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Illuminated993:
Jay z cheated on Beyonce, but they settled right. But an average Nigerian lady who goes abroad, observes the system, then she tries to out do the citizens born into the system. Wisdom is profitable to direct. I won't say any further. You could read this and choose to be aggressive on me, or you could read and choose to keep for yourself some few valid points. Peace profound.

[i][/i] with this your name Ugo know all the celebrities whey don Cheat

RuudVanNisteroy:
Delusions of grandeur!Who is he?

wow..your name. The Guy from Holland. Used to be my favorite sOcceR player when I was a girl

intrinsicniyi:
Well, this had to be one of the most interesting thread that I've read on nairaland. From people stating the raw truth to the hilarious comments . I enjoyed every bit of it.

Meanwhile, I dey USA & I'm lonely asf! I've only being here for 3 months though & all I can say is: "being in the western world is like "survival of the fittest".

As per relationship, abeg if you're a reasonable lady/man or you know of someone who know someone that's also reasonable, link me up abeg. I'm open to making new friends in the USA & Canada. Make loneliness no kill me here.

#I AM STRAIGHT!

so you come before them lock AiRport, lol

Nuel4:
lol don't be deceived with the career scam. This career thing, abortion right, frustrating men in divorce court celebration of LGBT etc are just ploys by globalists and radical leftists strong men to discourage natural marriage and reproduction between men and women in order to reduce world population because they believe the Earth is going to die as result of global warming if population is not controlled.

Nobody has ever been happy because he/she is working. Almost everybody normally hates his job but feminists somehow found a way to paint work as heaven to women and I'm very disappointed how women fell for all the scam. Women were far happier 50 years ago when they really had chance to take care of their own families than now that they just chase illusion. Women weren't using antidepressants and narcotics or committing suicide like this 50 years ago.

white women aren't left out, Are they not the ones on Facebook and Tinder buying Lexus for small small boys in Benin because they were promised marriage?
Women have been scammed of their natural joy and gift by a few crazy radicals it's always too late before they realise they have missed it

how does one even claim to frustrate a man they claimed to have loved and gotten married to?
There should be a Balance. People take the career thing too far and don't live their destinies.

EVILFOREST:
Now you know.
Secondly my BROTHERS WIVES also did so too.
And they are Alive, doing well.
U think those Sound Nigerian Ladies value those guys who take Coke and Sag trousers overseas...??
These are GUYS that will make the POLICE relocate to your apartment, permanently.

WOE be tide you, you dent your IMAGE abroad.
You are FINISHED completely.
No COMPANY will ever hire you.
U can't even be a bouncer...

Only God DeCides when it's finished

donbachi:
Only the kind eye my mother go look..u no go know wen u go fetch 2 drums full..unless u wan make she remind u am with garri turner.

I don't think it's about training. It's comes very natural to lend a hand, whether you are raised that way or not. They don't just want to help, period.

EVILFOREST:
THE SAME with the US.
PEOPLE buy vests for DOGS here.
People pay as high as $3000USD to get back their missing dogs and cats.
I was Lucky because my WIFE had tasted WEALTH and Exposure and, she was brought up well, so she had already planned what she wanted.
She just loved being married.
Despite her WEALTH, she Loved me more and now cherishes the marriage.
I have never seen that kind of woman before.

I saw LADIES, but they were Leeches.
I don't mind getting MARRIED to a Good WIDOW with kids, or loving and caring BABY MAMA, but what I never tolerated was a JEZEBEL no matter her virginity.

eya

Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

can you add me to the group pls? +1 862 588 2919
Thanks and God Bless

walkwithgod:
Why are you typing like you've got parkinsons disease ?

Is everything really okay at home ?

lol lemme jor. Everyone's complaining but I see nothing wronG.

Raalsalghul:
I can't argue with this, true.

87 % of our females are after 22 % of our males: the rich and financially comfortable ones I mean.

Even the 22% men go for rich women. No one wants a liability.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

She Doesn't have God and she doesn't love you, I'm soRRy. A woman who truly loves her man won't put him through that no matter the GReViance.

lefulefu:
so what of black americans or black canadians...are those ones not marriage oriented too?

I'm with a BlaCKGuy now, he's very uniQue.
He Can SPeak iGBo like a NiGeRian, PiDGin, no TRaCes of being AmeRiCan. At the same time, He speaks exactly like a Black AmeRiCan, no TRaCes of NiGeRianEnGlish. The thing Dey BuRSt my head. His name is elOChuKwU OJimnaGa a.K.A O.G

OmG. He's so SPeCial. He makes me CRy everyday. IDi too much
Made a post about him

truthsayer009:
Nice, so that's $2k monthly. Not bad at all.

DO you know how frustrating that is? I had no option than to do this with any Guy who's COmfortable since men these days aren't ready for maRRiaGe --- is this the true reality of where you grew up in NY or just basically American reality with men in general? I mean Nigerian men love the idea of marriage, numbers don't lie & some aren't married only because they aren't financially comfortable yet. At any glimpse of wealth, they marry immediately.

Have you seen the Nigerian girls in U.S. & CanaDa being lonely on fROntPaGe

Designer123:
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.

very Childish. They Should look at the BRiGhter side and focus on DiveRSity.

lefulefu:
so why are they not dating the white men dere

which white men? Fa slap you lool. Most aren't marriage minded like we AfRiCans.
I was and have been hooked on white men all my life. Had 3 DauGhteRs with them before I started dating a Nigerian AmeRiCan iBo a month aGO. The BlaCk Boy cares less. I just had to tell him I'm doing this because of eagerness of marriaGe. I am 23 btw

truthsayer009:
How much on the average do mothers in NY get for child support?

I have 3 DauGhteRs. Think it's a QuaRter or 1/6th of their POPSi's earnings. For POPS of Child 1 1 who is an OyiBO man, it's about $1,000 USD. pop 2 another Igbo $500. Pop 3 AKata $500. Had them at 19, not waiting till 46 for the "right" man who's RiCh, tall, BlOnDe, handsome and would be mine only-RuBBiSh DeluSiOns. Taking 10 years to date and ReaChing nowhere in the relationship. DO you know how frustrating that is? I had no option than to do this with any Guy who's COmfortable since men these days aren't ready for maRRiaGe. Think it's my GROUP that actually values themself so much compared to contrary notion. Slow and SteaDy wins the RaCe.but how about waking up one morning to find the love of your life you have plans with DitChinGU.
This is nothing compared to ColleGe tuitions.

Glink2018:
You are wrong. The lady don dey old. She needs to settle down or else she will be like some old newspaper on this platform. They guy might not have all the money she desires in a guy, but she can manage him.

Naira landers girls piss me up all the time..some of them are no fine. Money, dem no get.
Nah just packaging dey their body.. Yet, dem go stay they feel pompous. Dey show levels..


Eni kuure

e ma binu. E jO. I'm Pleading on their behalf. Me I fine, but I no get money

mamapidgin:
she's really lucky, most of them that have wore that crown before don't usually find husband to marry them because what they use to do is to set very high standard for any man that want to come into their life as husband,

standard that are very very high that an ordinary man will find very difficult to meet, If you are not the son of a billionaire i can't date you,
If you are not an international football star we are not going to work out, If you are not a well established international business mogul don't dare come around, those are the kind standard they set and how many people can meet those kind of standard, thats why most of them end up single for the rest of their life, happiness is what we should all look for in life and sometimes the happiness is not in riches and Gold..

yeah. Some single ladies looking for a husband cause their problems

jericco1:
Donald Chibuzor Trump should better watch out. A Grim Reaper is coming for his head.

why ChibuzoR? Ahahahahahaloooool

Bigflamie:
Why would such tragedy befall an innocent child. A child that doesn't know what sin is and God couldn't save him, yet some people will continue to worship and sing praises to him.

You guys should be asking questions because I'm confused about this so called God.

sOmething similar happened to my child but I Give GloRy to him

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

with your former post, I thought you were wrong. But this one makes sense.

sulasa07:
They keep on sucking guys life and add to theirs like Vampires

lol U too DO

chaiks:
With this lockdown, I have realized that's
- some people you are with actually don't care about you really
- God is supreme
-no condition is permant. Don't attach too much importance to any material thing u have. Imagine those guys that died in new York, the amount they have in their accounts but left all.
- to change from your evil ways because death can come at any time.

lol I'm in New York. FRom the average new yorker's PeRSPeCtive where every thing is expensive. Which money? What of taxes, Rent, moRtGaGe, medical bills and funeRal COsts? Not many people here have anything saved in their AccOUnts. What tangible amount would remain? No time for forming, though I would never Discourage anyone from traveling out or seeking GReeneR PaStuRes.

SEGLIZ:
this is no discovery but a known fact except you're just getting to know.
forget about Nigerian got, discover yourself in order to be a solution to us hence making you become great.

your last paragraph is very insightful. WheRe Did you Get that from?

Chinwe4real:
This lockdown opened my eyes to the fact that one can earn a hell of money from online. The lockdown saw massive traffic on many blogs, including mine. At a point I was getting 10,000 visitors a day.


Aside that, I've been trying to keep fit. I had this workout app, dumped it. Now I try to skip every day.

I've also been closer to God, developed a daily routine that involves hearing from God every morning.

you GO GiRl,

Hopebringer:
And that's all folks

you need to see me and my bOyfriend having Sex ehn,, the kind ROlling and tUmbling on top BeD.

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

TOke why now?

Kingrefreshed:
I bet with my balls. Some people sleep on NL here every second to days. They comment before the post arrives

naiRalanD landlORds

Hopebringer:
Nigerian girls are very easy , I mean very very easy

Just a little hunger and boom! There goes their pride and the hard to get game!!

The cheapest women in the world are Nigerian women

You would be surprised what the scent of fried chicken emanating from your kitchen can make them do.

fried Chicken? Gime SUya and an OPen LeG is yours

Rick9:
The lockdown has opened my eyes to so much, not like i was surprised sha, because i know that life is characterize by unexpected events, in the blink of an eye everything can change.

All those things we thought were of extreme importance like clubbing, football, entertainment etc are meaningless right now.

For the first time, humanity are combating one enemy that threatens our very existence.

People are beginning to understand the existential meaning of life.

No more fancy stuff, Surviving is the most important thing right now.

Above all God is the ultimate, we have to return to him
For him to show us his mercy.

amenO. veRy motivational POSt

idonhammer:
Is a lie,even as you fine like this?

wORRy not. GOnna Convince the ladies, plead On Guys behalf not to leave

Millenniumlady:
That men ain't worth it........I love you i love since lock down even admires ran away nobody call to send money or check if you've eaten.....definitely cutting some people off after this

Pls foRGive them. I feel your Pain. JuSt sticking it out with Guys so I don't Remain SinGle for the ReSt Of my life. DOnt CUt them off so you won't look Petty in the long Run. At this POint, no man is available. Every One seems to be taken. TheRe's a GUy I Really like oR CaRe ABOut. Think he's my SOulmate. Even though he may not wife me. All I'm asking him for is to be his BeStfRienD. I have 3 DauGhteRs with 3 DiffeRent white men. I may have another with him. Like someone on this forum was suggesting,. if they don't marry you, you can have their kids. God Should understand because SOCiety has turned to something else.