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emerald16:
That's not the point

The business she is into is a point.
If she's making so much from the business which is obviously more than the 60k you make, it will be wise of you to put more human resources into that business. Join her in the business and work hard to make it grow more.

Grow your wife business together but never take it over from her.

Aadeyemo1:
I ll say this came at the right time as am in serious depression however I consider going into exile or when am financially bouyant then I can find my way back . Have been married for 5yrs we both wrk in a financial institution however she earns more salary than I do. I play my roll even if not to d fullest as the man of the house. All of a sudden she doesn't find life in everything I say or do Nd she decided to keep tinz to hersf and all sh is concerned with is the children who stays with mother in law due to d nature of our job. Am considering leaving d house for her, leaving her with her sudden poor attitude, or may be the money I have is not commanding enuf. Just confused

I will advise that you find a way to go on holiday with your wife, even if you have to beg her., talk her to it. Traveling together for a week, sharing same hotel room, visiting same place could reignite the love.

spend time with your children at your mother-in-laws house. Be happy with them, play with them, that may help you to be happy and put you out of depression.

May God in His infinite mercy bring back happiness into your family.

OlawaleBammie:
hmmmmm but how do we confirm d authenticity of d message recvd as some spirits lies

At first I always get excited listening to them, asking series of questions from them. Later with experience, I understand they lie 95% of the time so I don't get excited anymore. I don't even have interest listening to them, my interest is that they leave the body with their luggage ( yes, the do have luggage).

Sometimes, we listen just to make the victims and their families understand that there is more to what the ordinary eyes could see.

May God bless our good leaders and make the good ones amongst us our leaders

OlawaleBammie:
Jeesus, i bliv u bro, especially wer u said spirit lies alot as der are many spirits even bible confirmed it, dat we should test all spirits, hmm hmmm hmmm, bro i swear am caught inbetween.

All I have written are part of my experience doing exorcism (ruqyah).
Allah is my witness

I pray to God to assist all spiritually induced depressed people is this holy month of Ramadan.

OlawaleBammie:
So how do we accurately interpret this mysterious signs??

If these signs are present, there is a great chance the person's problem is spiritual and thus a spiritual solution MAY be required.

In a situation where voices are heard, the victim if bold may further question the spirit of this bothering him/ her. Let me warn at this juncture that spirits lie a lot. Don't ever believe whatever you are told because it may be a plot to destroy you further. For instance, telling you your mother or wife or husband is behind your misfortune.

In a case where victims were able to view an event, that event may be connected to where the source of the problem.

All these sound like trash to some people exactly it was to me before I accidentally got involved in exorcism.

LifeDrama24:
Not like I having suicidal thoughts but i am deeply depressed...I have been jobless for close to a year now (Accounting graduate) after I lost my former job due to company downsizing...i av sold almost everything i have to survive, trying to get a job has been hard and efforts has always end futile, now i am beginning to believe all these spiritual shits...I don’t think my problem is ordinary....This Life no b am at all, Bad things always happen to good people, ending it all might be the best solution after all..

You may start a small business with little capital.
A laundry business is a good one. All you need is to be able to convince people to trust you with their clothes. Watch, dry, iron and deliver. It may not be juicy in the beginning but trust me other ideas will start flowing once a business is operational.

Explore all physical avenues before thinking spiritual. Don't fall victim of spiritual scam.

OlawaleBammie:
pls wil d voice be audible

I have reports that the voice is audible.

Sometimes, one may be seeing some events as if watching a movie.

Some people have reported not hearing or seeing anything but feel or notice some signs like vibration is the body, heavy head, shedding tears or a kind of object moving in the body.

In some other persons, nothing happened.

I guess the woman you described above is capitalizing on your weakness as a man. Man up, take charge and control of your family. Running away is a sign of weakness except if there is no other solution.

Having said that, I wish we could hear your wife's side of the story.

Create a strong bond with everyone she's not in good relationship with, her mom, siblings etc.

Tell her your condition for peace with her is to make peace with her family. If she is able to do that, be ready to renew your love and continue with the marriage.
If she can't make peace with her mum and siblings, you may consider leaving.

You didn't mention how you and her has been relating with your own family .an Idea on this will give us insight on your own personality too.

Leonardomike:
am having it oooh what can do about it ooh

I went through your post and saw you very active in the health section.

I m happy you are trying to solve your challenges medically, I wish you quick recovery.

Let me recommend to you something you can do with 5-10 minutes and you MAY know what's actually wrong with you.

If you are interested, I implore you to sit in a quite place, close your eyes and talk to your mind. Speak silently to your mind without opening your limps.
Ask your mind as if you are sure there is something in you ( that object moving with you). Ask questions such as ' who are you? ', 'what did I do to deserve these punishments?' why are you troubling my life?. Please be emphatic/ aggressive with the questions but don't speak out.

There is a possibility that you'll hear a response. Many has reported hearing responses. You may not hear anything but notice somethings like vibration in a part of the body or shedding tears or very fast heart beat or something like a heaviness of the head.

You may try this and revert back here.

That's the job of sniper

A lot of things are responsible for depression and eventual suicide. We woke up to the news of RCCG choir Master's suicide this morning on the basis on his inability to pay house rent.

Sometimes depression is spiritual. I know some would find this absurd. Some common signs of spiritual induced depression are
1. Constant headaches ( migraine)
2. Pain in a body part ( chest, leg, lower abdomen etc)
3. Insomnia. Not being able to sleep at night
4. Some kind of movement in the body. One may noticed something moving in part of the body. It may be on the head, leg, hand, stomach etc.
5. Sometimes one comes in contact with cobwebs alots.
6. Nightmares is also a common sign.

These are just few of the signs.
Please note that these signs do not necessarily indicate spiritual problem but may be a pointer to it.

As we try approaching challenges from medical / physical angles don't let us rule out spiritual solutions and vice versa.

Ok

Good

Almost everybody have experienced such one time or the other in this tropic region

Prompt response

princenaira:
I did not understand this judgement. Any lawyer in the house should pls help me. After paying #10,000 to the complainant, what happened to the original #17,000 and Legal fees he must have incurred ??

Even if the police prosecuted the accused without the payment of legal fees by the complainant, at least the original #17,000 should be recovered.

Am waiting for a possible interpretation ??

I am not a lawyer.

He pleaded guilty to the crime he committed which attracted a prison term or fine or both.
He cannot be convicted for the crime and be made to pay the 17k. That sounds like double jeopardy.

LadyHeaven:
Hahahaha, so you would bash me join? Dankè

Guten tag.

Amanda4life:
I don't have a love story, im married but i live a single life. I have prayed my eyes off God help me

May your prayers be answered by the almighy God.
May God turn all your challenges to joy and happiness.

Hmmm.
This craze about pre wedding pictures is what I don't understand. Everybody wants to trend with different creative and innovative postures.
Another trending craze is this baby shower, I can't just understand the reasons and need for such a picture.

I just hope people would not start wedding night pictures spreading their wedding night personal affairs on the internet.

Too bad

I expect Dino to declare

Kogi

Good for lagos

Nigerians

Mynd44:
Not just blood transfusion right now.

Imagine a muslim couple takes their female child to an hospital, if the only doctor available is a male doctor and the doctor finds that if he doesn't act, the child can die, the parents cannot ask him to step back. The right of the child to live outweighs the freedom of religion of the parents and the doctor can administer treatment

The right to live outweighs the forbiddens.
In the example you brought forth, anybody that understands Islam very well would know that the parents has no choice than to allow the doctor to treat their daughter if it's a life threatening ailment

It also applies to a Muslim man if the wife is sick. It is preferable that a female doctor attends to her but if non in available a male doctor is allowed to threat her.

yaksdavirus:
Can someone please summarise the bruhaha above. They are un-comprehendible

You can't refuse your children blood transfusion on the basis of your religious beliefs.

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Complex world

MissRaine69:
Not at all

Is there a part of the body that pains? E.g chest pain, lower abdominal pain?

MissRaine69:
How do fellow insomniacs cope?
I can stay awake for three days easily, not keen to explore pharmaceuticals been down that road it causes more problems than its worth.
Ideas welcome.

Do you always have headache or migraine?