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iCauseTrouble:
APC Guber Candidate came to my village for campaign. He asked the villagers to mention 2major problems in the village

They told him that one of their problems is lack of qualified medical doctors.

The politician brought out his phone and pretended to be making call. He later told them "your problem is solved" What's the other problem?

They said they don't have network in the village ���

Evablizin:
I can't waste my mb on sai barbar speaking in tongues.

24hoursreporter:
In a relationship, some men fall into one of four categories: a boy, a player, a confused man, and a good man.

Different Types Of Men In Every Relationship


A Boy

A boy will always be a boy regardless of his age. Growing up and growing old is never the same. Growing old is mandatory while growing up is optional.

By choice, a boy cares less about what makes you happy as a woman. He knows very little about putting a home together, and he’s not ready to learn.

The woman will do the thinking and making decisions. He will be more concerned about his mode of dressing than his character. A boy is loose. He will “kiss and tell” and talks about everything in his relationship to everybody, and openly condemns his woman.

A boy worries about what his mom thinks of him. Even when it’s time to focus on his family, a boy doesn’t plan for the future and doesn’t want to grow up. He doesn’t understand the importance of responsibility.

When his woman is upset, he gets angry. He doesn’t know how to help her become calm. He’s not a bad person, he’s still a child. He would rather play around on his phone or computer instead of participating with you or his family.

You cannot put a bike engine in a car and expect the performance of a car; when a matured woman marries or date’s a boy, she automatically becomes a girl. She will change from a peaceful mature woman to a nagging young girl, and her friends will think she’s going crazy.

A boy gets easily intimidated by his woman’s position, status and feels insecure by her income. He believes he deserves respect because he thinks he is a man based on his age.

It’s difficult to communicate with a boy since he usually thinks he’s right. He feels superior and thinks he’s doing a woman a favor by dating or marrying her. Don’t date a boy.

A Player

It’s better to be single than date a player. No matter how much effort you invest in a relationship with a player, it most likely ends in heartbreak.

A player is smart, selfish, inconsiderate and usually doesn’t stay faithful to one woman. Most women fall for players because they appear attractive and presentable. Players have something extraordinary about them.

He can be rich, famous, tall, handsome, romantic, talented, good in bed and possess many qualities that a woman wants in a guy. He will sweep you off your feet at the beginning and make you believe you’re the luckiest woman alive.

He will tell you what you love to hear and show you what you love to see. He will make unbelievable promises. He will get into your head through your heart and take control of your thinking.

He will spend any amount of money and effort to take you to bed, and after accomplishing his mission, the story changes. Any attention and affection you get from a player can be temporary.

The first problem you’ll encounter with him is that his words will start to contradict his actions, then his behavior and timing will change drastically. Then you will start wondering what you did wrong.

Again it’s not you, it’s him. A player’s time is very imited, because he’s got a lot of women to share it with. It’s hard to win a game with a player unless she’s materialistic or never dates or marries for love.

A player’s heart has no space for love, he will marry a potential victim for selfish reasons or benefits and continue his games after.

marriage. He will tell terrific stories about his innocent wife just to get another woman to bed. Run away from a player.

A Confused Man

The problem with a confused man is he doesn’t know what he wants.

A relationship is like a door; you’re either in or out. A confused man will put one foot in and one foot out. People will think you have a perfect relationship while you’re actually not sure where you stand.

A confused man can be a wonderful guy who doesn’t play games. He will love you and give you all you want, but he will rarely commit to you. He will give you excuses all the time and put your life on hold, not because he’s bad, but because he has yet to figure out what he wants in his life.

Of course, there is no rush in love, but there is a big difference between endurance and ignorance. You can only endure with a man who knows what he wants and where he’s going in life.

Endurance with a confused man can be risky and a complete waste of time. When a woman makes up her mind and decides to leave, a confused man will change and start making new promises and deadlines just to make her wait more.

After a while, he goes back to his old ways, and for the woman, the waiting continues. One of life’s greatest mistakes is to embark on a life journey with someone who is not going anywhere in life. Avoid dating a confused man.

A Good Man


A good man is the best gift any woman could get. He’s a grown up matured man (regardless of his age) that is done playing games, ready to commit to just one woman and be faithful to her.

He will be responsible, trustworthy, love you and all that concerns you, and you will know it in your heart. He will be sensitive to your needs and will listen when you’re upset.

He will adore you, support you and bring out the best in you. He will be consistent and his words will match his actions. Good men don’t make promises, they make commitments.

You will be his best friend, his confidant and he won’t have to fight nor beg for his attention. He will laugh with you and cry with you. He will focus on your future and not complain about your past.

When there’s conflict, he will listen with compassion. If you’re upset with him, he will work hard to understand why. He will carry you along with his plans. If you disagree with him, he will listen to your point of view.

He will trust without a doubt and will give when you most need it. Although he may not have a lot, he will be happy to share the little he has. Most women think good men are difficult to find.

The truth is there are millions of good men out there. Where are these good men? They’re standing right behind the boys, players and confused men. You just have to clear those away first, so that you can see them the good men.

You cannot date or marry a boy or a player and expect the treatment of a good man. You now have a fact-sheet to deciphering the different type of men, and those that you should attract to your life.

Now, smart women like you realize that knowing the 4 different types of men is only a tiny part of getting and keeping your Mr. Right.

Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2019/02/11/the-4-different-types-of-men-in-every-relationship/

deji17:
I heard PDP will be embarking on a door to door campaign. Folks, please take care of your valuables to avoid story that touch.
Don't say I did not warn you.

O to ge.

Say no to Saraki, the armed robber gun supplier. Say no to Saraki ako ibon fun ole

ConfirmD:
Oga the place was too crowded. It will now be as if they were fainting for Wizkid when they were actually suffocating

NwaAmaikpe:



Useless journalism.
They just report inconclusive stories to gain traffic.
So how did it end?

Did he vomit it or did it become part of his preek?

Larry23:
Please help a brother, got laid from work some weeks back and since then things have been hard..have been struggling to feed for days now and even have no food left at home..I had to create this new account today cause my old account had my pix and I want to remain anonymous....I have no where to go and I have been looking for a job....kindly help a brother......6553685405 OLAIYA fidelity bank.....God bless

OkaNaUbe:
I may support anyone but the cloned dullard at Aso Rock but this is Ill timed by Atiku. Why didn't he do it long ago

vastolord4:
They Better.
Even if its up or qpr or psg.. just defeat the lifeless one and his party

Offpoint:
How can any reasonable human being asked any Nigerian actress "if she's a virgin"?

it's equivalent to asking the current Nigeria President if he has a WAEC certificate-

Stop asking people the questions you've already know the answers.


[/b]If anyone asks you if you're a virgin, tell 'em "you're a Nigerian"
Only those from Virginia are Virgins.[b]

binary007:
you couldn't have said it any better.
I envy your intelligence.
Gracias.

Thebabenextdoor:
Dear Shola, it time to move on.
You've called this guy out over and over again but nothing seems to change. He doesn't give a damn about u. I really don't know why you don't want to pick up the pieces of your life and bunk him as well.
Not every single mum will require the presence of the baby dad to be successful.
If only you ignored him as early as possible, you probably would have been doing far better, and maybe met a man or husband that will love and support you sef.
U know Wizkid is a deadbeat, but every time you're fighting for his attention, calling him out, wasting so much time on that. Why don't you give Wizkid a break to grow, while you move on with your life.
Just have it in mind that your sacrifices are for the kid

rosalieene:
this brought tears to my eyes.
dhola should just ignore him, act like he doesn't exist. that's the way forward for her

binary007:
That's the problem with women.
know how to ask properly and when to stop asking. But hello No! They keep "Asking". Learn to cut your coat according to your size.

Dude paid over 2m Houston trip bills over the hols and you know very well that school resumes in 2weeks. Trip could be South Africa, not necessarily United States but or at the point where it's becoming too unbearable. cancel the fucking trip! It's just a vacation.. There is always another vacation. but you put yourself at disadvantage financially, increased your pressure on someone who literally doesn't like you and even missed 3days from work. what if you were fired on arrival? (Misplaced Priorities). Again in 2weeks ,you messaged to bill him for the term's school fees. All I see is a lady that misplaced priorities severally. But wait! what of the father of the boy is dead?


Cut communication with him.. use the love of his kid against him.. Deny him access. If he ask when am i seeing Tife.. Reply : When you start performing your fatherly duties rightly.
(Say No more, no less)
Save your pride lady.

It's not everytime our parents covers our bills and I can't remember anyone screen-munching his parent conversation to report them to the world. Grow up Biko

lefulefu:
nice looking kid

vingeophysicist:
Nobody is saying single mother's are prostitute but for her to live her previous hubby how are we sure she is not going to do same if she gets another hubby.This is the fear of single guys like us.Excluding the widows.

lanrexdo:
good hygiene practices are essential if you're going to keep your pubic hair. This basically means washing the area with soap and water, particularly after exercise and during your period. But they are lazy. [b][/b]That is why i love Islam. Wash your genitals after each piss.[b][/b]Then you would have no odor! Clean shave this, clean shave that. they end up with plenty bumps and irritations from jeans, bumper short, akube pants and the likes. Those in the medical line appreciate and i know peeps who have been doing it for long.. Trim but don't shave it all off!

Justbeingreal:


Love don't exist.

OK to avoid argument.

Love Fades.

The best union happens when two partners have a relationship like best friends. So that when the love fades away the friendship will keep both of ya going.

IF u think Love is enough mehn u on a long thing.

Just saying.

Amitez:
And this is happening even when Buhari has not been re-elected ooo!

Tinubu, this is what people call RED FLAG ... better begin to use your tongue to count your teeth!

megareal:
This man keeps losing touch with reality.

Reality is that he called the election free and fair because he emerged winner else he would still be crying about how the elections were rigged.

Reality is that he can never allow a free and fair elections. The Ekiti repeat is what will happen next year.

As for me, I will still vote for a candidate of my choice even if from all indications, my vote may not count.

[/b]Someday, we will really get it right[b]

monex:
@ your bolded. I never said that women shouldn't be mad. I just gave my opinion on the root cause for a problem (at least most think it is) that has clearly spanned thousand of years.

A man that has self control will probably not cheat even if he doesn't love his wife or married the "wrong" woman. I see too many women thinking there is something they are not doing right that makes the man cheat or that the man does not want them when It seems evident that he is simply lacking in discipline.

monex:
The primary reason why men cheat is a lack of discipline and self control.

It has little to do with his love for her, his emotional tank or his emotional security.

Seunnzy:
Ive been there too,in the exam hall,i knew the answers but couldnt write my friend who was beside me thought i didnt knw it so he opened his script for me i was looking at answers but still couldnt write

RelationshipG:
Forgetting your ex can turn out to be difficult. You’re constantly occupied by the thoughts of him/her. Sometimes you question whether he/she still thinks about you or not. Most importantly, does he/she even care?

How Do You Know if Your Ex Still Cares about You

If you’re too shy to ask your ex directly on how he/she feels about you, then look out for these signs that shows he/she still cares:

1. Answers Your Call

An ex won’t bother picking up a call from someone he/she doesn’t care anymore. But, in case you ever call your ex and he/she answers then you must still mean something to him/her. You’re an exception and he/she cares about you even though the two of you are no longer together. If he/she completely ignores your phone calls then that could be one of the Signs Your Ex is Seeing Someone Else.

2. Wants to See You

An ex will want to see you after a break up for different reasons. Caring about you is one of them. He/She will want to make sure that you’re doing fine. It may even help him/her to stay friends with you.

3. Let You Know His/Her Regrets

Not everyone is always ready to be vulnerable to their ex especially after a nasty breakup. However, when your ex admits hisher regrets or his/her mistakes to you then he’s/she’s taking your feelings into consideration. Admitting those things are not easy. He may want to ease your pain too. On the other hand, here are Classy Ways to Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up with You that you can use.

4. Checks Up on You

This doesn’t mean that your ex will want to stay in touch with you around the clock. Your ex may call or text you every now and then. As he’s/she’s your ex and nothing more, he/she should know his limit. Still, he/she is willing to put aside some time to check up on how you’re doing.

5. Asks Your Friends about You

What’s another way to know if your ex still cares about you? Ask your friends. See if your ex has been asking about you through them. If the answer is yes, then your ex still cares for you. He’s/she’s indirectly getting some information without bothering you.

6. Gives You Support

A caring ex is a supportive one. Whatever it is that you’ve decided on then he/she will support you no matter what. As long as it helps you grow and become a better person. It could be searching for a new job or moving to another city. In fact, your ex may help you with the whole process.

7. Likes Your Pictures on Social Media

Liking an ex’s pictures on social media speaks a thousand words. Your ex can’t quite get over you. He/She cares about you in his own way, which is by paying attention to what you post. He/She may not like everything you post, but his/her presence should tell you that he/she still has feelings for you. But when he’s/she’s unfollowed you on everything, What Does it Mean when Your Ex Adds You Back on Social Media?

8. Keeps Track of the People You Date

This may seem out of limit but some exes actually do this. Though many will want to use it to their advantages, a caring one has a different goal. Your ex may keep track of the people you date because he/she doesn’t want you to date the wrong person. He/She doesn’t want you to be hurt by people.

9. Acts Jealous

See if you can pick up any sign of jealousy when you’re interacting with your ex. His/Her tone of voice could be different or he/she may give you a sarcastic joke in the conversation. Your ex can’t help being jealous because his/her feelings for you are still strong. You may wonder How to Get My Ex Back when He’s/she's Ignoring Me? Making him/her jealous could work.

10. Remembers Important Dates

How do you know if your ex still cares about you? Take notes of important dates to know if your ex still cares about you. Some important dates could include birthdays, graduation or a promotion. He/She may send you gifts, call you or do other lovely things to celebrate it. The fact that he’s/she's willing to put all his/her effort to remember the important dates should be enough to make you realize that he/she still cares.

11. Maintains Friendship with You

In case you’ve established a friendship with your ex then see how it goes. A caring ex will try his/her best to maintain the friendship as he/she doesn’t want to lose you. He’s/she's content enough to be in your life even though it’s not an intimate relationship.

12. Makes Himself/Herself Available for You

An ex still cares about you if he/she makes himself/herself available for you anytime you want. It’s also How to Know if Your Ex is Still in Love with You. He/she will always try his/her best to be there for you to make your day. It doesn’t matter if it’s just a small thing such as taking you somewhere out in the city. Your ex won’t mind as long as you’re happy.

More Clear Signs that Your Ex Boyfriend/Girlfriend Still Cares

These are other things that will show you how much your ex cares about you:

1. He/She will speak nice things about you to everyone as he/she still think highly of you.

2. Your ex will listen to you talk about anything you want with him/her.

3. Forgiving you for any mistakes you’ve done shows that your ex cares.

4. When your ex is willing to give you space, it means that he cares about your feelings and wellbeing.

5. Not blocking you from any social medias that he/she has is also a form of caring as he/she still wants to connect with you.

It’s so important to know if your ex still cares about you or not at all. The answer will finally give you a peace of mind. You can move on to better things in your life.

SOURCE : https://bigcrown.com.ng/how-do-you-know-if-your-ex-still-cares-about-you-and-loves-you/