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I just want to be with you by Vicki Yohe - a Gospel music.

kimba:
On a more serious note, i think the definition of "already made" varies. It depends on the eye of the beholder.abi

a girl might see a guy as "already made" if he's well educated, has a good job, (a car might not be necessary), and at least hes doing good. For others, if the guy is not driving an E-class Benz, hes not yet made nothing, and for another set of girls, it might be somethings else.

On the other hand for the guy, he might not consider himself "already-made" until he has this, and that, and that, and that, and in the process of making-himself, he forgets to shine his eyes very well. At the end of the day, he might be over-made(wow, this is getting serious) and by the time he might want to say "hello" to a girl, his friends will tell him that she has no class, and by the time her friends talk to her, they'll yab her that shes a gold-digger. Like a constant phrase in a nija movie i watched yesterday(don't know the title). At the end of the day, things get too complicated.

So lets put it like this: girls, what is your definition of a ready-made man? as in A, B, C, D,

Nice talk Kimba.

kimba:
@ ladies

I believe any sensible husband that loves his wife and shows it wont have the time to look at someone else.

You will be surprise to know that most of these men are very very sensible.

just now.

When was the last time you lied to your girlfriend / boyfriend

If he has made up his mind to marry her then so be it but I will not stay in the same house with her and neither will I leave my house.

hum...

DAMMYGLOW:
what's up with guys and this their money
please give me a break from all this talk
about ladies being after your money
not all ladies are after your goddamned money
4 me what i want from a guy is for him to give me what money can't buy
and that is *LOVE*

God bless you Dammyglow.

If I may ask who are these ready made men you are all talking about! Are they those who have good jobs and were able to get a comfortable house and a good car? Or are they those who are from rich home and have money has a result of that also or who is a ready made guy because all these ready made things are also owned by most ladies.

Who is a ready made guy?

As much as I know NOKIA is rugged, I still think they are both good and that is comparing the upper grades of the two.

Myself.

Anita Baker - Lead me into Love

Thinking about my mum and how helpful she has been in my life because am now an adult. I feel like having the whole world and satisfying her every needs.

alheri:
well i think the other members of the family will call them retards or mutants or cousin siblings! It happens though, my friend married her cousin and didnt even have to change her name!

@alheri: This is brother to sister's marriage or am I wrong? If your friend's family is not from China, have you ever asked your friend how they feel when they are together with all their relations especially during family weddings or birthdays? I am just curious!

Reasoning from the POST as your wife, how would she not worth it Vipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeer!!!

With my imagination, I am sure you would not have married her if she's that ugly also Viper.

Anyway, I believe for relationship to get to that extent, something STRONG is wrong and could be emotional and detrimental somehow to the party saying it also. As I said earlier sha, if it can't work out so be it.

If he has made up his mind then so be it.

I wouldn't mind and I do not think it's a bad idea anyway.

I still wonder. I think this should be one of the reasons why we should try and know relations both far and near and that does not mean you have to be close to them.

Good poem Charliesco. Very wordy

I can for real love and if that is the only way out for the other party.

I support Kirk and it is the basic fact that knowing Christ is not just about RELIGION but a relationship.

Let me start by saying relationship between two people is about understanding and knowing one another in all and different ramification.

Let me explain myself in this simple way, if the relationship between Christ and you is that of just RELIGION and you do not have a relationship, it means you do not relate with him as a father to son/daughter; it means you do not know it’s worth because you have not experience him; it basically means you just know him the way an ordinary person who claims to be a Christian but chooses the days he worship God and that is, such as going to church only on Xmas day and New-year day.

Simply put, having a relationship with God means you both desire one another and you believe you cannot do without each other but knowing Christ as just a religion is just like coming from a Christian home (instances of both parents are Christians and all the children follow suit).

Very few people

As much as I do not support the practice of Polygamy, I still believe that not all men who practice it have concubines.

nuru:
I want to maintain that it works even with very religious people. Most of the genuine religious people love goodness and hate evil-doing and can accommodate other faiths even when they hold tenaciously to theirs. But impostors, charlatans and hypocrites are opposite.

Another goodway to look at it.

Somehow if you trust each other and you have sat down to compromise the kind of religion your children will follow,(first issue that will come up later in your marriage) it might work because nowadays, people just cover their face with religion and have no fear of God in them. For instance, nowadays in the Christian circle, we have so many people who claim to be Born Again since they go to church, speak in tongues and they are workers but have no attitude of God in them.

To be sincere with you, and recently anyway, I can marry a Muslim if there is a way we can deal with our religion without affecting our relationship and communication with God.

Sesan2:
The marriage will work if none of them is devoted to their religion.

Have seen matured couple who are both muslim and christian and they are devoted.  They said they both agreed following their religion and the children are free to decide whatever religion they like and it was like that.  Infact, the story was told during their son's wedding.

I am thinking of what could be the difference between a Christian and a Born again christian.

You will know your husband to be when you personally ask God if he is your husband because so many bloody so called brothers are fake and ot even husband material. Infact, some of them pretend to be church workers, gives us christian advice on NAIRALAND but not God fearing for instance.

When you ask God personally, he will answer you dear heart especially when you are faithfull.

My senior sister is going back to UK today. She is my mum in every way.

I have not been able to speak to him for the past 3days and it's not funny. Oh! sorry, missing him.

I wish this person will understand I am doing all I can for this chosen day to become a reality.

I wish I can use my time tomorrow without obeying office rules.

Thank you Allonym.

I am missing a friend

Just wondering and with a listening hear........I am waiting for more