₦airaland Forum

LordOfTheWeed:
yea.. .. .. An albino to be precise

luchy34:
Beauty the say is in the eyes of the beholder! but I've noticed that most good looking guys end up marrying ladies that are not attractive at all. So my question is why





N.B.. I'm not saying it's a bad thing

divaliciousliz:
I am not a very social person and not that outgoing, also my schedules don't leave much space for socializing....and I kinda get lonely sometimes...... I just need you guys to drop chat sites in Nigeria that one can mingle n chat with people....please, don't say eskimi or 2go, those platforms are NO-NO for me. thanks

LadyJul:
Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

LadyJul:
Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

Mhizkel:
This write-up is based on my observations so far. And it is centralised on the false beliefs people (not all) have towards light-skinned females.
Below are some of the misconceptions:

1. Bleaching: This tops the list because light-skinned ladies are mostly tagged with the word ''Bleaching'' I know some of our ladies aren't naturally fair, and there are ways one could identify them. The knuckles and knee are good examples. In as much as we have high rate of bleachers, there are still the ones with the natural fair complexion. Every complexion is beautiful be it light, dark or chocolate. Maintainance is all that matters.

2. Mermaid: This sounds funny, but true. Some people have the belief that light-skinned females are from the marine world. Maybe this belief is derived from our Nollywood movies, whereby a light-skinned lady is allowed to play the character of a mermaid, while the dark-skinned one is given the role of a witch. If you're light-skinned and no one ever accused you of being a mermaid, then you've never been to Nigeria.

3. Flirts: A grown up lady is bound to come across admirers/suitors, but in this case, some people believe light-skinned ladies are flirts because of their flashy look and tend to have more admirers. Also, they believe these ladies would surely accept the proposal of atleast 5 out of 10% of their admires, thereby making them a flirt.

4. Materialistic Nature: Some men believe light-skinned ladies are materialistic in nature. A friend once told me he can't date a light-skinned lady because he is not capable of taking care of her needs. Some get scared of approaching one for the fear of their pocket being drained. The fact is, any lady could be materialistic irrespective of her skin complexion.

Lastly, many people believe being light-skinned gives one an edge in a place of work or gathering. There is a little atom of truth in this, but not in all situations. What edge does a light-skinned female has when she is rude, arrogant and disrespectful? Edge has got to do with one personality, not complexion.


NB: Light-skinned women deserves some respect. Not everyone would be born with a dark skin. In as much as black is beautiful, light-skinned is also beautiful.
And ladies, be comfortable with your skin complexion and save yourselves the disgrace of black patches.

Mhizkel:
This write-up is based on my observations so far. And it is centralised on the false beliefs people (not all) have towards light-skinned females.
Below are some of the misconceptions:

1. Bleaching: This tops the list because light-skinned ladies are mostly tagged with the word ''Bleaching'' I know some of our ladies aren't naturally fair, and there are ways one could identify them. The knuckles and knee are good examples. In as much as we have high rate of bleachers, there are still the ones with the natural fair complexion. Every complexion is beautiful be it light, dark or chocolate. Maintainance is all that matters.

2. Mermaid: This sounds funny, but true. Some people have the belief that light-skinned females are from the marine world. Maybe this belief is derived from our Nollywood movies, whereby a light-skinned lady is allowed to play the character of a mermaid, while the dark-skinned one is given the role of a witch. If you're light-skinned and no one ever accused you of being a mermaid, then you've never been to Nigeria.

3. Flirts: A grown up lady is bound to come across admirers/suitors, but in this case, some people believe light-skinned ladies are flirts because of their flashy look and tend to have more admirers. Also, they believe these ladies would surely accept the proposal of atleast 5 out of 10% of their admires, thereby making them a flirt.

4. Materialistic Nature: Some men believe light-skinned ladies are materialistic in nature. A friend once told me he can't date a light-skinned lady because he is not capable of taking care of her needs. Some get scared of approaching one for the fear of their pocket being drained. The fact is, any lady could be materialistic irrespective of her skin complexion.

Lastly, many people believe being light-skinned gives one an edge in a place of work or gathering. There is a little atom of truth in this, but not in all situations. What edge does a light-skinned female has when she is rude, arrogant and disrespectful? Edge has got to do with one personality, not complexion.


NB: Light-skinned women deserves some respect. Not everyone would be born with a dark skin. In as much as black is beautiful, light-skinned is also beautiful.
And ladies, be comfortable with your skin complexion and save yourselves the disgrace of black patches.

pinkiberry:
I met this guy that has been my friend for long on social network. we chat,I liked his ways and fell in love. he is cute,tall n handsome but there is a problem. he has crossed eyes (Strabismus)I mean half past 4 eyes. it's not too obvious but that was the first thing I noticed when I met him. am really worried cos I love him and our relationship may end up in marriage. I don't know if I should continue dating him. but please I want to know if Strabismus is hereditary? and can you marry a person that have Strabismus?

pls be sincere with your replies.

Keketu:
please how can i help my pregnant wife?

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

Aroh48:
u dey use style they insult pple.

misssclassy:
Below is a list of essential methods for building up a strong and successful romantic relationship with your partner.

*Look Forward And Not Backwards
In order for you to build a stronger relationship with your partner, you should stop obsessive over and concerning yourself with the past, and try to look forward into the future you want to have with your partner.
You shouldn't place too much interest in your partner's past and yours as well.
If you are still worrying about whether your partner might be, or is still having an affair with her ex, then you need to work towards developing trust for that partner.
You should also cease from asking too many questions about your loved one's past relationship.
Refrain from looking through his/her phones, bags or stalking him/her on social media and all that, all in the bid to look for clues about their past.
Not only will this make you agitated and perturbed, it would also make you be always suspicious of your partners actions and love and trust will gradually begin to decline.

*Develop A Bond Of Friendship
Friendship is an essential catalyst needed to strengthen relationships.
When that bond of friendship has been developed between a couple, it would be difficult from them to pull apart.
There are a lot of ways to foster friendship. This include:

*Spending quality time together: This involves creating out time for each other. During this time, you could talk to each other and try to get to know each other better.

*Engaging in activities of Interest: It is essential to share common interests with your partners. These things help in sustaining a relationship especially when mere attraction isn't enough.
It's important to engage in hobbies and activities that both of you can participate in, so as to keep your relationship alive.
You could also learn to initiate new fun things to do together just to spice up your relationship.
All this helps in building friendship and companionship.

*Don't Compare Your Relationship With That Of Others
You should come to the understanding that every relationship is different. You shouldn't compare your relationship with anyone else's.
You shouldn't even compare your present relationship with previous relationships.
All this won't aid the growth of your relationship and it would only end up in ruining it completely.
When you start comparing your relationship with that of others, you will begin to expect too much from you partner, and you will start having overly high expectations of the kind of relationship you want.
You might also begin to move the relationship in a pace that's faster than necessary and instead of the relationship to move forward, you will end up halting it's growth.

*Be Appreciative
It's always important that you find time to appreciate your partner.
Even a single "Thank You" can go a long way.
Learn to compliment your partner for their inputs into the relationship. Try to always show appreciation even for the smallest of things.
Also develop the character of being optimistic and not always looking at things with a pessimistic or critical mindset.

Asides use of words, you could also buy gifts for him/her. Take him/her out, sponsor dinners and outings, and just try to show gratitude to for being with you and trying to make your relationship work.
This would help your spouse to love and respect you better.

*Understand That Communication Is Essential
The importance of effective communication between partners in a relationship cannot be over-emphasized.
You should learn to be open and be okay with sharing your thoughts and opinions with your partner. Make your partner know that they can open up to you and that you are always there to support them.
If something is bothering you, it's important to let your loved one know, so you can tackle the problem together.
Choose the right place and time to have a talk. Even if you have something really important that you want to say to your partner, don't be hasty.
Learn to use the right tone to express your thoughts and try not to be too combative. Endeavor to be as cool and as rational as possible, even if you're feeling aggravated or agitated.
This will enable your partner to better understand the message you are passing across.

You should also learn to lend a listening ear to your partner and present yourself to be someone your he/she would be free to talk to. Don't always attack opinions and try to see issues from your partners own perspective, and with a positive mindset , even if you don't agree with them.
Partners should also try to be honest and open about issues bothering them.
All this helps in developing closeness and trust.

*Learn From Your Past Mistakes
There is no point in making mistakes if you can't learn from them.
In whatever relationship you find yourself, you should always try to note and understand the mistakes made in your previous relationships and make sure they are not repeated in your current one.

Don't Be Too Relaxed And Take Things For Granted
Even if it seems your relationship is standing strong, you shouldn't take it or your partner for granted.
You should understand that it takes hard work and dedication to make a relationship work.
Always endeavor to make sure that the connection you have with your spouse is always there.
Try to make out time for each other, no matter the situation of things.
Try avoiding and guarding against anything that spells negativity, and efficiently work towards building positivity into your relationship.

*Learn To Make Sacrifices*
Making sacrifices is an essential part in relationship growth that shouldn't be overlooked.
You should learn to not always place your needs ahead of your partner's. You should be able to compromise at times and sacrifice your needs for the happiness and satisfaction of your partner.
It's been proven that people who are more willing to sacrifice for their partners tend to be more satisfied with their relationships.
Also, if someone notices that their partners are happily sacrificing for them, it makes them more committed:

*Understand Each Others Needs
Every one has specific needs in their lives and every couple needs to understand each others needs and work towards the fulfillment of those needs.
These needs can cut across various areas such as finance, health, sex. . . . .etc.
But the most important thing is for the partners to work on those needs that are most pressing and tackle them effectively.

*Learn To Notice The Obvious Signs
Although every relationship is aimed at growth and sustenance, they are times when you just know within you that the relationship is hitting rock bottom.
You might begin to notice signs from your partner, like a loss of interest, a breach in communication or a certain distance growing between the two of you.
At times like this, it's imperative that you talk things out with your partner and try to see if you can both correct those irregularities and work towards growing and enhancing your bond.
These signs are quite noticeable if you are observant, and it's important you act appropriately immediately you notice them.

Learn To Tolerate
No one is perfect. In a relationship, there are things that you might not be okay with about your partner. They are certain characters and personality traits you that your partner might exhibit that you might not like but, and that you may find hard getting used to, but learning to tolerate those traits is key to relationship sustenance.

Written By Misssclassy

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Ximonak:
why did I even reply you, now I see you are just looking for attention
you think it's the west that started noodles...

shantelrandy:
..just shut up ur mouth..stop forming wat u are not.Am sure u d b in Onitsha or Aba market hustling for customers and u are hear claiming Londoner and range over...Ur write-ups makes me wanna throw off.Londoner ni#myfrd go and hustle for customers na ur type dey dupe pipo wit ur stinking lies.

Ximonak:
is fork the right utensil to use for spageti?

why are you not using chop sticks invented for spageti or noodles....

Fraih:
I'd rather eat with legs

Fraih:
I'd rather eat with legs

shantelrandy:
....what is dis Hausa cow talking? u drive range rover and so fucking wat? are u d ist..ofcoz we ain't mate,how can I b mate with Hausa cow who talks anyhow..who ur range over help? pipo that have money don't make mouth.. no b ur mate dey drive private jet..Look at dis fool...so bcoz u own a range over we should fly...in fact u must b d biggest fool of d century... just take a look @ ur spellings..range over without brain....u are in London am in Nigeria so wat? I go to London wen I choose to and stay in my country wen I choose to....don't talk anyhow to pipo wen u don't av idea of who der are...better go and give ur life a meaning and stop ranting and fooling urself with range over and London.. just get a life#idiot Londoner...#no offence #mtcheeew

shantelrandy:
....what is dis Hausa cow talking? u drive range rover and so fucking wat? are u d ist..ofcoz we ain't mate,how can I b mate with Hausa cow who talks anyhow..who ur range over help? pipo that have money don't make mouth.. no b ur mate dey drive private jet..Look at dis fool...so bcoz u own a range over we should fly...in fact u must b d biggest fool of d century... just take a look @ ur spellings..range over without brain....u are in London am in Nigeria so wat? I go to London wen I choose to and stay in my country wen I choose to....don't talk anyhow to pipo wen u don't av idea of who der are...better go and give ur life a meaning and stop ranting and fooling urself with range over and London.. just get a life#idiot Londoner...#no offence #mtcheeew

Truckpusher:
Of course I said she isn't light skin.

Truckpusher:
Don't tell me that you're afraid of a girl that isn't light skin Mrcork

Leopardd:
BY FRANCIS IGATA
ENUGU – Director of Radio Biafra and Leader of Indigenous People of Biafra, IPOB, Nnamdi Kanu, who was arrested at Golden Tulip Essential Hotel, Ikeja, on Saturday, has been granted bail.
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Although, he is yet to fulfill his bail conditions.
IPOB’s lawyer, Mr. Egechukwu Obetta lamented that Nnamdi Kanu was put in the same cell with terrorists despite his life threatening health challenges.
He said Kanu is selective to delicacies, adding that he (Kanu) vowed never to eat any food served by the Federal Government of Nigeria.

However, midway into the chat with his lawyer, a call came in, indicating that Kanu has been granted bail in the sum of N2 million or with surety of N2 million with a civil servant of grade level 16.

Obetta further said that “Last week, the Afenifere threatened to secede but nobody was vilified. I am talking about the recent Olu Falae’s kidnap case. The militants in the Niger Delta has done same.”

More details soon

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/radio-biafras-nnamdi-kanu-granted-bail/

lurlah2014:
Hahah London fool
Can't imagine the level of your stupidity so u think I did that to impress u or rather correct ur dump ass imagination ;Dlondon washaman abina cleaner udeydo sef #wanting to hype u as a washaman before realising u are just a comon London poo cleaner

lurlah2014:
Like am doing now is called the REAL LIFE and not fake ass bumper

shantelrandy:
U can't spell..Go and rest.