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depends what car you are talking about AND for how long.

but many consider hiring luxury car as part of their experience, if thats what they desire. there is certainly nothing wrong with it, just like renting a yacht on a Caribbean vacation.

BTW anyone is entitled to decide what they do with their vacation/money, and if the below is your aim in vacation, then so be it...but dont wrongly assume that we should all do the same as "you" desire.

Instead of splurging on a luxury car rental, you can explore the city's rich culture and history, try delicious local cuisine, or even give back to the community through volunteering or charitable donations.
Ultimately, true luxury is about experiencing life to the fullest, making meaningful connections with others, and not just flaunting expensive toys.

BABAawoo47:
cross dressing isn't a crime ooo..So police can't arrest them

LadyExcellency:
There is no law against cross-dressing in Nigeria and no law against transgender. What we have is a law against homosexuality.
Bobrisky sleeps with girls, ladies, and loose women

dustydee:
Arrest them for what? Cross dressing is not a crime in Nigeria.

you yeye people cant read...?! thats why i said they should go undercover first... to catch them in the act (aka the minute the police see some of them kissing etc)

nonhuman:
you have not call police to arrest bobrisky and James Brown, you wan call police now cos these one no get name yet..
hypocrisy of the black mind

i have never seen the above you mentioned kiss or have sex with other men...have you? but rest assured, the day i do, i will gladly call the cops on them!

so because she was a virgin, it means that whatever yeye sex you will provide to her, she must be satisfied with it?!

no wonder so many people fail in marriage...

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood
6. HER OWN DAMN SELF.

FIXED

this woman should sit down and decide whose opinion is more important in her life at that moment, whether her pastor, her sibling, her parents, her best friend or her husband.... but should also be very careful as the wrong decision could destroy her future FOR EVER.

if i am your husband and am giving you a valid reason why not to go and you are going regardless (because you listened to the opinion of the above irrelevant people(, then you best start a new family with them as ours will be over).

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

wirinet:
Believe me, he did not need to steal the N400 million as A G.O.C. Can't you see that he was brought in a wheel chair? Do do know the amount of torture he had endured before being brought to the court marshall? How many soldiers had admitted to planning coups they knew nothing of after being set up and brought before military court marshall.
Otiki was already balling in Abuja when he was ADC to General Diya.

In addition:
Listen to the report well, he was never accused of physically stealing the money. Money that was to be used for projects under his supervision was stolen in transit by 4 Corporal officers under his command. Added to that he was accused of misappropriation of funds. Now ask yourself, where are the 4 corporals, and why are they not at the court marshall?
Also note that at the end of the report, it says that there was already a frosty relationship between Lt General Adeosun , the head of the court marshall and Major General Otiki.

again, the important question he asked (that you didnt answer) IS: why did he return 150m if he is innocent?!

sometimes many of the suff you read on social media is BS...

Negroid001:
Men,
1) Don't date a woman in her 30s, if you're not willing to marry her. so you mean to say that nobody should approach the TIWAs, the LINDAs, the GENEVIEVEs the TONTOs, the YEMIs (Alade), the TEMs etc and let their good toto rot like that?! here is a simple solution: tell them that you wont marry them from the get go and enjoy the ride/toto.

2) Don't date a woman that is ahead of you in age, education, finance, and in mental energy. why not...? it just means she is better than you and will aspire for you to do better. dont let your misplaced ego fail you. better such woman than one that is dumber/poorer/weaker than you

4) Don't date a woman simply because she's a virgin. every man should at least fukc a virgin ONCE so that they can taste such wonder AND understand what it takes/means to mount tear rubber coochie (even though these women are like a plank of wood in the bedroom)

5) Don't date a woman goes to any religious place of worship more than she goes to her place of work.any smart man knows that these holy pass babes are the freakiest in the bedroom. why pass on such fun babe?

6) Don't date a woman in whom you're not proud to associate with her friends. not all women are approached for the same reasons... some are approached for marriage, others to evaluate them more deeply and yes, some are approached only for a good time or one night stand

7) Be careful with a woman that almost all her younger sisters are married & she's in her 30s. why exactly? is she gonna force you to marry her? is she gonna force you to stay with her? as much as she may be desperate to get married, there must be a reason why all men passed her along. when you find out what is foul about her, then pass her along too.

Don't date a woman who talks bad of her father.what about if her father is the dude that killed his son because he ate the last portion of food? what if her father is the dude that abandoned his wife and her 3 kids, which resulted of their mother committing suicide? do you really believe that all women should love their father?

9) If her mother calls the shots at home, you may wish to be careful. just let her know from the get go that you aint like her father and that you dont believe that a father/husband should act this way.

11) If her mother calls you to ask for money, break up with her. what about just saying NO? is that so difficult to do? in fact, better to let al her family start begging early, so that they can know from the get go that you wont give them any money whatsoever

12) Don't date a feminists. majority of these feminists have some dude giving them some proper anaconda and make them call on jesus in the bedroom...dont listen to the yeye BS they are quick to claim outside.

14) If you have been sexual with her, and she later says she wants to stop, start investigating her. instead of "investigating" her, why dont you simply ask her "WHY?"!

15) Don't date a woman that is always arguing to be right and not to listen to you. are you saying that a woman should always listen to a man?

17) If she has a male "bestie", it's a not a good sign. every women out there have a male friend, the catch is to make sure that they dont spend valuable time with that person and/or that this person is more important than you.

20) If she doesn't show interest in what you're doing legitimately for a living, it's not a good sign. why should she be interested in what you do? so long as she respects what you do (and vice versa), thats all that matters in a r/ship...

21) If you've long left the university and now a working class. Please leave university girls alone. why shouldnt a man go after them fun/sexy/loose/greedy/broke and very easy to entice uni girls?!

22) If she's a single mother, please she should not be your first choice if you're not a single father, a divorcee or a widower. the best girl FOR YOU should be the one you choose for yourself, regardless of whether she is a widow, single mother ect. not all men are the same, let each and everyone decide whats best for them.

23) If she's not modest in her dressing, and you correct her many times & she doesn't listen, she'll not be modest even as a wife. even if she changes her way of dressing, she will only do it because you have a problem with it, not because thats what she wants to do. the day there is a disagreement between you guys, thats exactly how she will turn right back to dressing like a wh0re (aka who she truly is). here is a simple clue: if you gladly/willingly approached her while she was dressed like a slut, and decided it was ok to date such girl, then the joke is on you if you now want her to dress like a nun.

25) Don't continue to date a woman that is always comparing you with your firends or her exes.respectful open minded comparison is healthy, especially if you do stuff that makes no damn sense.... especially if she compares you to all your friends who go out with their wives, while you never want to go out with yours OR she compares you with your married friend who show love to their wives while you never do OR she compares you to your married friend who respects their wives while you dont respect yours

26) If she's the first daughter from a struggling family were they depend on her, make sure you're capable if you wish to marry her. see my answer to #7

28) If she pushes you to be better, please listen to her. Otherwise, she'll see you as a weak.unless she is your wife, she probably knows very little about your finances etc so therefore i doubt you should listen to her, UNLESS you are fully open minded and honest (about your life/finances/emotions) to her

30) She must invest in you & sacrifice for you. She'll be more loyal to it.not unless you guys are married.... why should she make sacrifices or invest to be with a common BF?

Martdc:
I found out she lied to me about something, but she apologized after I confronted her about it. She begged, cried and promised never to do it again.

I know she has lied a couple of times in our 8 months of being together, and i never talked about them because i understood why she acted that way, but it was different this time around and I couldn’t keep shut.

I act like it’s all good, but i no longer have any iota of trust for her anymore. She has promised to win back my trust, but i see every word as a lie now.
Any advice?

let go of her, as it would be impossible for her to win your trust back and you will always remember her lies (even if she is truthful now). the important point to remember is that, if she once looked in your eyes and said to herself:" this man is so dumb, let me tell him some yeye lies as his gullible self will believe whatever nonsense i tell him" (lol example) then what makes you think she wont do it again and again? the only reason she is remorseful is because she was busted.

some women dont realize how much their lies destroy r/ship and really have no respect for some men, thats why they think they can fix such problem so easily. crocodile tears dem!

Handsomejok:
My ex and I share 2 children together she also had a child from her previous relationship, we are separated and I provide for her and the children. She isn't working because our last child is only 6 months old hence I am still providing for her child from her previous relationship until the baby is old enough for her to work .
Due to the harsh economy my shop is dry and I can't afford to provide everything for them again and I don't want her to go and hustle with a small baby.
I've requested a loan of 500k from a family friend because I wanted to top up my my shops. he gave me 350k which I am grateful. I want to give my ex wife 150 out of the 350k for her to establish herself with a profitable business for her to take care of the rent and her daughter school fees meanwhile I will be paying our daughter school fee and will continue to send something for the children like feeding money .
My hands are full I cannot longer keep providing rent and her daughter school fee because I have other bills too including my shop and my own house rent , plus my girlfriend who's pregnant that am living with her. I do send 15k to 25k monthly for feeding plus the children school fees , the rent will be expired by August. So she will not start paying rent immediately she has some months left.

My question is if you were in my position , what would you have done ?

if i were you, i would first sit her down and let her know that times are tough and making her understand that you are not making ends meet, if she is fully understanding/cooperative then i would do what you have decided to do (aka give her some money from the loan bla bla bla) but if she is not understanding and start acting a fool, then i will now turn around and stop providing for anyone but my own children with her.

IMHO not everyone is wise enough (or even want) to run their own business, so choose wisely.

LA click LA Bend it like Beckham!

bro remember, just because these are the words of "your" father, doesnt mean they should be followed by everybody. you are entitled to follow whatever you believe but that doesnt mean that everyone should follow your father's words. again, the minute you believe that your views should be enforced upon other people's live, thats when you have lost the plot (like these homos who believe they have rights in Africa because they have elsewhere).... ultimately, these gays can do whatever yeye nonsense they desire, so long as they dont try to enforce their madness upon others (just like you are trying to do right now).

being gay or doing any gay act is a CRIME in Nigeria, thats all that matters... if these mofos want to be gay in the confine of their own privacy, then let them being fukced by hippos if they desire. to each their own misery in life.

that same Messi that has already retired to yeye league?!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/05/nonsense.gif

Nigerian police should do their job aka go undercover (lol) and arrest them all...

no man should be shamed on his bedroom performance, so long as he gave his best. if the babe doesnt like it, let her go find someone else.
so long as you gave your absolute best, why should you care what she thinks/desire? thats all you got, she can take it or bounce!

just two days? he should have brought the food to the hospital so that she could have prepare the food AND giving birth at the same time...
come on bro, help your wife a little or better yet, ask your mother to cook for you guys (if you cant do it your self)

Memyselfu2009:
I just noticed Facebook is down for over 45mins I taught my account was hacked. I hope this is not from Nigerian Govt.

IG too... its all over the world.

RevenuesBoost:
Scroll back up, read my reply with understanding.
I needed your view on the matter nothing more.
You don't have to attack a comment you don't understand.

you do not know much about abuse and/or how to deal with it. but by all means let me help you:
A) domestic/physical/emotional/verbal abuse is about TWO PEOPLE (the abuser and the abused). the minute you solely focus on the abuser and disregard the abused in this issue, thats when you have lost the plot.
B) the abuser can NEVER be right, regardless of whatever yeye excuse they may give you. walking away is the best solution. if a person was abused by their parents when younger, then it certainly does NOT Justify abusing others (when you cant deal with disagreement), does it?
C) these abusers are DAMAGED people and no matter how much silence you give them, that wont solve the problem (Unless you never open your mouth ever again aka Madness!). again, stop focussing on the person who is abused and did nothing wrong, but instead solely focus on the damaged person that needs help (aka the abuser). telling abused people to be quiet in order not to be abused is the ABSOLUTE WORST advice ever. you should instead ask them to save their lives and leave that abuser until he/she can get professional help and fix their own mental problem.
D) nobody should ever remain quiet... you are a human being, not a pet. you should always be able to say your mind in a mature adult manner. if anything you say will get a person mad then the problem is NOT YOU; its that yeye erson who cant accept that you have your own mind/views and opinion. if you cannot make your own mind and/or have your opinion/view in your union then you are just a slave and need to get the hell out of this yeye union.
E) you should teach your male child that its ok to disagree with someone and have different opinion/views. you should teach your children that there is no reason to use physical force to put a point across (whether they are bigger or smaller), and instead they should be able to voice their opinion in a respectful manner, regardless of how bigger/stronger that child may be. remember, just because its a male child, doesnt automatically means that he will be stronger/bigger than his sibling, but furthermore you should instead teach that child that there will always be someone bigger/stronger than you in this world....

mytime24:
mayb na force marriage frm her parents

then let her go and blame her parents for what happened to her

RevenuesBoost:
You don't understand that question.
He's not asking what she should do after she's been beaten.

He said 90% of the reason she was beaten is her fault, I want to know your view on this?

i fully understood the question and thus why i gave the above answer aka yep (its true), thats the lady's fault for staying with that physically abusive animal she calls "husband" meaning that if the lady stays in that abusive r/ship then she has only herself to blame.

but the fact that you (as a supposed woman) believe that this physically abusive man is right, says a lot about your state of mind.

it all depends on what happened... if its his faut, then regardless of how big the dude is, he must replace the screen of my phone; if its my fault then i keep quiet and replace my own phone.

yep, thats the lady's fault for staying with that physically abusive animal she calls "husband"... and the fact that the OP agrees with says a lot about the state of mind of some women (if the OP is one sha)

such men are called "sissy" because men and women value themselves differently... as much as us men are vulnerable (like anybody else), we dont show it out as if this is something to be proud of. for us men, showing vulnerability is a sign of being WEAK! and the fact that you (a woman) doesnt agree with it is irrelevant to African MEN/SOCIETY/CULTURE.

when are you women gonna understand that we think/reason/act differently than y'all?

girl who lives in a box, looking for rich men to get her out of her miserable poverty stricken life... nothing new under the sun.

in a few yrs when these rich men have fukced her finish and pass her over to all their mates, thats when she will turn to jesus for help (accepting any man with a pulse)

only $4000? praise the lord....

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/11/haleighluja.gif

the more men in her stable, the more gift/handouts she will receive. she probably doesnt give a damn about any of you guys. just there to profit from all you guys.

i refuse to believe that this story is true...

1) golden retriever or Labrador... as a puppy its difficult to figure out.
2) if you show us the length of the 2nd dog's legs, we can confirm if its a corgi or a local bingo.

Freak0:
I thank God for bringing me back to life, today i have made vow that i will never smoke again, i have nothing to do with any kinds of smoke again in my life, they are too dangerous!!

the above is just the lie you tell yourself until "NEXT TIME"...

oloshoes will be oloshoes, and they will find their way to a man's pocket... whether the economy is good or BAAAAAAD!