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Lovelive:
Keyp Kwyet der

Yes sir

Sanwo eko

Good.

Nigerians are too negative in their thoughts, more reasons we see and read negative meanings to every things.

An agency of the government is announcing that she would employ, some Nigerians are already attributing it to rigging elections.

Hatred of a person should not mean hatred of the country.

What a lovely memory!

Family is the smaller unit of the society. Many families make up society.
A complete family has of a father and mother figure.
If you want to destroy the society, destroy the family system by misorintenting individuals about family.

Happy Father's Day

Yes.
Worrisome is the way married women are having affairs outside marriage. I used to think men surpass them, I know now women surpass men in adultery the difference is that men are open while women are very secretive.

I have advised many married women who made pass at me to desist. When I asked about being caught, their common answer is ' I m not a kid'. I tagged that as being expert in the field of adultery.
Some women have abused me for advising them not to cheat while others are so persistent thinking as women they can always get what they want.

Let me mention that adultery has no religion or tribe.

It takes the grace of God to shun it.
May God put away in us the desire to lust after what is not ours.

There is no other god but God.
Jesus is NOT Lord.

Jesus is NOT God.

Jesus was sent by God.

Satan cannot tempt God.

God couldn't have learnt Carpentry.

Worship the God that sent Jesus and dont worship Jesus.

Stop thanking Jesus for everything, thank God.

Before you mention God once, you have mentioned Jesus 100 times.

God created the Universe not Jesus.

God created Jesus and thus should be thanked, praised and worshiped.

Ogun , Sango and other deites also thank and worship these deities believing they are intermediaries between them and God.

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

When it comes to self control, there are levels. Some men can sleep on the same bed with naked ladies and they won't get aroused while some would lust after women in purdah.

A man is innocently voicing out his concerns and worries about his marriage and you are here blaming him.
He has identified a potential danger and needs advise on how to handle it. The least you could do is to assist him.

What if the lady is purposely lusting over her sister's husband?
If he eventually sleeps with the lady, we would be the first to condemn him over him not being able to control himself.

Prevention they say is better and even cheaper than cure.

Good

We should always try to control our anger.
Even at that he should have been sensible. my people would say " we still see even while crying" ( ti a ba nsunkun a ma riron).

Good luck to him.

He's got a credit card for another one.

Oh Lord of Mercy!

datola:
Wow. This is commendable of the management if truly those demoted were found wanting.

Those demons called lecturers in universities across the country should read and learn from this.

We have.

Tell your friend to be calm. He would have gotten the interview invitation through email. He should reply the email copying all other emails of officials that were copied in the mail sent to him, politely asking for a reschedule date for the interview. He should quote the phone number that called to inform him of the cancellation.

Someone somewhere pulled a prank on him.

Talking is what keeps their live moving. It makes them happy and keep them out of depression.

Sometimes we ignore these guys not because we don't want to OR need to, but because we look down on them as an ordinary cabbie. I see arrogance and pride as a reason.

If you aren't interested in the talk, you can politely just tell.

stephleena:
now he's former Senate president..while you're yet to head a WhatsApp group chat.

You're wicked

No one was born with his/ her permission.
No one chose who his/ her father and mother.
No one chose the town and country he/she was born.

No one knows where we were before birth.

No one knows where we will go after death except what the divine books tell us.

Wouldn't it be wise to follow the Divine books?

PataAlhaja:
Which fuckin' hell? Shebi you don go hell come back and you don confirm say the place exist?

You adherents of the Abrahamic religion should learn to acknowledge the fact that not every one believes in the fairy tales espoused in your "holy books" ... not every one is in consonance with the dictates of your religion ... not everyone is religious ... not everyone is gullible ...

A lot of individuals out there, including myself wish we weren't born ... a lot of individuals crave the inexplicable and soothing feeling of existing in nothingness ... a lot of us wanna leave this world but somethings hold us back ...

Never judge no one.

You must be the P.A to the devil to know he's smiling right now.

If I curse you na, all these mods no go waste time ban me ... "hsiloof taog" like you!

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Kevinsamba:
Garden snake!! how are u sure it's not a boomslang

Boomslang are large according to Wikipedia. According to the OP description, the small is a tiny one which fits the description of green garter snake.

To be on a very safe side, I ll advise we treat all snake as dangerous.

RichBoy247:

In Islam, siblings who are of different sex should not sleep in the same room once they reach puberty. Seeing themselves nakked is abomination is Islam. The Bible did not treat this topic.

The Quran emphasized children seeking permission before they enter their parents room.
Islam advises that the beddings of children with different sex be separated as soon as they become 7 years of age.

They are called Garden Small and are very harmless.

If you insist on killing it, spray sniper in the hole. It does the magic.

Someone would come and say its also normal for girls to be unclad in front of the dad or boys in presence of the mum. And we are still worried why brothers and sisters have sex together or why fathers and daughters do.

There must be a decorum. A redline of unclothedness that non must see except your spouse.

That's how incest start. What is normal about being unclad in front of your siblings? The only person you should feel comfortable unclad in his/ her presence is your spouse.

ebonyggurl:
I'm studying a course I have no passion for. Currentlly in 2nd year. Test starts next week and I can't work up the enthusiasm to study. I just don't see the point in wasting my time doing something I hate.(Was dad's idea to study it) . I feel stranded

Hmm, you are not alone on this. Many parents force their children to study courses they don't have passion for. Sometimes our parents think more of themselves than the children. Some insisted their children study medicine and pharmacy because they want to be proud father / mother of doctors and pharmacists.


Sometimes our parents guide us on course of study because they know better than we do. They seem to understand the labour market because they are already there. Their years of experience should not be underated.

Isnt it possible you talk to your dad so that the two of you can reach a compromise? Let him see where your passion lies and hear him out on why he wanted you study the course.

ajokeade920:
Like seriously,mine is really not suicidal thoughts but I feel like running far away to unknown place and start over again.
I just don't know what's wrong with me,this is the third time I am failing out in my academics.its like I ve cursed or something , despite me being intelligent and all... I have been a very brilliant and smart girl right from infant which made my parent really proud of me tho my dad is late but I still have mum. Right now, am dropped out of school again and I don't know how to tell my mum and loved ones cos I am so confused,and devastated about it,after all my effort and struggles,money and time in gaining admission.sometimes I use to think maybe am not destined to further my education which is absurd cos my mum believes so much in me and I don't want to make her sad
Everyone thinks I am still in school but truth is am not it's hurting me and making me depressed :.as I type now am in tears...
Please how can I tell them the truth without getting hurt and disappointed by all..how will they feel,my boyfriend, family and friends.i would be mocked. But I need to stop this lie and face the truth..the fact that I lie about my education is depressing to me.
Please advice me on what to do without losing the loves of my life.

I' m really sorry about you dropping out of school. That's not the end of life, there is more to life than schooling.

You said you used to be an intelligent student. At what point did you start failing your courses?. What did you is think is responsible?

Is it possible to start over again? Why not learn a vocational course that won't required must studying?

I pray God to guide you in taking the best of decision.

harakiri:
I'll be back on or before 2018.Maybe i'll be married by then.

It's now 2019

kikelomo:
I'm not married (yet at least), so i guess this conversation ain't for me, but i'm waiting to hear your responses so i can listen and learn

Are you married now? �

May Allah save us from the evil of the jins and mankind.

Nosu:
I have an elder sister that should have committed suicide. If she had commited suicide, I will not have blamed her because she has gone through a lot of troubles since when I knew her as my sister.

I will tell you some things she has passed through and she is going through;

She is a psychiatric patient, i have know her as one since when knew as my sister. Whenever she goes into depression, she loses her mind. When i was about 12 years old, she left our house for my mother's shop and started manifest, torn all her cloth. we had to quickly close the shop and look for wrapper to cover her unclothedness.
On another occasion, at my brother's house, she went naked and climbed the fence of the compound. It was very embarrassing for her and for the entire family.

She spent over 10 years in university before she graduated. She attended two universities, because she couldn't finished from the first one and when she got to the other one she had to change department at some point.

When she was in the second university, her boyfriend that she broke up with released sex tape of her that he video without her notice( her drugs are strong that most times make her unaware of happening around her) . She couldn't walk within the campus without people making fun of her. As at this time she had repented and was a member of a campus fellowship. But the fellowship members deserted her that she is a pretender even though the act in the video happened about 5 year before that time.

She didn't get married until she turned 42 and she gave birth when she turned 46 after severally miscarriage that most time make her depress and then the psychiatric issue ( madness).

I have never told anyone as much details. I doing this to tell someone out there that you can hold on till your change come.

But it wouldn't be easy without faith in God and faith in Jesus, the mediator between God and man.

her faith and hope in God has been the reason she has come this far and it has paid of.

She is still on drugs till today. I don't think your case is worse than hers and if it is, there is always a way out.

May God heal completely.

I thought the release of sex tape was a recent things, I never knew such could have happened 10 years back.

May God save us from the known and unknown enemies.

OlawaleBammie:
And u said luggage, luggage ke?? where did u see luggage again??

When a spirit, ( jinn) is living inside a man. ( posses a man), he /she lives there with everything that make him/ her comfortable (luggages) . The presence of the luggage sometimes cause the pain in that part of body of the victim.

During exorcism, the spirit speaks through the mouth of the victims. In that case, they are heard loud and clear.

The process I described earlier is when the victim wants to do the exorcism by him, / herself. That involves the mind engagement where he/ she could hear the spirit within him.