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so one single accident caused by an indian is the reason they immediately created this law

Mcslize:
Lies from the pit of héll. UK where women are the men? A man was beating you in the UK and you couldn't call the police on him.

Mo na dey take am easy with una lies. We are not fóols.

so you think there is no domestic violence in the UK...damn people are funny

Lekby25:
How did the divorce come, if they are not married. Did you miss where she said two weeks after she packed out of the house, he got divorce papers

i am talking about Chimamda Adichie husband, he was born in enugu

this is just the mentality of people who think resources are limited.

Lof of people born into poverty have this mentality

Most Africans think white people can do no harm..haha

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

She is not married to a white man, get your facts right.

ravensckar:
Dude, stop being mischievious by trying to bandy words with me.

I didn't use the word "influence" in my post. I said "indoctrinate". Unless you graduated from a Night School, there's no way you won't know the difference between the two.

Please ehn, I don't have the strength to argue this afternoon. I'm having a headache in my stomach please.

#Picks_tooth

I graduated from a night school, and one thing in this life is that we are all indoctrinated in one way or another, by our country, jobs, schools, teachers, or society at large. In every area of life, some form of conditioning shapes how we think and act.

ravensckar:
Any ADULT that needs another ADULT to indoctrinate him/her is not yet an ADULT.

To begin with, Marcus Aurelius once said; "There are no absolute TRUTHS or FALSEHOODS, just PERCEPTION". It's not true that the male gender was built to shoulder the responsibility of others neither is it true that the female gender was built to depend on a man for the rest of her life. It's our society that fostered such twisted mentality on us.

Here in Africa, we see the male gender as the provider and the female gender as dependent. There in oversee, they see the female gender as being equal to the male gender in every respect. To get a balanced view, one needs the REDPILL MOVEMENT to cancel out the effect of TOXIC FEMINISM. However, as an adult, one should ask oneself; how much of these pills is one really swallowing? Are you taking the right dosage or you're taking overdose? Whoever is prescribing it to you, is the person qualified enough? Do you trust the person enough as to place your life in his/her hands?

In conclusion, my earlier assertion that "any ADULT that needs another ADULT to indoctrinate him/her is not yet an ADULT". As a personal philosophy, I can be a SIMP whenever I want to. I can always switch to REDPILL if I feel like. WINE or BLOOD, I serve it according to my feelings.

#Picks_tooth

but your pastor, friends teacher, imans and politicians influences you.does that not makes you not an adult? thinking you will not get influenced in the society you live is silly thought.

That mentality of PresidentMUGABE is wrong. Saying “women are not built to face toughness” is basically saying women shouldn’t contribute to labour but should just earn things because they are women.

The truth is, women have always faced toughness. From farming and trade to even wars, where they forged weapons, supplied armies. women have always contributed to survival and progress.

Trying to exclude women from labour or the workforce is like saying women should depend on men like helpless kids. That’s not reality.

As for Gehgeh, his real audience are yahoo boys and people from the ghetto, he’s in it for the money.

But the idea that “women can’t face toughness” is one of the biggest propaganda lines sold to PresidentMUGABE by whom, i dont know.

money grab

where is the bank account, lets go and donate to raise fund like always

ufotunang:
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There are things the government can do...
The solution is for the government to address and tackle the bad economy, poverty, hunger, hardship, inflation, high costs of living, high rate of unemployment... For high rate of unemployment for they say an idle mind is the devil's workshop.. because when the youths are not engaged they will go into negative or illegal things and activities..an hungry man is an angry man ..if this are addressed and tackled yahoo yahoo will reduce and stop gradually

people miss the point, it is not about tackling proverty

There are Nigerians in the US and UK still doing fraud... so are you going to say it is because of unemployment.

The issue is some nigerians are extremely ambitious and want the good life through fraud. they have lot of greed and are not ready to settle for less.

LagosOrigin:
Nigeria is a very rich country but it's the so called politicians that are stealing everything

The oil money stolen from this country by this politicians since independence is enough to build a country like the United States.

Nigeria is not a rich country, it just has resources

if you dont process the resources, you can not be rich.

Babalegba:
Lol, cursed money will never do anything good and long lasting.

that is not true... many jews steal money from people and live a good life except when they are caught.

your politician steal from you and live a good life.

there is nothing like cursed money just good and bad people

to be sincere with you, the concept of the end justify the means when it comes to money is how the world works

many bank steal from people, did those bank collaspe??

AndroBlaze:
All the other countries in the world where government is not providing job for youths are they doing yahoo??

The government is terrible, nobody is denying it, but that is no excuse for romance scam and blackmailing teenagers abroad

they are doing worst.

many indians are scammers and many chinese are also scammers

just check any developing countries where the rich just extract from the poor and the government just steal, many of their citizens are doing lot of illegal stuff to survive whether it is human trafficking, organised pickpoketing,drug dealing, internet scams and prostitutions.

The government does not create jobs for its youth. What do you expect to happen?

The elite do not invest in education or opportunities; they only extract from the poor and give nothing back. Everyone in government, from politicians downwards, is stealing and these are the role models for many young people.

Musicians now glorify yahoo boys, with their entire industry partly funded by yahoo money. Pastors bless them openly. Parents even encourage their children to go into it.

Even startup founders aren’t exempt. Many were once yahoo boys, and now they sweet-talk investors with stories of “huge markets,” securing funds they partly use to fund a lifestyle.

Our society is deeply corrupt, even while pretending to be very religious. So it’s no surprise that yahoo has become an accepted way of life in Nigeria.

auduadeniyi:
instead of attacking me just ask me a way forward how to go about it i am a saucerful entrepreneur
you said you earn up to 500k from tutorial don't you think that is enough for him to start big?
ireooooooo

apologies for attacking you but business also come with cost

for instance if someone says he is making 500k from tutorials, the person didnt say if it was profit or not. and if it is monthly or not.

Running a business also come with lot of cost.

those printing contractors are about to go broke

Immatex:
This is not exactly the case here. I am a father of a year 1 daughter, when her teachers gave report about her social interactions at school, and even recommended special classes to help her. We agreed to the special classes and after a few weeks she was cleared of needing any further special classes as she has improved in her interactions and speaking.
The process as it is today and as we experienced was not arbitrary, as parents you are carried alone and can refuse the extra help if you suspect racial profiling. The decision is also not made by the class teachers but by some external education inspector and a detailed report is presented to parents to show what the kid lacks and what plan is in place to bring them to speed.

You must also know that it’s quite transparent process and every child’s case is unique and it’s not only black kids that are affected.

I understand your point, and I agree that in some cases the process can be transparent and fair. But the concern isn’t about the process alone ,it’s about who gets flagged more often in the first place. Many black parents have noticed a pattern where their children are disproportionately labelled as needing special help, sometimes just for being active or shy. That’s the systemic bias we need to address, because even if the system later clears the child, the damage of that early label can still affect their confidence and how teachers treat them.

Immatex:
Finance is the leading cause. The schools are exploiting the system for financial benefits.

Also it’s not about skin colour. I work in the UK public sector and I can tell you that 2 in every British person holds a disability card or claims to suffer from some weird sounding disorder.

This allows almost 60% of the population dependent on benefits. That’s simply how they live in this country.

i am talking about black kids not adult. that are labelled special needs by the teacher without medical diagnosis

pls read this,an article by the bbc: https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-57099654

If this isn’t about skin colour, then why is it happening across Europe too? The other day, I came across a story of a parent in Germany whose Black child was labelled “special needs” simply for being active in class.

I’ve also personally observed a Nigerian child being tagged the same way, again just for being very active. The situation became so unfair that the parents had to withdraw the child from school and homeschool him instead.

This is not a conspiracy theory, it’s a real concern. I’ve noticed a troubling trend, especially in schools across the UK and Europe: when a Black child is quiet or less active in the classroom, teachers are quick to label them as having “special needs.” Even when the child is active and engaged, the same label often follows.

History is repeating itself. In the 1960s and 70s, many Black children from the Caribbean were wrongly branded as “educationally subnormal” and sent to schools meant for pupils with low intelligence. This systematic mislabeling destroyed countless lives and futures.

What we are seeing today feels like another attempt to undermine Black children, to limit their potential, restrict their opportunities, and make them “less useful” in society.

This should alarm every parent. It’s not just about education, it’s about protecting the next generation from being written off before they even get the chance to prove themselves.

givedemwotowoto:
They didn’t launch a single attack on Russia prior to this war but look what’s happened to them. Yet some people want us to overlook Hamas attack on Israel on October 7 and focus on how Israel responded.

the focus here in ukraine and russia, how does it relate to hamas and isreal

since the escalation of the Ukraine conflict in 2022, Kiev’s forces have lost a total of 1,721,000 servicemen. 118.5 thousand were apparently killed in 2022, 405.4 thousand in 2023, 595 thousand in 2024 and a record 621 thousand in 2025.

auduadeniyi:
this man you have a lot of opportunity do you know that as a Ph.D. holder your take home will not be more than 500k brother go and rent and apartment start your own school then you employ people to work under you. moreover, what you studies is a hot cake in the market. even me that i work from money till evening did not earn up to you and i get wife, children and parent

Stop saying what you don't know.

PhD is purely research and that does not mean you will start earning 500k or he should open a school

How does having a PhD and opening a school correlate or do you think, it is sand they are using to open schools and ay employees

Why not be patient..it s a recruitment..they will call you if you are successful

But I also agree with them, you would have focus on your foundation and specialise in your Field.

Specialisation is important than doing different degrees in different subjects.

Even if you apply for a research opportunity abroad, your specialisation matters

in Nigeria, every unemployed person becomes a pastor, i wonder what they are adding to society. corruption and immorality is still very high, so what is their usefulness?

back to your story, you did no wrong, jesus christ preach about helping the poor well since the church can not help you, why go there...there is actually nothing to gain, at the end you end up giving your money to the church.

omooba969:
So should we now throw critical thinking out of the window?

what crtical thinking, the only stuff you wanna write down is that she should have asked him in private and be gentle, something she has done.

omooba969:
Why not do some critical reasoning on the matter. Everyone appears to be riding on emotions.

What critical thinking...she contacted the man in private, the man ignored her and dismisses her, now she is public, he is listening.

She is the smart one here.

so what about those that eat meat and still look young, what does he have to say to them.

i just feel he s just blabbing, if you want to look young, it is simple, sleep well, reduce your weight if you are fat and do more fitness excercise, also cut your beards.

SageTravels:
No good mother will behave like this woman. Even if cp get the pikin they are better ways to get him father the child

dey there dey cap.

The woman is fighting for the future of her child and you are here typing this stuff

the man act like he didnt see the woman messages in private, she came public and he is speaking about it, that is a start

soon he will do dna and take the kid, you on the otherside will still change mouth.

weird rule, how about those without social media profile?

isnt nigeria seeing that Europe is powerless, we should take the bull by the horn and start creating relationships with powerful countries

No it is not in every street but only where poor people are living