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I work with a law firm as a secretary.

When you meet him in the lift (work in the same floor….Marble House, Lagos) he is humble and you will not know you are with one of the popular business magnate in Nigeria.

Well, its unfortunate but there is nothing you can do. Just ask God for the grace to move on and forget him as a lover but take him as a friend because he might end up to be your soultide and you are in trouble especially if you love him soo much. Am just getting out of it so i understand what am saying.

IAH:
Your dream soulmate but...

Assume you meet someone that fits your dream of a lifetime partner and soulmate, possesses every quality you have always wanted but has a son from a previous relationship.  Would you date and later marry such a person?

As much as i can get along with his son nothing will stop me from marrying him.

Its not a bad idea especially for people like me who dont have friends but looking forward to meet good god created.

I won't be sad but I will use the rest of the day to confess my sins and look forward to join the Almight because this world does not worth staying in too long especially days of our time.

I support Dablessed opinion. That's the fact.

Hi,

To be sincere I think there is no way to know except you are sure you are going out with the "right guy".(Right guy in quote.....you desire him, you don't just like him physically but he or she affects you as a person relating to your being, physical looks, emotions, finances, thoughts, everything dear heart, and out of it all he must have the fear of the Lord, etc). A friend is better for a relationship and that's just it.

Quite alright it is wrong to divorce but I think its the best if you can't cope with one another again. The children will definitely be the one to suffer through it but it works out for those that believe in God.