₦airaland Forum

festacman:
When you break the law, you face the law.

I suggest that her punishment alongside her hubby JJC will be to give packages of assorted food stuff to people in a known poverty-stricken slum community. I rest my case!

franchasng:
Oh yEah....gUys ha niCer thAn lAdIes wHEn et cOMs tU tTe oZa roOM, lAdies hA sTiNgyY ya kNwo

hammer0:
NO TRY AM OH...


THAT WILL BE A GRAVE SIN. NA SO LESBIANISM DEY TAKE START.


USING HAND OR PLASTIC IS AN ABOMINATION.


HONESTY IS THE BEST PRACTICE.


OYA BEND-OVER MAKE I GIVE U SMALL.

Sarang:
Get you a man after lockdown..

And bleep like hell!

franchasng:
Many ladies on this same Nairaland are feeling the same way, but due to hypocrisy, over shyness, pretense to deceive some gullible guys that they are virgin mary, they will rather die Hot than seek for a guy that will thoroughly service that their hornypot



Abeg my dear sisters, if you feel you need a man to dig that stuff, don't be shy about it oh....reach out to any nice guy around you....but make sure he uses protection......but if you can't find anybody, then use the internet; we have several meetup and dating sites you can log on now and find yourself an online partner to cure the boredom and konji that comes with it....distance can never be a barrier....texting and video calls are there to help.



Stop dying in silence.....don't let guys silence your sexual desire......who go find husband go find husband, who go marry better husband go marry better husband.....who go die single go die single if you like lock that place till eternity, Ihaff talk my own with love

Victory662:
like if I confront her, means I will likely stay but if I didn't, I'm porting. Just kinda confused.

Starboytwo:
5G Mary...

Loooooool
Mafoh

DrCollins007:
Let her know that her game is up by showing her an evidence...you can probably snap the result. Then dump her asap...that girl can ruin your life. My 5 kobo.

franchasng:
edit this your post well, put paragraphs, remove the up and down capItal letters, it makes it difficult to read and understand. Do these and Lalasticlala will re-examine the post to see if it is worth fp.


Meanwhile, you write like someone suffering from early epilepsy, are you epileptic

khiaa:
WRONG!! God loved and favored Israel. If God loved the rich as much as the poor why did he make it so hard for a rich mam to sit in heaven with him? It's easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than a rich man to enter heaven.

Where's the love for the rich man?

Walemi1:
Do we intentionally fall in love? I don't think so cos I believe falling in love just happens naturally taking us unawares.
When it comes to choosing a life partner, I don't think love alone is enough cos they re times in marriage u find out that ur spouse dt once made ur heart throb no more causes dt effect. This means sth else takes over which I really can't say so u have to consider things all round and not jux love though it's part of it.
But what I see as most important is what God says about u two cos He sees beyond the physical eyes into ur destinies nd future.

franchasng:
I de fine the monkey babygirlll

franchasng:
This is the end of this thread.


Toks2008 you have said it all, don't add or remove.


Ladies listen to what he said. Don't be fooled by men claiming to love you, the saddest truth remains that men don't love, men are not created to love emotionally like women, they only lust for what they see, and like toks said, when that sexual attraction they saw in a lady and fell for her fades away, they carry on with tolerating her based on other good non-romantic and non-sexual qualities she has and this is what keeps married men going with their wives.



A lot of guys will come here to tell you how they love their girlfriend, how they love their wife, how they are different men, but the truth is they don't know who they are and they cannot even distinguish between love and lust and tolerance, e no concern me


Guys should never waste time or resources on a girl that proves stubborn for them. Once a girl says no to you, leave her, she doesn't naturally like u, she is trying to find a reason to accept u out of sympathy. Don't accept a sympathy relationship.


If a lady likes u, she will fall for you immediately.


I am not proud of what I want to say, but to educate other guys, I will say it here.


I dated more than 100 girls (black, white, Asian, etc), both broke girls, poor girls, girls from rich family, working class earning big, just name it....and I learnt a lot in those period which helped to shape my understanding about women as a whole.

Women are irrational beings. They chose men to love, being caring and generous to a woman will never make her love u romantically, u are wasting your time. The guy she picks to love can be an armed robber, a drug addict, a killer, she will still love her and be working to help him change which never happens and reason lots of ladies get burnt a lot in dating and marriage.

Men are rational, they gravitate towards ladies that value them when they want to marry, they don't wait till they feel butterflies, they marry the lady with the best rational qualities they want but not same with ladies unless they are too old, unattractive and marrying out of fear or pressure to escape menopause.


A lady will know you don't treat her well, she sees the red flag but she is still madly in love with you, it's not their fault, it's how they are built by nature to be irrational and to be more of emotional beings.


What you wrote is easier for men to practice than for ladies cos ladies fall for a man based on emotional and irrational reasons while men fall for a lady based on sex appeal and during marriage they pick a spouse based on rational qualities not just sex appeal

Nigerianization:
I have read so many submissions here and I want to share my thoughts on this issue
1: 1st Corr 14 Vs 32.... and the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets.

For those of us that believe in the scriptures, if this is not applicable to you, then, you lack self control and discipline. It will therefore be a fallacy of hasty generalization to use your obvious life of lack of discipline and self control as a basis for conclusion - THAT ONE CANNOT REALLY CONTROL HOW SHE (or HE) FEELS TOWARDS HER (or HIS) LOVE INTEREST

2: The fellow that drew a thin line between love and acceptance..please permit me to add that your analysis is spot on except for the fact that the dichotomy you tried to create does not exist. Love and acceptance are two sides of the same coin.

You cannot marry someone you don't have any atom of love for (I stand to be challenged on this point).

3: This brings me to my final point - TO LOVE IS A CHOICE. Thumbs up to the person that made the submission earlier.

Whether I feel something for you or not, if I DECIDE to marry you - for any reason whatsoever, then I love you - to an extent. The fact that I lack self control and the discipline to stick to my MARRIAGE COMMITMENT by abandoning my partner at the sight of another love interest does not justify the fact that I could have chosen not to.

BOTTOM LINE: MAN (WOMAN) KNOW THY SELF

Amanda4life:
Yes only the matured and very rare young ladies.

This job should mostly be done by a parents at younger age.

Once you don't hide anything from your female child at early stage of her life before she goes into TEENS.
If you can capture her mind and make her sew the world of love differently, she will grow to be different from her peers


But most parents may feel its too early or may not really have time for such

If you fail to do this , it means that you are leaving that child to be taught by life experience s, which may not be good at all.
Some, as a result may become feminist, while some may not live to tell their stories.

Not good for a woman to date many men before getting married

bukatyne:
People should develop a healthy self esteem so they naturally gravitate towards people who treat them with the premium they have placed on themselves.

I also doubt that people geniuely fall in love plenty times in their lives. Most people lost the person they truly loved when they were younger.

Someone once said men don't marry who they live, they marry who is available.(this is very debatable).

The more people you enter a relationship or give your heart to, the less love or relationship is sacred to you.

The less premium you place on yourself, the easier it is to stay with people who treat you like crap.

HopeLoveLife:
Oh interesting...but you are married to a Nigerian now?

Toks2008:
Insightful

One secret ladies don't know is that they can develop feelings for any guy who truly desires them and treats them like a queen even if that guy is totally opposite of what they want in terms of physical looks...it is a mystery so put your feelings on hold and observe keenly then give your feelings to a guy that is deserving of it.

@ the bolded is not true cos ive tried severally to develop feelings for one or two good guys I felt would make a perfect spouse but it just didn't click. And it took me years trying to see if there's a way I can build the love for these guys, or feel something for them but same same.
You can't really force this feelings or develop it yourself, it won't work. This things happen naturally and if it not there, it not there. That is why most marriages are having problems today because you have people advising you saying, " you can build love, love grows in marriage, just marry the man first and love will come later" jaggons. If it actually works like that, then it would have happened for me when I tried forcing it for those guys I talked about earlier.

Feeling is something you can't control. That is why when you feel something for someone, you can't control how fast it grows until it reaches a peak where it becomes a threat. Likewise you dont have the power to control your feelings and make it grow for someone it doesn't click with. It's a natural phenomenon beyond every living being.

Please let not be misguided.
I believe in true love with genuine feelings and that is what covers all sins. As in no matter what the person does to you, you still want to be with them.

It took me 4 years after my ex to fall in love again. And this new guy is a Nairalander. Yes! And this happened within a few weeks. But we had a little misunderstanding and I was heartbroken to which I confided in a guy here about how I felt. So he asked me, how long have I dated this new guy that the love hurts so badly. I told him just a few weeks and he went wow! Like is it not too early to love so deeply?
Now I didn't realized that my feelings had grown so fast and so deep for this guy until he mentioned it and I paused to think but realized its not my fault! Its how nature works and we can't control these things.

khiaa:
No!

Slimpotter:
Thank you so much. You're doing a good job.
I for one would like to see the old Soviet Union.
And good thing you're in Russia there, I hope our people learn enough from you that western media always try to put their enemies in a bad light.
Good work you're doing.
Do you have any social media platforms like twitter?

pansophist:
I so much love the Russian mentality, they are so hardcore but beneath, its compassion and empathy. Like a typical coconut, hard outside but soft inside. Their lady represent the typical strong and independent women who still retain their femininity 100%. They know how to appear classy, and compliment masculinity. They appreciate hard working men, and if you're intelligent as a man with potential (keyword "potential), getting a gorgeous woman is a cake in the park.

They look beautiful together.

Ussycool:
Oyibo wey not fit pound yam.
Oyibo wey no go wash clothes.
Oyibo wey no like black man
Oyibo wey not fit stay 4 Ajegunle
Oyibo wey be like puf puf.

If oyibo no go give me $80,000k, I no go marry am.

Wetin I know?

khiaa:
LMAO KFC is not their food it's a bad rip off of Black American food which they did incorrectly. For a true sense of our food I wish you guys had Popeyes instead.

HopeLoveLife:
I have for 3 years to a young and handsome white guy and I thought it was the best, until I met my extremely handsome Nigerian husband, who also looks like a white but mehnnnn! He is totally different from both the blacks and whites I have dated so far, He is God’s sent! Just pray to God to give you your God ordained husband, be it black or white.

AmericanSons:
lol but the guy in this pictures is a bad boy, obviously a Benin boy. I watched the video few days ago and I couldn't laughing. The lady is more serious about the relationship than him but he is just passing time.

Royalbloodline:
Nice one toch.

However i feel the couple has a lot to learn, especially the lady. I agree with the person that said she is living in fantasy.

She has hopes that he would be a superstar
So what happens if..... ?

Let me say no more

Petyprincess:
Wow!! That's why we have preferences! Tall nd dark guys too are hot nd i know most black ladies will prefer them!! Bt i guess I'm just different

OjaTiBurst:
This news just took me back in the days growing up at benin city


Ugbague street, den of prostitution and women trafficking... the rumour then was before these teenage girls were taken to italy they undergo lessons there

Then as a young gee if i pass through that road i will try to keep a straight face

You go just they hear “hey fine boy come na i go do you well”

If you are a stranger never pass that place at night o if not wetin you see u collect


I miss benin sha

Shout out to my ring road boys
Upper boys
ADP boys
Oko barrack boys
Airport road boys
Oba market boys
Sapele boys
Mission road boys were men dey collect update
New benin boys
Ekehuan road boys
Ugbighoko Boys
Ekosodin boys men dem
Ugbowo gee dem
Even Auchi, Ekpoma men dem
I no fit forget 1st upstairs dem o
Ikpoba hill dem

And so many too plenty to mention

May we all stay alive to pass this Coro Era
By the Grace of Almighty God o

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Must Benin b associate wt oloshowork?
Tufiakwa 4 halfcasted afonjj...

agarawu23:
Chai

Rip

Aba should take over.