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here are some facts of life: - not all men can attract beautiful ladies - some men have absolutely no skills/character/appeal, thus wont attract anyone (let alone the top women out there) - sometimes to get the proper skills/mindset to attract the top women, you need to get experience with the "not so top" ones FIRST - money has absolutely NO IMPACT on the type of women you get, unless you are going after useless good for nothing goldigging pay-as-you-go oloshos - getting a woman is ONE thing, keeping her is another... if you think that money/gifts etc is what would keep a woman genuinely wanting to be with you, then you best wake up - the fact that you are even stressing about the issue shows us your desperate state of mind. relax, enjoy life, have fun and stop thinking so much about it. just be the best you can be and let it all flow - if you are already successful, and you believe it, then a woman is only gonna be an accessory to your success. dont make them a necessity to your success. - a woman who didnt value you when she thought you were broke, has no business being in your life if you suddenly show her that you have money |
TrennixGLOBAL:you are welcome sir... good luck in your Forex endeavours like i said:"80% of all the donkeys who start investing in Forex lose all their money... AND THATS A DAMN FACT ABOUT STOCKS AND TRADING!!!! |
GodHimself:so are you claiming that all men in this day and age that gets married are taking a risk because a few got burned? so Jide the broke mechanic that got married is taking a risk? so the husband of Folorunsho Alakija was taking a risk? again, marriage is only a detriment to "yeye ignoramus" who go into marriage blindly. in this day and age, any man should understand what it means to get married, and protect themselves in case such marriage fail. the reality is that men who marry LIABILITY type of women take a risk. YES; men who marry useless lazy good for nothing women take a risk, YES; men who marry yeye women that bring absolutely nothing (but warm coochie) to the table take a risk, YES.... but to claim that all married men do not benefit from marriage because of these yeye deluded men who jump into marriage blindly, is far fetched |
Geovanni412:it all depends on what duties you are talking about. its a man's duty to educate his children, but if you are broke and cant afford it then your kids stay at home until you can afford to send them to school. there are NO punishments here. If a man's best offer to a woman is his ability to protect and provide for his familysadly the above solely depends on WHERE YOU LIVE.... in the real world, the above is not true, as nobody marries any longer with such state of mind.... but in Africa where you often pay bride price and men can marry as many wives as they desire, YES if you fail in your duties, then that woman should get lost, if she can... because the reality in Africa is that, if that woman cant provide an heir, she will quickly be dismissed, so an eye for an eye. Geovanni412:marriage should be based on whatever each and everyone desire for their own life. some women want to get married and still be hardworking independent individuals while other women wanna stay home and become expert in telenovelas and Telemundo. who are we to decide/impose whats best for 2 mature people? who are we to believe that there is only ONE WAY that works (because thats what works "for you" ) ? here is something very important: A) many people out there dont believe in god and have fantastic marriages; B) many people out there believe in a "different" god and have fantastic marriages; C) a man's saving/money is irrelevant to a good marriage. |
Muyiddeen:you dont have to be a scientist to understand that you got played by this fraudster...she used r/ship as a mean to get a better phone from you (like a donkey and a carrot). just call her, tell her you bought her a huge present, then when she comes over, grab that phone back, give her back her sim and walk away!!! |
Testiebobo:photo that was uploaded on Shutterstock almost 2 yrs ago, na that one you wanna lie about today?!
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GodHimself:FIXED remember, these guys need COMMITMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY etc in their lives. something that we dont get in long term r/ships. these issue may not be important TO YOU, but they are a deal breaker to these guys, furthermore, they can minimize the risk of hiccups with prenups or creating a trust/LLC owning all your assets before marriage. as for the gov being in your business, today whether married or living together as a couple, the gov is always in your business. |
luminouz: GodHimself: Wakatumbit: PayEscrow: Nicepoker: Anunakeeh: Gadafii:lol you brothas should open your mind instead of dismissing what billions of people are into. i dont believe in marriage but that doesnt mean that i dont understand why people do get married. COMMITMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY etc are legit reason why some people wanna get married (whether we like it or not). lets stop focussing on the men VS women issue and instead focus on the issue of long r/ship vs marriage. the important question IS: as much as we may not be down with marriage (to each their own), why should we automatically make it look like we are getting a better deal in a long term r/ship?! open your damn minds.... a r/ship is a better deal for us (who are against marriage), it aint to these guys who need COMMITMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY in their lives. |
TrennixGLOBAL:the sad part here is that many of you believe the stuff you write, lol! if i think like you do, since some people into betting "win some and lose some" therefore this is a profitable venture comparable to opening a business, right? what you wrote above is a stoopid as me saying that because Messi is a successful footballer therefore everyone going into football will succeed, stop trying to feed a pipe dream to gullible NLers. the reality is that FOREX IS A DAMN GAMBLE and the majority of ignoramus (and some savvy people too) who enter it lose ALL their money. we all know about some of the biggest savvy investors out there who LOST IT ALL. but since you want to claim lies online, let me give you FACTS about the Forex: 80% of all the donkeys who start investing in Forex lose all their money... AND THATS A DAMN FACT ABOUT STOCKS AND TRADING!!!! |
Wakatumbit:the same as the benefits of being in a r/ship but marriage adds a few more benefits like: A) she now carries your name and so would your children "legally" B) you guys now have entered a contract to be together til death do you part....so she cant "legally" just get up and leave with your kids C) if something happens to you, she will be the one to make decisions for you (aka turn off the life support machine etc) D) she will "legally" be the one in charge of your affairs if/when you are incapacitated E) if wifey has a job then she will to contribute with you for the family wellbeing (2 salaries are better than one) F) you can get tax refunds/deductions for being married G) she will be your next of kin so family wouldnt have to fight over your property |
lawd have mercy....what dont you read on NL, kai! regardless of their tradition, if this man is not down nor believe in this stuff, then he certainly should not do any of this stuff. let this mambo jambo stop with you. |
OFunke24:why would the 1st born of your family ask you to wash plate when you are now an adult with your own house/family? the minute you got married then all these rules are no longer valid (whether your husband is present or not). - if he has a wife then thats HER job - if you guys have a younger unmarried sister, then thats HER job - the person who does serve/clean after him on normal days, is who should do that during the holidays too the minute you get married, you now only serve ONE master, and thats your husband. |
Dangotesmummy, come and see another specimen here... |
dangotesmummy:you are right, but to think of murder as a solution to a child being epileptic and/or whatever other issue she may have, is insane. she could have just walked to the neighbors and explain the situation to how she felt at the time. are you saying that Nigerians are so heartless that they woudnt help this unfortunate woman? says a lot about who this woman is. |
dangotesmummy:ok, i dont know about what to do BEFORE she hits you, but if she does, then all bets are off. i dont believe that a woman/man should ever hit their partner for whatever reason, so i wont be expecting it from a woman OR be on my guard from such to happen... but if it does, then she will get the exact same treatment, no questions asked. ...and i teach my kids the same thing. FIRST that you should NEVER use physical abuse, insult or degrade your partner just because you want to put your point across etc as you guys should be mature enough to either walk away OR calm down and communicate in an intelligent manner... and most importantly, SECOND if someone has no respect for your person, physically abuse you, then you should give them the exact same treatment that they gave you aka fight back (before leaving them) whether you are a boy or girl. |
dangotesmummy:again, i can find 100000 different ways to find a solution for that unwanted child THAN KILLING IT. thats absurd! as i always say: - abstinence, YOU NO WAN DO! - pull out technique, YOU NO WAN DO! - wear condom, YOU NO WAN DO! - morning after pill, YOU NO WAN DO! - abortion, YOU NO WAN DO! - give the baby up for adoption, YOU NO WAN DO! but to murder the child as soon as it comes out differently, thats your solution to this issue?!?!? i am sorry to say that some women make NO GODDAMN SENSE At all! |
sorry but the TRUTH IS OUT and most people dont believe the above LIES any longer... after marriage, majority of women get UGLIER/FATTER/NAGGIER etc and thats what is important to us men (especially in Africa)- the above points you wrote is the stuff that women like to focus on after they change to fugly nagging baby whales. anyone telling you that beauty/sex appeal is not important in marriage, is lying to you OR is a woman. A) the majority of black women wear wigs/make up etc, so you will only see her true face when you finally marry her and lay down with her (and 110% of these women are uglier without makeup, thus why they hide behind make up). B) most women regardless of race will get fat after childbirth and become lazy about getting their shape back, thus why the majority turn into baby whales after a few children. remember: as much as character is ALWAYS important from the get go, asking men to now solely focus on a woman's character (while she turned into someone "repulsive to the eye" ) is the joke of the century. C) everyone knows that after a few yrs of marriage, women get comfortable and acquire a smart mouth. PLS dont shoot the messenger! |
dangotesmummy:murder is NEVER the answer. if she couldnt take care of the child, there is millions of people who could. this woman was too proud/brainless to look for help in the right places. she simply could go and drop the child in front of her church anonymously. |
dangotesmummy:brotha, pls focus on what i wrote...i dont care what a woman "says" but if that woman RAISES HER HAND TO HIT/ATTACK ME, then she will get the exact same treatment from me. i will never respect a woman who doesnt have respect for me. the 1st thing a man should do if/when a woman hit/attack him, is to equally strike her back so she quickly learn that she should NEVER do that again. so many foolish men are dead because they didnt retaliate when some women hit/attack them (so the attack continued til she raised the bar and killed him) |
Ugobest101:you sir should get acquainted with penny stocks and the OTC trading market... i could get more than a million shares of different stocks with less than $10. BTW when APPLE and/or FORD MOTOR started trading, they were penny stocks too. |
such a great business strategy...bill the rich countries more and still lower the price in poor countries so you can get some from poorer people too. PRICELESS! |
if a woman has no respect for a man and raises her hand to strike him, then she shall/should receive the exact same treatment. an eye for an eye! |
very simple stuff, if you know how to handle bees...happens a lot and has absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH JUJU... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYn4adElrAk |
wealthy doesnt mean WISE. he got played by the olosho he willingly married. as we always tell you: THOU SHALL NOT TRY TO WIFE THESE HOES!!!! |
another DEMON IN ROBE spotted, allelujah!!! https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/11/haleighluja.gif BTW LA click LA bend like Bobrisky to receive prick. |
the choice is hers: A) tell the truth and shame the devil B) stay quiet and suffer in silence IMHO next time she is in the presence of the rapist (and while recording him), she should tell him that what he did back in the days was not right and that she wants to confess to her sister etc....record his answer and present it to the world as you expose him. |
increase kini? after all these yrs that you guys been giving them money, now that you are suffering, these fraudsters in robe should be the ones handing you food so that you can manage for the month
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sadly, so many weak men would take her back, instead of slamming the door in her face. |
as much as she is entitled to her own opinion, posting such insulting comment on social media will indeed incite violence to herself and others, therefore i understand why such comments are seen as illegal/unlawful in Turkey (a predominantly muslim country) |
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