is created by God n that's why he said na God.U ve 2 knw d purpose of life,why we were created n who create us,that's why nothing exist without it maker, so d purpose of our creation is 2 warship God n summit 2 his will wander u believer or not is left 2 u .

Kirinwa:
Hell is like cell while lake of fire is like prison.
Hell is 'bearable' compared to lake of fire.Hmm I don't wish it on anyone.

Satan, demons, sinners who died unrepented, death and hell will be cast into lake of fire which I the second death.

my friend wht r u saying cell n prison r besame

dayo23:
Three men, who trekked to Yola in honour of former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, are now stranded in Yola.

The men, Salihu Jibrin, Aliyu Adamu and Abubakar Suleiman, who spoke to newsmen on Saturday in Yola, said since their arrival, they have been unable to see their mentor, Atiku.

They said all they needed was to see Atiku or his representatives to deliver their messages and go back to their various destinations.

“I trekked for 38 days all the way from Lagos to Yola to see Atiku in view of his role over APC’s victory in the general election but up till now I hAve been unable to see him.

“I am now stranded with no money to go back; at times I sleep in motor parks or squat with good Samaritans,” Jibrin said.

Adamu, who rode on a bicycle from Kaduna to Yola, said he spent eight days on the way.

“I want to thank the Secretary, Nigeria Union of Journalists, Adamawa Council, Mr. Baba Zare, who had been assisting me since arrival to cope with the difficult situation I found myself.

“I want to meet Atiku before finding my way back to Kaduna,” Adamu said.

On his part, Suleiman, who trekked from Shelleng town, Adamawa,  to Yola said he had been squatting from one relation to the other while waiting for an opportunity to see Atiku before going back home.


http://www.punchng.com/news/three-trekkers-for-atiku-stranded-in-yola-2/?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter

who send them

midolian:
From the look of things, Wicked wike will soon tear Rivers state apart. I just hope the tribunal throws him out b4 he accomplishes his mission.

they ve seem nothing this r d things that would ve happen if oga jona won d election

princeofpeace22:
people are dieing daily and we have a tourist presido

ur a big fool and ur father is d bigest one 4 that matter

harrysterol:
Wetin him wan contribute for there?

Not forgetting how it all started without low battery, my signature your happiness

he carry our moni go london

adeekiti:
Na wa sha, what has politic turn to in naija, our leaders acting like kids and turning the nation with remote controls

that's politic 4 which I PDP 2 leard 4r becos if is PDP nw,they will start useing d police DSS and army on their members and opposition

adioolayi:
Mr President Belongs to everybody and belong to nobody ......
In the same vein, Leadership of the 8th National Assembly belongs to everybody and belong to nobody.....Period!

if is oga jona with his PDP they will start their wahala becos they ve no respect 4 d rule of law and separetion of power

mistypiper:
how can you sit down conveniently and tell so much lies..

sir you better keep quiet and do your civic duties as a Nigerian.

I know say u be enemy of progress bt u should that d fear of Buhari is d beginning of wisdom

politricks:
Let the fight begin!!!!
Thunder fire haters!!!!

sai Baba they wnt try oga

RAKITIC:
Basketmouth is a clown

Basketmouth is right education nw moni if u get moni u get any thing u wnt imagine Davido with first class nawa

madridguy:
Alihamdulilahi for safe landing.

Allah is great

midolian:
Sai Baba! God be with you

I 2 much love this man ,God be with u Baba haters can go 2 hell

knostbrown01:
Source http://saharareporters.com/2015/06/06/former-petroleum-minister-alison-madueke-undergoing-breast-cancer-treatment

all na wash

DickDastardly:
Men of truth.
Tell them!
I won't call Buhari a Brainless Dunce, Dullard, Illiterate, Ancestor, living Mummy, Haramite so that his rabbied online dogs won't come baring their foam and saliva filled sticky canine for me.

PDP ur a big fool sai baba

handie:
www.tribuneonlineng.com/content/buhari-reopens-182m-bribery-case

Buhari na d man way sabi truely Buhari is a blessing 2 nigeria god bless u sir

lalasticlala:
http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/06/ex-imo-governor-ikedi-ohakim-and-wife.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+%2FAqSJb+%28S.T.E.L.L.A%27S*new*G.R.O.O.V.E%29

waiting u except schooling in white man's land,kissing in her parent present

tayebest:
God bless Nigeria Army...

2morrow u go hear sorry

Atikubi:
obsession.com

dreamer

missKiffy:
Una go tire

bro is a gud moves bt whre were they when oga jona was there

missbehave247:
Nawa oo0

igbos with faka business always wnt 2 make fast moni

lurlah2014:
1. Is for better or worse making me better or worse?

Does your partner encourage you to be your best self, or does he or she get intimidated by any triumphs and feel more secure when you're not putting your best foot forward?

2. Do we really accept one another?

There will always be things you want to change about the people in your life, but no one should be in a situation where they feel they aren't allowed to be authentic and accepted as the unique, special (yet flawed) person they are.

3. Who am I?

How can you know if your partner is a good match if you have no idea who you are?

4. Am I happy to be in this relationship?

The idea of sharing a life together is not to find someone to complete you or make you happy. But let's face it: being unhappy at home can seep into other areas of your life . . . and fast. If you're always fighting or just generally not feeling great about your twosome, it doesn't mean you have to bail out (counseling might be a good option) but marrying someone in the hope that it changes things is a bad, bad idea.

5. Am I feeling trapped?

Do you really want to be in this relationship the majority of the time or do you find yourself wishing for a way out? Do you stay because you've invested time or are you really invested in your mate?

6. What am I doing to hold us back?

Maybe you could be more attentive, more thoughtful, quicker to let things go, or the first to bring up going to counseling. Whatever it is, take this as your sign to step up.

7. Is this relationship balanced?

Do you feel you're both on the same page in terms of compromise, care, support and sacrifice? Or is one of you doing most of the giving while the other just sits with their hand out?

8. Can we have fun together?

Have you ever seen two people sit across from one another in silence at brunch as though they are being forced to walk through their day together? Not. fun.

9. Can we have fun apart?

Co-dependency ain't cute, y'all.

10. Why am I in this relationship?

Is it because you respect, love, trust, and value the person you are with? Or because you're afraid of being alone, worried about finances, or have built a life you're scared to leave?

11. Where is this going?

Living in the "now" is great, but eventually the partnership will need a plan or someone will begin to feel anxious.

12. Do I really trust my partner?

For some, the immediate response to this can be devastating. If you're one of them, it's time to ask why and how you can begin to build or rebuild trust. Without it, there's no chance.

13. Am I with a good person?

Knowing what you know about your partner today, would you vouch for them if they were a friend?

14. Am I attracted to my partner?

Physical attraction is hardly the most important component in a relationship, but forcing yourself to be in a relationship with someone who you're not attracted to — just because it's comfortable or "perfect on paper" isn't fair to anyone. You will feel resentful and they will feel rejected.

15. Am I a parent or a partner?

Taking care of someone you love is a great thing to do, but when you feel like you're raising a boyfriend — or worse, a husband — things get a little complicated. You'll resent his childish ways. Who wants to sleep with their mom?

16. Does my partner have my back?

Do you feel like you're a part of a loyal team who stands up for one another, supports one another, and shows a united front (even when the other is not around)? Or, do you feel like you're constantly being thrown under the bus by your mate?

17. Are we looking in the same direction?

Some couples avoid having the big talks (religion, marriage, babies) because they think that, somehow, these things will just "work themselves out." By the time they realize they won't, they're in a complicated, painful situation that leaves one (or both) feeling a little bit duped.

18. Are we growing together?

Being a human being living on this earth, we all have a right to grow and develop, and create a full life for ourselves. Are you and your partner still indulging in your passions (individual and shared) and growing as individuals?

19. Am I still me?

Being in love with someone should not require changing our identity to fit someone else's idea of who we should be, on any level.

20. What is my gut telling me?

You have intuition for a reason. Listen to yourself.

http://citifmonline.com/2015/05/29/dont-marry-someone-until-you-can-honestly-answer-these-20-qs/

nonsense

ayoola2002:
The writer above me have brain cancer, he lack ability to reason more than cockroach.

na animal he be na they no like any thing good 4 nigeria God pass them all

OREMUSSANCTUS:
Fake pastor
No level
Na make him dhe run errand for Buhari, while deh make key decisions in his absence

na fool u be ur clubless oga jona don even take this can decision mumu

nickibarb:
Please help me. I'm drowning.

I am feeling very depressed right now. My marriage has been mainly peaceful and chaos free. I did my part, cared for my husband, cooked for him, was available to satisfy his sexual needs 24/7, prayed for him, dressed like I did when we were dating, kept my body in tiptop shape even after 2 babies via c/s, everyone around me testifies to that both men and women.

In the wee hours of sunday morning, I was playing around with his phone cause i couldn't sleep. I realised he had WHATSAPP and BBM apps, it was surprising cause I had tried to get him to download them repeatedly so we can send pics to each other but he refused. He said he wasn't interested in them, so I deleted mine. Like every curious cat, I wanted to see what he was up to on it since he didn't tell me that he had finally downloaded it.

I saw that he had been flirting with almost 10 different girls, had met up with some, given money to a lot of them (even though our finances have not been in tiptop shape, but i've been persevering cause I know it is temporary - I have a great job offer with a N200k salary post-nysc but they are not ready for me to resume work yet, so I have no income for now). Before I digress too much, the chat that hurt me the most was a girl who asked my husband to be sending her N30k a month or week, i'm not sure again (my eyes were blurred with tears), and then whenever he needs her, he should just tell her which hotel to check into. Funny enough, they all know he is married with kids, they even ask him about his baby in the course of their chat. Another one that broke my heart was a girl he asked to arrange 15 girls for a political event being hosted by his older politician friend and the girls should be ready to provide TLC for them afterwards. From the messages, it was clear that he slept with this particular girl after that event because she reminded him that the money she received is not a replacement for the one he is supposed to give her (i'm guessing after a previous sexcapade).

I am so heartbroken, I don't know what to do. I feel like I gave my marriage my all, I followed all the rules of a good wife, I read books, i don't know what I could have done differently. My husband told me everyday how much he was in love with me for the 2 years we dated prior to marriage (we've been married 2 years and 6 months). I saw no trait of promiscuity in him. I trusted him 100% so I never policed him concerning his whereabouts (it's not really in my nature to be like that). I never saw this betrayal coming so it has been very difficult for me to deal with this. I had an emotional breakdown on sunday night when he went for a meeting with the new governor of our state (he is related to him). He came home at midnight to see me unconscious. I woke up in a hospital, apparently I had overdosed on pills. At that time, I wanted to die to get away from my life, but now I didn't die, i'm happy he came home in time to rescue me. I mean he could have easily stayed out all night because it was a special day (post-inauguration celebration). I don't know how I could have thought of leaving my two little kids less that 2 years old. This man has made me CRAZY. If my family hears about this suicidal attempt, they will make me leave him immediately. My fear is, what happens to my little kids, I don't want another woman to come and maltreat them. We were legally married but not in Nigeria. I don't know if Nigerian courts would recognise our marriage certificate. I don't want to lose my kids. I feel like God has allowed a trial too great for me to handle to come my way. I feel like he over-rated my strength. I am just 27. Isn't it too soon for me to face this kind of life challenge? God knows I married this man out of love, not for money, my parents tried their best for me. They sent me abroad, that's where I met my husband, I didn't even know his family in Nigeria was relatively well-to-do. Some people say if your husband cheats on you, it's nemesis for what you did to other women's husbands. God knows I am innocent. I have tried to find out why my husband who says he loves me everyday, will go out of his way to flirt with girls and sleep with them, (it's not like it's all of them that are coming on to him, he is actually doing most of the chasing). He cannot give me a reason for it, he is just begging me to let it go. I have tried but I'm still hurting, i'm still obsessing about it. How can I heal? I don't want to die and leave my children. How can I stop this pain that is eating me up?

I have read all the articles I can find online about how to get past a cheating husband, it doesn't seem to help. I asked my husband if he used a condom and if I need to go and check for STDs. He is not able to answer me directly but says we can both go and get checked out. I feel like God has forsaken me and I don't deserve it. I have tried to be a good girl all my life. I need this pain in my heart to stop. I need to be sane again.

if u die 2day I promise 2morrow he will bring in another woman u should just pray n move bt if u think that man stuff is 4 u alone u should ve a second thoug just live 4 d sake of ur kids

realtestament:
Everytin....








#and she resemble chukky

nonsense

luvinhubby:
How come Buhari is holding a meeting with them, thought he will just announce their replacements as he announced the command centre relocation.

We are watching

I tied 4 him send this ppl packing

soe:
Simply read.

You are responsible for your interpretations though.

But whatever you think, never think PDP would be a better option in the next 500 years.



Cc: lalasticlala Seun Ishilove

we nigerians ve aproblam d. Passed leaders that do things at d right time,wht good as it done so Buhari should take his time n do something different that's why we call it change

jamex93:
even here in kaduna


and at the end of the day they are paid 800-1000

wat a very useless amount for such work



FTC sweet sha

my bro is all over nigeria d suffering is 2 much government ve 2 do something

SeverusSnape:
And they were among people blaming the government for corruption.

who should they blame if oga jona did his home work this stealing 4 no happen

kasheemawo:
stealing is now corruption

pls wht type of man is this Buhari. This has been sence under oga jona no body know bt oga B don they nw know they ve being stealing Buhari is a true bless 2 nigeria