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Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by siegfried99(m): 3:30pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
TRUSTEDGUY: That's just it. But ladies of this days .. U cant trust them to the next street. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by DaySpringer: 3:31pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Loyalty(Faithfulness) For me is the very basic, because you cannot achieve that with the other attributes. You can communicate from heaven to Earth, but that will not Guarantee your partner's Loyalty or make the person Loyal. Sex cannot make a man or a woman loyal. If you trust an unfaithful person, that is Self deception. You can work on Communication but you cannot work on Loyalty. Without Loyalty, there is no point in improving communication, all you will be improving is the Quality of lies you are told. Trust shouldn't be on that list because you don't just give trust to people, trust is earned. Trust is a natural consequence of Communication and Loyalty. What should replace trust on that List is Respect. Many ladies love to call trust because they love to be given full trust without being held accountable for their decisions and actions. They love to call trust because in most cases they want their man to swallow their lies and questionable behavior; hook, line and sucker! |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by blackmercyvelli(m): 3:36pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
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Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Icon79: We must have been watching them together tho |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Icon79(m): 3:39pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Haha!! That wouldn't be such a bad idea actually O pari NuhRegular: |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Xkaa(m): 3:42pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Trust is the bedrock of any relationship |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
I see folks shouting faithfulness, some of you think you will make good partners just because you don't cheat but don't realize that you are manipulative, inconsiderate, unappreciative, selfish, insecure, lack empathy and have poor communication skills. 1 Like |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by MostSoughtAfte(f): 3:45pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
For me it's Trust... but I think trust and faithfulness are almost d same cos if u are faithful then I can trust u.. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by TRUSTEDGUY: 3:47pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Acidosis: Trust is never an illusion but it is very rare. You can be faithful to someone still he/she wouldn't trust you. Communication is useless without trust. I can tell my babe I do not have money and she will not believe me. Without trust wahala dey |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by TRUSTEDGUY: 3:51pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Acidosis:.. Trust is not an illusion communication without trust Is lying. Faithfulness without trust Is unfaithfulness. Romance without trust is a waste of time. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Icon79: You know what would be a good idea? Not jumping to conclusions carelessly |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Icon79(m): 4:02pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Hmmm. Somebody is about to break a heart O pari NuhRegular: |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Acidosis(m): 4:06pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
TRUSTEDGUY: Just one question sir, how do you build trust? |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by YenYo: 4:10pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Communication. I think communication helps the relationship to flourish. 1 Like |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Lomprico2: 4:11pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Communication is key! 1 Like |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by wiseGD: 4:14pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Wow! I'm really surprised no one mentioned this. @Mr OP.... The MOST IMPORTANT is NOT listed there. I think the most important is RESPECT. 1. If I respect you, I wouldn't intentionally or even dream of doing anything that would hurt you... But perchance I do, I would profusely apologize. So you see COMMUNICATION would be naturally established cos I would want to be armed with info on things that tick you on/off...I would want to clear facts with you so you dont imagine things(sometimes what you think is unimportant could mean everything to the other person). 2. If I respect you, I would be FAITHFUL to you. I wouldn't insult your personality/make a dent on your dignity. It's simple and straightforward. 3. And if we're faithful to each other, TRUST is naturally established. You are not insecure cos you know the level of your worth with him/her. 4. In this kind of relationship (marriage), ROMANCE/sex is 'jara'...is effortless. So u see, it's like a law. Obey the main one and the rest fall into place. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by TRUSTEDGUY: 4:20pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Acidosis: I will answer with a personal experience. Back then in school I was dating this babe in Accounting just like other student At first I didn't take her serious until a lecturer in her Dept. became interested . To cut the long story short this girl change her Dept for my sake. Tell me should I trust this girl? unfortunately she died Do to your question trust can only be build with time and if you pass the test when the circumstance arise that it. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by TRUSTEDGUY: 4:24pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
wiseGD: I can respect you and still do not trust you. 1 Like |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by EmirAbj: 4:36pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Na Money Sure Pass |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by jeff1607(m): 4:38pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
DanDeeBoss: what if you are faithful and your partner still thinks you are hiding something from her? |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by TRUSTEDGUY: 4:38pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
somehow:That is when you are not aware of her cheating now. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:40pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
jeff1607:I am talking for both of us (my wife and I) it's not one sided |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by jeff1607(m): 4:42pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:45pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
jeff1607: |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by ChampagnePapiii(m): 4:53pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
None of the above |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by UgoManchester(m): 4:53pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Trust is the most important. You cant love who you dont trust. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by somehow: 5:25pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Trust comes from consistent faithfulness TRUSTEDGUY: |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by chris31(m): 5:26pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Money is the most important coz she will always be the one calling once ur giving her money always Only less than 30% of naija women understand what relationship really meant |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by TRUSTEDGUY: 5:36pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
somehow: Is there anything as inconsistent faithfulness? Is either you are faithful or unfaithful. |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by somehow: 5:41pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Yes there is. Some remain faithful as long as you're meeting their "price", once there is an issue to meeting up, that's when you will know if the faith is consistent. TRUSTEDGUY: |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by highqueen(f): 5:46pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
MariaLavina:Lol lol.i tell you. Longest time babe |
Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by Moji12(f): 5:47pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Faithfulness Communication then Kudi abeg na money b fine bobo |
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