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Mindfulness:
Overprotection made me crave, seek, find, love and appreciate freedom.
Rebellious it made me too.

Those girls who were given more freedom learned to be more responsible faster than I did.
It seemed like a contradiction at first.

Now I understand.

So true.
IMHO Parents should learn to hold their 'precious' girls with open palms rather than trying to make them captives of the third world war. Let them see the world as it truly is while you guide them rightly.
Most of my peers that were 'overprotected' turned out worse. Some got pregnant at a tender age...some after first semester (100l) @ uni....some are still are doing well in the 'runs' enterprise. Yet I can't deny the fact that the same overprotective method has produced highly disciplined,cultured and successful women.
Parenting is a very delicate and tough journey that requires wisdom. Parents can never get it right. Everyone tries to protect and train their children whichever way they seem best.

ItsQuinn:
Op, your wife is not going to listen to you and she's not going to change anytime soon, she's already made her mind up. The only thing you can do is to let her be and let her learn from her experience, let nature or karma take hold.....or if you're very impatient to wait for your wife to change, just opt for a divorce. Simple!

Women!

Dyt:
Deep sigh

All I could read is a jealous man
I don't mean it the hard way but you are very funny

Insecurities and trust issues.
Where af u been?

jazinogold:
What type of Tense is this? Future predictive tense? or Future certain Tense?

Mtchewwww. Baba hafusa.
HML to d son

Dyt
Ifyalways
Cococandy
Coman see o

At least the world would spare us a nut head like OP.

Dyt:
The OP is simply an idiot

I can't agree less.

Mille:
Some people can be really funny.

There was a girl I was trying to date then, back in the university. We both liked each other. On the day she was to accept, she asked for my CGPA. I just hissed and left her.

Bros Ozodigboo , after reading your comment above me, I have to also ask.

Who made you a Lawyer?

EPP me ask him o.
Dyt coman see

Maaamaaa:
He said he loves me somehow and that I'm a wife material but I'm demanding so much attention.

He said I talk a lot and he does not like talking (gisting) that he likes being alone.

He said he does not care about the pregnancy because he does not know anything about it and he feels since women do it almost everyday, it's not so difficult.

He said I cry a lot and crying irritates him.


I still don't understand all these and I feel so sad and unhappy.

Smh. Aja to ba ma sonu KO ni duro gbo fere olode.

Maaamaaa:
Thank you all for your words.

I don't want to call off the engagement because he says I don't understand his personality, he is not romantic and I want a fairy-tale romance and he can't do that.

My mother says my pregnancy hormone is making me overreact.

My dad says out state of finance is affecting us.

His parents say I should tolerate him.

I still do love him and I can't explain why, He is not a bad person but I feel he does not love me. I do not want to anyone to get married to me out of pity and that's why I was asking for a solution.

He assist with the chores at home and bills. He does not keep late nights and he is always at home with me but he just wants to be alone always and I feel like he is irritated by me.

He says I demand too much attention from him.

I actually want to plan the wedding together but he is like he does not care and I should do the planning while he will look for the money...

He is 32years and I'm 23years.

*Nods* now I get it.
Happy married life!