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[quote author=AccessME post=89960723]Even though I'm not perfect but I don't support u for saying he should forget Bible teachings..... marriage is actually good when bed is undefiled but grace and discipline is required. God will help u my brother as u wisely decide on the type of game to play next time so as not to easily excite her. It is not easy.

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Just sincerely ask God to save ur biznes from a contrite and broken heart....He will not fail you.

I am moved to comment in this write-up probably because the story really touched me. It is my earnest desire that God will intervene in ur marriage in Jesus name amen. I appreciate your effort to make it work and also assisting in house chores.

Pls continue to show her love and attention and pls don't get tired.
Inculcate the habit of confessing positively about ur marriage at any given time, place and have this absolute faith in God that you will win this battle.
Lastly but not the least,try to stop discussing ur marriage matter with friends, colleagues, family etc....they don't really have the solution but God only. If u can always pray midnight prayers against all forces fighting ur marriage,I believe in due time, u will experience joy again.

My dear ..... honestly speaking you are saying the truth..
But believe you me...I want to confess to you, that God sustained me after I lost my job while schooling.
It amazes me till now how He saw me through and still doing....He is indeed over dependable and reliable.
Learn to trust Him.....in time of lack, cry unto Him with a contrite and broken heart. When you have ....give good offering in appreciation and sow seeds to people in dare need.

I will try to save a life first and probably send the remaining balance to mum at village to pay half, later it will be completed by me in a short while

I really feel ur pains dear...I pray God heals ur wound quickly....embrace Jesus as ur new boyfriend...he does not disappoint.

I pray God helps you to find ur own quickly so that ur joy will be full.

Thanks for sharing your ordeal but I will suggest that you leave her alone as you promised her guy.........Be reasonable in ur action bro. Don't do that which she earnestly seek from you,it's totally wrong.

Wow such a painful story... so sorry for the loss,I pray her gentle soul will find rest in the Lord in Jesus name amen. My dear ,time heals wound. I will suggest that u inculcate that good habit of her's and live it out to people irrespective of gender or relationship. God bless u.

Pls I want u to inculcate the habit of helping people without expecting anything in return in their time of need/ distress. I am a man so I feel what u have for the girl is pure lust and not love. Try and respect her wish ......it's a good wish. God will definitely reward u when u help people with the right motive/ intent of heart. A real man helps without her body in return.....I am not perfect though but that's the bitter truth bro.

Honestly, I am really happy and proud of you for not cheating as you were accused by your wife. I want you to know that "two wrongs cannot make a right" ,...."time heals wound", ......."truth cannot be hidden for long".
..... I wouldn't want you to capitalize on her false accusations and then cheat or reduce the way you love and treat her. It is obvious that she is having "trust issues".
......it is painful really, when falsely accused, nevertheless don't allow it to break your lovely home you've both built for 10yrs. Be a real brave man and allow God to bring the truth out and you will be happy again Sir.

Well I thank God for you.....You are so furtunate to have such a rare being, especially in a time like this. Her wish/desire on the marriage cost is not bad......... I think u should pray to remain consistently faithful, transparent, humble, loving and committed to her. In this way u would have reciprocated back her kindness towards u Sir. God bless your marriage.

We cheat because of lack of discipline ( when immoral hunger overpowers our sense of judgement)

Sir ,I am not qualified to judge u or ur actions and the reasons behind it....but the truth of the matter is that u are aware that it is wrong. You are not the worst on this planet Earth.....Find a way and quit from such lifestyle bro....u are doing urself more harm than good.

Thanks for sharing this for us to advice u...to be honest with you,you will not regret it in future if you will behave exactly like Joseph in the Bible. It is more honourable to resist the temptation than to yield to it. I pray God helps you to "resist it" Sir.