..and dont forget to Dumb yor babe..is she dark skin?

penzino: hahahahahaahah, she is light skinned!!!

NICE..Bro u gotz tatse...anyways, go to the front of house, pull out a Guitar, sing a slow song with a deep barry wite voice (sing BOYZ to MEN-end of the raod)..and then start crying......truss me, it works!!

ermm mR MOD Sexxskilzz..Bro did anyone ever tell u u loook like super model?..anyways, u forgot to unlock my thread: letter to our ligt skin sweeries..could u pls unlock? cheers!

Yo Sexxskilzz...BAN that dark skin babe: Subomi-luv... The chick been harrrasin me!!

Anazp: Hello. I have been dating my girl for about five years now. I proposed to her and she agreed to marry me. However after fixing the date from the traditional Wedding, her parents are asking for five million naira as Bride Price. I told my girlfriend to appeal to them to at least reduce it to two million but her parents refuse. They say its an extended family decision like her Uncles and other relatives. I don't understand. I love my girl and she loves me. She's from Orlu, Imo State. I need your advice. Thanks

..bro, if she light skin..dumb yor babe!?

Flashaldrin: me, none and still counting

bro..no oofeinse but u loook like a lonely she.male....maybe change yor picture profile?...anyways Me had only 42 babes so far

penzino: I have been speakin to this gurl on fone for some time cos we dnt see often as she is in skool, I really like dis girl buh I cn't make my intentions known on the phone, was actually waiting for the perfect time to see her and tell her.. Untill 4days ago, I called her and she rejected my call, I left her alone dat night. D next day, I called and she rejected my call the first time, but I called again, and when she picked up, she said I shouldn't call or text her again and I asked her why. Her response was "my friend is not comfortable with the long time I spend with you on phone". I didn't care to ask who d friend is. But she was polite and said that I shouldn't be angry or take it personal.... Pls guys, I need ur advice on what to do, I really want this gurl.... Pls help a broda

..i can help..is she dark skin or Nigerian?

black love??..which black?

jmoore: Please change the topic to "your issue". You don't represent the real men

..Brother..I spek on be half of Real men includin u...

They both looook like Witch doctor,s receptionist & they aint even white!(no oofeinse)

onila: dumb punk as..s nigga!

Onila <<<<< typical example...dark skin, always swaarin, no manner

mumzizi: Okay, before I begin I would like to plead no insults but sincere advice,
Been married for 5yrs now and my husband exhibit such selfish traits that am really not happy about.
I am a giver I mean I give even if it is to inconvincence myself I know we can't be the same as some would say, but the thing is he is so selfish that he passes the responsibilty of the kids to me. He earns thrice more than I do but I spend 90% when it comes to our monthly expenses. I have sat him down several times to talk about it but he still refuses to change.
Is it a crime to want to assist my husband cos he has completely hands off his responsibilites as the bread winner and left everyting for me to do I mean everything including fees, feeding and clothing for the kids. I am beginning to feel stupid cos have not saved or have anything tangible for all the yrs of my work life. We go shopping together and when it is time to pay he stylishly excuses himself leaving me at the till feeling stupid.
I feel used. Please I want experienced married pple to advice me on what to do.

..tank you Maggi.. are u light skin?

ninja4life: I was going thru my facebook wall wen i saw a question dat which is more difficult to get in nigeria as at present optios are:
1)job
2)love
3)virgins
4)common sense
so nairalanders wat do u tink is most difficult to get at d moment in nigeria

...so u loookin for chrismas present?

...Cant find the keys to my Metalic black 2008 Range Rover Spot 4.0 wit alloys wills

Orikinla: Why are girls and women easily heart broken?

I will not give details of my own personal experiences, but it is common knowledge that girls and women are easily heart broken even before breakups.

You scold her and she breaks down in tears.
You tell her that you should take a break and she fears that you are bored and tired of her.

I have had situations where girlfriends threaten to even do stupid things if you leave them.
The most scary is when a girlfriend threatens to commit suicide if you leave her!

...dont worry..i will NOT say its becoz they r dark skin coz we dont rate them (no oofeinse)

...2 dark skin females, NIgerian?..NEVER EVER!!!

Damojo: Who is this retarded fool always posting crap? If u don't have anytin to do, why don't u just keep quiet and play chess all day or sumtin. U fucking annoying me with ur english, trying to be funny!!! person!

...tank you, Dingo!!

...
.. (1) They are dark skin ..
....(2) They nid to register for Anger management classess coz the swaaar too much liek witch Doctor
......(3) They dont respect Londoners!

SEXXXSKILLZ...COME HEAR, u part time ugly mofo!! ...u dis boy, I defended u when evryone called u a ugly Albino..I defended u when every said u the most irritant irritant Nairaland every produced..I defended u when they called u ALBINO wannabe..I defended u when peopel said u BAN people just to imnpress MOD Ogagugogua...i defended u when they said mod oguaguga look like a male vesion of charly boy...I defended u when they called u JAY BEE wanna be..I defended even when they hated yor promotion to MOD...and then u f**** locked my thread to beautiful light skin females??

Bro, wah tha f** is tha all about?? ...u feel powerful when u ban people just to inmpress your manager..SUEN (is he a GOD)...anyways..bro it dont faze me..your Manager dont faze me..I like Albino,s but u been a gr8 disapointment.

U cant stomach critism which is y u delete post...MOD does not make u a Man..I guess u tryin t impress OGUguga...Its all good though. Enjoy!!...I like albins and I like u...BAN ME OF U WANT..dont worry, i will cry!..I guess Suen will giv u pay rise again!

..HELLO EVERYONE...AM NEW!

iyobs7: I sincerely cant make a decision about this whole thing but read and advice me plz, I will make it brief plz.

Introduced by a friend
Started dating by August ( while she was in Kaduna doing IT)
She came back OCT (to Benin) and we met for the first time
We pretty loved each other. She was all I desire and
wanted in a girl/lady as the case maybe cos she is very
pretty and understanding,
Never asked for money and even gave when she knew I was broke
For the first month, I had to cope with her "NOT ANSWERING" her
calls when she is with me...
Her reason being that they are toasters and she felt I would be
angry when she answers the calls...
That went by and I totally ignored it wheneva she had a call.
Now, On a particular day, she commented on a guys pix on FB and
I happen to know the guy and knowing that they live in the same
area, I then asked her a questn when we were chatting on FB...
Her: Hey Baby
Me: Mi swiri paw paw hw are u u?
Her: Fine, u?
Me: Gud gud, u commented on my friends pix on FB!
Her: Who?
Me: I called thee guyx name
Her: Do u know him
Me: Yea
Her: Hw close are u guyz?
Me: Very close... (me and d guy dnt even relate sef but I once worked for him and his friend unto internet config)
Her: Ok
Me: Can u meet me in his house on friday plz cos I will be visiting him?
Her: No I cant
Me: Why nw?
Her: Can u call me nw?
Me: I dnt have much airtym
She den logs out and calls my fone
(crying) she said I dont think I can continue with this relationship...
Me: Haba so sudden what have I done?
Her: Nothing
Me: Is it about the guy?
She ends the call and the next morning she doesnt go to work but comes directly to my house
ME just pretended as if nothing was wrong, she went inside, we exchanged greetings and I
was focused on the fight ob Blackbelt Tv on DSTV, then the next thing she started crying
kneeling and begging me not to leave her and that she was really sorry for what she has done
Again I was calm. drew her close and said it was aiit and that was settled...

Around February, I went tru her sms and found out that she contacted same guy again this time
the message ended with "AND KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY MAN" I asked her what I then was to her
and she said she did all those to get money from the guy that she needed money pretty desperately
I was like but I am here, what do u need money for and she said I didnt want to bother you cos I love
you so much...
After proper interrogation, I discovered that she has STD of which she refuzd to tell me the name of the
STD so that I can know how to treat and from that time till this moment, I have left her and I have lost complete
interest in the relationship but I am tempted to get her back because of her persistent nature right now.

What will come next is our facebook conversation from feb till date...


February 8
9:02am
ME:

Now u are making me feel bad

I am very proud of you
9:04am
HER:

hmmmmmm
9:05am
ME:
Some girls wey nor fine reach u hi dey form but ...
9:07am
HER:
hmmmmm u re flatterin me jor oo
9:07am
ME:
Flatter ke. Ah pway o
9:08am
HER:
no b only u pray u go fast join am
9:10am
ME:
First of all
9:11am
HER:
go dwn low
9:12am
ME:
Are u learner?
9:13am
HER:
noooo jor

am tired mennn......
9:13am
ME:
Of what?
9:14am
HER:
u no c say na u b d learner
9:15amME:

U ear

Ur ear
February 8
7:56pm
HER:
u no dey try
7:57pm
ME:
Wats dat for?
February 15
8:34pm
HER:
U aren't wort it at all
February 19
9:00pm
HER:
u called me
February 24
6:49am
HER:
hw culd u b dis wicked nd hrtless.... I called u al tru yesterday nd d day b4 yersterday but u didn't pick up ur phone, y? N yet u re online nt even a flash back..... Ah u av d hrt of a stone
7:08am
ME:
I lost my phone since on friday and just logged into my facebook with my sisters blackberry, how can you say am heartless?
March 1
7:52am
HER:

i called u yesterday n u weren't pickin up wit d num u gave a me
7:53am
ME:
Oh d fon wax wit my sis
7:55am
HER:
u knw u re nt tryin , common 2 even use someone elses fone 2 flash or call is very difficult abi

u knw u re nt tryin , common 2 even use someone elses fone 2 flash or call is very difficult abi
7:56am
ME:
My sis and her husband leave early nd cm late and I dnt knw anyone arnd
7:59am
HER:
wich of ur sist is it, d one senior 2 u
7:59am
ME:
Yes
8:01am
HER:
re u still in bni

re u still in bni
8:07am
ME:
Yes
8:08am
HER:
u don't miss me at all
8:10am
ME:
Am I rily that important to u?
8:12am
HER:
u av started again oo

u don't undastand, i am broke...u av always complain, nw am tryin 2 b gud even if nt perfect
8:16am
ME:
Hmmm

Complaind abt wat?!
8:21am
HER:
u knw nw
March 5
7:24pm
HER:
baby
March 14
4:54pm
HER
u not always pickin my cal... Y
4:54pm
ME:
Which numba did u cal?
4:55pm
HER:
am diein.... For every seconds u re always on my mind.....remember hw we started
4:57pm
ME:
What are u talkin abt?
4:58pm
HER:
don't u luv me anymore
4:59pm
ME:
U threw away all we had becaux u wantd to play ur games and I hope u continue playin it well
5:01pm
HER:
am really sorry....i no it really difficult to let go of
5:07pm
HER:
i want 2 c u
5:08pm
ME:
When?
5:08pm
HER:
nw
5:08pm
ME:
Am nt arnd, nxt wk

I traveld cox of my sch stuf i told u abt
5:09pm
HER:
when next week
5:10pm
ME:
Friday
5:10pm
HER:

it ok then
March 24
9:17pm
HER:

i still luv u
9:17pm
ME:

Plz dnt bring tears to my eyes:-(
9:22pm
HER:

y re doin dis to me.... Dis whole seneario is realy weighin me down n even affectin my wrk
9:23pm
ME:

I knw dat u are very ok.
9:25pm
HER:

av nt being to wrk for somedays
9:25pm
ME:

Why nw?
9:26pm
HER

dat al u knw... U can pple around who knws
9:26pm
ME:

Hw is ur mum?
9:27pm
HER

cus av being seriously ill

can u com on 2go
9:28pm
ME:

Oh sori, I guex u are beta nw

Am on 2go
March 29
12:24pm
HER:

wat is wrong wit u for cryin out loud, u arean't pickin up ur calls
12:25pm
ME:[/b]

Why that?
12:27pm
HER[b]

d contact u gave me isn't workin out
12:27pm
ME:[/b]

Its inside a modem

Thot I told u
12:27pm
HER[b]

n u arean't pickin dat very number cal

ok ooooo, wich numb do u use nw
12:30pm
ME:[/b]

My airtel is available nw
12:31pm
HER[b]

realy..... It ok

e clear sha........... D hand writtin on d wall


March 30
6:32am
HER[b][/b]

i still luv u very much my man.... Y do treat me wit so much hatered pls, remember i once carried ur child in my womb. Also hw we started, we can't just let little tin tear us apart my husband. If u knw u don't want me anymore just let me know........i stt
Monday
8:59pm
HER[b][/b]

sometimes u annoy me honestly.... Anyway luv u to d fullest
Today
10:10am
HER

each time i think about d past of our relationship.... It pretty hurt n hurt so bad....sometimes don't u think about wat happen to our lovin relationship....it not really easy startin up another if u think so. All i know is dat i still want u back, if u think it too late let me knw so i gradually put myself together n move on
10:22am
HER

i stil luv u very much

Now I am so confused and I dont know what to do! Is it for real?

...bro do u no how to summary?

~ZN~:
Oi. What goes on around here...?

..babes are u male or female

TEA esq™:


Huh When did I become a BRO?
Or do you refer to all black ladies as bro?

ermm sweery..u loook like a man..its a compliment!

TEA esq™:


Did you forget to mention "white"?

Thanks bro, u my hero!! ...erm ladys..pliss make sure u white or half cast..NO EXCEPTIOBNS!!

Mindependent:

As my oga at the top said so far u sef are not light skinned you have no reason to demand for light skinned sweeries.its idiotic men like you that brainwash these dark- skinned girls to thinking they must bleach in order to be beautiful not knowing the many harmful effects bleaching does!

..huh..i never said black women were not ok

ladys..Pliss holla at me if u gotz Extra bottom pluss boobsi (cup size)....I swaar I will settle down today!

kingviny: Your name (mr K...k) indicates that you are a player and I know you will be disappointed because we will not allow people like you to join us.

Why are you so cynical. The initiative is explicit enough. The counselors we are looking for are to help in the areas of advise. We may even give some of them honorarium. We will have a way of financing the club and it is not what you thi

There is no responsible person who is 30+ who does not desire to get married but because of one problem or the other, there are delays. Friends, younger ones etc are all getting married and you think it is not a problem worth addressing?

It is these myriad of problems that we want to all join hands together to tackle in the club. When the foundation is right, the building will stand. Black men will continue to lag behind the white if they continue to see and think in black. Lets be positive, lets give an initiative a benefit of doubt, lets not fix blame but, lets fix the problem.

Mr K...k, If this is not for you, then don't comment.

ok...so u nid financial help?