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Godoverevery:
Does the change the fact both Terry and Wayne cheated and there wife didn't leave??
It common sense nah.......not every woman leave there husband because of cheating and it has nothing do with part of the world.

Godoverevery:
John terry,Wayne rooney cheated and there wife didn't leave.....isn't only a Nigeria thing.

Ijaya123:
When the wire cheats, the husband can send her back to her parents house. Can the same be said of the wife?

NastiLord:
How can one be a great father to his children without being with thier mother.

Ijaya123:
Now let me ask you, what are the consequences of cheating for a husband compared to that of a wife?

Ijaya123:
You know the answer to the question you’re asking. You’re just playing the Devils advocate

Crafteck1:
You assume too much, cheating that you see as disrespect in african man is just the polygamous trait, i recently learnt that wetin man do wey hin commot unscathed, if woman do am.... She go bald..... It's painful but true... Even her family no fit follow me talk am....

heighten the importance of cycling in Nigeria as it will obviously lead to a drop in road crash incidences.

IconicR:
If you still think you ain't polygamous then I think being polygamous has another meaning. The moment you have more than one woman involved with you is called what? What's the possibility of you ever relocating to Nigeria?

IconicR:
Fear of commitment is it for you. You are indeed very polygamous as against my earlier assertion about you

IconicR:
🤔 you really down with your western ideas

IconicR:
I'm still in shock, how do you do it, how do maintain a balance? I assume you are married to one of them

Rayban25:
yes its better and mind you i dont condone cheating in a marriage. but im just trying to let her know that consequnces for cheating are never the same. thats what most ladies dont understand. chioma and annie know that their husbands are cheating but they havent left them. have you ever asked yourself why?

Rayban25:
ibeere IELTS.

if he cheats on you, the worst you can do is get angry divorce him. na you go still go back your papa house and start from square one dey try find who go marry you

skultrick:
So this question is for the men, I was watching this movies, and this woman despite having a sweet home cheated on her husband.
The husband loved his wife so much but after finding out about her infidelity told her it's over. The wife couldn't bare it, she just jumped in front of a moving car but luckily she survived it.
Now the husband is finding it difficult to call it a quit considering the amazing children at stake.
Would you divorce your wife for cheating on you even though she is an amazing woman?

IconicR:
😲😲😲 6 kids five babymamas? Hmmm

IconicR:
Being with multiple women not wrong but why are you not doing something that's not wrong

IconicR:
😲 you surprised me, you give bad boy vibes sometimes sha

IconicR:
You don't cheat? Or you just giving the right response

I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.
We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?