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hey! is there any lawyer in the house because one just told me now that the marriage is not even legal..will be back.

Every man should tell their wife what they earn but don’t be surprise ladies; the man’s reason might just be that he just doesn't just want to tell you. As for me, if he does not want to tell me no problem as long as the family plans are still in order with respect to finances from both of us.

God made it so. (my opinion) - I believe marriages do have problems at times because the wife has taken over the position of a husband. I am not saying it is wrong for us to help out at home especially if you are well paid than him but be careful what you take up as his wife. The Lord has made them to be the head and I am sure he is not ready to pass it away from them yet.

hopy2005:
For me I think marriage is not compulsory,
My reason is obivious, it's certain that it is not every person will get married the Bible has made it clear, that if one can't stay withstand the temptation of this world fine, you can remain single but if one can'nt withstand it, you should go ahead and get married, it's not by force as some my say.

So, I think the chioce is urs.

i agree with you.

I enjoy watching his programme on TV. On the other references and even for some of them also.....GOD KNOWS ALL.

Umh…a lady proposing!

I want you to know that there are some guys that will never propose even though he wants to say so. It is not because of anything bad, it is just because he is not bold enough to say it (from christian's view, the Lord has even spoken to him). Somehow the lady can help out (here comes the problem) maybe by…

I think am confused. I need some time to think so that my attackers won’t end up to tell me “woo is woo”.

Greatpeter:
He should remain faithful ever

Greatpeter, why not LIST a way out for him to achieve your idea (i want to know also), but remember those friends that pointed out the promiscuous lifestyle of most ladies are still around him.

on my part it's not an issue. Infact what "God has joined together let no man put asunder"- this would be my watchword.

anugirl:
Why is Nigerian educational qualification not recognized in other parts of the world?

because they know it is possible to have a certificate here in Nigeria without stepping into school.

love4ever:
he most not be handsome but normal

Sweetheart, there is nothing bad if he is handsome. Our God is handsome.

Greatpeter:
Definitely, if you know how to romance then you'll know how to spend.

Na you biko! shortest way of solving this matter.

love4ever:
well I went I am into relationship I do not look for money I search for love and that it

Since you started this relationship has he ever given you a gift? Or has he ever called you on your phone or from a business centre or rather, has he ever paid for something that belongs to you.....in whatever way he has spent his money on you ....that's part of the financial aspect of it.  Really it does not have to be big...I mean it could be just a bottle of coke which he paid for like the example we were given.  Infact coming to your house either bringing his car(fuel) or taking a cab or takes a bus is monetary wise.

May be from his part he can be love without finance but Love4ever you can say you have not bought him something before!

For good relationship, is there any best way?

biko! There is no romance without finance whether poor or rich.

I watched the programme yesterday and l do not support the MTN babe for most of her reasons.

Well it's a sad story but he has to stay married to the lovely damsel. If he is sure he is a born again Christian then he should talk to his GOD. He is a covenant keeping God and he has good things in stock for him.

Well it's a sad story but he has to stay married to the lovely damsel. If he is sure he is a born again Christian then he should talk to his GOD. He is a covenant keeping God and he has good things in stock for him.

Yes he should remain faithful. If he wants to wait he should wait.  If he is able to bring the babe over fine but he should believe that if the relationship continuous the way it is right now and the babe cannot come over, he will also become promiscuous knowingly or unknowingly whichever way he wants to call it. Very few people are sincere with themselves nowadays.

I can’t do such thing but for whoever is interested…..there is nothing bad.

I support Seun's view.

Umh...a very good idea bolasho.

Just because of the usually traditional way, I will feel odd paying for it now and in fact, it will look as if am marrying in the wrong way.

What is life at 30 when you are not married?

When you are single at the age of 30 years and you are a lady, there are pressures from almost everyone around you.

I believe life at 30 and still single can still be the best time one desires but relating it to different aspect of achievement, career et cetera, what should it entail?

A colleague knows about it but she is always reluctant to tell me about it, she said am too curious. I decided to check the website myself the day l joined and anytime am not doing official work, am checking Nairaland...

You got me wrong my dear. I don't find it hard to say sorry. I quote my statement "It’s just because one of the party wants to feel important". What I am trying to say here is that, any of the party that feels he/she cannot say sorry must be feeling too important at that moment or why he or she should. As you said and i quote "...it’s a very soft word that turns away anger".

You are right to say and I quote..."if you wrong someone & say sorry, you will discover the person is growing deaf gradually to your sorry"..this can happen if you purposely do what is bad and you have allowed the party to have a feeling that what its going to end it all is SORRY.

The best thing is to say sorry to those who understand and for those who do not understand it’s something they will find important one day in their life.

I would love to help out but for now am not qualified but am sure other opportunities will come soon that I can try out. Goodluck Seun

Now i understand better and you are right dear. I think i mis-understood your point.

You are quite right with the few list but quoting this out from your list "Is pre-marital sex perfectly under control"-dablessed. Does this means that no pre-marital relationship can go without it?. Members please talk more on this because its an issue most people are facing even BORN AGAIN CHRISTIANS and they are afraid to come out.

2 KIDS

Yes, they can both have a joint account and each of them still maintains a different account

Well if that is the way to shut you up then not too bad but it is wrong men.. Watch your temperament. Do not give what you wont take

I beg... i need to know also.

It’s just because one of the party wants to feel important. It takes me a second to say sorry and it does not make me feel uncomfortable even when I feel I should not. You can latter express your feelings.