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RomanceRe: Successful Men On NL, Does It Get Better? by MrBrownJay1(m):
here are some facts of life:
- not all men can attract beautiful ladies
- some men have absolutely no skills/character/appeal, thus wont attract anyone (let alone the top women out there)
- sometimes to get the proper skills/mindset to attract the top women, you need to get experience with the "not so top" ones FIRST
- money has absolutely NO IMPACT on the type of women you get, unless you are going after useless good for nothing goldigging pay-as-you-go oloshos
- getting a woman is ONE thing, keeping her is another... if you think that money/gifts etc is what would keep a woman genuinely wanting to be with you, then you best wake up

- the fact that you are even stressing about the issue shows us your desperate state of mind. relax, enjoy life, have fun and stop thinking so much about it. just be the best you can be and let it all flow
- if you are already successful, and you believe it, then a woman is only gonna be an accessory to your success. dont make them a necessity to your success.
- a woman who didnt value you when she thought you were broke, has no business being in your life if you suddenly show her that you have money
BusinessRe: Guys, What's The Difference Between Forex And Betting? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:23pm On Mar 11, 2024
TrennixGLOBAL:
Suit yourself with whatever ideology you deem fit. Congratulations 👍👍
Like i said, "Don't argue what you don't know.."
you are welcome sir... good luck in your Forex endeavours

like i said:"80% of all the donkeys who start investing in Forex lose all their money... AND THATS A DAMN FACT ABOUT STOCKS AND TRADING!!!!
RomanceRe: What's The Benefit Of Marriage To A Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:06pm On Mar 11, 2024
GodHimself:
Don’t put words into my mouth.
I mean all men in this day and age.
The facts will not magically transform to fit your narrative.
And let them speak for themselves. Their need for security is not my business.
so are you claiming that all men in this day and age that gets married are taking a risk because a few got burned? so Jide the broke mechanic that got married is taking a risk? so the husband of Folorunsho Alakija was taking a risk? again, marriage is only a detriment to "yeye ignoramus" who go into marriage blindly. in this day and age, any man should understand what it means to get married, and protect themselves in case such marriage fail.

the reality is that men who marry LIABILITY type of women take a risk. YES; men who marry useless lazy good for nothing women take a risk, YES; men who marry yeye women that bring absolutely nothing (but warm coochie) to the table take a risk, YES.... but to claim that all married men do not benefit from marriage because of these yeye deluded men who jump into marriage blindly, is far fetched
RomanceRe: The Problem With Nigerian Relationships? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:48pm On Mar 11, 2024
Geovanni412:
The general rule in life is this
If you fail in your duty, you should be punished
it all depends on what duties you are talking about. its a man's duty to educate his children, but if you are broke and cant afford it then your kids stay at home until you can afford to send them to school. there are NO punishments here.

If a man's best offer to a woman is his ability to protect and provide for his family
What happens when he can no longer protect or provide for his family?
What happens when the breadwinner has a terminal disease or loses his job?
The suggestion from the premise that a man's best offer to a woman is his ability to provide and protect for his family is that such a man has failed in his duty
And if such a man has failed in his duty, doesn't that justify a woman to look for a more suitable man?
This, to me, is the problem with the statement that a man's duty is to protect and provide for his family.
sadly the above solely depends on WHERE YOU LIVE.... in the real world, the above is not true, as nobody marries any longer with such state of mind.... but in Africa where you often pay bride price and men can marry as many wives as they desire, YES if you fail in your duties, then that woman should get lost, if she can... because the reality in Africa is that, if that woman cant provide an heir, she will quickly be dismissed, so an eye for an eye.

Geovanni412:
Marriage should be based on shared values and interests.
Money is good but a foundation built on money rather than God or genuine love for each other is simply building on a faulty foundation.
One serious ailment is enough to wipe away a man's savings.
A word is enough for the wise.
marriage should be based on whatever each and everyone desire for their own life. some women want to get married and still be hardworking independent individuals while other women wanna stay home and become expert in telenovelas and Telemundo. who are we to decide/impose whats best for 2 mature people? who are we to believe that there is only ONE WAY that works (because thats what works "for you" ) ?

here is something very important:
A) many people out there dont believe in god and have fantastic marriages;
B) many people out there believe in a "different" god and have fantastic marriages;
C) a man's saving/money is irrelevant to a good marriage.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Playing With Me What Should I Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:26pm On Mar 11, 2024
Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore... then ask her to break up with that dude before remotely thinking of being with you

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....MUMU!!!!! see how this babe is playing you like Mbappe in the French league

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....OLODO!!!!! she is playing both of you

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy go get your damn phone you mumu and tell that she-diot to forget she ever met you. you MUMU!!!!
you dont have to be a scientist to understand that you got played by this fraudster...she used r/ship as a mean to get a better phone from you (like a donkey and a carrot). just call her, tell her you bought her a huge present, then when she comes over, grab that phone back, give her back her sim and walk away!!!
FamilyRe: Thi by MrBrownJay1(m):
Testiebobo:
I injured my left hand from a bike accident this evening 😥 one mussle car tried to overtake us, and the side mirror hit the okada and broke. During the collision I fell on d aboki back and the aboki lost his control and we both crashed on the tiled road.🙏 I really appreciate God, I almost died ☠️. Just returning from the 🏥.

See the picture below🔽
photo that was uploaded on Shutterstock almost 2 yrs ago, na that one you wanna lie about today?!

RomanceRe: What's The Benefit Of Marriage To A Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:08pm On Mar 11, 2024
GodHimself:
The benefits are not worth the risk.... TO YOU
You can have a solid long term relationship with a solid woman without involving the government in your business.
FIXED
remember, these guys need COMMITMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY etc in their lives. something that we dont get in long term r/ships. these issue may not be important TO YOU, but they are a deal breaker to these guys,
furthermore, they can minimize the risk of hiccups with prenups or creating a trust/LLC owning all your assets before marriage.

as for the gov being in your business, today whether married or living together as a couple, the gov is always in your business.
RomanceRe: What's The Benefit Of Marriage To A Man by MrBrownJay1(m):
luminouz:
What a load of horseshiiit
GodHimself:
Lol. We are now grasping at straws.
Wakatumbit:
Which kind gutter talk be this
PayEscrow:
Ni**a you ghey!!! It's heart break that kill most men like this
As for the actual benefits, this depends on the kind of woman you marry, but be rest assured that most of them are ungrateful. If you do something for a woman 99 times and miss 1, it will be as if you never did anything for her... Know this and anything they do won't surprise you again.
Nicepoker:
Shitt of a bull.
Anunakeeh:
What a load of Cowshiiits.
Gadafii:
how all these things take benefit manhuh
Imaging she now carry my name, what benefit is that??
lol you brothas should open your mind instead of dismissing what billions of people are into. i dont believe in marriage but that doesnt mean that i dont understand why people do get married. COMMITMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY etc are legit reason why some people wanna get married (whether we like it or not). lets stop focussing on the men VS women issue and instead focus on the issue of long r/ship vs marriage.

the important question IS: as much as we may not be down with marriage (to each their own), why should we automatically make it look like we are getting a better deal in a long term r/ship?! open your damn minds.... a r/ship is a better deal for us (who are against marriage), it aint to these guys who need COMMITMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY in their lives.
BusinessRe: Guys, What's The Difference Between Forex And Betting? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:30pm On Mar 11, 2024
TrennixGLOBAL:
You are asking a question and answering it yourself.
There is a saying that "You should never argue what you don't know."

Show me the business which doesn't have loss? Even dangote do have losses but that doesn't take him out of the business cos there are also days of gain just as there are days of loss but your aim is to make your profitable days more than your loss days, only then can you call yourself a successful businessman whether in the forex market or any other business.

This is why we have risk management in forex to minimize our loss and maximize our gains.
Real traders don't try to predict the forex market just like you are saying. That's the mentality that makes a lot of them newbie traders not profitable with this mentality. We only react to it not predict the market movement.

That same mentality of prediction added with lack of discipline joined together with lack of risk management makes 90% unsuccessful in Forex but there are still successful traders even here on nairaland. If you doubt it, that's your headache.
Try searching for "Jeffery Benson" or "Habby FX" and try to get their location so you could go visit them and see their live trades plus confirm for yourself.

There are lots of things i can't say cos you will never understand but i will still remind you.

"DON'T ARGUE WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW..."
the sad part here is that many of you believe the stuff you write, lol! if i think like you do, since some people into betting "win some and lose some" therefore this is a profitable venture comparable to opening a business, right?
what you wrote above is a stoopid as me saying that because Messi is a successful footballer therefore everyone going into football will succeed, stop trying to feed a pipe dream to gullible NLers. the reality is that FOREX IS A DAMN GAMBLE and the majority of ignoramus (and some savvy people too) who enter it lose ALL their money. we all know about some of the biggest savvy investors out there who LOST IT ALL.

but since you want to claim lies online, let me give you FACTS about the Forex: 80% of all the donkeys who start investing in Forex lose all their money... AND THATS A DAMN FACT ABOUT STOCKS AND TRADING!!!!
RomanceRe: What's The Benefit Of Marriage To A Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:18am On Mar 11, 2024
Wakatumbit:
What's the benefits of marriage to a man? I'd like to know because I know there are a lot of benefits for a woman
the same as the benefits of being in a r/ship but marriage adds a few more benefits like:
A) she now carries your name and so would your children "legally"
B) you guys now have entered a contract to be together til death do you part....so she cant "legally" just get up and leave with your kids
C) if something happens to you, she will be the one to make decisions for you (aka turn off the life support machine etc)
D) she will "legally" be the one in charge of your affairs if/when you are incapacitated
E) if wifey has a job then she will to contribute with you for the family wellbeing (2 salaries are better than one)
F) you can get tax refunds/deductions for being married
G) she will be your next of kin so family wouldnt have to fight over your property
CrimeRe: Help! A Friend’s Life Is Threatened!!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:57pm On Mar 10, 2024
lawd have mercy....what dont you read on NL, kai!

regardless of their tradition, if this man is not down nor believe in this stuff, then he certainly should not do any of this stuff. let this mambo jambo stop with you.
FamilyRe: . by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:48pm On Mar 10, 2024
OFunke24:
If I as a woman marries a man that is the same age as the firstborn son of the family, do I still need to listen to the firstborn when he tells me to serve food and wash his plates etc during the holidays when we come together as a family if my husband is not around? Would it not be putting my husband down in his absence if I obey to do those things?

I am not so great with social settings especially one to do with power struggles.
I grew up doing a lot of things in the house before my older ones stepped up to do anything at all and I find it difficult to see them as my seniors.
why would the 1st born of your family ask you to wash plate when you are now an adult with your own house/family? the minute you got married then all these rules are no longer valid (whether your husband is present or not).

- if he has a wife then thats HER job
- if you guys have a younger unmarried sister, then thats HER job
- the person who does serve/clean after him on normal days, is who should do that during the holidays too


the minute you get married, you now only serve ONE master, and thats your husband.
CrimeRe: Lagos Agency Seeks Help Finding Woman Smoking Shisha On Baby (pics) by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:42pm On Mar 10, 2024
Dangotesmummy, come and see another specimen here...
CrimeRe: Mother Arrested For Attempting To Murder Her Epileptic 1 Year Old Baby In Lagos by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:39pm On Mar 10, 2024
dangotesmummy:
nooo I'm not saying murder is right but yes she contributed to her problem.unfortunately she will face it alone and she has used her own foolishness to destroy the life of the baby lipsrsealed
you are right, but to think of murder as a solution to a child being epileptic and/or whatever other issue she may have, is insane. she could have just walked to the neighbors and explain the situation to how she felt at the time. are you saying that Nigerians are so heartless that they woudnt help this unfortunate woman?

says a lot about who this woman is.
CelebritiesRe: “any Man Who Strikes A Woman Isn’t Fit To Be Called A Man” – Pete Edochie by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:34pm On Mar 10, 2024
dangotesmummy:
noo shocked that's not advisable.the fact that a lady raises her hand against you doesn't mean you should do the same because 2 wrongs doesn't make a right.the physical strength you have,she doesn't have.if for example she was the first aggressor and she was about slapping you first as a man you should either block her hand, dodge her hand or hold her hand not retaliate because if she slap you and you return the same energy, she fit collapse or drop dead because both of you don't have the same energy and they'll turn everything on top your head
ok, i dont know about what to do BEFORE she hits you, but if she does, then all bets are off. i dont believe that a woman/man should ever hit their partner for whatever reason, so i wont be expecting it from a woman OR be on my guard from such to happen... but if it does, then she will get the exact same treatment, no questions asked.

...and i teach my kids the same thing. FIRST that you should NEVER use physical abuse, insult or degrade your partner just because you want to put your point across etc as you guys should be mature enough to either walk away OR calm down and communicate in an intelligent manner... and most importantly, SECOND if someone has no respect for your person, physically abuse you, then you should give them the exact same treatment that they gave you aka fight back (before leaving them) whether you are a boy or girl.
CrimeRe: Mother Arrested For Attempting To Murder Her Epileptic 1 Year Old Baby In Lagos by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:25pm On Mar 10, 2024
dangotesmummy:
hiannnn shocked
Pikin Na merry Christmas card or hampers wey Una dey drop for in front of church? lipsrsealed
All these are not black and white
again, i can find 100000 different ways to find a solution for that unwanted child THAN KILLING IT. thats absurd!

as i always say:
- abstinence, YOU NO WAN DO!
- pull out technique, YOU NO WAN DO!
- wear condom, YOU NO WAN DO!
- morning after pill, YOU NO WAN DO!
- abortion, YOU NO WAN DO!
- give the baby up for adoption, YOU NO WAN DO!
but to murder the child as soon as it comes out differently, thats your solution to this issue?!?!?

i am sorry to say that some women make NO GODDAMN SENSE At all!
HealthRe: Do Women Really Get More Beautiful After Marriage? by MrBrownJay1(m):
sorry but the TRUTH IS OUT and most people dont believe the above LIES any longer... after marriage, majority of women get UGLIER/FATTER/NAGGIER etc and thats what is important to us men (especially in Africa)- the above points you wrote is the stuff that women like to focus on after they change to fugly nagging baby whales. anyone telling you that beauty/sex appeal is not important in marriage, is lying to you OR is a woman.

A) the majority of black women wear wigs/make up etc, so you will only see her true face when you finally marry her and lay down with her (and 110% of these women are uglier without makeup, thus why they hide behind make up).
B) most women regardless of race will get fat after childbirth and become lazy about getting their shape back, thus why the majority turn into baby whales after a few children. remember: as much as character is ALWAYS important from the get go, asking men to now solely focus on a woman's character (while she turned into someone "repulsive to the eye" ) is the joke of the century.
C) everyone knows that after a few yrs of marriage, women get comfortable and acquire a smart mouth.

PLS dont shoot the messenger!
CrimeRe: Mother Arrested For Attempting To Murder Her Epileptic 1 Year Old Baby In Lagos by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:06pm On Mar 10, 2024
dangotesmummy:
talk dey sweet when you are not In that situation.however this is not a justification for that terrible behaviour but imagine a single mother dealing with a sick child,poverty and no support system and of course limited access to knowledge, information or empowerment.

So my point is inasmuch as there's no justification for murder.look at the incidence surrounding her life.at least If she had someone who could show her small empathy, encouragement and support she for no turn murderer.e be like say you nor know say poverty dey turn some people to monsters and beasts.e get as Sapa go hold you for throat you go loose your humanity and senses.nevertheless I feel for the child in question because it's as good as hes an orphan because when he grow up and he hear say him mama wan kill am,the way he go take hate him mama and even papa for abandoning him,its sad he has not even been given a chance at life, family battles don dey wait am.on top of that you are born in Nigeria lipsrsealed
murder is NEVER the answer. if she couldnt take care of the child, there is millions of people who could. this woman was too proud/brainless to look for help in the right places. she simply could go and drop the child in front of her church anonymously.
CelebritiesRe: “any Man Who Strikes A Woman Isn’t Fit To Be Called A Man” – Pete Edochie by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:01pm On Mar 10, 2024
dangotesmummy:
no don't say that. If you say you wan react as woman dey take talk you fit beat them to death before you realise what you have done.when you see has a caustic mouth it's best to ignore or avoid them.that one dey pain them pass trading words with them or getting violent
brotha, pls focus on what i wrote...i dont care what a woman "says" but if that woman RAISES HER HAND TO HIT/ATTACK ME, then she will get the exact same treatment from me. i will never respect a woman who doesnt have respect for me.

the 1st thing a man should do if/when a woman hit/attack him, is to equally strike her back so she quickly learn that she should NEVER do that again. so many foolish men are dead because they didnt retaliate when some women hit/attack them (so the attack continued til she raised the bar and killed him)
BusinessRe: Guys, What's The Difference Between Forex And Betting? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:56pm On Mar 10, 2024
Ugobest101:
One big difference is, you can bet with #10 in betting, but you can't with Forex.

I'd prefer Forex to betting.
you sir should get acquainted with penny stocks and the OTC trading market... i could get more than a million shares of different stocks with less than $10. BTW when APPLE and/or FORD MOTOR started trading, they were penny stocks too.
TV/MoviesRe: How Much Netflix Costs In Every Country by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:39pm On Mar 10, 2024
such a great business strategy...bill the rich countries more and still lower the price in poor countries so you can get some from poorer people too. PRICELESS!
CelebritiesRe: “any Man Who Strikes A Woman Isn’t Fit To Be Called A Man” – Pete Edochie by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:06pm On Mar 10, 2024
if a woman has no respect for a man and raises her hand to strike him, then she shall/should receive the exact same treatment. an eye for an eye!
CrimeRe: A Kenyan Woman Arrested By Bees After Stealing From A Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:03pm On Mar 10, 2024
very simple stuff, if you know how to handle bees...happens a lot and has absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH JUJU...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYn4adElrAk
RomanceRe: Wealthy Nigeria Man Finds Out All Three Kids Are Not His by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:00pm On Mar 10, 2024
wealthy doesnt mean WISE. he got played by the olosho he willingly married.
as we always tell you: THOU SHALL NOT TRY TO WIFE THESE HOES!!!!
CrimeRe: Tragedy Strikes As Pastor Allegedly Be@ts Wife To Death In Port Harcourt, Rivers by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:57pm On Mar 10, 2024
another DEMON IN ROBE spotted, allelujah!!!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/11/haleighluja.gif

BTW LA click LA bend like Bobrisky to receive prick.
RomanceRe: Her Brother In-law Raped Her At The Age Of 12... Should She Tell? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:55pm On Mar 10, 2024
the choice is hers:
A) tell the truth and shame the devil
B) stay quiet and suffer in silence

IMHO next time she is in the presence of the rapist (and while recording him), she should tell him that what he did back in the days was not right and that she wants to confess to her sister etc....record his answer and present it to the world as you expose him.
Christianity EtcRe: At A Time Like This: Do We Have To Increase What We Offer In Church? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:43pm On Mar 10, 2024
increase kini? after all these yrs that you guys been giving them money, now that you are suffering, these fraudsters in robe should be the ones handing you food so that you can manage for the month

RomanceRe: Be Careful Out There,there Are Simpyfying Bitches On The Prowl by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:41pm On Mar 10, 2024
sadly, so many weak men would take her back, instead of slamming the door in her face.
Foreign AffairsRe: Turkish Lawyer Arrested For Tweeting "Fúck Shariah Law" by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:36pm On Mar 10, 2024
as much as she is entitled to her own opinion, posting such insulting comment on social media will indeed incite violence to herself and others, therefore i understand why such comments are seen as illegal/unlawful in Turkey (a predominantly muslim country)

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